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Thanks for your encouragement!

Well, it was her who posted the ad on craigslist.

So I think, technically speaking, 'solicitation' might not apply on me since I was simply responding to her ad.

Anyway, she was cool and we chatted over KIK messenger for almost 1 hour on Saturday about pizza, foods, cooking, etc.

Plus, she said she swallows so it is really difficult to resist the temptation to see her despite of recent sting horrors.

I guess I am leaning toward seeing her.

My weakness is girls who swallow.

It seems I just cannot say no to girls who swallow. LOL.

Plus she agreed to drive 50 minutes to meet me (of course I am paying for her driving effort as well) so it is really difficult to say no.

I really hope that she's not some undercover cop.

Recent sting operations really made me super paranoid.

Then again, since her location is 50 miles from my place, I guess the chance of her being undercover cop is lower since cops would work under their jurisdiction and would not bother to arrest someone outside of their jurisdiction (I am not 100% sure about this. This is just my guess.).

Gosh, this hobby brings so much headache!

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;2400621]Don't worry. Be happy. LOL. But seriously, just go for it.[/QUOTE]

Yes! I think single moms are the horniest.

I think many young girls are not experienced enough to fully please men.

I prefer girls with skills, not just looks.

And, it was her who posted the ad on craigslist.

So I think, technically speaking, 'solicitation' might not apply on me since I was simply responding to her ad.

Anyway, she was cool and we chatted over KIK messenger for almost 1 hour on Saturday about pizza, foods, cooking, etc.

Plus, she said she swallows so it is really difficult to resist the temptation to see her despite of recent sting horrors.

I guess I am leaning toward seeing her.

My weakness is girls who swallow.

It seems I just cannot say no to girls who swallow. LOL.

Plus she agreed to drive 50 minutes to meet me (of course I am paying for her driving effort as well) so it is really difficult to say no.

I really hope that she's not some undercover cop.

Recent sting operations really made me super paranoid.

Then again, since her location is 50 miles from my place, I guess the chance of her being undercover cop is lower since cops would work under their jurisdiction and would not bother to arrest someone outside of their jurisdiction (I am not 100% sure about this. This is just my guess.).

Gosh, this hobby brings so much headache!

[QUOTE=Raider1206;2400635]Good luck with that single mom they are the best.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Ddddan218;2400754]Yes! I think single moms are the horniest.

I think many young girls are not experienced enough to fully please men.

I prefer girls with skills, not just looks.

And, it was her who posted the ad on craigslist.

So I think, technically speaking, 'solicitation' might not apply on me since I was simply responding to her ad.

Anyway, she was cool and we chatted over KIK messenger for almost 1 hour on Saturday about pizza, foods, cooking, etc.

Plus, she said she swallows so it is really difficult to resist the temptation to see her despite of recent sting horrors.

I guess I am leaning toward seeing her.

My weakness is girls who swallow.

It seems I just cannot say no to girls who swallow. LOL.

Plus she agreed to drive 50 minutes to meet me (of course I am paying for her driving effort as well) so it is really difficult to say no.

I really hope that she's not some undercover cop.

Recent sting operations really made me super paranoid.

Then again, since her location is 50 miles from my place, I guess the chance of her being undercover cop is lower since cops would work under their jurisdiction and would not bother to arrest someone outside of their jurisdiction (I am not 100% sure about this. This is just my guess.).

Gosh, this hobby brings so much headache![/QUOTE]I think your safe to see this one I mean if it was me I'd go for it. Good luck let us know how it goes. Just stay away from the streets and if possible stick to your little loyal circle of girls till shit cools down that's what I do and even if I hit the streets there are only 2-3 girls I'd pick up because I know they are cool and give me what I want.

Last month, one sting operation arrested 570 johns and 408 of them were responded to fake backpage ad and 40 of them were 'responded to fake craigslist ad'.

Yes, 'craigslist ad'!

[URL]http://www.nola.com/news/index.ssf/2015/02/illinois_sheriff_posts_fake_ad.html[/URL]

And according to the article, it seems they arrested johns after only the negotiation of the trading part (how much money for what sexual act) without actually handing out the money!

WTF!

Now I am scared to death!

I can tell you from my experience, (Family members are LE). Most of these sting ops are about publicity with the media. Most media outlets aren't going to pick up on a story about 1 or 2 johns with a NP unless it's a extreme case of serial abuse or worse. Busting SW's and Johns always makes good print and pretty much gets a positive response from the community at large.

Baggens.

[QUOTE=Marlowe;2400381]And running a 7 hour sting with 29 LE personnel to arrest 12 people on a track (LBB) that has been dead for four months isn't? I don't think that LE cares about the cost as long as they stay on this human trafficking kick.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Ddddan218;2401194]
WTF!

Now I am scared to death![/QUOTE]All forms of this hobby. Np, escorts, SW, sb. Carry a risk. There will always be medical, social, criminal risks involved. Best you can do is be smart and minimize those risks as much as you can. It's either that or find another hobby.

I'm personally terrified of picking up a SW. I've never done it, and don't feel comfortable enough to try it. It'd be interesting, but that's a risk I won't take.

I'm even a bit uneasy about an AMP. It sounds like a lot of fun, but rather than swimming into untested waters I stick to what I know.

Whatever you decide, stay safe and hope you have fun if you decide to play.

I just had sex 1 hour ago and while I was anally penetrating this girl, my condom broke.

Also there was small amount of bleeding from her anus.

I freaked out, ran into the bathroom and wash my penis with a soap (but did not urinate immediately. I urinated just now, 1 hour after the exposure to the blood.).

She is NOT a pro and she said that she's clean and she always uses condom.

But I cannot take the risk.

Even without her knowledge, she'd be a HIV patient!

So I'm thinking of getting "HIV Post-exposure Prophylaxis Service" right away (either tonight or tomorrow morning since it is supposed to be done within 72 hours).

What do you guys think?

Also, is there any place you would recommend in or around downtown Los Angeles to get "HIV Post-exposure Prophylaxis Service"?

Any input would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks!

[QUOTE=Ddddan218;2401714]I just had sex 1 hour ago and while I was anally penetrating this girl, my condom broke.

Also there was small amount of bleeding from her anus.

I freaked out, ran into the bathroom and wash my penis with a soap (but did not urinate immediately. I urinated just now, 1 hour after the exposure to the blood.).

She is NOT a pro and she said that she's clean and she always uses condom.

But I cannot take the risk.

Even without her knowledge, she'd be a HIV patient!

So I'm thinking of getting "HIV Post-exposure Prophylaxis Service" right away (either tonight or tomorrow morning since it is supposed to be done within 72 hours).

What do you guys think?

Also, is there any place you would recommend in or around downtown Los Angeles to get "HIV Post-exposure Prophylaxis Service"?

Any input would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks![/QUOTE]Call your doctor / urgent care / er for this hopefully you can find an ER open late enough.

fyi there is an over the counter test called oraquick if you could find one and have her take it you might save yourself so sleepless nights.

[QUOTE=Zman429;2401786]
fyi there is an over the counter test called oraquick if you could find one and have her take it you might save yourself so sleepless nights.[/QUOTE]What he said about the otc test for hiv. If she's a np that you've been seeing, then ask her to take that test for your peace of mind. Maybe even comp her for it.

For what it's worth, the recipient is more likely to contract an sti / std.

For future meets, be sure to keep things lubricated during anal. There's much more friction that can cause breaks.

Good luck.

I went to urgent care last night and got the prescription for 28 days HIV post-exposure prophylaxis medications.

I started taking them from this morning (20 hours after the exposure).

Oraquick sounds good.

I will talk to her about it (although not sure whether she'd follow it since she was very certain that she's 100% clean.).

[QUOTE=Zman429;2401786]Call your doctor / urgent care / er for this hopefully you can find an ER open late enough.

fyi there is an over the counter test called oraquick if you could find one and have her take it you might save yourself so sleepless nights.[/QUOTE]

Thanks for the tip.

And lucky for her, she'd not get sti / std from me since I'm a healthcare professional and 100% clean (I work in the healthcare industry and I get regular check ups).

I hope I didn't get anything from her.

[QUOTE=Dolato;2401801]What he said about the otc test for hiv. If she's a np that you've been seeing, then ask her to take that test for your peace of mind. Maybe even comp her for it.

For what it's worth, the recipient is more likely to contract an sti / std.

For future meets, be sure to keep things lubricated during anal. There's much more friction that can cause breaks.

Good luck.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Ddddan218;2402839]Oraquick sounds good.

I will talk to her about it (although not sure whether she'd follow it since she was very certain that she's 100% clean.).[/QUOTE]I'd just get one and bring it with me sure she'd give you swab if you asked. They aren't that expensive.

Yeah, I should buy that ASAP!

[QUOTE=Zman429;2403325]I'd just get one and bring it with me sure she'd give you swab if you asked. They aren't that expensive.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Ddddan218;2401714]I just had sex 1 hour ago and while I was anally penetrating this girl, my condom broke.

Also there was small amount of bleeding from her anus.

I freaked out, ran into the bathroom and wash my penis with a soap (but did not urinate immediately. I urinated just now, 1 hour after the exposure to the blood.).

She is NOT a pro and she said that she's clean and she always uses condom.

But I cannot take the risk.

Even without her knowledge, she'd be a HIV patient!

So I'm thinking of getting "HIV Post-exposure Prophylaxis Service" right away (either tonight or tomorrow morning since it is supposed to be done within 72 hours).

What do you guys think?

Also, is there any place you would recommend in or around downtown Los Angeles to get "HIV Post-exposure Prophylaxis Service"?

Any input would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks![/QUOTE]What I would do is be super cool with the chick and very tactfully try to talk her into going with you so she can get tested too. I would put on an oscar worthy perfomance and just feed her lines to get her to get go. Don't rely on her word alone. Even if you have to come out of pocket to get her to go. Would be worth peace of mind.

Anyone have any info on the availability of working girls on cruise ships out of Long Beach? Any help would be appreciated.

[QUOTE=MartyBreger;2406468]Anyone have any info on the availability of working girls on cruise ships out of Long Beach? Any help would be appreciated.[/QUOTE]LBC is fulla p4 p. The cruise ships, I don't know, but I bet if you pay for their trip, you can get most to go with you. See, problem solved.

Thank you for the great advice.

But it seems she's pretty much adamant about her being clean.

Either way, I am going to finish this 28 day post exposure medications.

The chance is low but still, I don't want to take any risk.

[QUOTE=Camaro2010;2404099]What I would do is be super cool with the chick and very tactfully try to talk her into going with you so she can get tested too. I would put on an oscar worthy perfomance and just feed her lines to get her to get go. Don't rely on her word alone. Even if you have to come out of pocket to get her to go. Would be worth peace of mind.[/QUOTE]

If this question is in the wrong thread, let me know. Does anyone know of any Viet coffee shops in the Los Angeles area that are anything like the ones in the OC? I've been to Guangzhou Café in Garden Grove and I liked the place and am hoping for something like it closer to home.

[QUOTE=RohanCid;2413293]If this question is in the wrong thread, let me know. Does anyone know of any Viet coffee shops in the Los Angeles area that are anything like the ones in the OC? I've been to Guangzhou Caf in Garden Grove and I liked the place and am hoping for something like it closer to home.[/QUOTE]Funny. I drove past Miss Saigon yesterday and was thinking the same thing: something in LA, but maybe without all the patrons smoking. I've looked for a while, but I've seen nothing like that outside of Garbage Grove. Maybe if I win the lottery, I'll set one up. .

[QUOTE=RohanCid;2413293]If this question is in the wrong thread, let me know. Does anyone know of any Viet coffee shops in the Los Angeles area that are anything like the ones in the OC? I've been to Guangzhou Caf in Garden Grove and I liked the place and am hoping for something like it closer to home.[/QUOTE]Cafe Lotus in Gardena.

[URL]https://www.facebook.com/cafelotus310?ref=profile[/URL]

I got a call from the clinic that I did blood test after that broken condom incident.

The result is negative for everything (HIV and all the known STD).

I was certain that she had no disease but I still had to take the blood test because I don't like to take any risk.

This is a good news but still, from now on, I will try to use 2 condoms on my dick.

I heard about it but never tried it.

But since this incident really scared me, I will give it a try. LOL.

I think some of us have been active on sugar daddy date sites and I have a question regarding that.

I am a member of SugarDaddyForMe site and have been talking to several girls over there.

I have not met anyone yet but there are 2 chicks who I might meet in the very near future.

Both of them are strippers with nice body.

But the funny thing is, each of them asked me to meet at the same local shopping mall (Cerritos Mall).

And one chick told me to help her shopping over there when we meet and then she will have sex with me afterward.

But that sounds like a huge red flag to me.

I think, most likely scenario in this case is, the stripper chick made me pay for all her shopping and then would not honor her words about having sex part.

I mean, basic 101 of business is the swap of goods and services and if I paid someone beforehand in the form of shopping (even before we get into the motel room), an unethical person would ignore her part of the deal.

So it smells like a setup to rip me off.

What do you think?

What should be my best move?

Any input would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks.

I wouldn't use two condoms if I were you. I thought the same that if you wear two condoms that it would give more protection. However, I heard it increases the chances for breakage. Supposedly the two condoms rubbing creates friction which leads to a higher chance of breakage. Just FYI.

[QUOTE=Ddddan218;2414205]I got a call from the clinic that I did blood test after that broken condom incident.

The result is negative for everything (HIV and all the known STD).

I was certain that she had no disease but I still had to take the blood test because I don't like to take any risk.

This is a good news but still, from now on, I will try to use 2 condoms on my dick.

I heard about it but never tried it.

But since this incident really scared me, I will give it a try. LOL.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Ddddan218;2414209]I think some of us have been active on sugar daddy date sites and I have a question regarding that.

I am a member of SugarDaddyForMe site and have been talking to several girls over there.

I have not met anyone yet but there are 2 chicks who I might meet in the very near future.

Both of them are strippers with nice body.

But the funny thing is, each of them asked me to meet at the same local shopping mall (Cerritos Mall).

And one chick told me to help her shopping over there when we meet and then she will have sex with me afterward.

But that sounds like a huge red flag to me.

I think, most likely scenario in this case is, the stripper chick made me pay for all her shopping and then would not honor her words about having sex part.

I mean, basic 101 of business is the swap of goods and services and if I paid someone beforehand in the form of shopping (even before we get into the motel room), an unethical person would ignore her part of the deal.

So it smells like a setup to rip me off.

What do you think?

What should be my best move?

Any input would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks.[/QUOTE]If it were me, I would meet her, get to know her, and see if I felt a comfort level with her, and if so, I would go shopping with her, and expect that she would do as promised. It isn't good to assume that everyone of these girls is an asshole, looking to rip us off, though some in this forum expose that theory. If she seems phony, you can always leave.

[QUOTE=Marlowe;2414240]If it were me, I would meet her, get to know her, and see if I felt a comfort level with her, and if so, I would go shopping with her, and expect that she would do as promised. It isn't good to assume that everyone of these girls is an asshole, looking to rip us off, though some in this forum expose that theory. If she seems phony, you can always leave.[/QUOTE]I would hold the purchases and give them to her after the deed.

"A bird in hand is worth two in a Bush. " Just pays to use logic.

Let us know how it went. "Nothing ventured, nothing gained. ".

Be safe.

[QUOTE=Ddddan218;2414205]I got a call from the clinic that I did blood test after that broken condom incident.

The result is negative for everything (HIV and all the known STD).

I was certain that she had no disease but I still had to take the blood test because I don't like to take any risk.

This is a good news but still, from now on, I will try to use 2 condoms on my dick.

I heard about it but never tried it.

But since this incident really scared me, I will give it a try. LOL.[/QUOTE]Don't use two condoms at once. More lube is your solution. Lube your covered tool, lube the outside and inside of her hole. After you get in, pull out and lube some more.

[QUOTE=Ddddan218;2414209]I think some of us have been active on sugar daddy date sites and I have a question regarding that.

I am a member of SugarDaddyForMe site and have been talking to several girls over there.

I have not met anyone yet but there are 2 chicks who I might meet in the very near future.

Both of them are strippers with nice body.

But the funny thing is, each of them asked me to meet at the same local shopping mall (Cerritos Mall).

And one chick told me to help her shopping over there when we meet and then she will have sex with me afterward.

But that sounds like a huge red flag to me.

I think, most likely scenario in this case is, the stripper chick made me pay for all her shopping and then would not honor her words about having sex part.

I mean, basic 101 of business is the swap of goods and services and if I paid someone beforehand in the form of shopping (even before we get into the motel room), an unethical person would ignore her part of the deal.

So it smells like a setup to rip me off.

What do you think?

What should be my best move?

Any input would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks.[/QUOTE]Never ever pay up front. Period.

Of course RED FLAG, Like HollywoodGuy say NEVER pay up front.

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;2414872]Never ever pay up front. Period.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Ddddan218;2414209]I think some of us have been active on sugar daddy date sites and I have a question regarding that.
[/QUOTE]I know others have already chimed in, but just throwing my 2 cents.

If they're strippers, they're already well versed in the art of separating a man from his dollars.

Read through the sugar babies threads in the la pages or the richmond, va. There's not much new we can add here that hasn't already been covered.

And congrats on the negs on the test.

[QUOTE=Dolato;2415987]I know others have already chimed in, but just throwing my 2 cents.

If they're strippers, they're already well versed in the art of separating a man from his dollars.

Read through the sugar babies threads in the la pages or the richmond, va. There's not much new we can add here that hasn't already been covered.

And congrats on the negs on the test.[/QUOTE]So how many of these "sugarbabies" are actually strippers? Some of these sites act like they are sweet college girls looking to make some $ on the side. Is this just a big scam?

Thanks for the answer.

Yeah, and I am planning to carry a bottle of quality lubricant myself as well. .

[QUOTE=JParkLa;2414235]I wouldn't use two condoms if I were you. I thought the same that if you wear two condoms that it would give more protection. However, I heard it increases the chances for breakage. Supposedly the two condoms rubbing creates friction which leads to a higher chance of breakage. Just FYI.[/QUOTE]

Thanks for the input.

Yeah, maybe there are few strippers who are not an asshole.

Maybe I should just have a coffee or meal with her first before doing anything else.

[QUOTE=Marlowe;2414240]If it were me, I would meet her, get to know her, and see if I felt a comfort level with her, and if so, I would go shopping with her, and expect that she would do as promised. It isn't good to assume that everyone of these girls is an asshole, looking to rip us off, though some in this forum expose that theory. If she seems phony, you can always leave.[/QUOTE]

Yeah, that sounds less risky for sure.

Thanks for the input!

[QUOTE=Orion1938;2414329]I would hold the purchases and give them to her after the deed.

"A bird in hand is worth two in a Bush. " Just pays to use logic.

Let us know how it went. "Nothing ventured, nothing gained. ".

Be safe.[/QUOTE]

Thanks for the input.

Yes, I will definitely carry the best lubricant myself whenever I meet a girl.

[QUOTE=Clicker619;2414685]Don't use two condoms at once. More lube is your solution. Lube your covered tool, lube the outside and inside of her hole. After you get in, pull out and lube some more.[/QUOTE]

Thanks for the advice.

Yes, that does make sense.

They would not have any incentive if they get paid first.

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;2414872]Never ever pay up front. Period.[/QUOTE]

Thank you for the advice!

[QUOTE=Fitibikeco;2415901]Of course RED FLAG, Like HollywoodGuy say NEVER pay up front.[/QUOTE]

Thanks for the input.

Yes, I am starting to read sugar babies threads and it is really informative.

I am planning to read up all the posts there to catch up.

[QUOTE=Dolato;2415987]I know others have already chimed in, but just throwing my 2 cents.

If they're strippers, they're already well versed in the art of separating a man from his dollars.

Read through the sugar babies threads in the la pages or the richmond, va. There's not much new we can add here that hasn't already been covered.

And congrats on the negs on the test.[/QUOTE]

I have joined sugardaddyforme site couple days ago and sent out around 25 messages and received around 60 70 messages and kisses from girls.

But when I looked into it, a lot of girls who approached me first, appeared to be either strippers or straight up pros.

Not sure what to think yet but there are many strippers in that site for sure.

[QUOTE=Marlowe;2416040]So how many of these "sugarbabies" are actually strippers? Some of these sites act like they are sweet college girls looking to make some $ on the side. Is this just a big scam?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Marlowe;2416040]So how many of these "sugarbabies" are actually strippers? Some of these sites act like they are sweet college girls looking to make some $ on the side. Is this just a big scam?[/QUOTE]The number of college girls / regular girls far outnumber the strippers / utr's and pros. But it seems SA is far "cleaner" than SD4M.

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;2416318]The number of college girls / regular girls far outnumber the strippers / utr's and pros. But it seems SA is far "cleaner" than SD4M.[/QUOTE]I found the opposite. SA seems to have a greater number of unrealistic girls, and a higher "scam" content. SDFM has that too, but I found more (many) "normal" girls on SDFM. Just my experience.