Long time lurker making a contribution
Like the title says, I'm a long time lurker on this site but I thought it high time for me to join and make a contribution. Your reviews have landed me some great ladies and helped me avoid some awful ones.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c5258b05-88bf-4430-a459-b6acee0fade6[/URL]
Victori baby-BBFS CIP 700- negotiable and fun.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/c37c1515-00ea-45f6-9f3b-00b2d68f0cf5[/URL]
Peach- 600 covered.
1 K bare CIP.
Didn't partake.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/8f331b33-817e-43d2-9fe8-4603854e9fac[/URL]
Angel- 900 Didn't partake.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/d7ecdda9-eaf8-44dc-8e73-4aec918dc5be[/URL]
800 Didn't partake.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/783993bc-9ed0-47dd-9654-56b98af3ba18[/URL]
Really excited to meet up but got sketchy vibes, tries to make you take to a restaurant right by her house.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/a6342982-210a-4caa-84c0-964ea6e375cd[/URL]
Asian Irvin 700 BBFS seem possibly but didn't partake.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/487a85ac-37f0-4d5e-b7c6-8b9d1e2f007b[/URL]
Throat monster- absolutely a beast if you just want to be drained.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/b6738b1a-d4ee-41e9-bd3e-d290b47c770d[/URL]
Superfun bb- no anal, condoms 600 didn't partake.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/b7753e57-1ed9-4a89-8651-ecfcd0dd2750[/URL]
Weird girl free BBFS CIP.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/fdd85284-35a9-4c85-b722-8bf29225f452[/URL]
8-10 years old pics didn't partake.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/68242f40-01bd-46f4-9f68-a0bd06d1754a[/URL]
500 ppm covered didn't partake.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/db500ac2-ccee-4b72-8355-7dc2d57de87a[/URL]
$800 min Wasn't feeling her.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f251d314-23b7-4878-9266-6a3cd274157e[/URL]
Scam. Wants money first.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/48d52fd4-7465-4354-97cb-7991ff68e5e8[/URL]
Scam chick 2nd profile.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ad8fd4fe-2f49-440a-8ac7-6f9ae3b10fff[/URL]
Scam chick profile number 3.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f0fc1732-8b56-461f-a88d-32132e060318[/URL]
1 K BBFS CIP GPS.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/32f59e15-c288-4f6c-8a97-cff0deeb33a2[/URL]
1200 covered GPS.
Basic Guidelines for Successful Sugaring
Here are some basic guidelines for newer SDs to save time and money, remain safe, and increase your chances of success:
1. Never send any money before meeting. Not. One. Cent. Only scammers will ever ask for money before meeting. Never accept "online arrangements until we can meet," or send money "to show that you're serious," or fall for sob stories about overdue bills or emergency car repairs, etc.
2. Never pay for a meet and greet: no play, no pay. Anyone who demands this is a scammer and a hustler, no ordinary girl or experienced sugar baby will request this. Your time is far more valuable than that of any entitled bottom feeder.
3. Should the profile not have any full body pictures, or use all sorts of wacky filters, request unedited full body photos or a video call before meeting. Fatties and fuglies will zoom in on their face and use deceptive angles and filters to conceal how gross they truly are. Don't let an overfed catfish waste your time.
4. Set expectations ahead of time, be clear and confident about what you are looking for. Never settle for less, or allow her to move the goal posts. Girls appreciate clarity and your direction.
5. Don't get stuck on any one chick, expecting her to be "the one. " Many girls can be fickle, and may disappear without notice. Always keep more in the pipeline.
6. Make sure to tell your potential SB that "you are looking for a regular connection with someone that appreciates you and wants to make you happy, someone who will do whatever it takes to please you. " This is to ensure she gives it her all. Whether you actually intend to continue seeing her is up to you, but this keeps away time wasters and discourages bad lays.
7. Meet & greets should be in a setting with an easy out, preferably a casual public setting. Meet for coffee / tea, ice cream, or drinks. A sit down lunch or dinner can be awkward if a fat and / or ugly chick shows up, or if the girl turns out to be a rude pig with a nasty attitude. You select the place to meet: don't have a gold digger or rinser drag you to a high end restaurant, or a rob direct you to a place where your defenses are neutralized.
8. Never accept a date where a "gay friend" or "sister" shows up with her "for her safety. " This is a hustler, a dinner who're who wants to treat her buddy or her pimp to a restaurant meal at your expense, or shake you down in some other way. If a normal girl were really concerned about her safety, she would not agree to meet you under any circumstance.
9. Do not engage in altercations or arguments with scammers, hustlers, rinsers, dinner who'res or any other bottom feeders when messaging or texting. They may retaliate by reporting you to the site under false pretenses, and try to get you suspended or banned. Simply stop engaging them, report them if inclined to do so, and move on to the next POT.
10. Don't be afraid to discuss expectations beforehand, but move the conversation off site as soon as you can. Use neutral terms on the site, and at the beginning of texting to avoid bans and suspensions. Once the girl demonstrates she's DTF, be as transparent as you like.
11. Never pay any cash at the beginning of the date. Always after visiting the FC to avoid cash and dash, or bait and switch situations.
12. Keep talking and texting to an efficient minimum, moving the conversation to an in-person date as soon as you can. Otherwise momentum will be lost, and time wasted. Your POT is getting countless offers, and will accept someone else's proposal if you don't retain her interest.
13. You call the shots, you set the terms, this is your arrangement. You are a sugar daddy, not a trick. There are more prostitutes on the site since FOSTA made it harder for them to operate elsewhere, but never let them set the tone. Never accept a prostitute's rules, or more specifically, her pimp's rules. If she drops escort terminology or rules, don't engage her, or risk being banned. Keep her in the streets of Skid Row for the chumps.
14. Remain tenacious and alert: online dating can be a minefield, but there are still gems to be found. Trust your instincts: if something feels off, it probably is. If things feel great, keep a guarded optimism until reaching the FC.
15. Last but definitely not least: Have fun and stay positive!! Approach each interaction on its own terms. Have a friendly and approachable profile: use well lit photos of you in a number of interesting environments or engaging in entertaining activities. Have fully filled out sections in coherent sentences that convey your personality and what you're looking for in very general, easy to understand terms. Any negativity or complaints in your profile can deter a connection with quality girls. Keeping a comfortable, playful environment and good vibes in every step of your interaction with your POT will increase your chances of success.
Feel free to share more tips on this thread. Good luck!
