Boycott Oriental Massage (JYP)
The best way for a lousy place to go away is to not do business there.
Reasons for Boycott:
1. Self-service: no real stress relief.
2. Non-inclusive pricing: lowball pricing does not include TS. You pay extra for that.
3. Strongly suspect that they turned in their A++ competition (Ocean Spa) for not being 100% licensed.
4. Counterfeiting: They have signs in their massage rooms that say tips are welcome. It includes a photocopy of a $100 USA legal bank note (a Federal offense). Someone should call the US Secret Service on them.
Options to go to instead of this place and my grade: fairly close.
1. Golden Tiger: A- (OBT and Deerfield)
2. That place at I-Drive and Kirkman: B.
Let's all avoid Oriental Massage and make them pay for their evil doing. Be safe.
Beating a Dead Horse further
I guess I feel compelled to add my 1/2 cents worth (recession valuation). With all the guesswork about why or who dunnit, O / S was a great place that will long live in the lore that is this board. (RIP Boardroom, O / S, the strip club on obt where I got my first lap dance in 1983, etc) Places come and go all the time in this unfortunate business. Rumors and finger pointing will abound, as it has always been a favorite game of mongers young and old. In reality, unlicensed MP is an easy violation for Johnny Law. If everything we say is monitored then why isn't everyone out of business. Reality, LEO still needs to make a case, I. E. Have evidence, call witnesses etc. What we say is hearsay (possible admissions or possible opinions and / or fabrications) , not generally reliable enough to make a case stick in court. So the places that play fast and loose, often go down the fastest. The ones who ease into it, take precautions, usually last longer. (hence the need for this board to help dechipher the code) Regardless of the tipster, (and don't underestimate the possibility of a rival snitch. Money talks and the newest hottest place was taking $ away from someone) the place doesn't close if they don't get caught or have violations, regardless of what we say. If we think the heat is on because of what we say, then we may give ourselves a little too much credit. Discretion is often the better part of valor but the beauty of this board is the info we share about the hobby we love. YMMV, is always true and great advice to everyone, everytime we participate. I could go on, but the horse is long dead and buried on this one.
Looking for something new.
Greetings. Its been quite a while since I posted and am unfortunately not returning with not much of a report. What I am looking for though is a PM from someone to share some info with me. I am over the Asian places and wondered if someone could share a MT who is white or hispanic that is more off the radar or appears legit. I've seen most of the CL advertisers and am more excited by new encounters then repeats, I am sure some of you understand that. I tried 3 different spas in south Lake County and there was nothing to be had so save your gas money.
Thanks and be safe.MM
Rationalization is powerful but so unproductive.
I have made it clear in previous posts that I've made some Asian friends over the years in my visits to the AMPs. There are others who post here that have done the same. My friends that I continue to stay in touch with are scattered around the county and still work as therapists with some now also shop owners. These friendships have provided some wonderful benefits of a personal nature but they have also provided a great deal of insight into the business.
We are absolutely a targeting mechanism. Cause and effect. Repeated posts generate specific behavior where the shop / therapist is targeted by two specific groups: 1) a surge of mongers who immediately expect the exact same level of service that was often provided to the poster based on a level of trust accumulated over multiple visits and 2) leo activity, that can take many forms, based on complaints from the general public who read about activity in their neighborhoods here (escorts don't advertise their 'come arrest me here' address so it's a different game – massage parlors do).
It doesn't take insider knowledge to see what happens next. Posting history on this thread spells it out repeatedly. Shop behavior after a lot of chatter here easily validates both of the above posting results as the girls will change their name, or refuse to tell it, to avoid the harassment. You will often also start to be asked if you talk on the computer. Anyone modestly active in the massage game has seen this activity occur many times either directly to ourselves or to others via reading their posts here (see the Ocean reports at the end) throughout the years. This isn't a new phenomenon and it is a behavioral progression that is repeated constantly. If you ask virtually any Asian at an AMP if they want you to talk about them on the computer the answer will be no. As money oriented as they are (and believe me they are incredibly money oriented) , the publicity isn't worth the negative ramifications to them.
I'm a huge advocate of the purpose of this board. It is stupid, however, when our reporting undermines the mission of the board and the readily available posting history on this very thread documents that it does with many examples far beyond Ocean if you bother to be a student of the hobby you are investing your hard-earned coin in. There must a balance between content and serving the need. Too many people report because their ego compels them to do so. Too many others do so without conscious thought as to the outcome of their words.
It is much more fun to report excessively and in detail. Over time it is much less rewarding because it drives good providers away. Many of the recent posts on this saga have been vain attempts to rationalize and justify past actions with the most guilty doing the most vigorous protesting. You aren't going to truly maximize your long term productivity in this game without occasionally engaging in a little honest self-reflection about your actions.
Happy and safe hunting to all.
Amen Rev Overboard . Preach on
[QUOTE=Overboard; 1195655]I have made it clear in previous posts that I've made some Asian friends over the years in my visits to the AMPs. There are others who post here that have done the same. My friends that I continue to stay in touch with are scattered around the county and still work as therapists with some now also shop owners. These friendships have provided some wonderful benefits of a personal nature but they have also provided a great deal of insight into the business.
We are absolutely a targeting mechanism. Cause and effect. Repeated posts generate specific behavior where the shop / therapist is targeted by two specific groups: 1) a surge of mongers who immediately expect the exact same level of service that was often provided to the poster based on a level of trust accumulated over multiple visits and 2) leo activity, that can take many forms, based on complaints from the general public who read about activity in their neighborhoods here (escorts don't advertise their 'come arrest me here' address so it's a different game – massage parlors do).
It doesn't take insider knowledge to see what happens next. Posting history on this thread spells it out repeatedly. Shop behavior after a lot of chatter here easily validates both of the above posting results as the girls will change their name, or refuse to tell it, to avoid the harassment. You will often also start to be asked if you talk on the computer. Anyone modestly active in the massage game has seen this activity occur many times either directly to ourselves or to others via reading their posts here (see the Ocean reports at the end) throughout the years. This isn't a new phenomenon and it is a behavioral progression that is repeated constantly. If you ask virtually any Asian at an AMP if they want you to talk about them on the computer the answer will be no. As money oriented as they are (and believe me they are incredibly money oriented) , the publicity isn't worth the negative ramifications to them.
I'm a huge advocate of the purpose of this board. It is stupid, however, when our reporting undermines the mission of the board and the readily available posting history on this very thread documents that it does with many examples far beyond Ocean if you bother to be a student of the hobby you are investing your hard-earned coin in. There must a balance between content and serving the need. Too many people report because their ego compels them to do so. Too many others do so without conscious thought as to the outcome of their words.
It is much more fun to report excessively and in detail. Over time it is much less rewarding because it drives good providers away. Many of the recent posts on this saga have been vain attempts to rationalize and justify past actions with the most guilty doing the most vigorous protesting. You aren't going to truly maximize your long term productivity in this game without occasionally engaging in a little honest self-reflection about your actions.
Happy and safe hunting to all. [/QUOTE]Preach on brother
One of the best posts I have seen on these boards.
[QUOTE=Overboard; 1195655]I have made it clear in previous posts that I've made some Asian friends over the years in my visits to the AMPs. There are others who post here that have done the same. My friends that I continue to stay in touch with are scattered around the county and still work as therapists with some now also shop owners. These friendships have provided some wonderful benefits of a personal nature but they have also provided a great deal of insight into the business.
We are absolutely a targeting mechanism. Cause and effect. Repeated posts generate specific behavior where the shop / therapist is targeted by two specific groups: 1) a surge of mongers who immediately expect the exact same level of service that was often provided to the poster based on a level of trust accumulated over multiple visits and 2) leo activity, that can take many forms, based on complaints from the general public who read about activity in their neighborhoods here (escorts don't advertise their 'come arrest me here' address so it's a different game – massage parlors do).
It doesn't take insider knowledge to see what happens next. Posting history on this thread spells it out repeatedly. Shop behavior after a lot of chatter here easily validates both of the above posting results as the girls will change their name, or refuse to tell it, to avoid the harassment. You will often also start to be asked if you talk on the computer. Anyone modestly active in the massage game has seen this activity occur many times either directly to ourselves or to others via reading their posts here (see the Ocean reports at the end) throughout the years. This isn't a new phenomenon and it is a behavioral progression that is repeated constantly. If you ask virtually any Asian at an AMP if they want you to talk about them on the computer the answer will be no. As money oriented as they are (and believe me they are incredibly money oriented) , the publicity isn't worth the negative ramifications to them.
I'm a huge advocate of the purpose of this board. It is stupid, however, when our reporting undermines the mission of the board and the readily available posting history on this very thread documents that it does with many examples far beyond Ocean if you bother to be a student of the hobby you are investing your hard-earned coin in. There must a balance between content and serving the need. Too many people report because their ego compels them to do so. Too many others do so without conscious thought as to the outcome of their words.
It is much more fun to report excessively and in detail. Over time it is much less rewarding because it drives good providers away. Many of the recent posts on this saga have been vain attempts to rationalize and justify past actions with the most guilty doing the most vigorous protesting. You aren't going to truly maximize your long term productivity in this game without occasionally engaging in a little honest self-reflection about your actions.
Happy and safe hunting to all. [/QUOTE]Well written, reasonable tone, informative, not overly emotional or judgemental. And on top of it, probably pretty darn accurate. This is no place for you! .
Thank you!
Beating the hell out of a dead horse
Overboard your comments are well written and inspiration for further thought. I must admit I had never considered the aspect of the effect on the girls / AMPs which may be a reason in itself to revise posting habits.
That being said we will have to agree to disagree LEO elements. In 30 years of business I learned not to trust anecdotes but to put my faith in Dr. Demming and the data. That has served me well in professional life and I try to apply that to all aspects of my life. I just don't see the data to say post on here initiate LEO action. As Lawdog (dude you really need to change that handle) pointed out there are counta examples. There are places where FS is available that have been reviewed on here and have operated for years withouut problems. There is a little snippet of eastern philosophy that is thrown into any movie witha scene in Asia,"The nail that sticks out gets hammered." OS stuck out. They operated in a way that drew attention to themselves and paid the price. I am quite certain their days would have been numbered even if there were no post about them on this forum. Let's not blame people here for a business that operated recklessly getting caught.
[QUOTE=Overboard; 1195655]I have made it clear in previous posts that I've made some Asian friends over the years in my visits to the AMPs. There are others who post here that have done the same. My friends that I continue to stay in touch with are scattered around the county and still work as therapists with some now also shop owners. These friendships have provided some wonderful benefits of a personal nature but they have also provided a great deal of insight into the business.
We are absolutely a targeting mechanism. Cause and effect. Repeated posts generate specific behavior where the shop / therapist is targeted by two specific groups: 1) a surge of mongers who immediately expect the exact same level of service that was often provided to the poster based on a level of trust accumulated over multiple visits and 2) leo activity, that can take many forms, based on complaints from the general public who read about activity in their neighborhoods here (escorts don't advertise their 'come arrest me here' address so it's a different game – massage parlors do).
It doesn't take insider knowledge to see what happens next. Posting history on this thread spells it out repeatedly. Shop behavior after a lot of chatter here easily validates both of the above posting results as the girls will change their name, or refuse to tell it, to avoid the harassment. You will often also start to be asked if you talk on the computer. Anyone modestly active in the massage game has seen this activity occur many times either directly to ourselves or to others via reading their posts here (see the Ocean reports at the end) throughout the years. This isn't a new phenomenon and it is a behavioral progression that is repeated constantly. If you ask virtually any Asian at an AMP if they want you to talk about them on the computer the answer will be no. As money oriented as they are (and believe me they are incredibly money oriented) , the publicity isn't worth the negative ramifications to them.
I'm a huge advocate of the purpose of this board. It is stupid, however, when our reporting undermines the mission of the board and the readily available posting history on this very thread documents that it does with many examples far beyond Ocean if you bother to be a student of the hobby you are investing your hard-earned coin in. There must a balance between content and serving the need. Too many people report because their ego compels them to do so. Too many others do so without conscious thought as to the outcome of their words.
It is much more fun to report excessively and in detail. Over time it is much less rewarding because it drives good providers away. Many of the recent posts on this saga have been vain attempts to rationalize and justify past actions with the most guilty doing the most vigorous protesting. You aren't going to truly maximize your long term productivity in this game without occasionally engaging in a little honest self-reflection about your actions.
Happy and safe hunting to all. [/QUOTE]