Word of Mouth is usually a Green Light
Usually fairly early on in messaging, I ask "How did you learn of this site?
If the answer is "A friend told me" or some variation, the immediate follow up is "so she has explained to you the dynamic and expectations of an arrangement?" which easily opens the door to allowance, activities, etc.
Pay for the M&G. My 2 cents
[QUOTE=BStreet;4537523]I offered to even pay more for the 1st meet only, didn't budge
.[/QUOTE]Hey all! I've seen a few post about this recently. I was on SA for a couple years and got out a few years ago bc of a great SB relationship that recently ended so I have recently rejoined.
First. WOW! There are a LOT more girls there than there were before! In just over a week I have seen 1 - straight to the FC after the M&G, I am texting on my phone with 10 and have M&Gs set up with 3 this week and am actively messaging at least a dozen others. All of them within 10 miles of RVA, 28 or younger, less than 5'6" (I'm only 5'2") and Slim, Athletic or Average.
When I 1st got on I paid for 3 M&Gs and the M&G was the last time I heard from any of them. I have now had 3 ask for $100 or $150 for the M&G and I have told them all that I don't do that, that I see the M&G as a job interview and if they got an invite to an interview for a traditional job and they responded that they needed a paycheck first, they wouldn't get any interviews.
2 just said thanks and 1 offered to drop it to $50. Still not doing that.
Guys need to STOP doing this! As long as guys will pay for M&Gs, girls will keep asking.
My 2 cents.
Thanks and be safe!
Message her and set up a meet!
[QUOTE=MilkyWy;4538465]I'm from NC but a long-time lurker on Richmond forum. You guys are awesome and true educator. I ran into an unusual situation. At my annual checkup, my doctor walked in with a hottie and introduced her as NP. We looked at each other and immediately recognized seeing her on sa. During my visit, she seemed little restless and nervous. I thought she recognized me too. I checked sa and found that a few days ago she had seen my profile. This is a first such incident. I'm in a confused state on how to deal with this. Need your advice.[/QUOTE]Are you married?
Let her mention recognizing you.
With anonymity blown for both of you, best to take advantage of this coincidental meeting. And tell her as much. Removes the pressure of trying to keep things secret, so you can both relax and be open.
New form of the same old same old
Chatting online with a new SA girl today -- sent her my standard intro greeting. First red flag is she replies in less than 30 seconds with 3 well composed paragraphs. Her "story" is she's in a loveless sexless marriage that she can't leave; hubby doesn't know about SA, so she has to use a super discreet old fashioned pay for minutes burner phone; also she doesn't have a car, can't be picked up at her house and so has to Uber to any dates. But since she's here just for the sex, passion and affection she's missing in her marriage, she doesn't want an allowance. Just money for her phone and for her Uber. Right. Next.