Be careful with those scammers (again)
[QUOTE=Blazer1979;6267497]I clicked on the link and viewed her profile. An hour later I get a message from her saying she's in my city for the holidays. Her profile location is now Memphis. I'm in Coeur dAlene so I got a conversation going. I told her I read a nasty report on her online, didn't say where I read it and she replied that she had a bad date with an creep from Idaho. So I think we should all do similar things to waste her time. I don't think she's ever been here.
I had one about a month ago, said she was in Spokane, hot chick but it had Texas references. We talked about hooking up then she said she needed groceries, please Venmo $50, please, please? So I just said, what grocery store do you go to? If you go online and pick out $50 in groceries I'll pay for it and you can go pick it up? I knew she wasn't in Spokane so that didn't work for her.[/QUOTE]1. Their number one superpower is drainage of your time. Think about what your time is worth per hour, and look at what they've cost you. Not literally, but who of us really has much free time? Find something better to do with that time.
2. Maybe her clout with Seeking won't hold up if she were to report you, but she probably has others in her network working accounts that could report you and get your account banned. Then where would you be? She could also report you to Google Voice for harassment and violating terms of use, getting your number shut down (happened to me).
Scammers who are transparent
[QUOTE=Blazer1979;6267497]I clicked on the link and viewed her profile. An hour later I get a message from her saying she's in my city for the holidays. Her profile location is now Memphis. I'm in Coeur dAlene so I got a conversation going. I told her I read a nasty report on her online, didn't say where I read it and she replied that she had a bad date with an creep from Idaho. So I think we should all do similar things to waste her time. I don't think she's ever been here.
I had one about a month ago, said she was in Spokane, hot chick but it had Texas references. We talked about hooking up then she said she needed groceries, please Venmo $50, please, please? So I just said, what grocery store do you go to? If you go online and pick out $50 in groceries I'll pay for it and you can go pick it up? I knew she wasn't in Spokane so that didn't work for her.[/QUOTE][QUOTE=KnoxNenters;6267644]1. Their number one superpower is drainage of your time. Think about what your time is worth per hour, and look at what they've cost you. Not literally, but who of us really has much free time? Find something better to do with that time.
2. Maybe her clout with Seeking won't hold up if she were to report you, but she probably has others in her network working accounts that could report you and get your account banned. Then where would you be? She could also report you to Google Voice for harassment and violating terms of use, getting your number shut down (happened to me).[/QUOTE]I have had similar experiences. Actually I think most here probably have. I cannot remember her name now but this was about 2 years ago on SA she looked probably 30 and not a day older very good looking blonde (I bet the pics were fake too). I reach out to her and she says she is a new single parent with a kid that is here desperately looking for someone to buy her diapers and formula for the kid. I try to convince her that we should get to know each other better and over 2-3 days of messaging she asks for venmo at least once every conversation. I finally tell her to pick out the diapers and formula online and I will pay for them. She insists that she would rather have the cash directly and be able to choose exactly what she wants. I told her she did not sound that desperate for help and blocked her stupid ass. Are these women this transparent. I mean no game to speak off and they think we are stupid enough to fall for this stupidity. I can only guess that there were probably a lot of chumps on SA that did venmo her the cash.
These girls aren't very smart
Honestly, I swear SA is where girls who are too dysfunctional to be strippers or escorts end up. None of the many girls I've met off sugar sites has any reasonable clue what their time and my money is actually worth. The ones who say something like, "I know my worth" usually have the least clue. By a large margin.
When any of these girls puts out an outrageous price, I usually just come back with what I'd expect for that amount of money. If she balks at that I wish her well and move on. Sometimes they have agreed, and sometimes they've pretended to agree and then move on to some other scam on you.
One girl I've been communicating with recently finally came out and said that she was looking for a guy who'd give her $2500 per month but otherwise have no contact with her. She argued that because she has two kids and goes to church that was the only deal that would work for her. I told her very politely I wasn't interested and wished her luck in finding the ideal situation for herself. So she went silent for a month and reached out to me this morning asking if we can meet for a cup of coffee.
Another girl I just can't figure out. We met face-to-face for coffee about six weeks ago. She's super hot and friendly and flirty and knows what she is on the site for. We've agreed on fair compensation and she knows I have the money. But every time we set up a date she cancels at the last minute. I'm guessing she is chickening out and doesn't need the money as badly as she claims. Or she's working some other angle and trying to get me to give her money before we meet in the flesh, as it were.