Two M&G one extreme to the other.
First was a totally innocent 18 year old I had been communicating for weeks with online. She was the type always making excuses about exams, study and such, but somehow we always found each other texting again. Finally she agreed to meet and through a huge series of texts, she assured me, although "not tonight" she would be up for sex. We met for dinner, as I was hungry and I had a midnight meeting with a sure FC girl (more on that later) but I figured if the dinner date somehow lead to the FC I would forgo the other.
So this girl walks in, she's pretty, but a bit tall and very big boned for my taste. We meet at a steakhouse and she orders the most expense cut on the menu, some Rib-eye-Tbone cut. $48. WTF? As we talk, I knew right away she was not for me. She was picky about everything, but a nice girl. Physically not my type as well. She was not overweight, but she was a BIG framed girl, probably with a huge vava. LOL. We finished dinner and I start bringing up indicators about some action and first she tells me she is on her monthly, so I tell her we can kiss and fool around. ETC. So out comes another excuse about having to be to work at 5 am. Whatever, at this point I'm done, I have a midnight date with a bartender 80 miles away.
After dinner, she texts me asking why I did not offer her an allowance for coming out. I sat in my car and gave her a four page email about how this little hobby really works and set her straight. That kind of pissed me off. She was a total waist of time, monotone voice and personality, no flirting, all business, picky as fuck and excuse after excuse. She was hoping to get $300 for dinner. Grow up little girl and get a clue is all I could think.
So I drove the 80 mile drive to a girl I knew was not "innocent" We communicated for a week prior to meeting, sent photos and talked on the phone. Finally our schedules had aligned. Now this girl is really not what I would classify as a "SB" but she was to be an experience unlike any I had before. She was 28 and I tineyed her photos as I was sure there was no way they were real. I really had my doubts walking into the bar where we agreed to meet. During our communications, she indicated she was into bondage, dominating and also being submissive. She enjoyed all aspects of sex and play. She was soft spoken, well spoken and educated. She has a VERY dark and perverse side to her. It was hard for me to consider this given her soft, feminine and amazing model-like looks.
As I walked in the bar, I immediately spotted her. The girl was amazing. Dark hair, a face prettier than the last one I described who could not be any better, huge, upright tits with lots of cleavage in a black dress. Not a blemish on her milky white skin. I would say a solid 9 on a scale of 10. We sat and talked for two hours until the bar closed. We both were a bit drunk and stumbled to our hotel. Long story short, we had some serious intense sex. Some light biting, bondage from me to her and three rounds of fucking. When we first began playing, she spit in her hand and started giving me a HJ and got me rock hard. She looked up at me and said, "you want me to suck your cock don't you. " I grabbed the back of her hair and said, "yes I do" and she looked at me again and said, "If I do, I'll ruin head for you with ever other girl you're ever with" (it was that kind of communication between us) Well she went to work and she wasn't lying. I've never been given head the way she did. She used about every technique I've ever had in one ten minute round of oral. Gagging, deep throat and holding, spitting, you name it. So we had three rounds of sex, not mushy, passionate, movie scene sex, but "evil" intense, dark sex. Haha and I was good with it. A true kinky girl, into anything, with looks like hers, does not come along very often, so I went with it, even though she was not a true SB. It was a great night!
As for an allowance, I pushed her for week leading up to the event about how much and she kept saying it was entirely up to me. Even when we were leaving, she kept saying the same thing and even got bugged. She said whatever you want, or nothing at all. I gave her $ $ and she was quite happy with that.
Just over 4 months. Review
I have been fishing on SDT and WYP sites. Current line up: VASB - 25 great communicator has 2 kids and a on / off live in BF. We meet once a week (sometimes more) for 3-5 hours in a hotel. Lots of fun and is in the #1 spot right now (SDT). KYSB / POT have met once, thought this was going to be a hit and quit, but she is turning out to be a great communicator and sending pics wanting a return. She is 33 two kids no SO. Will meet about 1 a month till I find something else in KY (WYP). CHATSB. Good for a low cost BJ - 19 only call for a call date while driving through (SDT). KNOXSB - 20 aaCB. Very low cost and lots of fun. Large rack, great with car dates. She is too close to my hometown to be seen out together. See about 1/ week (SDT). Meeting a new POT in Chatt tomorrow - 20 looks great (WYP). RodeoSB disappeared after 3 dates (WYP) ATLCBSB. After 4 dates she went way NANDO1 - I no longer call but wow she was really good in bed with great looks mixed race (SDT). PEACHESSB ATL - 21 CB, going through some issues not sure if she will stick around. Not into drama (WYP).
Still looking for a solid SB in Altanta area and Chatt area. Looks like I get about a 40% return rate after my contact email. Out of that 40% about 50% meet. 85% of meets end up in the FC. I pay around 100-200 per date plus cover all expenses when we are together. I travel with work so my hotel and meals are expensed most of the time. (two hotels in a day and I cover one of them.).
I spend 0 on SDT and about $50 every 4-6 weeks on WYP and stay as busy as I can. I try to have 2-3 FC visits a week. Because of my job and traveling I have a lot more freedom then some of you guys and can keep my costs down. Let me know if I can help anyone. A good idea for someone just getting started, try to find a mentor to bounce idea off of. Will save you a lot of headache!
Advice how to handle SB who is "falling for you"
As I am new to the sugar bowl and each aspect of this area evolves, I am encountering new "issues" here and there. The latest, my first SB, age 20, girl who has experienced life beyond what most girls her age have experienced. The Ex abusive boyfriend, a few bad boys, one kid at age 18 and so on. She views me as the first guy ever in her life who has treated her right and with respect, etc. (that's just in my nature I guess) so the other night she dumps on me that she is "falling' for me and wants a true relationship with me. Now this girl is super sweet and sensitive. She is a solid 7 in the looks department, with the girl next door thing going on. I came back with the excuse of our age differences and tried explaining we just both needed to enjoy each while the ride lasted. She got all sappy and starting crying and said she was really into me and such.
Now for some reason this scares the bee gees out of me as I'm sure you all can fill in some of the blanks. I like the girl and in another life, I might entertain and true relationship with her. She's the kind of girl that you might call a keeper. But this is just not going to happen. Any ideas how to let her down easy and escape any drama here?
Thanks!
