Its worse than you realize
[QUOTE=HuntingStreets;3026425]I'm not trying to play White Knight here but until any of us have been there I'm not sure we comprehend how tough it REALLY is. I can't give the fucking nicotine and struggled with binge drinking when I was younger. I had met a young woman I was developing as an UTR. She had been busted, went to jail, lost custody of her daughter. While she was in, her best friend died and another friend was charged with supplying the candy. She got out, was clean, working her ass off, got her daughter back, was clean for almost 2 years when I met her. Guess who's back as a visitor of the State. Nothing stops the draw.[/QUOTE]Most of you know I have the ability to see patterns. Checking the jail inmate lists, the friend lists on FB of our providers, and the FB lists of some of you monger. There are always direct connections and no one is more than 1 or 2 degrees from separation from the others. Many of these girls are in the club scene, meet in jail, and support groups. Except maybe the Chinese girls who are in another world of secrecy. The older I get the more I realize how serious the drug addiction problem is. Most of you will not take this advice because your little head is in control. But my advice is to stay away from girls using drugs. You can get into a lot of trouble due to guilt by association. Your chances of picking up a bug are far greater. No-tels, car dates, seedy incalls in bad neighborhoods, boyfriends suddenly jealous, cash and dashers will eventually get you in trouble. Some of these women do have feelings for you, they like you, you make them feel safe, but there is something they love more, the drugs. You will never be more important to them than those drugs.
If you get too close, you will be the one who gets the "hey baby, I'm in jail" call at 3 am. We all like to hunt. We all like having an intense connection with the opposite sex, especially if they like it too. Its a lot of fun at the time. After few years you realize they never gave a shit about you. You think you know them, but you don't know half the awful stuff they do. You aren't going to save them or help them. You try to be a white knight and show you are, You buy them gifts, maybe even take them on a real date. They are flattered and appreciate it. But drugs is still their #1 boyfriend. Very few of these stupid women will think the guy who is raw dogging their rectum is someone who will help them.
As for the legit, struggling single moms, college students, sex addicts. Its less than 10%. The professional upscale companions, believe me most of you will never meet them, or read about them. They won't see guy unless you are vouched for by a couple of CEOs. A vast contract to the girl who runs out the front door of public housing, into your car, and could care less if you washed up today.
Personally I'd like to see about 80% decline in reports on this board. No more rip off reports, cash and dash, bait and switch, girls with track marks in person but a knockout in their pics. If you all would do your homework first, stick with trusted and verified clean women, we would have much fewer reports on the bad times and disappointments. Been there done that. Name something that went wrong, I've been there. Just want to prevent others from making the same mistakes. I realize you have an addiction as well. Turn that addiction energy into something more safe and memorable.
Narrowing down and selecting better providers will actually save you money in the long run, even though they are more expensive.