[QUOTE=BamBam;5889759]I sympathize. This happened to me in the past. This is why I only share with "contributing seniors. " I have been challenged on this in the past. I put up a post explaining why I have that as a policy. However, even when I share with people I have reason to trust, I only rarely share everything I know or stuff that could make it possible to trace it back to a specific exchange or encounter. Just be prepared to out the bad guys to anyone who DM's you privately. There are some profiles here that have pretended to be buddy buddy with me but never engage in an equal exchange. I never refuse to engage but I only accumulate trust over time. You should do the same. Thanks for sharing your story. BAM.[/QUOTE]Agree with all of above. Adding additional perspective:
1. On occasion some male members have shared this websites url, posts, and pms with a sugarbaby in hopes to endear themselves with the girl. "See what these guys are saying about you? I'm not like them. You can trust me. " This kind of shenanigans can turn a good thing for you into a pile of unwanted trouble and all-around poop.
2. Only post info about SBs you are done seeing, didn't make an arrangement with, have no interest in, disengaged from, are scammers, have GPS, online only, other negatives, etc. Why? If #1 above happens regarding your posts about this type of info it will have no impact on you.
3. Never post info about a SB you are actively engaged with. Seeing or negotiating or courting. Why? See #1 above. Once you get bitten by #1 above #2 makes all the sense in the world.
4. Share info with seniors you trust, you have followed their posts, have confirmed most of their info is on point for your interests, have helped you and you're returning a favor, or for whatever your personal reason. Why? See #1 above.
