Dating Sites

[QUOTE=DawgPound;3856556]Not sure if the link will work because I got instablocked as soon as I said $500 per meet was high for the Dayton market, LOL.

[URL]https://seekingarrangement.com/member/9a4bee20-969b-43f1-804f-c26821ffaf8c[/URL][/QUOTE]To my surprise, or rather shock, I got unblocked and a message from this one. The message said "I think we go off on the wrong foot and want to try again. " So, I indulged. After all, I have to get some enjoyment out of the monthly fee SA charges, LOL. We ultimately agreed to a meet and a more reasonable donation of $$. We'll see what happens Sunday.

[QUOTE=Shazaam41;3880859]I have gone back and forth on this thought several times now, so I thought I would just throw it out to the group with my thoughts on both sides. When I am considering a new SB on anyof the sugar sites, one of the first things I do is try to find a the FB or other social media page. I do this primarily to lessen the chance that I'm cheating with LEO, but also to lower the likelihood that I've selected either a pro or street walker. Not judging either, and I've been known to partake of both. Sugars are different though. Their appeal (for me at least) is they are more UTR, and most of the time it's not their profession. It's this difference that makes me (and I'm guessing most of us) willing to pay a little or a lot more than we would for a independent provider or street walker.

I have never seen anyone here offer to provide a link or name to search by in Facebook. I know it's not permitted in the forum, but I've never seen it offered in PM either. Like most seniors, I've given out many a number in my day (most with permission, but not all), but I haven't given FB out either.

So here's my Q: should we?

On one hand, we 're outing someone's personal info, and there's always that chance a senior may show up at someone's house (although highly unlikely) or reach out via FB and scare the bejezus out of a niave student or single mom.

On the other we are helping each other stay safe, avoid LEO, street walkers, addicts, and pros. All of which is at the core of why we use this board, and why it was so missed during its hiatus.

Like I said. I've gone back and forth on this, and can make super strong arguments for both sides. So what do you guys think? Something we should consider, or is it a really bad idea?[/QUOTE]My thoughts on the subject: it depends on the girl in question. If it's obvious she's a pro, SW, or GPS, by all means let the board know. That's where I draw the line. Just give the info needed. No need to post FB, Instagram, etc. links.

For me personally, I'll post about pros and GPS girls. The ones I hit it off with I will not post about until our time is done. I don't do this to be greedy. I do it to keep my "relationship" with them going. I learned this the hard way. I've posted here about 2 I met on SA and within 30 minutes I received text messages from each of them because someone decided to "white knight" me. Lesson learned.

She tried the same damn thing with me and I laughed at her uncontrollably. I think that she is realizing that her goal was unattainable and she was getting nowhere thinking that dayton, Ohio was Orange County, California.

[QUOTE=DawgPound;3880889]To my surprise, or rather shock, I got unblocked and a message from this one. The message said "I think we go off on the wrong foot and want to try again. " So, I indulged. After all, I have to get some enjoyment out of the monthly fee SA charges, LOL. We ultimately agreed to a meet and a more reasonable donation of $$. We'll see what happens Sunday.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Shazaam41;3880859]I have gone back and forth on this thought several times now, so I thought I would just throw it out to the group with my thoughts on both sides. When I am considering a new SB on any of the sugar sites, one of the first things I do is try to find a the FB or other social media page. I do this primarily to lessen the chance that I'm cheating with LEO. Something we should consider, or is it a really bad idea?[/QUOTE]Another reason to know as much as possible about a potential SB is that SeekingArrangement and similar sites are full of scammers and girls that frankly are not real. In the case where the SB's claim to be 18 or 19, social media posts often include things like when they graduated high school. I certainly don't want to approach anyone underage by mistake.

Finally, I personally like to know that the girl I am about to see has a normal life outside the hobby so I always want to see any social media that they post. In fact I am FB friends with number of former and current SB's and it served me well during the shutdown. I would never post any hobby related messages on their page though.

[QUOTE=Westy0311;3881685]She tried the same damn thing with me and I laughed at her uncontrollably. I think that she is realizing that her goal was unattainable and she was getting nowhere thinking that dayton, Ohio was Orange County, California.[/QUOTE]We met yesterday and I can say in person her personality was completely different in person and in a good way. Very sweet and engaging. Further details can be discussed by PM.

DP.

[QUOTE=Grizzz;3879019]Just for the hell of it I sent Tiffany a message and was surprised her first response included her number to contact her. Says she has no time for the games on SA and gives out her number, and if a guy calls he calls, if he doesn't,no big deal. We exchanged a few texts / phone calls, and set up a meet my next day off. She called when she was on her way around dusk, and asked if she could spend the night because she doesn't like to drive after dark. I eagerly agreed because the rate was the same. I figured I was looking at an all night fuckfest, but boy was I in for a surprise. She showed up in a sundress and heels, looking pretty good, when she got in the house she wasn't shy about pulling up her dress to show me she had nothing on underneath, I was pretty excited at this point. We sat on the couch to talk and get acquainted and I swear she spent the next 3 hours talking nonstop, telling me her whole life story. By midnight she had ran out of steam and was falling asleep on my shoulder. I suggested we head for bed. She was out as soon as her head hit the pillow. Luckily she woke me up early in the morning wanting to play. She gave a lackluster performance, and then started talking again, I rolled over and went back to sleep. I woke up few hours later, rolled her over and went for another round, she just laid there. Sent her on her way after. Definitely

won't repeat, too much aggravation for average at best skills.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/42a17431-83d0-4602-aee9-059e6e9dc140[/URL][/QUOTE]But damn. She looks hot! LOL.

[QUOTE=LuvsGals;3886754]But damn. She looks hot! LOL.[/QUOTE]Did a meet and greet a few months ago at the Holy Grail in Cincinnati. I thought she looked quite a bit older than her pic and as already stated was non-stop talker, bitching and complaining about everything from parking to the weather. I never follow up, too much like a nagging wife. LOL.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/7b2f6e13-43a8-4527-b8a7-66ee4fea03d6[/URL]

This one countered with $5. All inclusive she looks delicious but there are so many that will take a quarter of that donation am I being cheap?

[QUOTE=IcabodStud;3889569][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/7b2f6e13-43a8-4527-b8a7-66ee4fea03d6[/URL]

This one countered with $5. All inclusive she looks delicious but there are so many that will take a quarter of that donation am I being cheap?[/QUOTE]No, you are not. I have had dates with gals much more younger and tight for less than $200 . Let's not inflate the market. Meat prices in this area can't go that high, this ain't NY or Atlanta.

[QUOTE=IcabodStud;3889569][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/7b2f6e13-43a8-4527-b8a7-66ee4fea03d6[/URL]

This one countered with $5. All inclusive she looks delicious but there are so many that will take a quarter of that donation am I being cheap?[/QUOTE]I don't think you're being cheap by saying no to 5.

For me, what I'm willing to pay has a range up to 2. 5 max. And that all depends on the lady, what we plan on doing and how long. I have a few I regularly see where we go out to eat, go have some drinks and shoot pool or some other fun activity and then they will stay over night for 2 which includes MSOG and a morning romp.

Also, keep in mind many start off in the 4+ range when first joining the site. I just politely tell them that's more than I'm willing to allow and wish them good luck. Numerous times I've received messages from them within the next 2-3 weeks wanting to talk again. Usually about the time they realize the going rates for the Dayton market.

I'm surprised nobody has reviewed this one. She has been in the game for a while, so she is well trained. No BS and all good business. Yes, those jugs are natural. She got 2 Benjamin's during our date, main reason because she is up for kinks not many gals are up for and her pain tolerance is as high as her sex drive. So definitely your friend vitaminD recommend her:

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/786aba36-5f4f-4bf5-a42a-6dffa5ec27aa[/URL]

[QUOTE=DawgPound;3889673]I don't think you're being cheap by saying no to 5.

For me, what I'm willing to pay has a range up to 2. 5 max. And that all depends on the lady, what we plan on doing and how long. I have a few I regularly see where we go out to eat, go have some drinks and shoot pool or some other fun activity and then they will stay over night for 2 which includes MSOG and a morning romp.

Also, keep in mind many start off in the 4+ range when first joining the site. I just politely tell them that's more than I'm willing to allow and wish them good luck. Numerous times I've received messages from them within the next 2-3 weeks wanting to talk again. Usually about the time they realize the going rates for the Dayton market.[/QUOTE]I echo this sentiment. Once they realize the time value of money, they know that 2. 5 now is worth more than 4 that may never materialize.

And I've lived in Pittsburgh and Philadelphia, and 4 might be a bit high there too. At least in the ponds I was fishing in.

[QUOTE=IcabodStud;3889569][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/7b2f6e13-43a8-4527-b8a7-66ee4fea03d6[/URL]
This one countered with $5. All inclusive she looks delicious but there are so many that will take a quarter of that donation am I being cheap?[/QUOTE]No you are not. Offer what you are comfortable with. She is definitely a hot MILF but not worth that in this market. You really should be discussing amounts in person and not online. Many of these girls are emboldened by the internet but not good negotiators in person. Don't be a creep and she will probably agree to much less.

Thanks for the insight we mongers must help each other keep prices reasonable.

[QUOTE=IcabodStud;3890650]Thanks for the insight we mongers must help each other keep prices reasonable.[/QUOTE]Just my 2 cents on market value. Everything is situation dependent, but none of these ladies deserve for us to break the bank. My range on SA is 1. 5 to 2. 5.

1. 5 usually is for a quicker visit. No pregame activities, just straight to dessert. Alot of times this ends up being a higher volume gal.

2-2. 5 usually if we have some pregame activities, go out for a little while, and return for dessert. Some are overnight stays.

Ultimately it depends on the lady and the activities and what you're comfortable donating. I've had some bring food to my place and cook for me, we have dessert, then go out, then back for more dessert and an overnight stay for 2. If a trip to the isles makes the agenda, sometimes I'll go 2. 5, but my common is 2.