[QUOTE=DownloadX;7063977]Hi, I am an expert at losing erections. I have discovered that I sometimes cannot even tell that I came. But the evidence was there after, of one or two pumps. That's all it takes for your body to release the hormones that both lose your erection and make it harder to have your next orgasm:
[URL]https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Refractory_period_(sex)[/URL]
That was the most common cause for me. Girls would notice I came inside them even though I didn't notice. I'd lose erections after a great BBBJ and there would be some cum in her mouth, not even a lot but it was there. You can dfk her if you really want to make sure, but no mistake about it.
With overstimulation, it's also harder to have and maintain erections. Like when I go on hours long strip club binges, the 5th or 6th girl no longer give me an erection even if she's the hottest girl of all. The only way I can recover from that is having a solid rest of not thinking about women or looking at them. One additional option is you can take some V. It won't solve arousal or psychological issues but it will help with everything else.
Lastly, this hobby is for your enjoyment. If you are not enjoying it, take a break. Sometimes you've had too much of a thing for a while, it happens with food and other pleasures. Don't even think about women or look at anything for a while and you should recover. Then later you might hunger and thirst, until even scraps would satisfy you. But no! In this hobby, [i]you are the Sultan of a fully stocked harem[/i]. You pick the choicest girl available that suits you, at a moment's notice.
No one questions your decisions or tastes in this hobby. If Jane is still around she'll be ready for you. Maybe you'll even have a raging erection to show her who's boss again. This is not some job you have to show up for on a fixed schedule, you should not dread showing up. So take a vacation and come back to call the shots on your schedule.[/QUOTE]Honestly we need like a full new thread for like "sexual health" so we can all drop the knowledge. I used to work for a TRT clinic and from my nutrition and personal trainer past, there's so much that goes into sexual health it truly does warrant kts own thread.