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[QUOTE=CantB1;2580360]I had to up the data plan in my phone just to keep up. Just kidding I hacked the neighbor's wifi. LOL.
Much respect bro. But you IS long winded! Have you even slept?
It's good you try to educate the board but grown folks get stuck in their ways. So let them be.[/QUOTE]You said a mouthful! Hey, although I have the tried and true, let everyone be persuaded to do as they please. It's their life and their livelihood! Message received- loud and clear!
[QUOTE=TallBear;2580553]Perhaps it is because of the evidentiary difficulties in making a person personally liable for the material on a website, especially if the website servers are physically located beyond easy reach, but I don't think I've ever heard of a website being brought into evidence against a provider. It seems to be the personal communications that will get your ass snared. Or hers.
First time visits are always the most dangerous, & my nervousness almost always diminishes my enjoyment of first time visits. Yeah, there's a thrill to it but, well, no thanks. I'm too old & too vested in my non-hobby life to take any more chances with this nonsense than I absolutely have to. Research, vetting through reviews, referrals from trusted individuals, & sticking with tried & true providers are all ways I avoid having those incriminating conversations at all.[/QUOTE]To guys to check out "their" website, especially if they reference it could prove some form of ownership or connection. I'm not sure but as you said, I'm too vested in my own life to allow these shenanigans to destroy it!
Would any of you guys consider seriously dating a provider who is "retired"? I am drinking some whiskey and that random question came to mind. LOL I don't think I would, but I'm not entirely sure. If the vibe is right with a woman, it's very tough to resist. But her past would definitely haunt you. Just curious what your thoughts are.
[QUOTE=ThePreacher;2580782]Would any of you guys consider seriously dating a provider who is "retired"? I am drinking some whiskey and that random question came to mind. LOL I don't think I would, but I'm not entirely sure. If the vibe is right with a woman, it's very tough to resist. But her past would definitely haunt you. Just curious what your thoughts are.[/QUOTE]Say she retired at 35. How many other 35 year olds are going to date who haven't had plenty of men in their past too. If she can cook and likes football, I'd say she is date worthy.
[QUOTE=ThePreacher;2580782]Would any of you guys consider seriously dating a provider who is "retired"? I am drinking some whiskey and that random question came to mind. LOL I don't think I would, but I'm not entirely sure. If the vibe is right with a woman, it's very tough to resist. But her past would definitely haunt you. Just curious what your thoughts are.[/QUOTE]You just don't know how timely your question was made. My answer would be YES although my examples are not "retired" And no names will be given. I have let's say "dated" and I will use that word loosely. First one she said we were in a relationship. I met her just over a year ago on BP. Turned on the humor and charm. She called me to see her again a few days later. After I asked her how much because we got down for about 2 hours. She said you don't have to give me nothing. Shocked by the thought I still gave her 60. She started calling me to come see her whlie she worked and we talked several times daily. She got so deep into her habit that after a few months she looked almost nothing like the short PAWG I liked. She went from 140 to 100. Lost most her hair. And went from wanting to have a normal life and job to saying she retired from jobs at 28 years old. I had to walk away when she forgot to tell me her grandmother died because she got so messed up on drugs for days. That grouchy old lady liked me because I was nothing like her other friends. I became the first AA to ever come into their house and be welcomed to spend the night. One man can make a difference in another person's life.
Next provider is recent / current. Call it FWB. Never had to P4 P. Was looking like something more but somewhere we slowed it down. Well she hit the brakes and I got whiplash. Sex is great but irrelevant. I really enjoy her as a person.
And now there is a SW. It's been going on for less than 2 weeks. I will explain more about that situation in another report.
[QUOTE=JaxDog;2580218]You hit the nail on the head, once your arrested you've lost, period, even if you get the charges dropped the record of your arrest will still be available for all to see who wish to look. JD.[/QUOTE]Until you get it sealed and subsequently expunged. The nice thing about Florida is you can get the record almost immediately sealed after the incident and if you wait 10 years, keep your nose clean, you can get it expunged. I tell providers to AVOID certain states like New York, I believe, because they don't allow either which means it is on your record forever. Another thing, it's a once in a lifetime deal. The only way you can get multiple charges sealed is if all the arrest are connected. It appears expungement is, by and large, better bcuz the record details, itself, is destroyed. However when the record is sealed, it's still intact but hidden from certain organizations or agencies. For example, if you wanted to be a teacher, it can still be seen. If you wanted to work in corporate America, it's hidden from them, for example.
Hence, it's not a total loss but you certainly have your work cut out for you. Another recommendation is to at least seal it ASAP bcuz agencies like the courthouse will sell your information to 3rd party background check companies the longer it stays unsealed. Kinda like a cellphone company selling your personal information. I've known it to be a nightmare for some! It only becomes a total loss if you can't get that shet sealed bcuz the state attornies office is fighting it and the judge agrees, for whatever reason. Hopefully both are reasonable and you have a good attorney!
[QUOTE=ThePreacher;2580782]Would any of you guys consider seriously dating a provider who is "retired"? I am drinking some whiskey and that random question came to mind. LOL I don't think I would, but I'm not entirely sure. If the vibe is right with a woman, it's very tough to resist. But her past would definitely haunt you. Just curious what your thoughts are.[/QUOTE]I'd be more worried about her past haunting *HER*.
Most of these girls are treated like garbage. They are often victims of violence and rape. Drug addiction is extremely common. They may have criminal records, nude or explicit photos that are now permanently online, or people from their past who know about the life they once led.
And if you met her as a client? She would have a reminder every day of what she used to do just by looking at you. I mean I've dated two different strippers before, and both told me she never would have dated me if I had ever been one of her customers. I also managed to spark a great friendship with a webcam model and we eventually met in person, but she shot down any notion of us having a relationship because we first got to know each other while she was camming. My ATF provider asked hypothetically if I would even consider dating her normally. I told her that I would, and I meant it because she seems like a really great person and we had fantastic chemistry. However, even hoping for dating is pretty crazy, let alone marriage. You'd have to be prepared to dig in for the long haul with a woman that may have physical and emotional fallout from this for the rest of her life.
[QUOTE=CantB1;2580360]I had to up the data plan in my phone just to keep up. Just kidding I hacked the neighbor's wifi. LOL.
Much respect bro. But you IS long winded! Have you even slept?
It's good you try to educate the board but grown folks get stuck in their ways. So let them be.[/QUOTE]If you had to write down the rules for tic-Tac-toe I think it would be about 200 pages long. Brevity can be your friend too.
[QUOTE=YoungRestless;2580892]Until you get it sealed and subsequently expunged. The nice thing about Florida is you can get the record almost immediately sealed after the incident and if you wait 10 years, keep your nose clean, you can get it expunged. I tell providers to AVOID certain states like New York, I believe, because they don't allow either which means it is on your record forever. Another thing, it's a once in a lifetime deal. The only way you can get multiple charges sealed is if all the arrest are connected. It appears expungement is, by and large, better bcuz the record details, itself, is destroyed. However when the record is sealed, it's still intact but hidden from certain organizations or agencies. For example, if you wanted to be a teacher, it can still be seen. If you wanted to work in corporate America, it's hidden from them, for example.
Hence, it's not a total loss but you certainly have your work cut out for you. Another recommendation is to at least seal it ASAP bcuz agencies like the courthouse will sell your information to 3rd party background check companies the longer it stays unsealed. Kinda like a cellphone company selling your personal information. I've known it to be a nightmare for some! It only becomes a total loss if you can't get that shet sealed bcuz the state attornies office is fighting it and the judge agrees, for whatever reason. Hopefully both are reasonable and you have a good attorney![/QUOTE]
About letting grown men figure shet out on their own. Some things take a little more explaining than others; however, since I'm getting a lot of smart azz remarks about it, let's just table it and you people can proceed how you wish! Seems people are more concerned about getting pussy ONLY rather than getting it and being well informed and responsible! Anyway, it's sho life! Hope that was enough brevity for ya!
You indicated that in Polk county, there was a sting and that everyone who showed up got arrested; regardless whether they incriminated themselves or not. From what I've read, the folks were arrested because they offered money in exchange for sex. I didn't read anything about them just showing up and getting arrested. Can you please tell me where you got this information from? Was it in the news story? Did you read arrest reports that indicated this? Perhaps you got some inside information? If you can direct me to the source, please do so. Thanks in advanced!
[QUOTE=MouthHunter;2523378]On the forum. He can give anyone as much shit as he damn well pleases as far as I'm concerned. He has giving more pertinent information than most others combined. So bow down to experience where you belong. Just being real here.[/QUOTE]Absolutely NOT!
[QUOTE=Handicapper;2580798]Say she retired at 35. How many other 35 year olds are going to date who haven't had plenty of men in their past too. If she can cook and likes football, I'd say she is date worthy.[/QUOTE]You are definitely on to something! I have never had a woman who likes football. And I'm not talking just watches it when it's the Super Bowl. I'm talking follows stats and knows players and all the rules and stuff of the game. I have had friends that SO we the type and I always envied that it. Cooking, football, can hold an intelligent conversation and above average bedroom skills. That would get her worshiped and me the hell away from this hobby. I could get over her past with time.
CB1.
1000 men before "US" < 1 man during "US".
[QUOTE=ThePreacher;2580782]Would any of you guys consider seriously dating a provider who is "retired"? I am drinking some whiskey and that random question came to mind. LOL I don't think I would, but I'm not entirely sure. If the vibe is right with a woman, it's very tough to resist. But her past would definitely haunt you. Just curious what your thoughts are.[/QUOTE]If she was attractive, smart, personable & rocked my world, given my own checkered past, I doubt hers would bother me very much. I'm thinking here of a FWB in another state who is a "retired" provider & all of the above. If our circumstances were different, I could imagine a more serious relationship with her. She is really quite a gal.
[QUOTE=ThePreacher;2580782]Would any of you guys consider seriously dating a provider who is "retired"? I am drinking some whiskey and that random question came to mind. LOL I don't think I would, but I'm not entirely sure. If the vibe is right with a woman, it's very tough to resist. But her past would definitely haunt you. Just curious what your thoughts are.[/QUOTE]I have dated a provider before. We dated for about 2 years I think it was. Nice girl and we still keep in touch to this day. Past never really came up to haunt her. Thats what happened with this girl, the vibe was there. I was a client and it just kind of progressed from there.
[QUOTE=Beachesnole02;2580200]And I am pretty sure they won't care about all the bible literature I have in my hand, cause I am just there to save those poor lost souls. Once you are arrested, you have lost. You can have a winnable case, but that won't get you off the wall of shame that gets published each month, it won't convince your SO that you are innocent, it won't get you ANY of the money back that you gave a lawyer to get you off.[/QUOTE]So true. Even though my charges were dropped, it was still a pain in the ass! Spent the night in jail, because you can not bond out for a solicitation charge, had to pay a lawyer, and go through all that crap. And just when you think it is all over because they drop the charges, your name and picture show up in JC paper and someone at works sees it and puts a copy on everyones desk almost getting you fired from your job.
So even though I was innocent (I actually was this time, that's what had me so mad) it still cost several thousand dollars in attorney fees, night in jail, they towed my car, picture in the paper, and almost lost my job. And remember like in my case. The only thing that saved me in the end was that they had a recording of the whole thing and believe it or not the police wrote down something completely different then what was on the recording.