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[QUOTE=Yamihit858;6922912]Since it's my first time booking an Asian provider, I'm curious which would get the best experience from xoxo, Hera or Elena?[/QUOTE]I wouldn't over think it. Over thinking ruins everyone. Makes everything seem worse than what it is. Go with your gut and get something good. What you might like I might not like.
Hera last day is Friday. Elena loves it. Both are fun. Supposed to be a new girl coming Saturday that is really pretty with some good curves.
[QUOTE=LabiaFedora;6918881]It is in the best interest of all parties involved to have "screening" in one way or another, agreed. Having said that. I cannot fathom nor justify giving my personal info, be it my business, employer, license, etc. Sure. Some individuals have more to lose than others, but agencies will always have the higher leverage over you in that sense. Food for thought.[/QUOTE]Thanks to FreeWally, LabiaFedora, and others for sharing their tips and perspectives about agency screening and how and where to get started, or restarted in my case, LOL! I guess I have some work to do! Play safe gents!
[QUOTE=Yamihit858;6923551]Reading this got me paranoid after going a BBFS sesh recently in TJ. I'll def get some doxy-pep first thing tomorrow. Why'd you wait two months to do anything with your SO until you get a clean test, does the doxy take time or something? Sorry, I'm a total greenhorn when it comes to all of this.[/QUOTE]I wanted a definitive clean HIV neg test. I tested neg for common bacterial STIs after two weeks.
[QUOTE=FreeWally;6923475]I want to add that there are two different groups of mongers. Those with partners they are sexually active with, and those who don't. The former has by far the most problems and dilemma. The simplest is not to bb, I did that many years and was quite happy. It actually helped me focus on a successful career. You don't want to pass a bacterial std back and forth to a long-term partner, where they get treated for a uti but don't test positive for the common one. Then you could end up reinfecting her or vice versa even after you get treated later.
20 years ago I was asymptomatic and passed a bacterial std to my new partner. I did not cheat on her but it was still a problem, so make sure to get tested and / or treated when returning to dating. Bacterial infections are a matter of time with bb, assuming you go often enough.
The fear and worry afterwards is a big factor. I do not want to downplay anything, but the odds of HIV from non-anal sex is low, whereas it is just a matter of time to get herpes. It took me years to get herpes but it is common and once you get it you will pass it to any long term partner. The best hope is your symptoms are very mild, which mine were after a year. The problem is if you've been monogamous a very long time and suddenly infect your partner, that's different. So lucky to those that are single.
Keep in mind we share these girls with those who bb nonstop. The girls do a good job, but they tour. Most girls 'new' to SD came from another city or have worked another country.[/QUOTE]Thanks for your input. Thoughts on risks with BBBJ? Google says yes, but not sure if its actually a smaller risk than perceived.
[QUOTE=Po4456;6923937]Thanks for your input. Thoughts on risks with BBBJ? Google says yes, but not sure if its actually a smaller risk than perceived.[/QUOTE]BBBJ is much safer than BBFS. 20 years ago in TJ I did BBFS with only one girl (three visits) and that's how I got a bacterial infection. I was asymptomatic for years until my next girlfriend, who then gave me the phone call. I was very careful for 18 years after that, doing only BBBJ+cfs. About 30 women and 14 years later I finally got herpes on the scrotum on a spot not covered by condom. Don't regret it considering the fun I had, just pointing out that even though genital herpes is fairly common it took that many exposures to finally get it. I don't like it but it's almost a given in the long-run, I don't feel I could have avoided it. After the first year the symptoms became very mild, no more worries about it. No bacterial infections because condoms work.
When I read through the studies on bacterial studies like Gonorrhea, the main risk for BBBJ is for the woman since she can swallow those fluids and the throat is a place it can live (it cannot live in the mouth). The study stated that the risk to the receiver (man) is "non-zero" meaning it is not statistically significant but theoretically possible. So I worry about other things instead.
HPV has a vaccine and it is available for men. This covers genital warts and certain strains of cancer (both men and women), 9 strains of HPV total. I asked my doctor and she gave it no questions asked, it's 3 shots for adults.
As others mentioned, the fear is a major aspect of BBFS too. It sucks to have a great time but then regret it later over the uncertainty. It is a very personal choice. I've made my peace by not having sex with long-term partners during bb. Then half a year later of that I get thoroughly tested and treated. Even though BBFS is good, after enough I no longer need it. Journaling what I wanted and why helped me quit bb and go back to no-bb for the time being. For various reasons, other people can't read my journal so it was a good outlet. No-bb actually feels great again somehow, so for me at least half of it was psychological / novelty. And I can get bbfs from a long-term girlfriend, so even if she does nothing else in bed I'm satisfied and actually prefer this compromise. Maybe it's different for others.
I am with you, DrBruinFan. Condom sucks. But living with fear for the result is stressful. Don't want to deal w / it.
I am even chicken to see BB gals now despite I am covering up since I do DFK.
[QUOTE=DkBruinFan74;6923451]It's all about risk tolerance and what you're willing to live with. Even if the girls are clean when they get to town, they might be taking up to 10 creampies a day (considering MSOG). Just go in with the assumption that they are not clean and calculate the risk from there. I think it's something like a 20-40% chance of catching most STIs (accept herpes which is much lower and HIV which is miniscule via vaginal sex) if your partner has an active STI. The odds are lower if you're circumcised. Then consider whether you have any cuts, abrasions or sores that allow the infection an entryway. There are also various prophylactic measures you can take to further lower your risk like PrEP, PEP and doxy-PEP and doxy-PrEP, along with things like gardisil (HPV vaccine). Many of the dudes in here who hobby bareback do some or all of these things. It won't make you completely bulletproof, but it GREATLY reduces any risks of infection to the point where you can almost completely forget about it.
I've only done BBFS once with a provider, and I did it without any PrEP and I immediately regretted it. I got my hands on some Doxy and the shit that kills Trich and ran them as PEP. Then I lived in terror for two months and avoided unprotected sex with my SO until I could get a clean test.
Yes, condoms suck, but, for me, I can't live with the abject terror that I felt after fucking a pro bareback. However, if I were single at my age, I'd probably just get on PrEP, get a stash of doxy from TJ and say fuck it and smash as much raw pussy as I could.[/QUOTE]
Thanks to FreeWally and others. It's great that we can have this discussion on risks without any fear mongering, judgement or other histrionics.
I paid a visit to Gianna at SDAG today. She's gorgeous. Petite (yet curvy) body, pretty face, about 5'2", long beautiful hair, total GFE from the moment we said hello. I felt like we really connected from the jump and everything just flowed naturally from there. Felt like making love to a new flame for the first time. She's a crazy good lover and she was into it and looking to enjoy herself as well. HOT! If you like DFK like me, you will be in heaven.
Some other notes: I think she's a little safety oriented, but that's fine with me. She's from Mexico, but speaks perfect English. She's smart, worldly, adventurous and fun. Damn, this girl just rocks. LOL. She's older than her photoshopped pics (it's definitely her) would lead you to believe, but in a good way. Not a super young girl, but a sexy, self-possessed woman in her sexual prime. Also, she has a couple tattoos, but nothing outrageous, and I personally found them sexy. Anyhow, I'd have a hard time believing anyone would be disappointed with her looks. She's damn hot and I didn't want to leave. If you see her, treat her well.
[QUOTE=DkBruinFan74;6924429]I paid a visit to Gianna at SDAG today. She's gorgeous. Petite (yet curvy) body, pretty face, about 5'2", long beautiful hair, total GFE from the moment we said hello. I felt like we really connected from the jump and everything just flowed naturally from there. Felt like making love to a new flame for the first time. She's a crazy good lover and she was into it and looking to enjoy herself as well. HOT! If you like DFK like me, you will be in heaven.
Some other notes: I think she's a little safety oriented, but that's fine with me. She's from Mexico, but speaks perfect English. She's smart, worldly, adventurous and fun. Damn, this girl just rocks. LOL. She's older than her photoshopped pics (it's definitely her) would lead you to believe, but in a good way. Not a super young girl, but a sexy, self-possessed woman in her sexual prime. Also, she has a couple tattoos, but nothing outrageous, and I personally found them sexy. Anyhow, I'd have a hard time believing anyone would be disappointed with her looks. She's damn hot and I didn't want to leave. If you see her, treat her well.[/QUOTE]I agree 100%. I submitted a very similar review here last week and have seen her another time since that last visit. I also saw her the last time she was her back at the start of the year, but then the booker moved her up to OC. In my opinion, she is the sexiest of the Latinas that this org offers. One of the sexiest ladies I have ever been naked with, and she has an absolutely beautiful face. That makes such a difference for me for some reason.
Anyway, I suggest giving her a shot or two.
[QUOTE=TrustyHairlip;6924450]I agree 100%. I submitted a very similar review here last week and have seen her another time since that last visit. I also saw her the last time she was her back at the start of the year, but then the booker moved her up to OC. In my opinion, she is the sexiest of the Latinas that this org offers. One of the sexiest ladies I have ever been naked with, and she has an absolutely beautiful face. That makes such a difference for me for some reason.
Anyway, I suggest giving her a shot or two.[/QUOTE]Yes, it was your review that pointed me in her direction. Thank you for that. She is so fucking hot and fun, man. Probably the best overall time I've had in this hobby. And yes, all in all, might be the sexiest woman I've been with when you consider the entire package (beyond just her looks which are top shelf). She's a real woman. Not just some robot on a script. I honestly felt lucky to spend time with her. I'd go broke if she was in San Diego full time.
[QUOTE=DkBruinFan74;6924429]I think (Gianna is) a little safety oriented.[/QUOTE]Thanks fellas for TOFTT. Just to be clear, does she offer BBBJ? And if yes, CIM?
I had a nice time with Elena at xoxo. She will be here until next week 6/11.
Elena took my hand and brought me to her room. We got undressed and she started kissing me. She really liked kissing with tongue. Quick shower and mouthwash. Once we got to the bed she started with a really good BBBJ and gave me some 69. Her pussy was soaking wet. She sucked my cock more and and then climbed on top bare. She got me really hard and was moaning and getting into it. I had to have her in doggy and pumped her really good until I shot a big load on her back. We rested a while and we started fooling around again. Soon I was raw dogging her again until I popped inside her. Showered and left so happy.
I haven't been active in awhile and was wondering what happened to yourlollygirls and if it was still active under a new name or something.
[QUOTE=SsStuntCock;6924483]Thanks fellas for TOFTT. Just to be clear, does she offer BBBJ? And if yes, CIM?[/QUOTE]She offers BBBJ but not CIM.
[QUOTE=SsStuntCock;6924483]Thanks fellas for TOFTT. Just to be clear, does she offer BBBJ? And if yes, CIM?[/QUOTE]I can't speak to that, since we never even got to it. She doesn't have a "script" and we were both more than ready to get to the main courses sooner rather than later after some foreplay. I think Trusty said she's down for BBBJ, but no CIM. She was naturally responsive to DATY. And she was very much into the FS, vocal, said what she liked and how much she liked it, threw it back at me, and got off multiple times.