[QUOTE=ChicaLuv;4516676]I find that using a very direct Q&A approach has worked best for me through the years. When asked if I'd like a table dance I usually reply that 'I am more of a CR kind of guy'. To which, they almost always reply 'lets go'. I then tell them I'd like a BBBJ or FS or what ever is on my menu for that day. If they reply with anything but YES, I pass. Most of the Dancers that provide extras will tell you IF you ask them outright. However, if they start giving me vague answers, I move on. NEXT.[/QUOTE]After my disappointment with Ava today, I will try your direct approach.
