[QUOTE=RandomGuy78;2801694]Just scheduled to get a massage tomorrow afternoon and honestly this is the first time ever. Anybody want to give me a quick lesson on how things are done.[/QUOTE]It would help to know at least where you plan on going.
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[QUOTE=RandomGuy78;2801694]Just scheduled to get a massage tomorrow afternoon and honestly this is the first time ever. Anybody want to give me a quick lesson on how things are done.[/QUOTE]It would help to know at least where you plan on going.
[QUOTE=RandomGuy78;2801694]Just scheduled to get a massage tomorrow afternoon and honestly this is the first time ever. Anybody want to give me a quick lesson on how things are done.[/QUOTE]Depending on who you are seeing, the answers varies a bit.
Never ever mention sexual acts explicitly or in a strongly suggestive matter. And likewise, if she does that before you started doing anything, it's also a red flag. I was texting a new girl on BP in Lincoln park the other day (Hanna I think) and she literally texted me, "if you want head it costs $150. " Excuse me? I never said that. I called her a noob, which she may have been, and a cop, which she also may have been. The provider should be suspicious because she can get into deep trouble. You should also be, especially depending on who you're seeing.
I will typically hug my provider right when I walk in (if it's an independent one) and give her bum a squeeze and press my chest against hers. By doing this, I clearly let her know what I want and it saves a lot of convo. Then, if it's an independent I've never seen before, I discuss what to expect (before I give my donation). I want to know what to expect so I ask questions that are not explicit first.
She might say, "get Comfortable and get on the table. " Comfortable usually means dress down completely. I might ask, will you be Comfortable as I am during the massage too? Sometimes they will, sometimes they wait to the end. Sometimes they get dodgy. Once, it was the last option which was a response for me. I learned that the massage was a DIY when I started digging more. I decided I didn't want the massage at all after (this was with Fiona). She also recently told me she doesn't even do topless anymore. Good to figure stuff out before you dive in.
If it's a parlor you're going to, ask and say very little. If you've done your research and know they provide extras, then you know how far. If it's Sun Spa, you know you probably had the option of FS. If it's Acupuncture on Eureka, you're most likely just getting a HE and just expect it. No need to say much, just a simple graze or light grab here and there. She knows. Just DON'T TALK LOUD and don't speak explicitly. There's a lot more to say, but you need to throw us a little more.
Hi, long time lurker looking for info on a couple ladies close to me for a massage. If anyone can help me out on what to expect like looks, quality, menu options and rates it would be really appreciated.
[URL]http://detroit.backpage.com/TherapeuticMassage/relax-with-the-ultimate-massage/22949717[/URL]
[URL]http://detroit.backpage.com/TherapeuticMassage/massage-or-yoga-therapyalways-ask-for-specials/21637155[/URL]
[QUOTE=Nyybry;2717409]Anyone have any Intel about a lady posting on backpage named "sunny". She posts on the massage section as opposed to the body rub part. Ad says she is in Southgate which isn't too bad travel time so any information about her, good or bad would be appreciated. Thanks.[/QUOTE]Curious myself.
[QUOTE=MikeTurner;2802147]Depending on who you are seeing, the answers varies a bit.
Never ever mention sexual acts explicitly or in a strongly suggestive matter. And likewise, if she does that before you started doing anything, it's also a red flag. I was texting a new girl on BP in Lincoln park the other day (Hanna I think) and she literally texted me, "if you want head it costs $150. " Excuse me? I never said that. I called her a noob, which she may have been, and a cop, which she also may have been. The provider should be suspicious because she can get into deep trouble. You should also be, especially depending on who you're seeing.
I will typically hug my provider right when I walk in (if it's an independent one) and give her bum a squeeze and press my chest against hers. By doing this, I clearly let her know what I want and it saves a lot of convo. Then, if it's an independent I've never seen before, I discuss what to expect (before I give my donation). I want to know what to expect so I ask questions that are not explicit first.
She might say, "get Comfortable and get on the table. " Comfortable usually means dress down completely. I might ask, will you be Comfortable as I am during the massage too? Sometimes they will, sometimes they wait to the end. Sometimes they get dodgy. Once, it was the last option which was a response for me. I learned that the massage was a DIY when I started digging more. I decided I didn't want the massage at all after (this was with Fiona). She also recently told me she doesn't even do topless anymore. Good to figure stuff out before you dive in.
If it's a parlor you're going to, ask and say very little. If you've done your research and know they provide extras, then you know how far. If it's Sun Spa, you know you probably had the option of FS. If it's Acupuncture on Eureka, you're most likely just getting a HE and just expect it. No need to say much, just a simple graze or light grab here and there. She knows. Just DON'T TALK LOUD and don't speak explicitly. There's a lot more to say, but you need to throw us a little more.[/QUOTE]Very important you let us know where you're going as the protocol varies with the location. I can't stress how important that information is.
[QUOTE=MidMichGeezer;2797823]Was thinking the same thing. You know they have a backup key, you know for when you lose the key or are in the shower.[/QUOTE]I have been using zip lock sandwich bags for years. Put your keys, money you want to give to the provider, keep it with you at all times, (TS. , steam, massage, fuck,) don't let it out of your site!! This will do 3 things, make them know don't fuck with my stuff!! And this isn't my first massage! You will also only have so much money to give, when"UPSALE", when your dick is hard, and you are thinking with it! Been doing this for years never lost a dime, or had someone go through my shit, car, ect. When I was in a "weak spot" !! Drk. Try it.
Thinking about getting a four hand experience. Anybody have any good experiences and where? Thanks.
[QUOTE=Rogmaes;2802668]Very important you let us know where you're going as the protocol varies with the location. I can't stress how important that information is.[/QUOTE]I was going to go see Jill by the end of the month.
[QUOTE=AceOfSpades01;2803994]Thinking about getting a four hand experience. Anybody have any good experiences and where? Thanks.[/QUOTE]I am also. Not sure what Ace wants but I want an excellent massage where I'm so relaxed I dream about a HE. For me, no FS. Any advice would be great.
[QUOTE=RandomGuy78;2804344]I was going to go see Jill by the end of the month.[/QUOTE]Better save the advice you've gotten so far for another place and time. You are going to a married woman's house. She has a large Rottweiler. I don't suggest trying to squeeze her ass while hugging her. Be a gentleman and enjoy a 100% legit covered massage. Search on "mummy".
[QUOTE=LazarusII;2804697]Better save the advice you've gotten so far for another place and time. You are going to a married woman's house. She has a large Rottweiler. I don't suggest trying to squeeze her ass while hugging her. Be a gentleman and enjoy a 100% legit covered massage. Search on "mummy".[/QUOTE]You'll get no action from Jill. Do your homework first.
[QUOTE=RandomGuy78;2804344]I was going to go see Jill by the end of the month.[/QUOTE]I suggest you start with a tried and true AMP like A-ACU at 7 and Telegraph or JC on Kelly in Eastpointe. Good massage with HE. Be patient and respectful. When flip time comes, guide their hand to your area of interest. Both these establishments have been around a long time and you will leave quite satisfied. Hh .6 H .8 . A-ACU offers a shower, take for it. . 4 tip is usually satisfactory.
[QUOTE=RandomGuy78;2804344]I was going to go see Jill by the end of the month.[/QUOTE]Good thing you came out with that info. You will be wasting your money and time. Do what the other guy said and start at A-Acu. That is best for someone new to the hobby. If you need specifics. Private message any one of us that have replied to you. I am sure you will get the help you need as we have all been in the same boat. If you are going to someone specific, obviously other than Jill, copy / paste a link so you can be sure to be talking about the same person. Good idea coming here and getting some advice. Don't for a minute think that you will have any other experience than what has been posted. We are all on here to help each other, and will not be giving bad advice. Good luck. Best advice from me. Go to A-Acu ask for marissa (cici).
Used to visit it back in the day. Haven't really heard anything good or bad lately. Has anyone recently visited the place? Is it still open?