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[QUOTE=Desparate1;1149324]I know I'm an idiot but help me. I have been seeing this girl almost every week for almost a year. She works in a seemingly HE AMP, but she allows me FS with a lot of kissing and hugging. I have eventually fallen in love with her, but I can not overcome the fact that she is a provider who may do / does many others every week. I tried to withdraw myself from this relation but when I skip a week she would call me and would act sad that I don't come any more. I really don't think she loves me but I'm just a reliable source of weekly income for her. Hasnany senior monger been through an experience like this? Any advice is really appreciated.[/QUOTE]

I don't frequent SoCal often anymore. After a report by PACOM I decided to try Emerald while in town last month. I must not have gotten Lucy because, while patient, I let my hands roam and was allowed to do so. Cute asian between mid 30s. Typical fair. 6.4.

You sir are a fucking idiot. Sorry to spoil this for you but you are paying her for sex. If anything ever did become of it and she fell in 'love' with you, it would only be until she founds someone with more cash. If she was in love with you, first you wouldn't be paying for sex, two she would be calling you more often than that.

Enjoy it, but don't let your emotions get in the way. You need to find some fresh meat, that will change your mind.

[QUOTE=Desparate1;1149324]I know I'm an idiot but help me. I have been seeing this girl almost every week for almost a year. She works in a seemingly HE AMP, but she allows me FS with a lot of kissing and hugging. I have eventually fallen in love with her, but I can not overcome the fact that she is a provider who may do / does many others every week. I tried to withdraw myself from this relation but when I skip a week she would call me and would act sad that I don't come any more. I really don't think she loves me but I'm just a reliable source of weekly income for her. Hasnany senior monger been through an experience like this? Any advice is really appreciated.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Dgoesinyours; 1149504]You sir are a fucking idiot. Sorry to spoil this for you but you are paying her for sex. If anything ever did become of it and she fell in 'love' with you, it would only be until she founds someone with more cash. If she was in love with you, first you wouldn't be paying for sex, two she would be calling you more often than that.

Enjoy it, but don't let your emotions get in the way. You need to find some fresh meat, that will change your mind.[/QUOTE]Hey Desparate1,

If you can work around this individual's tone, I have to say that his message is correct. I don't think you're an idiot, but I do think you have to let your reason overrule your emotions in this case, and in general when it comes to our hobby. Personally, I won't be with any provider more than 3 times, because I realize that there is the potential for irrational feelings to set in. I'm not saying that you should do the same, but you should be cognizant of the fact that you are susceptible to developing feelings for a provider, and you should build some mechanisms to ensure that it doesn't happen again.

Good Luck,

LM

She is most likely a provider, probably does one or more others. So, if she is actually sad to not see you, then it seems like the perfect opportunity to take her to dinner or something. If she goes for that, then maybe you got something, or she is continuing to play you.

I suppose in the end, as long as you keep giving her money, you will never know if her sadness is true, or just an act for you to come and pay her again.

Others have been down this road. Some have formed meaningful friendships inside of the parlor, others have brought the relationship outside of the parlor and some have even married the girl.

Its a dangerous game, especially if you have any assets that could be split in a community property state.

[QUOTE=Desparate1;1149324]I know I'm an idiot but help me. I have been seeing this girl almost every week for almost a year. She works in a seemingly HE AMP, but she allows me FS with a lot of kissing and hugging. I have eventually fallen in love with her, but I can not overcome the fact that she is a provider who may do / does many others every week. I tried to withdraw myself from this relation but when I skip a week she would call me and would act sad that I don't come any more. I really don't think she loves me but I'm just a reliable source of weekly income for her. Hasnany senior monger been through an experience like this? Any advice is really appreciated.[/QUOTE]

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So you must be jelous because why are calling him a fucking idiot, he has a girl who may truly like him, don't bash him for that. He was asking for advice, if you can't ask for advice on this site then what? I am preatty sure there are guys on here that have had this same situation, I know I have. Ya you may end up paying for at the beggining but that doesn't mean you will pay for it outside of the AMP. Remember this at some point we all pay for it in one way or another.

Asian Lover.

[QUOTE=Dgoesinyours; 1149504]You sir are a fucking idiot. Sorry to spoil this for you but you are paying her for sex. If anything ever did become of it and she fell in 'love' with you, it would only be until she founds someone with more cash. If she was in love with you, first you wouldn't be paying for sex, two she would be calling you more often than that.

Enjoy it, but don't let your emotions get in the way. You need to find some fresh meat, that will change your mind. [/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Desparate1;1149324]I know I'm an idiot but help me. I have been seeing this girl almost every week for almost a year. She works in a seemingly HE AMP, but she allows me FS with a lot of kissing and hugging. I have eventually fallen in love with her, but I can not overcome the fact that she is a provider who may do / does many others every week. I tried to withdraw myself from this relation but when I skip a week she would call me and would act sad that I don't come any more. I really don't think she loves me but I'm just a reliable source of weekly income for her. Hasnany senior monger been through an experience like this? Any advice is really appreciated.[/QUOTE]I've "dated" strippers and massage girls outside of work. Dated meaning. Overnights at their (or my) place. NEVER paying for anything except the occasional dinner. First of all. If she isn't willing to see you for free outside of work or if she's never even brought it up after a year. You're just a payday. (read again. YOU'RE JUST A PAYDAY).

Secondly. Even if she does all of these things you're still headed for a train wreck. Professional girls are flakey, selfish, and mercenary. Have your fun if you can, but as I've learned the hard way. Keep your feelings in check. We're all just the thing at the moment for these girls and they'll move on to bigger better things the second the opportunity arises. These are not settle down with girls.

Nah I think falling in love with a provider would constitute as being an idiot. If she's breaking you off freebies then fine, maybe there's something to be had there. But if you're going back week after week paying normal rates then she's owning you. We've all been there and had regulars and favorites, but you have to keep a clear head and proper perspective about things. We're all different, but I couldn't even fathom wanting to take a provider out to dinner.

Decided to stop by an establishment that use to go by the name of MC Health. I pass by this location on a regular basis and each time there seems to be less and less signage that would indicate such a place exists, or is even receptive for one's business, for the exception of the ubiquitous, dimly luminous, 'Open' sign.

Having not been there in over a year, I decided to investigate, as to the mystery of the missing plaque.

While I opened the door and before my eyes could adjust to the shadowy lit waiting room, I couldn't help but notice the universal aroma that announces to ones' self, 'YES, this is an AMP', very Similar to walking into a VFW hall with its' own unique smells of stale booze, oxidized wood and tobacco. Signage or no signage, you know where you are!

As my eyes modified their gaze into the murky surroundings, I was immediately taken aback by an 8' by 10' signed, photograph portrait of our 39th President of the United States of America.

Could it be, the one and only Jimmy Carter?

My fellow mongers, we live in very interesting times. The possibility that JC himself might have shelled a few of his peanuts right here, in this locale, right in the backyard of our 37th president, Tricky Dick! Well, there should be some sort of historical roadside marker, making this fact better known. One would think!

Just imagining our EX pres conjuring up all those Middle east peace proposals, whilst enjoying a nice soothing inner thigh rub, with the occasional ball graze tease to his Middle waist. It makes you wonder what other kinds of 'Piece' proposals he was really pondering.

I was greeted by a 20s-30s above average looking, presumably Chinese women who said her name was Shu-she, or maybe it was Susie. Gave 60 for the hour and was lead to the massage closet, thinking to myself, this could be the very same closet Carter found his 'inner' Jimmy in! What a thought!

Susie wasn't the talkative type, other than the occasional 'You OK? ' or the ever popular, 'too hard? ' these banterings pretty much summed up the conversational part of our speed-dating session. I did notice however, the closer she got to the 'more tired' parts, of my anatomy, the more frequent the 'You Ok? ' phrase came into play.

It was about half way through our date I began to suggest via, hand swipes on the back of her calf and the interior of the thigh, this massage needed a more presidential outcome.

I perceived that something wasn't quite right though, especially when her 'you okay? ' chirpings, transformed very slightly into 'You Cop? ' squawks. I assured her I was not, yet she insisted I prove otherwise.

I thought to myself in this situation, WWJD? Much like our former caring leader of the free world, I began to gently massage simultaneously both sides of the divide, bringing a sense of peace and stability to her regions and thus moving forward in creating a more perfect union. With the peace treaty invoked, the celebrations began!

She started out gently stroking my mallet until it reached its' full potential, moments later, she almost imperceptibly slipped on the dinner jacket. So far so good.

She was a little rushed in the BJ department however. Her technique produced a sound that was very reminiscent of a miniature drain plunger, desperately trying to dislodge some Ken Doll excremental dumpage from Barbie's Playhouse bathroom shitter.

Needless to say we moved on to another position, which would allow me to control the tempo.

I opted for DS, which she performed quite adeptly and as she was getting into position, she was able to somehow mimic the body movements of a gecko. Hands and feet fanned out, with those movements Lizards do, alternating right leg / left hand-left leg / right hand. Quite impressive and certainly a first in all my years of experience, and with that, we Crescendoed.

And as I was lead back to the reception room, once again I glanced over towards the portrait and whispered to myself. 'Thank you Mr. President. '

Baggens

Rocco, G. Hornet, and LaMuerte, Thanks for the feedback. I appreciate it very much. Cheers, HD2

Whenever a girl brings me to orgasm, I feel bonded to her afterwards. The more times I come in her, the more attached I feel. This is true whether she's a volunteer or a professional. (Just speaking for myself here.) Some people are wonderful to feel connected to, others, maybe not.

-Lift Her Up.

[QUOTE=Horn Dog Too;1149651]Rocco, G. Hornet, and LaMuerte, Thanks for the feedback. I appreciate it very much. Cheers, HD2[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Dildo Baggens;1149620]'Thank you Mr. President. ' [/QUOTE]Haha. Good read. Thanks for that. What was the total damage? Usual? Curious, because I've been to an AMP or to in Whittier (HJ only) and I seem to recall rates being a little cheaper out yonder.

6+$ was the damage and bring a flashlight, it's frickin dark in that place. You may not be able to see your money.

Baggens.

[QUOTE=Pacom555;1149686]Haha. Good read. Thanks for that. What was the total damage? Usual? Curious, because I've been to an AMP or to in Whittier (HJ only) and I seem to recall rates being a little cheaper out yonder.[/QUOTE]

Thanks all for the advice. I just needed a shock to get back to reality. The funny thing is that I just got a phone call from my girl reminding of our "date" tomorrow. When I tried to pass on her she turned on that powerful female weapon of being on the verge of sobbing and that I promised this and that. Just wanted to add that she is willing to go out with me and she shares all her family issues with me. I will let you know the outcome of this story as soon as I find out. Thanks all again.