New to forum and seeking advice
Glad I stumbled across this forum and this is my first post. So, I have a thing for Asians and have been a regular at AMP's for years and had been using the BL agency which has disappeared. Been using LF but the GFE is weak and is always a crapshoot besides I like Koreans better. Any recommendations would be appreciated.
As others have said, the red flags mean you should bail out
[QUOTE=Conapp;4438301]Anyone want to share a bait and switch or when the dream got to ugly that you had to walk away?I have never had the balls to walk away from a dream. Any advice?[/QUOTE]I usually say something like "I'm sorry but I was expecting the person in the pictures" or "I'm sorry but I don't feel right about this situation," and add "I'm going to to leave. " Then I leave.
About a decade ago, I went to see a girl in DC whose pix looked good, if a little trashy. She had a good review, so I made the trek. She met me outside a rowhouse and walked me in, at which point I noticed that she smelled like a goat and the room was a disaster. I asked her to check if anyone was in the bathroom, and when she walked out, I threw a $20 on the bed and bolted out the door.
Once you've handed over the donation, you've lost control of the situation. If you really want to leave at that point, some providers might give you a full or partial refund, but if they don't, there's not much you can without breaking the law. Is $150 worth a felony rap with your picture in the paper? At that point, cut your losses and walk.
A few for your consideration
[QUOTE=BikeNova;4438757]Glad I stumbled across this forum and this is my first post. So, I have a thing for Asians and have been a regular at AMP's for years and had been using the BL agency which has disappeared. Been using LF but the GFE is weak and is always a crapshoot besides I like Koreans better. Any recommendations would be appreciated.[/QUOTE]Yes, Butterfly was great as was Memory Studio, but they had to close down for. Reasons.
1) Club Paradise [URL]www.clubparadiseusa.com[/URL].
2) Asian Gems [URL]www.asiangem.live[/URL].
3) Discreet Story [URL]www.discreetstory.com[/URL].
4) Happy Together [URL]www.happytogetherva.com[/URL].
5) Club VIP [URL]www.clubvip.escortbook.com[/URL].
That should keep you busy. Be forewarned, some of the above may be slow to respond, or may not respond at all. Be prepared to go through screening (some more rigorous than others). If you get cleared, well worth it. PM me if you need any additional information. If you are travelling to other cities and want a list, I can provide that too.
Maximus.
"What we do in life, echoes in eternity".
Why leave any money at all?
[QUOTE=Utwogood;4438906]Deciding to leave money or not is totally up to you. It just depends on how MUCH different she looks from her photos. Rationalize it this way. I didn't waste her time, it's HER fault for wasting MY time. Get it?[/QUOTE]If the pics are fake, or enough of a misrepresentation that you decide to walk away, why leave anything at all? Not sure I get the rationale of trying to come up with a formula based on how much deception was being practiced.
For me, if she looks as good or better than her pics, then I'm staying (unless some other red flag comes up). So the only reason I'd leave is if she's trying to pull a bait-and-switch. If that's the case, I'm walking away without leaving a dime. As you said in your post, it's her fault, not mine. And I'm not asking for any compensation for having my time wasted, so I figure we're all square.
The only exception I'd make is if things looked like they were heading toward a confrontation and dropping a Jackson might be the easiest way to defuse things and make an exit. But those situations are rare. Other than that, not one centavo, Amigo.
