22 Rules for Street Mongering
[QUOTE=Bond007;2874623]Her addiction in high gear, keep a hand on your wallet![/QUOTE]EXACTLY! Rules #17 and #18 should be ingrained in every monger.
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Risk Tolerance - Know your limits
[QUOTE=JamesGlia;2875071]I did try to be as careful as possible and I could see a real difference in her and that was only about after a 4 week period. In fact, the first time I went to her place she needed to medicate herself just before the main event. That is the first time someone did that in front of me, freaked me out but I could not leave. The setup of their apartment is not an easy one to just leave from. Does the mom work the crowd too? There were two guys there that I am told were her boyfriends but I tried not to make eye contact. I would agree, her addiction is more rampant and that is just based on her change in appearance and change in her disregard for the money she would take.[/QUOTE]
Hey, thanks for the report! I dunno dude, some of the things you state are such that I would NEVER seek her out if this is the case. But several things here are instructive as ways to look at risk, so no offense intended - just some comments.
[I]the first time I went to her place she needed to medicate herself just before the main event[/I]
Eh, this is bad but NOT totally fatal. However, if you gave her money up front so she could get her drugs, then that is a problem. I have done that before and the girl disappears, never to return. I would NEVER allow a girl to buy dope (or any drugs) in my presence. Period. Drug charges are felonies that don't go away easily and being there puts you at risk of getting arrested too. Doesn't matter if you didn't hand any money to a dealer, Cops CAN and will arrest you and let the courts sort it out. That amigo is just too risky for me personally.
[I]The setup of their apartment is not an easy one to just leave from.[/I]
WTF! For me this is a [b][color=red]BIG red flag![/color][/b] HUGE! Any time I monger I realize I am the only one able to watch my back, so I always have a free & clear escape route. I never go into a situation where there is no easy exit and if that means not doing a date, then so be it. Safety to me is more important than any nut.
[I]There were two guys there that I am told were her boyfriends but I tried not to make eye contact.[/I]
OMG! Adding any dude or dudes into the mix, is for me a non-starter. A girl I can usually control, but a third party, especially a guy can mean serious trouble. But guys I can not make eye contact with? For me that is like a dog showing its belly- it demonstrates I am looking down in their presence and as such suggesting their superiority and my weakness. Now I know my limitations when it comes to street smarts, but that seems like something I wouldn't do. If I can't look a dude in the eye and give a head nod of mutual acceptance, I am out! If I had seen that I would have bounced, immediately.
So here you have two different styles of managing risk. Point is that I wasn't there, but to me it looks like more risk than I would want to take. Each monger needs to recognize potential risk and evaluate their ability to and willingness to handle situations if "things go bad. " Clearly this dude has a different risk tolerance structure than I do.
I'm just sayin'.
[i]maybe there are methods for managing the risks I noted? methods or techniques that I am missing? I'd be interested to learn anything, as we are constantly learning in this hobby.[/i]
Rachel funny you should ask
[QUOTE=SoulProvider;2875628]I've been reading the post on this site and have learned a LOT. I still have a lot of questions and will continue to read and learn. I've been more of a Strip club monger-er (sp?) than a BP or a SW one, although I've tired them both.
The #22 rules are extremely helpful. But not as much as the personal stories, good or bad. So Thank You for all the knowledge and help gents.
And if I've learned one thing, it's that I've definitely been over paying. I've been gone for about a year, has anyone seen a girl name Rachel recent? I will post an attachment later.[/QUOTE]Now which of the three Rachels that work out there are you referring to. The one that works Letterly the punk rockin little bundle of fun or the other one? Just asking so I can maybe assist. Me, I'm just an 'OL Gator.