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Let's see you see a sugar baby and decide that the most you would spend on her is $400 for PPM.

Do you:

A) Say you're interested in PPM, and offer $400 or less? If less, how much less?

B) Say you're interested in PPM, then let them make the first move on $, countering with $400 or less (and again, if less, how much less)?

At the risk of being a "market maker" and not wanting to make the first move, I've been hesitant to throw out the first number. 9 times out of 10, the ask from the SB is high of my threshold, and I have to back them down (to their disappointment). I'm debating leading with an offer (either at or below my threshold) that may be higher than their "lowest" PPM. Wanted to see if folks had a preferred method to get to an agreed price with the least amount of disappointment.

[QUOTE=PoolPlayInTool;7388621][URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/bcc8b72a-a3ad-4820-97ce-9a08efd267d2[/URL]

[URL]https://tryst.link/escort/daphneaustin[/URL]

Coffee Date introduction $250 $1200 for 90 minutes! So maybe she gets guys to pay this, IMO she is a $400 - $500 an hour escort max. There are girls.

That you can get for $500 an hour that look a lot better then she. Plus this girl has an attitude and GPS.

That coffee date Into better include a BJ!! .[/QUOTE]She also doesn't take well to rejection. She told me to "enjoy getting herpies" when I mentioned I'd be going in a different direction at a lower price point. What a mess.

[QUOTE=RalphReilly;7388664]She also doesn't take well to rejection. She told me to "enjoy getting herpies" when I mentioned I'd be going in a different direction at a lower price point. What a mess.[/QUOTE]Were you seeing her?? And if so were you covered? There is no way I would not be covered with any girl except for oral. The Herpies comment was totally lame.

[QUOTE=RalphReilly;7388663]Let's see you see a sugar baby and decide that the most you would spend on her is $400 for PPM.

Do you:

A) Say you're interested in PPM, and offer $400 or less? If less, how much less?

B) Say you're interested in PPM, then let them make the first move on $, countering with $400 or less (and again, if less, how much less)?

At the risk of being a "market maker" and not wanting to make the first move, I've been hesitant to throw out the first number. 9 times out of 10, the ask from the SB is high of my threshold, and I have to back them down (to their disappointment). I'm debating leading with an offer (either at or below my threshold) that may be higher than their "lowest" PPM. Wanted to see if folks had a preferred method to get to an agreed price with the least amount of disappointment.[/QUOTE]I always ask them to name their price and then negotiate if needed.

[QUOTE=PoolPlayInTool;7388755]Were you seeing her?? And if so were you covered? There is no way I would not be covered with any girl except for oral. The Herpies comment was totally lame.[/QUOTE]1 ppm when she was much less expensive. Still not worth it.

Covered (always for me) but I think she was more referring to the hypothetical skanks I'd be replacing her with.

[QUOTE=RalphReilly;7388663]Let's see you see a sugar baby and decide that the most you would spend on her is $400 for PPM.

Do you:

A) Say you're interested in PPM, and offer $400 or less? If less, how much less?

B) Say you're interested in PPM, then let them make the first move on $, countering with $400 or less (and again, if less, how much less)?

At the risk of being a "market maker" and not wanting to make the first move, I've been hesitant to throw out the first number. 9 times out of 10, the ask from the SB is high of my threshold, and I have to back them down (to their disappointment). I'm debating leading with an offer (either at or below my threshold) that may be higher than their "lowest" PPM. Wanted to see if folks had a preferred method to get to an agreed price with the least amount of disappointment.[/QUOTE]I spend some time just chatting first. A lot of the "real" girls on there don't have a "price". Yeah, maybe the last guy gave her WAY too much, but if you build some connection, they often take less if they actually enjoy your company.

It does get a bit awkward when you finally have to talk pricing. And you don't want to waste both of your time if she's looking for way more than you are willing to spend. So I don't wait too long. Kinda depends how flirty the conversation is going. If she has no redeeming personality traits, then I just transition right to price talk to either move on or cut her loose. If they say a number that is way off, I just respectfully say we are too far apart on that and wish them well.

I've actually never paid more than 250. And that was to bombshell college girl. Usually its much less. The girl I'm seeing now doesn't even want money.

So basically, you get a better deal if you treat them like a human. But there is always another girl out there so if the price isn't what you are looking for, just move on and don't be afraid about if you "played it right".

[QUOTE=SlowHands78;7389060]I spend some time just chatting first. A lot of the "real" girls on there don't have a "price". Yeah, maybe the last guy gave her WAY too much, but if you build some connection, they often take less if they actually enjoy your company.

It does get a bit awkward when you finally have to talk pricing. And you don't want to waste both of your time if she's looking for way more than you are willing to spend. So I don't wait too long. Kinda depends how flirty the conversation is going. If she has no redeeming personality traits, then I just transition right to price talk to either move on or cut her loose. If they say a number that is way off, I just respectfully say we are too far apart on that and wish them well.

I've actually never paid more than 250. And that was to bombshell college girl. Usually its much less. The girl I'm seeing now doesn't even want money.

So basically, you get a better deal if you treat them like a human. But there is always another girl out there so if the price isn't what you are looking for, just move on and don't be afraid about if you "played it right".[/QUOTE]Very well said I agree 100%.