"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

Met the first one, went to FC, she's not into much, cute and nice body, nice person, but probably not repeating,

[QUOTE=LostSoul;4496341]Did you end up meeting her?

I scheduled a meet up with both of these, hoping at-least one of them will show up. And I was wrong!

We setup a time and location. At last minute, by the time I reached the location, she asks if we can meet at some other Starbucks to which I agreed to. And I was almost at new location, get a message that "something came up and can't meet". WTF!

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/12d257de-6cdb-4fee-8925-f8fa8d6ab138[/URL]

This one I was chatting for 2 weeks; She even complained that lot of guys ghosted on her and desperate to meet one. Scheduled a time to meet at a restaurant but no show and no response to texts. Later in the night, get a classical response, she forgot charger, phone died, came home late and so tired that she can't meet!! Total time waster.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/d6befd51-a770-49e9-87cd-fc2064062a65[/URL][/QUOTE].

Met up with princess.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/d6befd51-a770-49e9-87cd-fc2064062a65.[/URL]

Ask for full body pics. She's on the chubbier side. BBBJCIM, which is what I'm in to. $$. Attitude really wasn't great. Not bad but I don't think I'd repeat.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/messages/inbox/2c70f699-0f8c-434d-8a4e-6d30e39bc131[/URL]

Cute. Asian. Nice body. Glasses. All things I am attracted to. Really boring personality though. Dtf $$ 5, but I only dreamt of some some quick car action. Bbbjtcim. $$. Really warm mouth. Seems like she could be high volume. Won't repeat.

Just realized I posted my inbox url. Here's her profile: [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/d26e45d4-aa74-4c28-9980-5079bdfcd62d[/URL].

[QUOTE=WaterBoi;4499005][URL]https://www.seeking.com/messages/inbox/2c70f699-0f8c-434d-8a4e-6d30e39bc131[/URL]

Cute. Asian. Nice body. Glasses. All things I am attracted to. Really boring personality though. Dtf $$ 5, but I only dreamt of some some quick car action. Bbbjtcim. $$. Really warm mouth. Seems like she could be high volume. Won't repeat.[/QUOTE]

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/d7dcaee2-beec-4248-9291-0fd143d95420[/URL]

Says her and her friend will meet in the FC for 5 bills each. Seems legit and definitely tempting, but way above my budget.

[QUOTE=WaterBoi;4499485][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/d7dcaee2-beec-4248-9291-0fd143d95420[/URL]

Says her and her friend will meet in the FC for 5 bills each. Seems legit and definitely tempting, but way above my budget.[/QUOTE]I've met a lot of 18 year olds in the FC over the years. Never found one that would be worth five bills. I'd say 90 percent of them were so inexperienced that they needed some coaching in one thing or another. Of course some guys may like that aspect depending on why teens appeal to them.

Disclaimer: I can't post link to her profile because she blocked me already. LOL.

I did a M & G with CodeNameBB today, and everything was ok. I had no intention of perusing her further because I got the impression her allowance expectations were going to be too high for my taste. As we were wrapping up the m&g and about to go our separate ways she asked if I had a gift for her. First of all I never give a gift at the m&g. Second thing is that it was never discussed, because if it had come up prior to meeting then we would have never met.

I told her that I didn't have a gift and that we hadn't discussed it. She agreed we hadn't talked about it prior, but said we could fix that. "What do you mean 'we can fix that'" I said very astonished. She said we could stop by an ATM. And THAT'S how the Meet 'and Greet ended! She said a gift would show her I'm serious. The fact that I showed up at the m&g shows I'm serious.

She had just implied that arrangements shouldn't seem transactional and then she wants me to get her a "gift" from the ATM. How transactional is that?

[QUOTE=WaterBoi;4499485][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/d7dcaee2-beec-4248-9291-0fd143d95420[/URL]

Says her and her friend will meet in the FC for 5 bills each. Seems legit and definitely tempting, but way above my budget.[/QUOTE]Are you sure she was interested in something sexual? She told me she would gladly meet me for $$ but has no interest in anything physical with anyone.

If you do a reverse image search, it pulls up an online add for Jean's from Urban Outiffters in Canada.

[QUOTE=WaterBoi;4499485][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/d7dcaee2-beec-4248-9291-0fd143d95420[/URL]

Says her and her friend will meet in the FC for 5 bills each. Seems legit and definitely tempting, but way above my budget.[/QUOTE]

I'd avoid this one at all cost. We talked and she seemed really normal but was very quick to move the conversation to the when and how much subject. We agreed on an amount $$ and she was able to host in her shared apartment in downtown Richmond. She sent several nudes and they were very appealing so I took the plunge. I arrived at her apartment and we were alone although she said she hosts when her roommates are home also. Physically she looks like her pics in her profile but naked her body definitely wasn't as fit as the nudes she sent. We had agreed on bb and everything was on the table. Started with BBBJ which was absolutely the worst BJ I've ever had. She has the worst gag reflex I've ever seen and twice I thought she was going to completely vomit on me. I quickly decided to use a condom because she gave me a strong utr or even pro vibe so I strapped it on and went in mish and finished. Got dressed and handed her the money and left.

She texted me later and said it was fun and when can we do it again. I explained to her I was unhappy and that I wouldn't see her again for $$ and we'd have to renegotiate as I'd still be open to seeing her for quick visits just because it's convenient and she hosts. She got super offended and went crazy on me threatening me ect. I blocked her. See her at your own risk guys.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/f37193fb-588e-4af0-9243-e1cfd32ac3ad[/URL]

Yeah, that's how the conversation started with me too. $$ for lunch. Hah!

I just kept at it and she opened up. 10 bills (5 each) was just too much. The pic on her profile is not her, but she looks similar. White, slim, shorter than her profile says though. We were texting and she sent pics of her and her friend who is short, slim, AA, and cute. Some guys can swing 1 K like it's no big deal; I'm just not one of them.

Good luck if you reach out and please report back!

[QUOTE=ItsAHobby45;4500056]Are you sure she was interested in something sexual? She told me she would gladly meet me for $$ but has no interest in anything physical with anyone.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=WaterBoi;4500661]Yeah, that's how the conversation started with me too. $$ for lunch. Hah!

I just kept at it and she opened up. 10 bills (5 each) was just too much. The pic on her profile is not her, but she looks similar. White, slim, shorter than her profile says though. We were texting and she sent pics of her and her friend who is short, slim, AA, and cute. Some guys can swing 1 K like it's no big deal; I'm just not one of them.

Good luck if you reach out and please report back![/QUOTE]Talked to her again. She's agreed to a HJ for 5 bills but says that all she's willing to do. Definitely seems like a waste of time considering there are many 19-22 college girls willing to go to FC for half that. I left 18 off that lost because that's my unicorn that I just can't seem to nail down. I've had almost 19-22 yo in the FC in the 6 weeks I've been on SA but I can't seem to bag a 18. Anyone wants to point me in the direction I'd greatly appreciate it.

Been in kind of a dry spell lately. Down to two regulars, one (a 23 yr old waitress) I just have no appetite for right now for reasons unknown, the other (28 yr old caregiver) was in her "time" last week. Had 4 m / g's scheduled -- 3 flakes and one who was willing to FC for the smallest of gifts, but just did nothing for me so I passed. Then Sunday had a very quick m / g with a 34 old stunner / spinner who turned out to be 5 X better looking than her pics. Tall, trim, blonde. Daisy Mae tight blue jean shorts, bare midriff and not an ounce of fat on her belly. FC date at her place for tomorrow morning for "whatever I feel comfortable with. " Why am I (twice her age and no George Clooney to be sure) so blessed? Well, she said, "if a guy's not bad looking and treats me nicely and can make me laugh, Sent me her address tonight, so I'm pretty sure this is real.

Plus in a demonstration of how crazy this world of young pie makes me (us?) I'm trying to schedule 2 m / gs with a 28 year old hottie and a 21 year old total stunner for tomorrow afternoon. In one sense being retired sucks, because I don't have business meetings and travel and such as cover, but on the other hand I can often meet these girls mornings and afternoons when no one else can.

So, things are looking up.

Baileybaby99.

Can't meet until Jan 2 when her mom gets off vacation but would love for you to send her money for living expenses and baby items. Doesn't have a car or a phone. Time waster.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/0a8a771e-96f9-4d9c-97ac-796068d4a29f[/URL]

Lilync.

VCU student. Tried hard to get this one to meet me. I'd pay just about anything for this one. We moved to text and she seemed to be interested and agreed to a meeting once things settled down with school. I questioned if she was even real and she sent me a custom picture with my name written on a piece of paper. We texted for a few days and she ghosted. I've tried to communicate with her again with zero luck. Maybe you guys will have more luck. She logs in regularly on SA so she's still active.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/b955b1f0-641c-4d09-9eba-2b2b351621a9[/URL]

Mia1254.

Mia is a community college student in Richmond. We talked via text about meeting and things kind of went cold for a while even though she is my perfect type. She sent other pictures so I knew she was real. After not talking to her for a week or two I sent a random message saying I'd pay her $$$$ to meet up with her. She quickly accepted and she met me in the FC the next afternoon. She's a very sweet girl. We spent a few hours together. It was true GFE. We talked and laughed and had a great time. Eventually we got to business and it was great. Her head game is amazing and she let me go in raw and in any position I wanted. She was perfectly fine with cip. I've met with her 2 times since and had great experiences both times. I've debated keeping her as my regular dtf but at $$$$ I think I can fine a better value. If you guys are able to land this one please treat her good as she is very sweet.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/2cc1d3f8-5ad9-415c-96b3-faca0705ae6f[/URL]

Toocharmy4 u.

She's been reviewed before when she had a different SA account but I'll review her again. This girl is dtf and hosts in her apartment. I think she's more of an utr but she actually has a professional job so idk. She's a bit more weathered than her profile picture suggests but she still has a nice body and is actually a pretty nice girl. I've seen her 4-5 times and she's open to anything you want to do to her and is fine with everything raw as long as no cip. Our first meeting was $$ and all the subsequent ones were only $. Her head game is good but that's always a bit rushed. She will take a pounding in any position you want to give it to her and actually asked me to try to back 9 one time which was decent but not really my thing. I planned to use her as a cheap fix whenever I was traveling up north as she lives just north of Richmond right off i95 but the last time I went to her house I walked in and her daughter was there which is a big no no for me. To make matters worse she walked me upstairs and into her daughters bed because her mattress was downstairs in the living room for some reason. This just made me feel very uncomfortable so I won't see her again. Be forewarned, after you see her the first time she will hit you up for money towards future visits and use her daughter as the reason for needing $25 here and there. I always helped her and sent money via Venmo and to her defense she was always asking me to come see her so she could get caught up on what was owed. She never flaked on me.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/258717c6-04ea-4827-8603-690db2fecb9d[/URL]

I'll review some of my others that I have taken to the FC as I have more time. I'll also review the time wasters and pic sellers. Be safe guys.

[QUOTE=ItsAHobby45;4502787]Baileybaby99.

Can't meet until Jan 2 when her mom gets off vacation but would love for you to send her money for living expenses and baby items. Doesn't have a car or a phone. Time waster.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/0a8a771e-96f9-4d9c-97ac-796068d4a29f[/URL]

Lilync.

VCU student. Tried hard to get this one to meet me. I'd pay just about anything for this one. We moved to text and she seemed to be interested and agreed to a meeting once things settled down with school. I questioned if she was even real and she sent me a custom picture with my name written on a piece of paper. We texted for a few days and she ghosted. I've tried to communicate with her again with zero luck. Maybe you guys will have more luck. She logs in regularly on SA so she's still active.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/b955b1f0-641c-4d09-9eba-2b2b351621a9[/URL]

Mia1254.

Mia is a community college student in Richmond. We talked via text about meeting and things kind of went cold for a while even though she is my perfect type. She sent other pictures so I knew she was real. After not talking to her for a week or two I sent a random message saying I'd pay her $$$$ to meet up with her. She quickly accepted and she met me in the FC the next afternoon. She's a very sweet girl. We spent a few hours together. It was true GFE. We talked and laughed and had a great time. Eventually we got to business and it was great. Her head game is amazing and she let me go in raw and in any position I wanted. She was perfectly fine with cip. I've met with her 2 times since and had great experiences both times. I've debated keeping her as my regular dtf but at $$$$ I think I can fine a better value. If you guys are able to land this one please treat her good as she is very sweet.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/2cc1d3f8-5ad9-415c-96b3-faca0705ae6f[/URL]

Toocharmy4 u.

She's been reviewed before when she had a different SA account but I'll review her again. This girl is dtf and hosts in her apartment. I think she's more of an utr but she actually has a professional job so idk. She's a bit more weathered than her profile picture suggests but she still has a nice body and is actually a pretty nice girl. I've seen her 4-5 times and she's open to anything you want to do to her and is fine with everything raw as long as no cip. Our first meeting was $$ and all the subsequent ones were only $. Her head game is good but that's always a bit rushed. She will take a pounding in any position you want to give it to her and actually asked me to try to back 9 one time which was decent but not really my thing. I planned to use her as a cheap fix whenever I was traveling up north as she lives just north of Richmond right off i95 but the last time I went to her house I walked in and her daughter was there which is a big no no for me. To make matters worse she walked me upstairs and into her daughters bed because her mattress was downstairs in the living room for some reason. This just made me feel very uncomfortable so I won't see her again. Be forewarned, after you see her the first time she will hit you up for money towards future visits and use her daughter as the reason for needing $25 here and there. I always helped her and sent money via Venmo and to her defense she was always asking me to come see her so she could get caught up on what was owed. She never flaked on me.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/258717c6-04ea-4827-8603-690db2fecb9d[/URL]

I'll review some of my others that I have taken to the FC as I have more time. I'll also review the time wasters and pic sellers. Be safe guys.[/QUOTE]I had the exact same experience with lilync so she's either waiting for Ryan Reynolds or is just a time waster.

[QUOTE=RavensFan2012;4503391]I had the exact same experience with lilync so she's either waiting for Ryan Reynolds or is just a time waster.[/QUOTE]It's such a shame. We talked via text for a long time so o really though I was making progress. I've been after her since I initially signed up for SA. I'd probably pay her 1 k for a long evening with her just because she's been my goal for so long.

[QUOTE=ItsAHobby45;4503397]It's such a shame. We talked via text for a long time so o really though I was making progress. I've been after her since I initially signed up for SA. I'd probably pay her 1 k for a long evening with her just because she's been my goal for so long.[/QUOTE]Same experience. Also sent pictures and talked about getting together but when it came time to schedule. Ghost or something came up. Best of luck! Might just be around for online entertainment and to waste time.

[QUOTE=LostSoul;4504020]1 k!! Of-course that kinda money should get you true GFE and whatever you want. No wonder why girls aren't budging lately when they can find high-roller POTs like you. LOL.[/QUOTE]I'm very aware that I'll infect this girl with GPS if I'm able to seal the deal for 1 k and it's very unfortunate because I'd only see her once for that much $. She just happened to be my very first target when I got started with this hobby so I don't think I'll be content until I reach that goal. Unfortunately for me she won't respond to texts / messages from me at all so I think I'll just have to accept defeat. The site is just so full or 22-25 yo girls that are seasoned in the bowl and I've grown bored of them and the number of 18-19 yo that are interested in anything physical is just so limited. Every 18-19 yo I message either doesn't read the message or just wants a platonic relationship and to sell pics / vids.

Edit: I just noticed you quoted me about Mia and not Lily. I paid Mia 4$ each of the 3 times I met her. Not 1k.

My bad. Some reason I read it as 1 K; probably my morning blues; Haha.

[QUOTE=ItsAHobby45;4504040]I'm very aware that I'll infect this girl with GPS if I'm able to seal the deal for 1 k and it's very unfortunate because I'd only see her once for that much $. She just happened to be my very first target when I got started with this hobby so I don't think I'll be content until I reach that goal. Unfortunately for me she won't respond to texts / messages from me at all so I think I'll just have to accept defeat. The site is just so full or 22-25 yo girls that are seasoned in the bowl and I've grown bored of them and the number of 18-19 yo that are interested in anything physical is just so limited. Every 18-19 yo I message either doesn't read the message or just wants a platonic relationship and to sell pics / vids.

Edit: I just noticed you quoted me about Mia and not Lily. I paid Mia 4$ each of the 3 times I met her. Not 1k.[/QUOTE].

Never tried the sugar bowl before but thinking of giving it a shot. I always assumed I needed a lot more money but based on the posts I'm reading, it looks like it's not what I thought. I do have one question though, what is an FC? I read back a few pages but couldn't quite figure out what it means. I kept coming back to Fun (Fuck) cabin. Do some of you own a place that you can bring girls to? I would have to rely on hotels, AirBnB or car dates.

Thanks.

RR.

[QUOTE=RomanRich;4504399]Never tried the sugar bowl before but thinking of giving it a shot. I always assumed I needed a lot more money but based on the posts I'm reading, it looks like it's not what I thought. I do have one question though, what is an FC? I read back a few pages but couldn't quite figure out what it means. I kept coming back to Fun (Fuck) cabin. Do some of you own a place that you can bring girls to? I would have to rely on hotels, AirBnB or car dates.

Thanks.

RR.[/QUOTE]Fuck Chamber. Wherever you bang them, your place, hotel, apartment, etc.

[QUOTE=RomanRich;4504399]Never tried the sugar bowl before but thinking of giving it a shot. I always assumed I needed a lot more money but based on the posts I'm reading, it looks like it's not what I thought. I do have one question though, what is an FC? I read back a few pages but couldn't quite figure out what it means. I kept coming back to Fun (Fuck) cabin. Do some of you own a place that you can bring girls to? I would have to rely on hotels, AirBnB or car dates.

Thanks.

RR.[/QUOTE]In addition to $ you will need a lot of time and patience, especially with the young SBs. Good luck.

[QUOTE=RomanRich;4504399]Never tried the sugar bowl before but thinking of giving it a shot. I always assumed I needed a lot more money but based on the posts I'm reading, it looks like it's not what I thought. I do have one question though, what is an FC? I read back a few pages but couldn't quite figure out what it means. I kept coming back to Fun (Fuck) cabin. Do some of you own a place that you can bring girls to? I would have to rely on hotels, AirBnB or car dates.

Thanks.

RR.[/QUOTE]I'm not sure that this is a hobby that I'd consider inexpensive to participate in. I'm sure there are ways to save money here and there but from what I've learned in my short 7 ish weeks is you have to pay to play. Rough numbers here but I had 14 meeting at a FC with 7 girls ranging from 19-22 yo in 6 weeks and have spent about 4200 in total between the girls and hotel rooms and SA membership. 3 of the girls provided the FC so there was no cost involved for those. I don't meet these girls anywhere except the FC so there have been no lunch / dinner / coffee expenses. The one I did meet at tropical smoothie I didn't ever get to the FC. I have bought a couple of the girls a vibrator because they said they never owned one and agreed to toy play during the meeting.

You also have to look at the time that is involved as time is money. I'm a relatively young and decent looking guy and it takes a ton of time to convince these girls to meet you. I've messaged hundreds of girls within 100 miles of Richmond and spent many hours talking to the ones that message back. Sure you'll find one that will agree to meet you in the first 10 texts but those are really just pros advertising on SA. I know one guy recently said he is only paying $ on average for his sb's per meet but in my experience, the 18-22 yo sb's aren't interested in anything less than $250 per meet and it's usually higher. I'm basically just saying that this is much harder and more expensive than calling up a escort or pro.

[QUOTE=ItsAHobby45;4504644]I'm not sure that this is a hobby that I'd consider inexpensive to participate in. I'm sure there are ways to save money here and there but from what I've learned in my short 7 ish weeks is you have to pay to play. Rough numbers here but I had 14 meeting at a FC with 7 girls ranging from 19-22 yo in 6 weeks and have spent about 4200 in total between the girls and hotel rooms and SA membership. 3 of the girls provided the FC so there was no cost involved for those. I don't meet these girls anywhere except the FC so there have been no lunch / dinner / coffee expenses. The one I did meet at tropical smoothie I didn't ever get to the FC. I have bought a couple of the girls a vibrator because they said they never owned one and agreed to toy play during the meeting.

You also have to look at the time that is involved as time is money. I'm a relatively young and decent looking guy and it takes a ton of time to convince these girls to meet you. I've messaged hundreds of girls within 100 miles of Richmond and spent many hours talking to the ones that message back. Sure you'll find one that will agree to meet you in the first 10 texts but those are really just pros advertising on SA. I know one guy recently said he is only paying $ on average for his sb's per meet but in my experience, the 18-22 yo sb's aren't interested in anything less than $250 per meet and it's usually higher. I'm basically just saying that this is much harder and more expensive than calling up a escort or pro.[/QUOTE]Thanks. I appreciate the level of detail. I wasn't expecting inexpensive but thinking it was about the same as escorts with better girls and service. Looks like I'll have to dip my toe in and see what it's like. I was also considering just using Tinder. It's wired for me in the past but I was traveling for work all the time so it was easier. I'm not too concerned about age, in fact a more long term affair with no strings attached is my ideal. Thanks again for all the help. Have plenty to think about before I decide to make the switch from escorts.

RR.

[QUOTE=RomanRich;4504664]Thanks. I appreciate the level of detail. I wasn't expecting inexpensive but thinking it was about the same as escorts with better girls and service. Looks like I'll have to dip my toe in and see what it's like. I was also considering just using Tinder. It's wired for me in the past but I was traveling for work all the time so it was easier. I'm not too concerned about age, in fact a more long term affair with no strings attached is my ideal. Thanks again for all the help. Have plenty to think about before I decide to make the switch from escorts.

RR.[/QUOTE]You need to spend several days reading all of the highlights / archives of posts on this thread over the past several years. It is separate from this thread. You should also read this thread as far back as you can afford in time. There are all sorts of tricks newbies need to know. I am guessing you are actually in the Richmond area, but this thread has become the de facto national thread on sugaring. You get the benefit of lots of wisdom and experience.

[QUOTE=ItsAHobby45;4504644]I'm not sure that this is a hobby that I'd consider inexpensive to participate in. I'm sure there are ways to save money here and there but from what I've learned in my short 7 ish weeks is you have to pay to play. Rough numbers here but I had 14 meeting at a FC with 7 girls ranging from 19-22 yo in 6 weeks and have spent about 4200 in total between the girls and hotel rooms and SA membership. 3 of the girls provided the FC so there was no cost involved for those. I don't meet these girls anywhere except the FC so there have been no lunch / dinner / coffee expenses. The one I did meet at tropical smoothie I didn't ever get to the FC. I have bought a couple of the girls a vibrator because they said they never owned one and agreed to toy play during the meeting.

You also have to look at the time that is involved as time is money. I'm a relatively young and decent looking guy and it takes a ton of time to convince these girls to meet you. I've messaged hundreds of girls within 100 miles of Richmond and spent many hours talking to the ones that message back. Sure you'll find one that will agree to meet you in the first 10 texts but those are really just pros advertising on SA. I know one guy recently said he is only paying $ on average for his sb's per meet but in my experience, the 18-22 yo sb's aren't interested in anything less than $250 per meet and it's usually higher. I'm basically just saying that this is much harder and more expensive than calling up a escort or pro.[/QUOTE]This is good insight and I agree that pursuing an SB is much more expensive. I usually feel like I need to keep seeing them on a regular basis, especially after all the investment in time to get them to the FC, so that makes it even more expensive, whereas with an escort you don't feel bad about not seeing them again. But a big difference between SBs and escorts, which has been pointed out on the forum many times, is that SBs usually choose you. I mean they actually have to like you to have sex. And a certain fraction of SBs actually prefer older men because we are, they think, better at having sex than younger men -- more attentive, more experienced, etc. Of course, there's a limit to this, I mean you can't be "too old" (I feel like I'm approaching that limit, sadly). But if you run into an SB who likes you like that it can be highly addictive and damaging to the savings account, LOL.

Having said that, there are certainly escorts who love sex, and I'm sure some hardcore escorts have infiltrated the SB ranks, so its hard to make generalizations.

[QUOTE=ItsAHobby45;4504644]I'm not sure that this is a hobby that I'd consider inexpensive to participate in. I'm sure there are ways to save money here and there but from what I've learned in my short 7 ish weeks is you have to pay to play. Rough numbers here but I had 14 meeting at a FC with 7 girls ranging from 19-22 yo in 6 weeks and have spent about 4200 in total between the girls and hotel rooms and SA membership. 3 of the girls provided the FC so there was no cost involved for those. I don't meet these girls anywhere except the FC so there have been no lunch / dinner / coffee expenses. The one I did meet at tropical smoothie I didn't ever get to the FC. I have bought a couple of the girls a vibrator because they said they never owned one and agreed to toy play during the meeting........[/QUOTE]Your post hits a lot of good points, quite accurately. I am the guy who mentioned a few pages back about $ ppm at the FC. So far, still works for hot babes.

One way to think about SBs is like eBay. The exact same item can be bought at price X and at 2 X a couple pages away. Also, the one at X could even include free shipping, while the most expensive one does not. SBs are no different. The only difference being one cannot sort by price and terms before messaging, so there is a big cost there in terms of time.

We have had similar experiences. I was on SA for 4 weeks (I let membership pause for now). I had 15 chances (maybe a couple more than that) in that month to go to the FC of which I turned down 8. Nice girls, but they wanted more than $$ and they did not look or sound any better than the ones who take $. Therefore, I saw them as over-priced, just like same item on eBay at different prices. (Interesting that the girls think in whole numbers it seems - $ gets accepted, but then the next jump is either $$ or $$$ or $$$$. Of all the girls, only one quoted $$5.).

The fact that we had just about the same number of opportunities says a lot about the process, i.e., when something requires a specific amount of time and effort, there could be only so much results in a given time period. Pretty much like weight-lifting as a natural lifter; you can only grow so much muscle so fast no matter how much you lift in a month.

I believe, like you, I just stuck to it day after day and committed about 2 hours each day (sometimes little more) to contacting girls, texting back etc. I was methodical and made sure I was doing something with 4 to 6 girls each day my membership was active. And to show how much this matters, I did not secure the SBs I had until the last 3 days of my membership. One I got because she texted me after my membership had run out.

It took one month to get 5 SBs, 2 of which are regulars who I can get one in afternoon and one in evening, thereby, having only one FC expenditure for both. In the process of setting up a similar arrangement in another town 20 miles away in other direction. That is one way to reduce FC costs. Now, I can afford the additional FC costs and higher ppm, but why if I do not have to? To me, that would be like buying the higher priced item on eBay knowing the same item can be had for 1/2 that with free shipping. I partake in the age range 19 - 22, with one being 28.

The one thing I know that gets me the $ ppm is that the girls actually like hanging out with me. They relax, take showers while talking to me, watch movies, and giggle like hell. They have said directly that they like the fact that they never feel pressure to do anything. It kind of just flows when they get there and each time I get great pussy.

I am older, but in good shape and do look younger by over a decade, so I believe that helps.

Again, great post.

[QUOTE=ItsAHobby45;4504644]I'm basically just saying that this is much harder and more expensive than calling up a escort or pro.[/QUOTE]Please allow me to give a slightly different perspective:

I do think this is accurate only if one is continuously chasing different girls and essentially paying for a one-off experience each time. One-offs are more expensive because one-offs do not afford one scheduling efficiency and to amortize the costs. Plus, it requires the time to get each one.

I have been at the FC regularly now for a month after my membership paused and have had no additional costs in time, membership fees, and I am getting a better value each time because the SBs stay longer and longer for the same ppm.

On a per hour / value of pussy basis, the SBs are multiple times less expensive. Even at $$ or $$$, a pro would give you like 45 minutes to 1 hr max. SBs easily stay 3-4 hours and fuck you 3 times.

Therefore, I do think it is kind of comparing apples to oranges; yes, both are fruits, but completely different experiences for the money. At least for me, the SBs are a much higher value and higher pussy enjoyment overall, as none feel like a pro / escort transaction and the session lasts for hrs.

[QUOTE=ItsAHobby45;4504644]I'm not sure that this is a hobby that I'd consider inexpensive to participate in. I'm sure there are ways to save money here and there but from what I've learned in my short 7 ish weeks is you have to pay to play. Rough numbers here but I had 14 meeting at a FC with 7 girls ranging from 19-22 yo in 6 weeks and have spent about 4200 in total between the girls and hotel rooms and SA membership. 3 of the girls provided the FC so there was no cost involved for those. I don't meet these girls anywhere except the FC so there have been no lunch / dinner / coffee expenses. The one I did meet at tropical smoothie I didn't ever get to the FC. I have bought a couple of the girls a vibrator because they said they never owned one and agreed to toy play during the meeting.

You also have to look at the time that is involved as time is money. I'm a relatively young and decent looking guy and it takes a ton of time to convince these girls to meet you. I've messaged hundreds of girls within 100 miles of Richmond and spent many hours talking to the ones that message back. Sure you'll find one that will agree to meet you in the first 10 texts but those are really just pros advertising on SA. I know one guy recently said he is only paying $ on average for his sb's per meet but in my experience, the 18-22 yo sb's aren't interested in anything less than $250 per meet and it's usually higher. I'm basically just saying that this is much harder and more expensive than calling up a escort or pro.[/QUOTE]All I'll say is that If you're a decent looking guy and relatively young, your cost per meet should be lower than 200.

Even if you're not that young, 150 to 250 is pretty good for 2-4 hours of fun with a fresh flower under 30. And guys my age have plenty of time to invest in the chase.

[QUOTE=BookerTNelson;4505054]All I'll say is that If you're a decent looking guy and relatively young, your cost per meet should be lower than 200.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=ItsAHobby45;4504644]I'm not sure that this is a hobby that I'd consider inexpensive to participate in. I'm sure there are ways to save money here and there but from what I've learned in my short 7 ish weeks is you have to pay to play. Rough numbers here but I had 14 meeting at a FC with 7 girls ranging from 19-22 yo in 6 weeks and have spent about 4200 in total between the girls and hotel rooms and SA membership. 3 of the girls provided the FC so there was no cost involved for those. I don't meet these girls anywhere except the FC so there have been no lunch / dinner / coffee expenses. The one I did meet at tropical smoothie I didn't ever get to the FC. I have bought a couple of the girls a vibrator because they said they never owned one and agreed to toy play during the meeting.

You also have to look at the time that is involved as time is money. I'm a relatively young and decent looking guy and it takes a ton of time to convince these girls to meet you. I've messaged hundreds of girls within 100 miles of Richmond and spent many hours talking to the ones that message back. Sure you'll find one that will agree to meet you in the first 10 texts but those are really just pros advertising on SA. I know one guy recently said he is only paying $ on average for his sb's per meet but in my experience, the 18-22 yo sb's aren't interested in anything less than $250 per meet and it's usually higher. I'm basically just saying that this is much harder and more expensive than calling up a escort or pro.[/QUOTE]When I first joined Seeking, which was many years ago, I overpaid to meet some SBs. I remember giving one really hot SB four figures for CIM. It was worth it, but I'm sure I could have gotten it for $$ if I was thinking with the big head.

I also chased hot ones who were far away from me.

Over time, I've gotten better at being s SD, including realizing that it's never worth driving more than 30 minutes to see a SB. Even better, just offer them some extra cash to drive to you if you want to see a specific one who is far away. If they show up, great. If not, you don't waste your time and feel like a jackass for driving 1. 5 hours to be ghosted.

Most of these SBs are deeply damaged, on psych meds, and / or in deep financial and personal trouble. The kind of people who win the lottery and are bankrupt a year later. Don't invest too much time or thought into why they do what they do. Many are delusional about their worth. But will come back to reality of you are somewhat attractive to them and they need money.

No matter what anyone tells you, most of these SBs will go to the FC with you for $ to $$$ depending on hotness and desperation and sanity. There are far more SBs than SDs. If you are younger and attractive, $ is totally possible PPM.

[QUOTE=BookerTNelson;4505054]All I'll say is that If you're a decent looking guy and relatively young, your cost per meet should be lower than 200.[/QUOTE]I agree. I'm mid-50's, but still considered attractive for my age. I have no problem getting to the FC for 200 or less with my first choices! I have noticed in recent years it has become more difficult with guys willing to pay 400+ per meet, Social Media telling girls they can make lots of money with platonic or online only dating and the fact I am getting older.

It takes more effort than it used to, but with game it can be done.

[QUOTE=Madaboutmax;4505665]I agree. I'm mid-50's, but still considered attractive for my age. I have no problem getting to the FC for 200 or less with my first choices! I have noticed in recent years it has become more difficult with guys willing to pay 400+ per meet, Social Media telling girls they can make lots of money with platonic or online only dating and the fact I am getting older.

It takes more effort than it used to, but with game it can be done.[/QUOTE]This is dead on.

One thing about SBs is they are all different re motives. I specifically scope out girls who are not there just for the money. I can tell which girls are there for the thrill, companionship, or they are just plain tired of guys their age. Those SBs are not motivated solely by the money. Bottomline, many are tired of giving it away for free to younger guys who treat them bad. Plus, the young guys do not know how to fuck them well.

You are correct. Social Media is selling these girls a bunch of nonsense. Yes, SDs exist who pay exorbitant amounts, but they are in very limited in supply. Unless the girl is beyond awesome, he might see once or twice. However, that is very different than getting a steady SD or a stream of SDs over time to pay that. Very few SBs ever get to that level. I told a couple who quoted me (w / out my prompting) 4 and 5 bills. I told them get back to me when they are more reasonable. A month later after I am off the site, guess who I get 2 texts from? They never found those regular SDs at that rate. But, I had already moved on with better, nicer prospects at 1 bill ppm, so they were not even worth the 2 bills they wanted now.

[QUOTE=DogBert77;4459442]
There has been some discussion on here about whether to treat these girls like dates, or whether your interaction is different. I would like to offer my views. I try to project a mix of several personas. One is a date. Not a good guy, earnest kind of date that they could see a long term relationship with, but a "bad boy" who clearly wants to get in their pants, is leaving town next week, but is hell of lot of fun in the meantime. Another persona I think of as that high school gym teacher or coach that made them kind of nervous because they weren't sure if he was checking their ass out, but they still liked him and wanted his approval. The third is an authority figure, like a professor or a boss. They clearly want his approval and aren't sure if they are good enough to get it. So I sort of cycle back and forth between these personas and keep them off balance. For example, I don't hesitate to offer value judgments on their life choices or to tell them what they should do. This is something the bad boy date would never do. Conversely, after a glass or two of wine I don't hide it I am looking down their blouse or checking their ass when they get up to go to the bathroom. This is something their professor or boss (usually) doesn't want to be seen doing. Finally, of course, is Daddy. An enormous percentage, maybe all, of these girls have daddy issues. I don't want to act like THEIR daddy, of course. The incest angle creeps me out. But I am a real daddy, and I talk about how my kids get a lot of attention and opportunities. I make it clear that they come before nay sugar daddy activities. I want to seem like the daddy they wish they had had, so they will crave my attention and approval. And we ll know how they can get my attention and approval, right?
[/QUOTE]Thanks for sharing, our experiences are really really similar from top to bottom. The above part of this great post is what I found the most interesting b / c I've been handling many of them this way and switching between almost the exact same personas, without realizing the different roles I'm playing. That's not to say it's something that came naturally, it didn't at all, it's more been a process of just repeating and refining what seems to work over many girls and many years.

I suppose it can depend on your area, but done correctly SA is not more expensive than the escort scene here judging by that board. They're paying $$ for an hour or less in most cases, which is similar what I pay ongoing gals for multiple hours. When you consider the quality difference, the idea that I can get longer for the same price makes it a much better value. Those girls are not that attractive, older, and most are druggies here. Yes if someone is on SA and agreeing to $$ and you only keep them 45 minutes for one pop I can see how they find it expensive but that's their approach.

No, to me the difference is not price. It's actually incredible value done correctly because the same number of FC's from SA should cost about the same as FC's with working girls, for an experience that is 100 times better. No the drawback to SA TIME. This takes a ton of effort. An absolute ton. And time has value too.

[QUOTE=HappyHunter44;4505042]
On a per hour / value of pussy basis, the SBs are multiple times less expensive. Even at $$ or $$$, a pro would give you like 45 minutes to 1 hr max. SBs easily stay 3-4 hours and fuck you 3 times.

Therefore, I do think it is kind of comparing apples to oranges; yes, both are fruits, but completely different experiences for the money. At least for me, the SBs are a much higher value and higher pussy enjoyment overall, as none feel like a pro / escort transaction and the session lasts for hrs.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=TomDickNHarry;4507092]No, to me the difference is not price. It's actually incredible value done correctly because the same number of FC's from SA should cost about the same as FC's with working girls, for an experience that is 100 times better. No the drawback to SA TIME. This takes a ton of effort. An absolute ton. And time has value too.[/QUOTE]I agree the main cost of SA is it is a time suck. However, since it is a time suck for everyone that cancels out as a cost increasing variable. FC costs are also pretty consistent for everyone as well. Therefore, the only variable directly affecting an increase in SA overall costs is what we choose to ppm. That is what my post is addressing.

My last sentence summed it up well in that for the price the pussy on SA is much better and more enjoyable. My overall rate is something like $40/ hr (includes FC costs, food and ppm). Then again, I choose SBs who want fun, not just sex, so they stick around a long time. I do not do car dates or a quick trip to the FC and leave. For each SB, I have spent a good long afternoon or the major part of an evening into early morning and get to hit it at least twice.

Anyone have intel on this SB?

Sexy_Serena11 - [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/0163353f-2d4e-49bf-ba0a-f876d265730b[/URL].

Feel free to PM me or share here. Good either way. Thanks in advance fellas.

[QUOTE=HappyHunter44;4507169]I agree the main cost of SA is it is a time suck. However, since it is a time suck for everyone that cancels out as a cost increasing variable. FC costs are also pretty consistent for everyone as well. Therefore, the only variable directly affecting an increase in SA overall costs is what we choose to ppm. That is what my post is addressing.

My last sentence summed it up well in that for the price the pussy on SA is much better and more enjoyable. My overall rate is something like $40/ hr (includes FC costs, food and ppm). Then again, I choose SBs who want fun, not just sex, so they stick around a long time. I do not do car dates or a quick trip to the FC and leave. For each SB, I have spent a good long afternoon or the major part of an evening into early morning and get to hit it at least twice.[/QUOTE]Quoted yours b / c it was a good summation of the difference between escorts and sugar babies. I'm meaning to chime into the post about it being more expensive, than escorts, it definitely is not if you know what you're doing. It might even be cheaper, and while the time involved can be taxing, the experience is in a different galaxy than with the pros. If you can afford the time, it's a no brainer, will get you much better experiences for similar money.

[QUOTE=WilliamsJJ703;4507217]Anyone have intel on this SB?

Sexy_Serena11 - [URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/0163353f-2d4e-49bf-ba0a-f876d265730b[/URL].

Feel free to PM me or share here. Good either way. Thanks in advance fellas.[/QUOTE]Her pictures on SA are better than she actually looks. Her body is nice but she's not very pretty. If you are flexible with your time she can host when her multiple roommates aren't home. $$ is what I paid and she requires protection for anything below the waist. She seems extremely experienced even though she claims she's new to this. I didn't repeat.

[QUOTE=TomDickNHarry;4507092] No, to me the difference is not price. It's actually incredible value done correctly because the same number of FC's from SA should cost about the same as FC's with working girls, for an experience that is 100 times better. No the drawback to SA TIME. This takes a ton of effort. An absolute ton. And time has value too.[/QUOTE]That's the thing. Pussy has a cost, and with SBs the real cost is time (and for me hotel rooms). If I place a dollar amount, per hour on what I spend on a girl it is somewhere between $25-50 an hour depending on the girl and what sort of chemistry we have. Sometimes they want to spend more time with me than I do them, sometimes they are headed home after a second round of fucking while I really wanted a third round.

But if I truly summed up the amount of overall effort I put into this, and put a dollar amount on time, compared it to their rate of earnings per hour. Then they are making out like bandits! Getting paid to have a good time at a rate that their time just isn't worth yet at that age, being enabled to do all the naughty shit they want to do without fear of their friends finding out. Then go shopping afterwards. How I envy young people.

We're both having fun but I'm not sure the SDs are winning.

If your time is valuable by the hour, escorts are a much better value I'm sure. I just never was a fuck-for-an-hour-then-bye kinda guy.

I enjoy reflecting on some of the memories I've made with SBs, and that's how I justify the hobby.