Seeking Arrangements

[QUOTE=ItsChiChi;5833055]I never tried Seeking but what are the chances of having good success for someone who is 23 good paying job I'm not rich by any means.

I just want to pay right away no sugar baby type shit is it worth for me?[/QUOTE]If you are 23 years old trust me you don't need SA. Don't waste your money on it. I would spend money on a life coach and improve your social skills. I'm sure if you go to the bar in Boston every girls will want to talk to you if you are not weird. Base on what you are saying, it sound like you want a pro. For me, I joined SA just to see what is the hype. I played around with it until I got banned. It was alright for me because I get to find girls of my type that I can go straight to sex because of money. A lot of the girls on SA will want $400, which is ridiculous because they are horrible in bed.

[QUOTE=JClearMan1;5833184]All but three of my encounters from SA have been "pay per meet", [/QUOTE]In my experience there's definitely much more PPM on SA than there was a couple years ago. Pro's / agency disguised as nonpro SB's as well.

[QUOTE=Patriarchist;5834153]You have to be aware that a lot of women especially in and around Boston will ignore guys younger than 30 simply because they expect that younger guys will not have much money to offer.[/QUOTE]I once dated a kgirl outside the business (not a good decision I know) and she said one reason she preferred older clients was less stamina / energy / cups. This was a while ago though, probably more viagra now and such.

[QUOTE=HankChinanski;5832065]Hope it goes well, I spoke with her but when she said everything would be covered I wasn't down and she got mad when I said the amount she wanted I should be getting a BBBJ at least with covered FS. Figured I'd give you the heads up in case she pulls something on ya.[/QUOTE]Hey I appreciate the feedback. I asked her about it and she said protection only for FS because no birth control. I generally take what these women say with a grain of salt until we actually meet tho so we'll see. She's definitely semi-pro at the very least but I don't really care as long as I get a couple hours and a couple nutz. We'll see.

[QUOTE=Patriarchist;5834153]You have to be aware that a lot of women especially in and around Boston will ignore guys younger than 30 simply because they expect that younger guys will not have much money to offer. This is not to say there aren't decent looking girls you can get in bed with for a couple hundred bucks. At the end of the day, it's still generally a numbers game.[/QUOTE]I've found the opposite to be true at least for the under 30 women. I've spoken and traded pics with 5 or 6 from my 1 month on seeking and met 2 and all but one basically said to me "oh thank got your young and good looking most guys that message me are older". Idk, I take what they say with a grain of salt in general but I feel like my age and reasonably good looks hve helped me out.

[QUOTE=NicosWave24;5835274]I've found the opposite to be true at least for the under 30 women. I've spoken and traded pics with 5 or 6 from my 1 month on seeking and met 2 and all but one basically said to me "oh thank got your young and good looking most guys that message me are older". Idk, I take what they say with a grain of salt in general but I feel like my age and reasonably good looks hve helped me out.[/QUOTE]There are more younger ones on there now who really either have not much of a clue and are looking for fantasy land or have watched videos, read things from other girls.

Telling them there are plenty of younger guys on there, they will get paid for having dinner with a guy, will be showered with gifts, taken on trips around the world, have their rent / car / tuition paid, etc.

The level of cluelessness and fantasy land thinking is over the top now.

I find it amusing that there are younger girls on there thinking a guy under 30 will be on there and have plenty of money to give them.

These girls just have no clue about things or how sugar dating world works at all.

You should be able to find some young hotties there and if I were you I would be looking to pay very minimal for them.

You have the leverage over these girls so use it.

[QUOTE=NicosWave24;5835274]I've found the opposite to be true at least for the under 30 women. I've spoken and traded pics with 5 or 6 from my 1 month on seeking and met 2 and all but one basically said to me "oh thank got your young and good looking most guys that message me are older". Idk, I take what they say with a grain of salt in general but I feel like my age and reasonably good looks hve helped me out.[/QUOTE]I tend to agree with your outlook on looking younger and decent looking. I had great successes when I was in my 40's vs 60's. The girls were very happy and playful when they would show up more so before vs now. I'm far from a troll but the age thing does seem to matter. Ofc I don't play any games any longer and try to get right to the point of this program so they may be a little put off? I am also very firm on what I will donate so me being relatively inflexible may frustrate them. Back in the Montreal days the girls would usually comment "oh thank god you are young and in decent shape". Most of those girls were/are college girls and were operating pre SA. I had more than cancel the remaining appointments and spend the night with me all for their hourly rate. Best of times for sure.

Anyone talk to this girl? Seems cute, good response via text (albeit short but to the point).

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f54dd859-bfa1-40ca-9285-8fe5a977c0a1[/URL]

[QUOTE=Wockser;5835628]Anyone talk to this girl? Seems cute, good response via text (albeit short but to the point).

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f54dd859-bfa1-40ca-9285-8fe5a977c0a1[/URL][/QUOTE]She's from Lynn / Salem. We were friends on facebook, she's been doing this for what 7 yrs plus. Used to actually post on escort sites then stopped a few years ago now is just on seeking. I never met her since its to proish. I got her snap on seeking last week and we talked. Her private pics didn't do it for me tho. She has no sex appeal and the pics of her feet was a turn off. They looked all jacked up and stuff.

[QUOTE=Wockser;5835628]Anyone talk to this girl? Seems cute, good response via text (albeit short but to the point).

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f54dd859-bfa1-40ca-9285-8fe5a977c0a1[/URL][/QUOTE]She used to go by the name Dreyla before. I saw her in December. This is her new profile, everything is on the menu. A but talkative as she does kick-boxing, natural boobs. Just want you to keep *ucking. I was exhausted in the 2 hours we were together, LOL! BBFSCIP is available, if that's your thing.

[QUOTE=JMan98;5793180]Have you met up with her yet?? Cannot tell if she is real or not.[/QUOTE]I might meet her today, she said she's ok coming to see me in Boston. Will TOFTT if she ends up coming.

[QUOTE=PlayTrey;5834958]If you are 23 years old trust me you don't need SA. Don't waste your money on it. I would spend money on a life coach and improve your social skills. I'm sure if you go to the bar in Boston every girls will want to talk to you if you are not weird. Base on what you are saying, it sound like you want a pro. For me, I joined SA just to see what is the hype. I played around with it until I got banned. It was alright for me because I get to find girls of my type that I can go straight to sex because of money. A lot of the girls on SA will want $400, which is ridiculous because they are horrible in bed.[/QUOTE]1. I agree with you that SA is not the place for a 23 yr old guy. For all the reasons you (and others) already stated.

2. $400 for a college girl or recent grad or grad student is very common here in Boston. If they truly are "horrible" in bed don't see them again. Or see them just for the tight young body experience. But it all depends on what you're looking for. I am way more interested in a non-pro nerdy girl who might not be as good at giving great sex as a pro girl is. But I've also found the nerdy girls who give it as good as the pro's. Those are the keepers for me. It takes time for the search which is OK with me.

[QUOTE=PlayTrey;5834958]A lot of the girls on SA will want $400, which is ridiculous because they are horrible in bed.[/QUOTE]I prefer younger girls (18-21 is the best for me, I'll go 22-25 on occasion) for their bodies and personalities / innocence (typically); I care less about how good they are in bed since I can take the lead on that part.

[QUOTE=PaulRew;5833161]Seemed intriguing but then in a span of hours changed locs 3 x. Small favor, if someone can grab pics we may get more info. She will share but snatch back as soon as you look so saving them fast is important. I have a bad feeling about this one guys.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/3df190e6-c708-4fe8-974e-561933f12be2[/URL][/QUOTE]Currently profile says "Massachusetts, Massachusetts" as the location. That's always a red flag for me.

[QUOTE=PaulRew;5833161]Seemed intriguing but then in a span of hours changed locs 3 x. Small favor, if someone can grab pics we may get more info. She will share but snatch back as soon as you look so saving them fast is important. I have a bad feeling about this one guys.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/3df190e6-c708-4fe8-974e-561933f12be2[/URL][/QUOTE]Not my style (edit: She's not my style) but I asked for photos, will share if she sends.