"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

[QUOTE=DogBert77;4459442]I recently had my one year anniversary on SA. I've been meaning to post on here for awhile, so thought I would take this opportunity to share some observations and stories. First, the two most important things I have learned on SA in a year:

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That was one heck of a birthday gift. And a great write up.

I once slipped cash in a girl's purse after our FC encounter, once she got in the Uber she texted me all pissed off asking why I didn't give her any gift. I told her to check her purse. After that, I always slip the cash in their hands.

[QUOTE=Truncated;4460562]The Reddit SugarLifestyleForum is a great resource to learn how the mind of a SB works.

Routinely, new SBs arrive at that forum with questions like: My new SD and I had sex all week, but now he isn't answering texts and hasn't paid me my allowance. What should I do?

Some of the SBs over there have private forums in which they discuss SDs in local areas.

Most of the seasoned SBs claim to make $5,000-10,000 per month, which really fucks with the new SB's minds because they can't figure out why they aren't getting that much.[/QUOTE]Ya it's pretty amusing. Honestly, it's amazing how many of these girls expect to figure out the money after the fact.

They have private chat's on reddit which is the closest thing to any organized forum.

[QUOTE=Sterling44;4459021]Go back and read this forum. This topic has been talked about time and time again. They have their own forum. They might talk about it at school and in social groups but there's an actual Forum that goes back a long time.[/QUOTE]Link to that forum?

[QUOTE=Tidad;4460810]Link to that forum?[/QUOTE][URL]https://www.reddit.com/r/sugarlifestyleforum[/URL]

Try here.

[QUOTE=Tidad;4460810]Link to that forum?[/QUOTE]Sugar Lifestyle Forum.

[URL]https://www.reddit.com/r/sugarlifestyleforum/[/URL]

That's impressive that you were able to bang them with no $$ discussion. Pretty much every girl I talked to wanted to know upfront how much they are getting paid. Good for you!

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I am married with kids and can rarely go on dates at night. This makes it harder to score the type of girls I really like, but not impossible. My goal is to have an experience as much like a date as possible. If the girls are hot, and don't seem professional, I like to take them to lunch, get a bottle of wine if they are old enough to drink. I love flirting and talking with them. Usually, if I have screened them properly, they are ready to go to hotel afterwards. A lot of them will do this without discussing money, at least not in any explicit way. The best experience for me is when I can bang them without any discussion of price or services, then just slip the cash in their purse afterward. It never ceases to amaze me how many of them will do that. With practice, I have gotten a lot better at screening for what I want.

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[QUOTE=OliverNP;4460193]The recent posts on the sharing habits of SBs has me thinking increasingly about the best way to part ways when the time is right. Both the SD and SB typically enter into these arrangements as sort of a shortcut to dating, and a more hassle-free version of traditional dating where hes getting sex and in return providing financial stability (or at least that seems to be the motive of most of the types I've been with).

So. How do you guys do it?[/QUOTE]You can always go w / financial setbacks. There's really no way to argue, if the SB offers to FC for free, you might reconsider? Even if that info is shared w / other POTs after you break up, there's no way to know if someone might have bounced back.

I once had a 20 YO coed I saw for 5 months, and it got old. Both scheduling problems and too great familiarity reduced my enthusiasm, and she was more pudgy than the spinner body I like. After I expressed reservations about things, she replied "but how do you see the future of our relationship?" well, let's see, I'm married and you're 20, we have no future (I thought, didn't say). I did eventually, after we'd gone some time w / out seeing each other (over a month), text her and formally say we weren't a 'couple. Anymore. Her only reply - 'if that's what you want'.

[QUOTE=LostSoul;4461516]That's impressive that you were able to bang them with no $$ discussion. Pretty much every girl I talked to wanted to know upfront how much they are getting paid. Good for you![/QUOTE]Not every girl will do this, that's for sure. A lot of guys post about how they want "regular" girls and not pros. Of course, it's pretty hard to draw that line in this hobby. But I would say that this is the best way to be sure you are not getting a pro. Almost by definition, girls who will do this are not pros, even if they expect to get money or something of value afterward.

It does mean more work in setting up the meets. But well over have the girls I have closed with did it on this bases and they are consistently the best experiences I have had.

Today I had lunch schedule with a cute 21 year old hapa college girl. Very genuine vibe, just like I like. She flaked on me via text this morning, four hours before we were supposed to meet at noon. This has happened to me so much that I was prepared. I had another girl scheduled for 1:00. I do this a lot because my time is valuable and I get flaked on a lot. Usually, the second girl I schedule is either less attractive, or more pro, so I don't mind if my number 1 shows up, I have to flake on my number 2, and number 2 is pissed at me. I at least give number 2 in that situation the courtesy of text, which girls don't always do for me. I always schedule my higher priority target for the first time slot.

Today was exactly like that. Number 2 was very hot, but gave off a semi pro vibe. Part of that vibe was wanting to know via text what the donation would be. That was OK with me for a backup, and she didn't try to negotiate my initial offer. It was an enjoyable afternoon fucking number 2 and better than going home with blue balls, but not the experience that I am after. On further reflection, I don't think Number 2 was an UTR so much as a cautious SB. Either way, she was a one and done.

So I would say that the key to finding girls who will fuck without discussing price is two-fold:

1. Message more girls. Lots and lots of girls to get to a meet.

2. Have really good game in person once you get them to the meet.

In my experience, you are still going to get flaked on a lot.

[QUOTE=DogBert77;4462027]Not every girl will do this, that's for sure. A lot of guys post about how they want "regular" girls and not pros. Of course, it's pretty hard to draw that line in this hobby. But I would say that this is the best way to be sure you are not getting a pro. Almost by definition, girls who will do this are not pros, even if they expect to get money or something of value afterward.

It does mean more work in setting up the meets. But well over have the girls I have closed with did it on this bases and they are consistently the best experiences I have had.

Today I had lunch schedule with a cute 21 year old hapa college girl. Very genuine vibe, just like I like. She flaked on me via text this morning, four hours before we were supposed to meet at noon. This has happened to me so much that I was prepared. I had another girl scheduled for 1:00. I do this a lot because my time is valuable and I get flaked on a lot. Usually, the second girl I schedule is either less attractive, or more pro, so I don't mind if my number 1 shows up, I have to flake on my number 2, and number 2 is pissed at me. I at least give number 2 in that situation the courtesy of text, which girls don't always do for me. I always schedule my higher priority target for the first time slot.

Today was exactly like that. Number 2 was very hot, but gave off a semi pro vibe. Part of that vibe was wanting to know via text what the donation would be. That was OK with me for a backup, and she didn't try to negotiate my initial offer. It was an enjoyable afternoon fucking number 2 and better than going home with blue balls, but not the experience that I am after. On further reflection, I don't think Number 2 was an UTR so much as a cautious SB. Either way, she was a one and done.

So I would say that the key to finding girls who will fuck without discussing price is two-fold:

1. Message more girls. Lots and lots of girls to get to a meet.

2. Have really good game in person once you get them to the meet.

In my experience, you are still going to get flaked on a lot.[/QUOTE]I agree 100%, and have done the same thing about scheduling 2 M / G for the same afternoon. The other thing I would say is the flake % is directly correlated to the length of time in the future the meeting is scheduled. E. g. , same day meets, over 90% show up; next day meets maybe 60-75% show up; 2, 3 4 days in the future well under 50% actually happen, and more than a week in advance you're lucky if your "yield" is 10%.

[QUOTE=DogBert77;4462027]Not every girl will do this, that's for sure. A lot of guys post about how they want "regular" girls and not pros. Of course, it's pretty hard to draw that line in this hobby. But I would say that this is the best way to be sure you are not getting a pro. Almost by definition, girls who will do this are not pros, even if they expect to get money or something of value afterward.

It does mean more work in setting up the meets. But well over have the girls I have closed with did it on this bases and they are consistently the best experiences I have had.

Today I had lunch schedule with a cute 21 year old hapa college girl. Very genuine vibe, just like I like. She flaked on me via text this morning, four hours before we were supposed to meet at noon. This has happened to me so much that I was prepared. I had another girl scheduled for 1:00. I do this a lot because my time is valuable and I get flaked on a lot. Usually, the second girl I schedule is either less attractive, or more pro, so I don't mind if my number 1 shows up, I have to flake on my number 2, and number 2 is pissed at me. I at least give number 2 in that situation the courtesy of text, which girls don't always do for me. I always schedule my higher priority target for the first time slot.

Today was exactly like that. Number 2 was very hot, but gave off a semi pro vibe. Part of that vibe was wanting to know via text what the donation would be. That was OK with me for a backup, and she didn't try to negotiate my initial offer. It was an enjoyable afternoon fucking number 2 and better than going home with blue balls, but not the experience that I am after. On further reflection, I don't think Number 2 was an UTR so much as a cautious SB. Either way, she was a one and done.

So I would say that the key to finding girls who will fuck without discussing price is two-fold:

1. Message more girls. Lots and lots of girls to get to a meet.

2. Have really good game in person once you get them to the meet.

In my experience, you are still going to get flaked on a lot.[/QUOTE]Good breakdown.

Generally, the newer they are to the bowl the better the chance that no discussion about allowance is the route they go. Speaking about money (especially with these acts involved) isn't a comfortable conversation for a woman to have so they will most likely not bring it up. I've gone a month or two before on of my SB's brought it up and her reason was "It was such a good experience without the allowance, I kind of forgot". So that's another tip, make it feel as natural as possible and you may get to skate awhile before it is brought up. (Sidenote: She was looking for experiences with a man that made her feel like a woman and took care of incidentals so there was an allowance / payment it just wasn't cash at the end of the meet).

[QUOTE=BlueEyedMan58;4462316]I agree 100%, and have done the same thing about scheduling 2 M / G for the same afternoon. The other thing I would say is the flake % is directly correlated to the length of time in the future the meeting is scheduled. E. g. , same day meets, over 90% show up; next day meets maybe 60-75% show up; 2, 3 4 days in the future well under 50% actually happen, and more than a week in advance you're lucky if your "yield" is 10%.[/QUOTE]Really good point on not scheduling too far into the future if you can avoid it. This is one of the hardest parts about the sugar bowl for me. To get the best shot at the best twat you have to be really flexible and get on it when the opportunity presents herself. I have my own business and a lot of family commitments with my kids and other obligations and I have missed out on so much quality pussy because of scheduling it drives same crazy if I think about it. I have a lot of flexibility on my work and spend the time on the computer when it works for me. But meetings are much harder to schedule from my end. I have a limited number of potential time slots per week when I can hook up. Sometimes my choice is either schedule far in advance or don't schedule. So it really pisses me off when they stand me up. Sometimes I have scheduled two and both of them have stood me up.

[QUOTE=BlueEyedMan58;4462316]I agree 100%, and have done the same thing about scheduling 2 M / G for the same afternoon. The other thing I would say is the flake % is directly correlated to the length of time in the future the meeting is scheduled. E. g. , same day meets, over 90% show up; next day meets maybe 60-75% show up; 2, 3 4 days in the future well under 50% actually happen, and more than a week in advance you're lucky if your "yield" is 10%.[/QUOTE]I think it is essential to speak to a girl by phone before the M&G. If she won't do that, why would you think she'd get in her car and go to a Starbucks to meet you? That has saved me a lot of grief. And, the phone convo has to go well. After I have had a phone chat w / them and know pretty much they aren't scammers, I share my real pix by text.

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;4462944]I think it is essential to speak to a girl by phone before the M&G. If she won't do that, why would you think she'd get in her car and go to a Starbucks to meet you? That has saved me a lot of grief. And, the phone convo has to go well. After I have had a phone chat w / them and know pretty much they aren't scammers, I share my real pix by text.[/QUOTE]I refuse to have meet and greets with these girls and at this point I haven't lost a single Sb because of this. I'll meet them in the lobby of the FC just for visual confirmation that we both are the person we sent in the pictures but that's as much of a meet and greet as I'll agree to. One of my issues is timing with the hotels. My availability is best between noon and 3-4 pm and that's right in the middle of check out / check in so it's hard to find a hotel that allows early check in. I've been lucky and not been stood up yet although this past Friday I booked a room and checked in and the Sb went to the wrong hotel so I thought for sure she was flaking and was just making excuses. Luckily she ended up showing up late but we had a great time nonetheless.

[QUOTE=ItsAHobby45;4463193]I refuse to have meet and greets with these girls and at this point I haven't lost a single Sb because of this. I'll meet them in the lobby of the FC just for visual confirmation that we both are the person we sent in the pictures but that's as much of a meet and greet as I'll agree to. One of my issues is timing with the hotels. My availability is best between noon and 3-4 pm and that's right in the middle of check out / check in so it's hard to find a hotel that allows early check in. I've been lucky and not been stood up yet although this past Friday I booked a room and checked in and the Sb went to the wrong hotel so I thought for sure she was flaking and was just making excuses. Luckily she ended up showing up late but we had a great time nonetheless.[/QUOTE]Get a relationship with one hotel. You will earn points in their membership club, and also earn early check-in privileges. Hyatt and Hyatt Place let me check in as early as 6 am with no extra charge, assuming there is a room available.

Also, check out the day-rate hotel sites. Many hotels allow check in at 8-9 am, and check out at 4-6 pm for a discounted rate. The day-rate hotel sites list the ones which participate.

I keep a sugar apartment. I find it costs less in the long run as opposed to hotels. Consider that route, too. Nothing is better than being able to keep your personal stuff in one place.

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;4461602]You can always go w / financial setbacks. There's really no way to argue, if the SB offers to FC for free, you might reconsider? Even if that info is shared w / other POTs after you break up, there's no way to know if someone might have bounced back.

I once had a 20 YO coed I saw for 5 months, and it got old. Both scheduling problems and too great familiarity reduced my enthusiasm, and she was more pudgy than the spinner body I like. After I expressed reservations about things, she replied "but how do you see the future of our relationship?" well, let's see, I'm married and you're 20, we have no future (I thought, didn't say). I did eventually, after we'd gone some time w / out seeing each other (over a month), text her and formally say we weren't a 'couple. Anymore. Her only reply - 'if that's what you want'.[/QUOTE]I have used the financial setbacks excuse, and in many cases with success, but also in many cases it just backfired because I got everything from "aww, don't worry about money, you've done enough already and I still want to see you" from some of them pledging to get a full time job in they have to to help me through lean times. I can pretty much be sure that this won't happen in the 18-20 year old range but from that age upward, it happens more than I'd like to admit. I know that might sound like a good thing, but whatever reason makes me want to move on as a SB is magnified by a thousand times when I start to imagine her as an uncompensated emotional weight on my back.

The main thing is that all the excuses I can think of, including hard financial times, do not really give me a clean break. It leads to weeks of them still texting me, asking how things are going and general updates etc. So at some point I just have to stop responding, and I don't really like the idea that they are sharing my photo or details with others and labeling me a serial ghoster.

[QUOTE=Truncated;4463576] I keep a sugar apartment. I find it costs less in the long run as opposed to hotels. Consider that route, too. Nothing is better than being able to keep your personal stuff in one place.[/QUOTE]I might recommend regularly change apartments. The reason is, so much info is available with a little Googling, that if you hold the apartment enough and pay utility bills for it, there is a good chance she can eventually learn your identity just by Googling the address and unit #. I'm assuming here, of course, that the reason for the apt in the first place is secrecy.

I'm not obsessive about trying to investigate potential SBs, especially since I don't bother with FB much and searching for phone numbers doesn't usually turn up much info. But, any time one happens to actually email me, I do make it a point to search for their address or name just in case. That paid off this evening. A girl had contacted me first, and when I asked for her reasons for being on SA, directed me to her email. One email reply later, she gave me her number.

Her email had a name in the info, so I threw it into Google just to check. That turned up a bunch of mug shots and rap sheet entries, and I confirmed it was her vs her profile pic.

Definitely avoiding _that_ one!

[QUOTE=Truncated;4463576]Get a relationship with one hotel. You will earn points in their membership club, and also earn early check-in privileges. Hyatt and Hyatt Place let me check in as early as 6 am with no extra charge, assuming there is a room available.

Also, check out the day-rate hotel sites. Many hotels allow check in at 8-9 am, and check out at 4-6 pm for a discounted rate. The day-rate hotel sites list the ones which participate.

I keep a sugar apartment. I find it costs less in the long run as opposed to hotels. Consider that route, too. Nothing is better than being able to keep your personal stuff in one place.[/QUOTE]This only works for SDs who are single. About half the guys on SA if what I hear is true. If you have a SO you are dodging, all of this is too risky. I typically get my SB to get the room. Not too cost effective, but the only way to be truly safe.

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;4465558]This only works for SDs who are single. About half the guys on SA if what I hear is true. If you have a SO you are dodging, all of this is too risky. I typically get my SB to get the room. Not too cost effective, but the only way to be truly safe.[/QUOTE]This is sadly true. Almost no SB's younger than, say, late 20's, have their own place. But I have found that many are willing to register on their own I'd if you front the $$. You just need to either find a SB that has a credit card she can use to sign in (not all that many) or a hotel that accepts cash at registration. One thing I have found, though, is it never hurts to ask a SB or potential if she has a girlfriend who would let her use her place as a favor or for a small fee. Sometimes they do, and that makes life simple for all.

The CEO of Kik put up a post a couple days ago saying that they're losing money due to a lawsuit with the SEC over some cryptocurrency they made, and they're going to be shutting down the app:

[URL]https://www.fastcompany.com/90408381/the-popular-kik-messaging-app-is-shutting-down[/URL]

No details on when they plan to turn it off, but FYI.

[QUOTE=OliverNP;4464878]I have used the financial setbacks excuse, and in many cases with success, but also in many cases it just backfired because I got everything from "aww, don't worry about money, you've done enough already and I still want to see you" from some of them pledging to get a full time job in they have to to help me through lean times. I can pretty much be sure that this won't happen in the 18-20 year old range but from that age upward, it happens more than I'd like to admit. I know that might sound like a good thing, but whatever reason makes me want to move on as a SB is magnified by a thousand times when I start to imagine her as an uncompensated emotional weight on my back.

The main thing is that all the excuses I can think of, including hard financial times, do not really give me a clean break. It leads to weeks of them still texting me, asking how things are going and general updates etc. So at some point I just have to stop responding, and I don't really like the idea that they are sharing my photo or details with others and labeling me a serial ghoster.[/QUOTE]Had to chime in on this one. There's nothing more disheartening than having a well planned and well thought out exit strategy only for the SB to respond with "I can work with you during the transition baby". Ugh. Happened to me last week. Had been laying the trap about the grind of corporate America for a bit and then unloaded with my excuse that I am leaving it all behind to focus on my small business venture so in the meantime I won't have excess income. Man. She responded with "let's just forget how we met stay in touch and just hang out. " I almost fainted because this one was inflicted with acute GPS when I first got her. 95 percent of the time the exit strategy works but when it doesn't it puts you in a scramble. Ripper.

[QUOTE=Ripvan12;4466399]Had to chime in on this one. There's nothing more disheartening than having a well planned and well thought out exit strategy only for the SB to respond with "I can work with you during the transition baby". Ugh. Happened to me last week. Had been laying the trap about the grind of corporate America for a bit and then unloaded with my excuse that I am leaving it all behind to focus on my small business venture so in the meantime I won't have excess income. Man. She responded with "let's just forget how we met stay in touch and just hang out. " I almost fainted because this one was inflicted with acute GPS when I first got her. 95 percent of the time the exit strategy works but when it doesn't it puts you in a scramble. Ripper.[/QUOTE]I'm always amazed at the different situations I've found in the bowl. I once had a 26 year old make me commit to a ppm allowance before meeting, started out she wanted $1,000 (LOL), we settled on 300 for the first date (which was $50 more than my most expensive date yet). She shows up driving a $120 k car, turns out she is from a family that has more money than I will dream about in my lifetime. On the second date, I was just joking when I got ready to hand her her allowance and said "200 right?" and she said "200 is fine" and I told I her I was just joking and she says no really, so 200 it was. It was around the 7th date I brought to the attention the fact that I could never match the lifestyle she grew up in, and I asked her if the 200 I give her each time really makes a difference and she said yeah, it's something about the way it makes her feel when I give it to her. I don't know if that meant she had a latent fantasy of being a pro or it just tapped into some other sort of need that I'll never understand.

My buddy and I often would message girls on the site for each other when we don't / didn't have paid memberships. He just got his membership suspended b / c of doing this. It does violate the terms of service, actually, they obviously want to do everything they can to get our $. This is the first I heard of this happening, he thinks it was b / c the POT reported him. He was able to reinstate his membership by pleading and promising not to do it again. But you should not assume that this is a strategy for the future.

[QUOTE=FarFarAway;4468729]My buddy and I often would message girls on the site for each other when we don't / didn't have paid memberships. He just got his membership suspended b / c of doing this. It does violate the terms of service, actually, they obviously want to do everything they can to get our $. This is the first I heard of this happening, he thinks it was b / c the POT reported him. He was able to reinstate his membership by pleading and promising not to do it again. But you should not assume that this is a strategy for the future.[/QUOTE]For sure, don't violate the TOS again. His account is now flagged. Another offense will result in a permanent ban. Seeking seems to be getting better at linking new accounts to prior ones, so opening a new account might be difficult.

If you look at the development tools on your account page, it shows you your account status, prior complaints, etc.

[QUOTE=Truncated;4469756]For sure, don't violate the TOS again. His account is now flagged. Another offense will result in a permanent ban. Seeking seems to be getting better at linking new accounts to prior ones, so opening a new account might be difficult.

If you look at the development tools on your account page, it shows you your account status, prior complaints, etc.[/QUOTE]I looked at profile and was wondering where you see prior complaints. Am curious if I have anything there.

[QUOTE=RegularJoe1985;4471644]I looked at profile and was wondering where you see prior complaints. Am curious if I have anything there.[/QUOTE]Take a look at the developer's tools on your Seeking account. You can see the notes and flags Seeking employees have tagged to your account.

This poster in the Richmond forum explains how to view the data:

[URL]http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?9746-quot-Sugarbabies-quot-quot-Arrangements-quot-Amateurs-or-Not&p=3939986&viewfull=1[/URL]#post3939986.

I added a line to my profile and it was rejected as a violation of the TOS. The line said please don't send doctored pictures, there shouldn't be any big surprises at our first meeting. I didn't get banned and there was no warning, just a rejection of the new line. So I read through the TOS and for the life of me I can't figure out how I violated them. I guess SB's are entitled to bait and switch tactics!

[QUOTE=Truncated;4469756]For sure, don't violate the TOS again. His account is now flagged. Another offense will result in a permanent ban. Seeking seems to be getting better at linking new accounts to prior ones, so opening a new account might be difficult.

If you look at the development tools on your account page, it shows you your account status, prior complaints, etc.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Hal1957;4472239]I added a line to my profile and it was rejected as a violation of the TOS. The line said please don't send doctored pictures, there shouldn't be any big surprises at our first meeting. I didn't get banned and there was no warning, just a rejection of the new line. So I read through the TOS and for the life of me I can't figure out how I violated them. I guess SB's are entitled to bait and switch tactics![/QUOTE]It never hurts to email customer service and ask what was the problem. Seeking usually responds quickly to emails.

Maybe kiss their butt a little and let them know how much you like the site, and want to make sure not to do anything wrong. They gave me a free month once when I had an issue.

I can't find the address right now, but it is a few pages back on this forum.

[QUOTE=Truncated;4472130]Take a look at the developer's tools on your Seeking account. You can see the notes and flags Seeking employees have tagged to your account.

This poster in the Richmond forum explains how to view the data:

[URL]http://www.usasexguide.nl/forum/showthread.php?9746-quot-Sugarbabies-quot-quot-Arrangements-quot-Amateurs-or-Not&p=3939986&viewfull=1[/URL]#post3939986.[/QUOTE]Yes, am aware of how to look at data.

Wondering what tags - (Data: Value pair) is OP referring to:

Has_xxxx_punishment.

Has_xxx_punishment etc.

[QUOTE=RegularJoe1985;4473629]Yes, am aware of how to look at data.

Wondering what tags - (Data: Value pair) is OP referring to:

Has_xxxx_punishment.

Has_xxx_punishment etc.[/QUOTE]When I made Seeking angry, this was what was displayed for me: has_unacknowledged_punishment: true.

When I contacted them and made them happy, it changed to "1".

[QUOTE=Truncated;4473899]When I made Seeking angry, this was what was displayed for me: has_unacknowledged_punishment: true.

When I contacted them and made them happy, it changed to "1".[/QUOTE]Thanks, that is what I was looking for.

Mine has false, So was thinking that if value is True then member might be suspended.

But if yours is 1 then perhaps it is one strike for you. I guess.

Anybody know how to get a fake std result online?

Under what circumstances would you want to get fake results? Not accusing but are you trying to pass an std to someone?

Bam.

[QUOTE=AsiansBoy;4477095]Anybody know how to get a fake std result online?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=RegularJoe1985;4476765]Thanks, that is what I was looking for.

Mine has false, So was thinking that if value is True then member might be suspended.

But if yours is 1 then perhaps it is one strike for you. I guess.[/QUOTE]That's my guess.

No one else, as far as I know, has chimed in on this issue.

I do know, based on reading other's posts, that's it's becoming increasingly difficult to register after being banned. So, I'm erring on the side of good, and not trying to make Seeking upset.

Once you are off the Seeking site, and using a burner, I think it's safe to talk about $, etc.

[QUOTE=BamBam;4477436]Under what circumstances would you want to get fake results? [/QUOTE]I had an SB ask me for one a week after the fact. She's in an open relationship an told her BF she never does BBFS with any guys she meets online, but he read her texts and he won't fuck her for 6 weeks unless he is sure she won't pass something along.

I'm married, can't really go ducking into the Free Clinic in a small town, and if I had anything, my wife would have cut my dick off long ago. So I can see why the risk would justify.

Plus I've had SBs offer BBFS if I show up with recent test results. Since name and identifying info would be redacted, its a pretty pointless request in either case.

[QUOTE=ErnestLl;4477518]I had an SB ask me for one a week after the fact. She's in an open relationship an told her BF she never does BBFS with any guys she meets online, but he read her texts and he won't fuck her for 6 weeks unless he is sure she won't pass something along.

I'm married, can't really go ducking into the Free Clinic in a small town, and if I had anything, my wife would have cut my dick off long ago. So I can see why the risk would justify.

Plus I've had SBs offer BBFS if I show up with recent test results. Since name and identifying info would be redacted, its a pretty pointless request in either case.[/QUOTE]There are several inexpensive places from which you can obtain STD testing without providing an ID or Dr's request.

Check out [URL]AnyLabTestNow.com[/URL] (yes, it's a drive up to Fredricksburg), or sites like [URL]www.stdcheck.com[/URL] will send you to the nearest Quest Labs office for a blood draw and urine sample.

If you are concerned about a spouse finding out about the results, get a UPS Store address and use it for the testing place, and get a disposable email address to receive the results.

You shouldn't pay more than about $60 for a full STD test.

You can even put down a fake name on the test if you take the time to use a burner phone, and "forget" to bring your I'd to the lab when you do the blood and urine draws. Once the tech sees that you ordered the test yourself, they won't be worried about the I'd. They only care about I'd if an employer or Dr. Ordered the test.

Maybe its just me, but I can no longer view this data. Have they fixed this? Anybody still able to view messages this way?

[QUOTE=RegularJoe1985;4473629]Yes, am aware of how to look at data.

Wondering what tags - (Data: Value pair) is OP referring to:

Has_xxxx_punishment.

Has_xxx_punishment etc.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=ErnestLl;4477518]I had an SB ask me for one a week after the fact. She's in an open relationship an told her BF she never does BBFS with any guys she meets online, but he read her texts and he won't fuck her for 6 weeks unless he is sure she won't pass something along.

I'm married, can't really go ducking into the Free Clinic in a small town, and if I had anything, my wife would have cut my dick off long ago. So I can see why the risk would justify.

Plus I've had SBs offer BBFS if I show up with recent test results. Since name and identifying info would be redacted, its a pretty pointless request in either case.[/QUOTE]I use healthtestingcenters dot com. Order the tests and go to labCorp or quest. No deep dick swabs now, just urine and blood, results in a few days, free Dr consult for Rx if you pop positive for bacterial.

Google why the HSV test can be skipped and then skip it.

[QUOTE=ChrisCarr;4478355]I use healthtestingcenters dot com. Order the tests and go to labCorp or quest. No deep dick swabs now, just urine and blood, results in a few days, free Dr consult for Rx if you pop positive for bacterial.

Google why the HSV test can be skipped and then skip it.[/QUOTE]Does anyone know of these online STD test centers can legally add your DNA to a database? Not that I have ever done anything serious enough to worry about law enforcement having it, I just like to understand my privacy rights. I know that pretty much if you chew gum and throw the gum away, your DNA is technically available to anyone who wants to test it -- most people won't due to cost, but these testing centers can do it cheaply.

Any Intel on this? Chatting with her, no $ discussion yet and was thinking to do M&g. But her pics give me pro-vibes and doesn't seem worth it.

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