Well homie, if you do the math
[QUOTE=LukeCage668;4144483]You can dress it up as nice as you want in order to justify it and to help you sleep at night, but in a second without hesitation they will take the opportunity to get over on you with no regard to your wallet or safety and well being. Not knocking what some of what y'all do but not me.[/QUOTE]I'm the one who is indebted to her. How many on here can say they saw a girl who they donated 60-70 to and stayed 2-3 hours? That's like 30-35 per hour and with a hot thick girl to boot and in the privacy of her own home (someone who didn't post much at all). Do the math! Let's be clear also, I am not talking about hookers in general, I'm talking about this one particular girl only, who I'm not in love with, mind you! In general, I would agree that I wouldn't even consider the question I asked earlier, but for this one, I wouldn't mind because she has gone way over what has been expected. Again, this is only in reference to her and her alone, periodt, as Madea would say! What I proposed to do is no different than a guy who was treated well by a provider and he gave her a 20-50 dollar tip; something my cheap butt doesn't do! LOL.
Most of these girls people pay $150-200 to spend an hour with end up kicking their butts out in 10 minutes. This one? Not so much. If you are familiar with my posts, you'd know I'm pretty much the $60 man. Rarely do I ever go over 60 this amount! So as far as saying they'll get over on me, well homie, let them have at it. I can stand to lose 60. What I can't and likely won't lose is the 150-200 I read about sometimes. Anyway, this is what it is partner!
Provider's concession fund
[QUOTE=EaglesSb;4142947]I always ask this question when it comes to helping people. "If I were the one that needed help, can I honestly say that I have no doubt this person would help me the same way I wish to help them", or in your case "If I were the one in jail, would this girl do the same thing I'm doing for her with the same earnestness? Can I honestly say she would?
When you seen her for your sessions you still had to pay. If you showed up without money, you already know what would happen. Again if you were the one behind bars, you think this girl would visit you and put money on your books so you can have small comforts because it was nice and humane? Hell no, but some dudes tend to learn this lesson the hard way, then when the girl gets distant you get mad because of "All the things I did for her and she just left, ungrateful *****! How many dudes on here posted about girls that they had "wonderful, deep, or special" relationships with, only to hear a few weeks / months later she cash and dashed him.
You sound like a good person, you'd be better of donating that to pet shelters or something because the time will come when that girl won't even return your text.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Quebec99;4143740]I guess, with me, I typically don't have the attitude that I will only do something for you if you do the same for me. It's likely she won't do anything for me, but who knows. I do know I logged a lot of hours with her and only donated a fraction of what most girls would get, so if anything, I owe her, I guess. Believe me, whatever I give her, it won't make her rich by any means. It will only provide her with a few comforts. It won't break the bank I assure you. If I can help without compromising my identity, then I don't mind; otherwise, I might not be able to help as anonymity to me is everything.[/QUOTE]It doesn't matter if you are giving money directly to a provider or putting in her commissary fund at the jail, buying her lunch or what, the result will be the same. Are they ever going to give you a freebie or pay you back in any way, highly unlikely unless there is something in it for them. Most, if not all of them will steal you blind given the chance and come back asking for more. However, the same can be said for legitimate charities. When I give donations to my church and other charities of choice, they don't give a rat's ass about me either, other than the fact that they want me to be alive and well so that I can continue to donate to them in the future. So, all charities, be it your church, any one of thousands of "legitimate" charities or your favorite hooker, the bottom line is, that if it makes you feel good to give a few bucks to them, knowing that you won't get anything in return, then by all means do it. It's a highly personal decision, so just do what makes you feel good and hopefully you won't regret your decision.
The simple answer is, they are women and.
[QUOTE=JimmyDeen;4144295]Why don't they want to help us, as we help them? I assume your answer is going to be, because they want drugs, or they want to feel good, because drugs make you feel good. But everybody wants to feel good, so again my question is, why do women fuck men over with no consequences. That goes for women in and out of the game.[/QUOTE]Guys are saps! We, guys, have created the current state of affairs in this hobby. People go see them regardless of how terrible they are. We're (not me) giving them $150 for 30 minutes and the sessions are terrible, to say the least. This is why I stick to 60 so no matter how awful they are, I haven't loss much. And yes, they not only phuck over clients in this hobby, but they do the same to their moms, dads, sisters, brothers, friends; you get the pic. If they will phuck them over, who are we. Most of these girls give a rats ass about clients. This doesn't hurt so much if you already expect this from them, which I do-I'm not delusional like that. I expect no different.
Something I didn't mention before about the girl I am talking about. I actually stopped seeing her a few months ago, before she went away, because I saw her spiraling and it wasn't a good look. I know when to pull back and I never really get too involved in their craziness or drama as I am too busy for that. Also, I never tried to stay with her for those 2-3 hours. She was the one who allowed this. I guess you can say she was a bit of a slow mover. Honestly, I didn't even want to stay that long because I always have stuff to do, but hey, it was nice while it lasted.