Safe Sex Information and Advice

Was in Charlotte, NC. For a long fuck weekend, hit several AMPs. All three did the same thing to me. Put that cover on like it wasn't there! Great feeling, stopped her once to see if she put one on. I am a covered monger, so I wanted to be sure BJ was covered also. The only thing, that I thought about, was, she came back to the room with it in her mouth so I didn't see it, was it used? Have been to AMPs that are using them over, always take my own. Like I said I 'm covered always,!If you play with, without, that is your choice, you need to be able to deal, what cums your way, and live with it, I am not going to risk "all in" for a piece of AMP ass, or put my dick in" your old CUM"in a wet pussy, no matter what the polls say,(safe, not safe) about "numbers". Do what you want, when I walk away I know I'm clean! Drk.

[QUOTE=JayPlay42;2898598]I've tried Durex and Lifestyles and found them a bit snug.

Any suggestions on the best feeling condoms and where to source?[/QUOTE]The thin Japanese condoms are often recommended for better sensation. However, they are too snug for some American men.

I have recently heard the opinion that condoms that are too tight cause you to lose sensation. Supposedly the solution is to buy large size condoms, which are usually wider as well as longer. European condoms are available in wider sizes than allowed by the FDA. They can be ordered online and delivered by mail. The greatest number of sizes are offered by TheyFit. Their website is:

[URL]http://www.theyfit.co.uk/[/URL]

To get them shipped to the USA you have to use a forwarding service called A Few Bucks Fwd.

[URL]http://afewbucksfwd.weebly.com/afbf-amp-condoms.html[/URL]

TheyFit has announced it has been acquired by ONE Condoms, and will be launching in the United States this Fall as myONE. However, they likely won't offer the full range of sizes in the USA since wide condoms are banned by the FDA.

Another option is a company called MySize. They offer less size options, but are available on Amazon.

[URL]http://www.mysize-condoms.com/[/URL]

[URL]http://www.amazon.com/10-pack-My-Size-Condoms-Inches/dp/B00M4N69G0[/URL]

Here is a chart to compare the sizes of different condoms:

[URL]http://www.condom-sizes.org/condom-size-chart/condom-size-chart[/URL]

There is a different condom available in the US that gets great reviews regarding sensation from some people and poor reviews from others. I believe the good reviews are from men who the condom fits and the poor reviews from those it doesn't fit, since it is only available in one size. It might be worth trying to see if you're one of the lucky ones. It is called the Unique Pull. It is made from a polyethylene resin and is thinner than the Japanese thin condoms. The material is sort of like a plastic bag. It doesn't stretch, so size is very important. The material tends to be a bit crinkly if it is too wide to fit you.

[URL]http://www.condom-sizes.org/condom-brands/unique-pull-condoms-reviewed-thin-condoms-pull-strips-credit-card-package[/URL]

It is available here:

[URL]https://luckybloke.com/products/buy-unique-non-latex-condoms-reviews[/URL]

[QUOTE=JohnDough;2920786]The thin Japanese condoms are often recommended for better sensation. However, they are too snug for some American men.

I have recently heard the opinion that condoms that are too tight cause you to lose sensation. Supposedly the solution is to buy large size condoms, which are usually wider as well as longer. European condoms are available in wider sizes than allowed by the FDA. They can be ordered online and delivered by mail. The greatest number of sizes are offered by TheyFit. Their website is:

[URL]http://www.theyfit.co.uk/[/URL]

To get them shipped to the USA you have to use a forwarding service called A Few Bucks Fwd.

[URL]http://afewbucksfwd.weebly.com/afbf-amp-condoms.html[/URL]

TheyFit has announced it has been acquired by ONE Condoms, and will be launching in the United States this Fall as myONE. However, they likely won't offer the full range of sizes in the USA since wide condoms are banned by the FDA.

Another option is a company called MySize. They offer less size options, but are available on Amazon.

[URL]http://www.mysize-condoms.com/[/URL]

[URL]http://www.amazon.com/10-pack-My-Size-Condoms-Inches/dp/B00M4N69G0[/URL]

Here is a chart to compare the sizes of different condoms:

[URL]http://www.condom-sizes.org/condom-size-chart/condom-size-chart[/URL]

There is a different condom available in the US that gets great reviews regarding sensation from some people and poor reviews from others. I believe the good reviews are from men who the condom fits and the poor reviews from those it doesn't fit, since it is only available in one size. It might be worth trying to see if you're one of the lucky ones. It is called the Unique Pull. It is made from a polyethylene resin and is thinner than the Japanese thin condoms. The material is sort of like a plastic bag. It doesn't stretch, so size is very important. The material tends to be a bit crinkly if it is too wide to fit you.

[URL]http://www.condom-sizes.org/condom-brands/unique-pull-condoms-reviewed-thin-condoms-pull-strips-credit-card-package[/URL]

It is available here:

[URL]https://luckybloke.com/products/buy-unique-non-latex-condoms-reviews[/URL][/QUOTE]I use Magnums but before I put on any condom I use some lube on my dick which I find helps the feeling a lot.

[QUOTE=Dazhiba;2920794]I use Magnums but before I put on any condom I use some lube on my dick which I find helps the feeling a lot.[/QUOTE]There are condoms with a baggy pouch at the head that are supposed to improve sensation. For example, Trojan Magnum Ecstasy has a baggy head.

[URL]http://www.condomdepot.com/trojan-magnum-etasy/[/URL]

See the picture under Condom Shape at the link.

Even the regular Trojan Magnum is wider at the head than at the base.

[URL]http://www.condomdepot.com/trojan-magnum-condoms/[/URL]

The Trojan Double Ecstasy combines a baggy head with internal lubrication. "Different lubricants on the inside and outside of the condom help maximize pleasure for each partner ".

[URL]http://www.condomdepot.com/trojan-double-etasy/[/URL]

[QUOTE=JohnDough;2920786]TheyFit has announced it has been acquired by ONE Condoms, and will be launching in the United States this Fall as myONE. However, they likely won't offer the full range of sizes in the USA since wide condoms are banned by the FDA.[/QUOTE]It seems my previous statement was only partially correct. Apparently ONE condoms have convinced the FDA to expand the allowable size range, though it will still be smaller than allowed in Europe. There will be 56 size combinations of length and width, versus 95 currently offered by TheyFit.

[URL]http://www.onecondoms.com/pages/myone[/URL]

[QUOTE]ONE is excited to introduce 56 perfect-fit condom sizes to the United States. These include sizes larger and smaller than anything currently available on the U.S. market, marking a historic shift in the range of condoms that are cleared by the FDA for sale. In 2015 the FDA granted clearance for an increased range of sizes. Most condoms properly fit only 12% of men.[/QUOTE][URL]http://www.onecondoms.com/blogs/press-releases/117188421-measure-for-perfect-fit-one-condoms-to-provide-56-condom-sizes[/URL]

[QUOTE]Prior to myONE, the minimum allowed condom length set by ASTM was 6.69 incheswith the introduction of myONE, condoms will be available starting at 4.92 inches. The allowed condom width set by ASTM prior to myONE was 1.85 to 2.24 inches. MyONE widths will range from 1.77 to 2.52 inches. In contrast, studies show that penis size varies greatly, with lengths ranging from about 1.57 to 10.24 inches and widths ranging from about 0.5 to 3.16 inches. Based on the data, myONE will offer sizes properly fitting 80 percent of condom purchasers. Another 10 percent will find a substantially improved fit over regular condoms.[/QUOTE]

[url]http://fusion.net/story/300808/male-penis-size-custom-condom/[/url]

[quote]ONE is now the only condom company that has been approved to sell this expanded range of condom sizes in the U.S. The condoms will be available for purchase starting this fall.[/quote]

[QUOTE=Dazhiba;2920794]I use Magnums but before I put on any condom I use some lube on my dick which I find helps the feeling a lot.[/QUOTE]Exactly! That is a trick that real pro girls know to do. A bit of lube on the inside helps the heat transfer and improves the sensation.

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[QUOTE=FlyBoy2423;2928445]She goes bareback but you had your tongue all up in her. LOL I got 2 rules. Never bareback. Never DATY. You guys are crazy LOL. I have seen her and you are right super sweet but not my type.[/QUOTE]Many men and women find oral sex an intensely pleasurable experience. People use different terms to refer to oral sex (including formal terms like fellatio and cunnilingus and slang terms like blow jobs and giving head). Usually oral sex means one person kissing, licking or sucking another person's genitals.

Oral sex and HIV.

Doctors and researchers can't be sure how many people have been infected with HIV through oral sex. Some think hardly anybody has been infected with HIV from oral sex, but other people think that as many as 3% of infections are due to oral sex. In late 2008, researchers looked at all the available evidence and calculated that the risk of contracting HIV from oral sex was very low, but that it wasn't zero.

It is known that oral sex involves less risk than unprotected anal sex or unprotected vaginal sex.

The likelihood that HIV is transmitted from a person with HIV to an HIV-negative person depends on the type of contact involved. HIV is most easily transmitted by unprotected anal sex (that is, without condoms), unprotected vaginal sex, sharing injecting equipment, and from mother to baby. It also depends on the viral load of the person with HIV.

Oral sex has been shown to be a less risky activity, but it is not risk free. Again, it depends on the viral load of the person with HIV and the dental health of the person performing oral sex. It's also worth remembering that other sexually transmitted infections, such as syphilis, herpes and gonorrhoea, can be quite easily transmitted through oral sex. If you don't use condoms, or dental dams, for oral sex, it's a good idea to have regular sexual health check-ups.

The risk of HIV being passed on during oral sex centres on fluid containing HIV (semen, vaginal fluid or blood) finding a way into the bloodstream of an HIV-negative person (via the mouth or throat, which is more likely if there is inflammation, or cuts or sores present). HIV is not passed on through exposure to saliva alone, so a person with HIV performing oral sex on someone who is HIV negative is considered to be very low risk.

The type of oral sex makes a difference to the level of risk.

HIV transmission through 'receptive fellatio', which means an HIV-negative person performing oral sex on (giving a blow job to) a man with HIV is possible and it is likely that HIV transmission happens in this way sometimes.

HIV transmission through 'insertive fellatio', which means an HIV-negative man receiving oral sex from a person with HIV, is very low risk and may be impossible.

There have been very few reports of possible HIV transmission through cunnilingus (oral sex performed on a woman). It is biologically possible that HIV could be passed on through an HIV-negative person performing oral sex on a woman with HIV, but this is considered to be low risk.

There have been no documented cases of someone being infected with HIV through receiving cunnilingus from a woman with HIV.

When is oral sex more risky?

If you have HIV, there is a higher risk of passing on HIV through someone performing oral sex on you, if you also have an untreated sexually transmitted infection. If you don't have HIV and you are performing oral sex on someone who does have HIV, you are at more risk of being infected if you have cuts, sores or abrasions in your mouth or on your gums. There is also more risk if you have an infection, including sexually transmitted ones, in your throat or mouth which is causing inflammation.

For men, having a high viral load in the blood may also mean that viral load is high in the semen. Although there is good evidence that men who have an undetectable viral load in their blood usually have an undetectable viral load in their semen, this isn't always the case. Factors like untreated sexually transmitted infections can cause viral load in semen to increase. Therefore, most doctors believe you cannot assume that having an undetectable viral load means you're uninfectious. However, the risk of HIV transmission during oral sex if a person has an undetectable viral load is extremely low.

For women, the levels of HIV in vaginal fluid vary. They are likely to be highest around the time of menstruation (having your period), when HIV-bearing cells shed from the cervix are most likely to be found in vaginal fluid, along with blood. Oral sex will therefore be more risky around the time of menstruation.

How can you reduce the risks?

There are several ways to reduce the risks of oral sex. Naturally, some will be more acceptable than others to different individuals, so you must make your own decisions about the level of risk you find acceptable. If you would like to discuss these issues, ask to see a health adviser, or other health professional, at your treatment centre or sexual health clinic. Many of the strategies below will also provide protection against other sexually transmitted infections:

You may decide that the risks of oral sex are low enough for you to continue your regular behaviour.

You may prefer not to have oral sex because you do not wish to take even a low risk of HIV transmission.

You may decide to reduce the number of partners with whom you have oral sex.

You may decide to have oral sex with barriers such as condoms for men or dental dams (latex squares) for women.

If you don't have HIV, you may decide only to have insertive oral sex (someone giving you oral sex) as this is safer than receptive oral sex (giving someone else oral sex).

You may decide not to ejaculate into your partner's mouth or not to have someone ejaculate into your mouth.

You may decide to avoid oral sex during menstrual periods.

Look after your mouth. The likelihood of becoming infected through giving oral sex increases if someone has bleeding gums, ulcers, cuts or sores in the mouth. Don't brush your teeth or floss just before oral sex.

Have regular sexual health screening. This will identify if you have any sexually transmitted infections, which may increase the likelihood of you transmitting HIV to a negative partner, and reduce the likelihood of you contracting HIV if you are HIV-negative.

Find out more.

For more information on oral sex and sexual transmission of HIV, you may find the information in our publications HIV & sex or HIV transmission & testing helpful. Online versions of these are freely available in the resources section of our website: [URL]www.aidsmap.com/resources.[/URL].

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Find out more.

For more information on oral sex and sexual transmission of HIV, you may find the information in our publications HIV & sex or HIV transmission & testing helpful. Online versions of these are freely available in the resources section of our website: [URL]www.aidsmap.com/resources.[/URL].[/QUOTE]All of that is good information to know so that anyone can make an individual decision as to risks involved in unprotected sex.

Also be aware that the percentage of people running around with an HIV infection is in the range of 2-3%. Since this site is about M-F sex we need to note that the percentage of women with HIV infection is <1%. Of course some groups are higher risk: injection drug users, poverty, and race.

Then that site says that there is a risk of 1 in 1,000 (0. 1%) of getting HIV from vaginal intercourse with an infected woman.

So know the facts and evaluate the risks for yourself.

[QUOTE=Lips1963;2932164]Great report! Could you please let us know how much this cost? I'm unfamiliar with that club mainly because I was told that extras were rare in there. But now you got me curious! I got used to the cheaters prices before they folded where a BBBJCIM from Tashsa or Foxy (the stripper not the club LOL) or Cleo (that's going WAY back!) was 100 or less plus the 45 house / entry / godiva fees. How does the situation there at Foxy's compare? Is there enough privacy to get that done during peak hours? Personally I'd rather get blown in a private booth than out in the open, what does that cost, do you know? Thanks.[/QUOTE]Hi all. I went to Zebra a few weeks ago. I never "participate" in any activities at these places, I usually just observe and hang at the stage and my buddy is the one that tends to go to the back room for "extras. " Anyway, This girl approached me. She had an ok face, awesome tight little body and she was engaging as far as conversation goes. She talked me into a dance and then talked me into that back room but gave me two free dances in the open area before going into the back room. She said it would be $100 total for 15 minutes but would throw in the two free dances I just had at no charge. So I say "why not?" She danced and then to my shock started to unzip me. At that point I figured ok, guess I may get a tug? Nope, she started to give me a BBBJ. I was a little tipsy so I said to myself, self, too late to ask for protection at this point, I guess I should let her finish. So she finished and swallowed. Most guys would have loved that, I however was horrified of catching something, especially after seeing her willingness to do anything. So I zipped up and asked if she was clean and she said yes. Said that it was her first day working and she dances at another place usually (I think Cadillac).

So 4 days go by and I start getting some HORRIBLE symptoms down there. After two embarrassing trips to my doctor and two weeks of cipro twice a day, I am back to normal and all tests negative. I am going to get tested again in a few months to make sure I did not catch something more serious. Doctor says very unlikely that I did and no real need to test again but I am a worry wort. Lesson for me here, I will NEVER do anything again without protection. So either she lied to me about being clean or perhaps I am just allergic to dirty skanky hoes. Just wanted to share my experience with the rest of you and to say be careful out there!! My buddy says I am the luckiest guy to get a BBJ and all those dances for $100 and was pissed that he does not get deals like that and was pissed at me for asking her if she was clean because now I may have ruined it for the rest of you. My response to him after this experience was I told him you guys can have it all! I am all set with getting extras at a nudie bar after that experience.

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Saw a KGIRL that offered BBFS and CIP not long ago and now I believe I have the drips. It's my first time getting this after being in this hobby for a few years. Did some research about Azithromycin. Anyone know of a way or place for me to get it cheap? I don't want to have to get a prescription if possible. Any help or advice is much appreciated.

[QUOTE=Hahasupz;2933669]Saw a KGIRL that offered BBFS and CIP not long ago and now I believe I have the drips. It's my first time getting this after being in this hobby for a few years. Did some research about Azithromycin. Anyone know of a way or place for me to get it cheap? I don't want to have to get a prescription if possible. Any help or advice is much appreciated.[/QUOTE]Uhh. We'll help you if you help us. Who in the hell is she?

First can you message me the girl? Hopefully I haven't seen her LOL andi think I have a doctor or a place where you can get it message me.

[QUOTE=Hahasupz;2933669]Saw a KGIRL that offered BBFS and CIP not long ago and now I believe I have the drips. It's my first time getting this after being in this hobby for a few years. Did some research about Azithromycin. Anyone know of a way or place for me to get it cheap? I don't want to have to get a prescription if possible. Any help or advice is much appreciated.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Hahasupz;2933669]Saw a KGIRL that offered BBFS and CIP not long ago and now I believe I have the drips. It's my first time getting this after being in this hobby for a few years. Did some research about Azithromycin. Anyone know of a way or place for me to get it cheap? I don't want to have to get a prescription if possible. Any help or advice is much appreciated.[/QUOTE]For drips treatment you need combination of Azythromycine (orally- usually given at a single large (1 mg= two pills) and Ceftriaxone (comercially known as Rocephin; single injecttion intramuscular in the butt; 250 mg). You need to go to the doctor's office to be treated. Do not mix up or borrow antibiotics on your own as you make make the bacteria to become resistant and complicate the situation.