WYP, SA, and other SD sites

[QUOTE=OldChineseGuy;5708914]Based on your recommendation, I decided to stop banging my head against the SA wall and decided to check out WYP. I see some familiar faces from SA on WYP. So have a couple of questions. My philosophy has never to pay for a M&G. WYP seems to be a site where you bid for a M&G. I gather if the bid is accepted, there is no actual transfer of those funds on WYP, is it a gentlemen's agreement that when you do meet up, you are obliged to give er that agreed to amount? The what are credits for? Do you need them to communicate on WYP once an offer has been accepted? If so, how much does a credit buy oneself? If say one offers $50 to meet and she accepts, is what happens at the M&G open and between the two of us, ie. If one decides to make subsequent offers for P2 P, it is just between the two? Just wondering how this works.[/QUOTE]My philosophy has never to pay for a M&G. WYP seems to be a site where you bid for a M&G. I gather if the bid is accepted, there is no actual transfer of those funds on WYP, is it a gentlemen's agreement that when you do meet up, you are obliged to give er that agreed to amount?

- This is correct and one of the biggest adjustments for me. The offer is for the actual meet, so as long as I and the person don't meet- she's owed nothing. Regardless of the bid, I've been making it known that I'm seeking something a bit up close and personal and without strings. In the same message I ask if they're seeking something that looks and feels like a date, or more of a link up? Whatever the reply dictates my next message.

Do you need them to communicate on WYP once an offer has been accepted? If so, how much does a credit buy oneself?

It depends in which credit package you purchase. Initially I purchased the $50 100 credit pack, but it meant TRULY watching what offer I accepted and ultimately resulted in just two dates only one worth it😈. That experience formed the basis of my new approach and I bit the bullet and spent 150 for 500 credits.

F say one offers $50 to meet and she accepts, is what happens at the M&G open and between the two of us, ie. If one decides to make subsequent offers for P2 P, it is just between the two? Just wondering how this works.

True. What happens once you leave the site is between the two of you.

I saw her in Maryland and though she was fine with letting me in sans condom I chose to wrap up. My gut told me be careful as it seems the whole town is depositing baby batter. Also, while very accommodating and nice she just isn't very attractive in my book.

[QUOTE=Itfcd;5678408]I texted her last week, didn't arrange anything, and now she's texted me the last 2 mornings trying to get me to meet her ASAP. I just blocked her instead. I may circle back if my meet-up tonight doesn't go well, but if she's letting everyone here dump a load or three in every hole, maybe I shouldn't. Or maybe I'll text her with some lowball # for a blowjob and see if she goes for it.[/QUOTE]

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Super sweet, intelligent, hosts in Annapolis, and really enjoys bbfscip at 300. But. She is definitely a bigger girl and sadly not my type as I like them just a little meat on their bones.

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[QUOTE=MilesNoDavis;5709418]My philosophy has never to pay for a M&G. WYP seems to be a site where you bid for a M&G. I gather if the bid is accepted, there is no actual transfer of those funds on WYP, is it a gentlemen's agreement that when you do meet up, you are obliged to give er that agreed to amount?

- This is correct and one of the biggest adjustments for me. The offer is for the actual meet, so as long as I and the person don't meet- she's owed nothing. Regardless of the bid, I've been making it known that I'm seeking something a bit up close and personal and without strings. In the same message I ask if they're seeking something that looks and feels like a date, or more of a link up? Whatever the reply dictates my next message.

Do you need them to communicate on WYP once an offer has been accepted? If so, how much does a credit buy oneself?

It depends in which credit package you purchase. Initially I purchased the $50 100 credit pack, but it meant TRULY watching what offer I accepted and ultimately resulted in just two dates only one worth it😈. That experience formed the basis of my new approach and I bit the bullet and spent 150 for 500 credits..[/QUOTE]Thanks for the responses and clarity, appreciate it and owe ya one.

[QUOTE=Itfcd;5707959]Usually ask if they're on birth control, which is a normal kind of question to ask anyway (because condoms fail). Some, like her, will see what you're really asking and will specify using a condom anyway. But if they say yes, I ask if it's OK for BB. Some flip out, but all the ones I've filled up usually just say, "Are you clean / tested?" and I say yes.[/QUOTE]This is my initial line for bb as well. Usually the response is, yes but I like using protection because 'insert reason here', or no. So we need to use protection, or yes. And as long as you're clean we don't have to use protection.

The last answer always makes me happiest. The first answer is ok by me, and then I'll test it after a few meets by letting them know that I forgot condoms but that I promise not to cum inside. Usually by month 3, I'm bbfscip or bbfscia at that point.

[QUOTE=ProCatHunter;5711443]This is my initial line for bb as well. Usually the response is, yes but I like using protection because 'insert reason here', or no. So we need to use protection, or yes. And as long as you're clean we don't have to use protection.

The last answer always makes me happiest. The first answer is ok by me, and then I'll test it after a few meets by letting them know that I forgot condoms but that I promise not to cum inside. Usually by month 3, I'm bbfscip or bbfscia at that point.[/QUOTE]I use the same approach. If condoms are specified I just say I'm ok with protection at first, but for any ongoing arrangement I want the connection of cumming in a woman bare. Then throw a little dirty talk describing that. Usually works although there seem to be a number of women not on birth control. Which blows my mind.

[QUOTE=AnomBox;5711445]I use the same approach. If condoms are specified I just say I'm ok with protection at first, but for any ongoing arrangement I want the connection of cumming in a woman bare. Then throw a little dirty talk describing that. Usually works although there seem to be a number of women not on birth control. Which blows my mind.[/QUOTE]Yep. Had one who wasn't on birth control and so I brought a plan B with me so she would take it after our FC sessions. No need for me to pay child support when I already have a few that are expensive enough.

Where do you grab plan b? I'm going grab it myself instead of relying on NatalieH this weekend.

[QUOTE=ProCatHunter;5712731]Yep. Had one who wasn't on birth control and so I brought a plan B with me so she would take it after our FC sessions. No need for me to pay child support when I already have a few that are expensive enough.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=AnomBox;5712965]Where do you grab plan b? I'm going grab it myself instead of relying on NatalieH this weekend.[/QUOTE]Any drug store.

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This one claims she lives with her grandmother, and therefore can't host, and she also can't be on BC because of a series of bad reactions to it. Also said she got 7 PPM out of her last arrangement but was flexible on that number. Seems nice and she's cute, though, and she's also the only Asian I've talked to who hasn't been a scammer. Don't know if I'll bother though, as there are other, younger, raw-sex-friendly fish to fry. On the other hand, she's tiny and I'd like to see if she can take it or not. I bet she can't, and that's usually fun.

[QUOTE=AnomBox;5712965]Where do you grab plan b? I'm going grab it myself instead of relying on NatalieH this weekend.[/QUOTE]Walmart and target too, even some generic varieties.

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This one claims she lives with her grandmother, and therefore can't host, and she also can't be on BC because of a series of bad reactions to it. Also said she got 7 PPM out of her last arrangement but was flexible on that number. Seems nice and she's cute, though, and she's also the only Asian I've talked to who hasn't been a scammer. Don't know if I'll bother though, as there are other, younger, raw-sex-friendly fish to fry. On the other hand, she's tiny and I'd like to see if she can take it or not. I bet she can't, and that's usually fun.[/QUOTE]Please let us know if she could handle it! I've also found that if their main concern with protection is about getting pregnant, once you build trust with them and they realize you're not going to ghost, they are open to raw dogging it as long as you finish in their ass or mouth. I always find it fun once you get to the point where they let you creampie their ass.

[QUOTE=Mongerian;5713395]Walmart and target too, even some generic varieties.[/QUOTE]They also provide them at planned parenthood centers or at the student health and wellness centers at the college your SB is attending. If you get to the point where you trust that your college SB doesn't want you to get her pregnant (most do not want a baby to mess up their lifestyle) they can pick them up there and take it in front of you after your FC session.

If they forget to bring it with them, you can use that as the opening to creampie their ass or swallow your load.

Real and has a very open menu. BUT she stuck to 500 ppm and can't host so we politely went our own ways. Is anyone paying 500?? I could maybe see paying 500 ppm in Baltimore for a smoking hot college freshman with her own place. Maybe.

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