Gianna in norwood fits both categories, had an enjoyable time w her last week. Others here have said she's sweet as well...I agree and will see her again!
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Gianna in norwood fits both categories, had an enjoyable time w her last week. Others here have said she's sweet as well...I agree and will see her again!
How many of you use your real name when going to a spa? What about mainstream places like in Norwood or Easton? Just curious, also how does this work for places where you can purchase a pass for 2 massages, is an ID required?
thanks.
[QUOTE=Uboatct]How many of you use your real name when going to a spa? thanks.[/QUOTE]In the real world, I would think. OK, cheap shot. But handles exist to give nobody a handle, so to speak.
I use a real name...not mine, but I am sure it is somebody's real name!
Just be consistent else they will think you are LEO.
No ID required for pass. Just make a note of the day you bought it.
[QUOTE=Uboatct]How many of you use your real name when going to a spa? What about mainstream places like in Norwood or Easton? Just curious, also how does this work for places where you can purchase a pass for 2 massages, is an ID required?
thanks.[/QUOTE]
But first name only; no ID given EVER!
'XXXXX' gives no one anything to work with, so what the hey.
AND who says that the name I give them is real in the 1st place (not that they care!).
Now, if I had SO/kids, I'm sure that would change my thought process, but fortunately I'm happy (I'm killin' myself!).
J
[QUOTE=Uboatct]How many of you use your real name when going to a spa? What about mainstream places like in Norwood or Easton? Just curious, also how does this work for places where you can purchase a pass for 2 massages, is an ID required?
thanks.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Uboatct]How many of you use your real name when going to a spa? What about mainstream places like in Norwood or Easton? Just curious, also how does this work for places where you can purchase a pass for 2 massages, is an ID required?
thanks.[/QUOTE]I always use the same made up name. I have never been questioned at spa B. I always lock my credit cards and extra money in my car, just bring in my license and money for the session, maybe a little bit more for extras, usually Iknow what I am spending before I go in, I usally do extensive homework on the reviews and the boards so I know what to expectwho knows what goeson if you use the mens room or take a shower etc.
[QUOTE=Uboatct]How many of you use your real name when going to a spa?
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Some providers and agencies require a verified name. If you use your real name, although this is more common with escorts, never reveal your screen name. For example, don't write, "I met Suzie today at 300PM, and ....." because Suzie might see your post, and your history is available. Use different emails and different screen names for different activities. Post here as Uboatct, but don't use uboatct in your email, etc.
The general advice and practice is not to use your real name.
You shouldn't assume we get bad service. Maybe it's YMMV because of your attitude or vibe you give off. Sure, some placers are DIY first time due to fear of Leo and they don't' know you.
[QUOTE=Navin Johnson]Because of a few poor massages in CT, I decided to try a place that opened on Pleasant Street in Malden (across the street from a police station, no less). I forget the name of it but it's right at the end of Pleasant Street. I walked in and met an Asian lady who's age is probably late 30s or early 40s, and her English was so-so. She took the fee of $70 and told me to take my clothes off. Actually I sat on the massage table and she got a little bent out of shape, and not so nicely told me to use the chair. She left the room.
She came back two minutes later to begin the massage. I hate the therapists that spend so much time on your back, which she did. She put so much oil on it and spent so much time there I would have sworn there would not be any left in her bottle. Her leg stretching technique pulled me down the table about a half inch because her pull was so forceful. Her massage was barely good.
After about 40 minutes she told me to turn over. This is where it gets bad. She pointed to the lower area and asked me if I wanted a massage there. When I said yes she said she would give me the oil for DIY because she didn't know what to do. I took time out to go there only to be offered self service?
At that point I did not really wanted to be there so it was with about fifteen minutes left that I told her I was done. That really threw her off and she kept asking me what was wrong or was she any good. I just wanted to leave and not waste any more time there, and neither did I tip her. She left the room, and even as I walked by her in the reception area she kept looking at me for an explanation which I didn't have. I wasn't rude but I just had enough of her session. A non repeat for this place.
This brings me to something which has irritated me about some reviews here, because I read some where some weren't pleased with the service, but might go back anyways for a second try. Why? The last few times I went to places in CT (both of them reviewed on here with good reviews) the service level has dropped. I think the therapists are thinking no matter what their service is like some of you guys will still tip them anyways. One of them cut my session short even though she told me on the phone she had an hour available, and she didn't seem to be into giving a massage anyways.
I wish that that some reviewers wouldn't treat mediocre appointments as something special. I'm at the point where I want to avoid CT because even the well reviewed ones have dropped in how good they used to be, plus things like I think other guys are name dropping to try and get good service. One woman in CT I saw recently wondered why she hadn't seen me in a long time. She asked me if "I was going to the Green Door place?" She had to have heard that from another guy, how would she know it was called the Green Door otherwise? This is the same one who cut my time short, so I actually responded I would go there if her service wasn't so good anymore. Really, it's surprising how some of you settle for poor service.[/QUOTE]
These are reasons I don't do the street walkers or outcalls. Too risky and outcalls are too expensive already.
[QUOTE=Boston Ampfan]My experience has yielded 5 general principles or 'rules of the road. ' I share them, though most are obvious, for the benefit of other gentlemen who may be just starting out as Hobbyists. I have not always followed them myself but I do try:
1. If LEO is involved, maintain your composure, don't talk and always be absolutely courteous. Your perspective must be: They are just doing their job, you are doing yours. Don't give them a reason to think you are a threat to anyone. Don't draw further attention to yourself. Be cool. Most law enforcement people are professional and courteous. Treat them that way and you improve the chances that they will respond in kind.
2. That tingling feeling we all get when something seems amiss? It's there because our ancient ancestors needed this instinct to help them survive. If you have that feeling, go home and call it a night. In my case, I tune up my sensitivity and sixth sense when the people or places around me start to seem confusing and out of order; often an indicator that you are in the wrong place at the wrong time.
3. Visiting a CL girl at her home or motel, dating an AMP girl on the outside, revealing personal information-all of these behaviors materially increase risk of sh*t happening. If you can deal with it, fine; if not, don't do these things.
4. If despite your best efforts you find yourself in really deep sh*t, try to keep your whits about you. Anxiety, fear and runaway emotion only cloud your thinking just when you need to think clearly. Be cool. Think, plan and then act. Never "react" first.
5. Our hobby-or in my case, my affliction (LOL)-has inherent risks. If you practice it long enough, you will encounter them. And do not think you will be the lone exception. I've been at this game for 20+ years. I've settled down considerably, becoming a fan of AMPs almost exclusively.
BUT:
Even if you try to follow these 'rules, ' sh*t can and does happen. As careful as I am and have tried to be, I've run into trouble, as described in my earlier posting. So far, I've emerged from it unscathed. But I am confident that more sh*t will happen to me, just as it will to others!
[QUOTE=Dan Wesson]BA,
Great example! I am filing this one, although hopefully NOT, for future reference.[/QUOTE][/QUOTE]
You mentioned this place in Malden had just opened. I am sure your provider was just being cautious. Perhaps she was not getting a good vibe from you. The way you described the start of the session, it seems things were already not going smoothly.
You were a new client. Did you act strangely towards her? Did you greet her with a smile, make small talk, compliment her how nice she looked or how clean the parlor was or were you nervous and acted unsure of your self. It sounds like you did not enjoy the massage itself, so you probably were not complimenting her on how good her hands felt and how much you enjoy Asian massages in general. By the way, its ok to direct the massage session. If you want them to lighten up on the massage, let them know.
How does a new provider determine whether or not you are a safe client or a ticket to the slammer? During the massage, did you give her any hints that you might be looking for extras. Did you try to reach out to her, gently rub her leg or what ever part was reachable to let her know what you are looking for.
When she gave you the oil and told you to do it your self "because she did not know how", this was her cue to you that maybe you could start and show her how. In my own experience with a new person, what often starts as "sorry I do not " can sometime turn into a "be quiet or I will be fired" happy experience. Not always.
I have often read other first timers complain that they did not get the full service or were told by the provider to DIYS while I may have been more fortunate just days earlier. I have also been on the flip side of this and in spite all of my small talk, compliments, and attempts to rub her, I have been shut down. Then I read some other monger got the experience of his life from the same provider.
I don't mean to sermon you, I just wanted to encourage you to look at the other side's perspective.
Oh I am sure some of the providers surf these sites and know whats going on. but I have a feeling that the vast majority of them have no clue. Speaking for some of the mongers in this site,most of us have limited funds and can not afford to keep striking out. Eventually those shops that do not provide good consistent service will have to close down for lack of business.
I can't believe that in the short time that I have been active here, how many shops have opened up. Many have closed down as well.
[QUOTE
This brings me to something which has irritated me about some reviews here, because I read some where some weren't pleased with the service, but might go back anyways for a second try. Why? The last few times I went to places in CT (both of them reviewed on here with good reviews) the service level has dropped. I think the therapists are thinking no matter what their service is like some of you guys will still tip them anyways. One of them cut my session short even though she told me on the phone she had an hour available, and she didn't seem to be into giving a massage anyways.
I wish that that some reviewers wouldn't treat mediocre appointments as something special. I'm at the point where I want to avoid CT because even the well reviewed ones have dropped in how good they used to be, plus things like I think other guys are name dropping to try and get good service. One woman in CT I saw recently wondered why she hadn't seen me in a long time. She asked me if "I was going to the Green Door place?" She had to have heard that from another guy, how would she know it was called the Green Door otherwise? This is the same one who cut my time short, so I actually responded I would go there if her service wasn't so good anymore. Really, it's surprising how some of you settle for poor service.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=John Johnson J]I used to frequent short sleep/7082 for the hard massage, roaming, and HE(s), and because I come in from out of state and the South Station location was very convenient. (Also, I liked the older masseuse. And the acupuncture prints on the walls. And the spaceheater next to the table, which got turned on early for the regulars.)
But reading back to oldmonger's post, it seems like CT has been a little unsettled. I'd like to visit CT again soon, maybe this week. Are things back to normal? Thanks for any help anybody can give.[/QUOTE]Welcome to Massachusetts. A few CT AMPs continue to advertise -- they are probably the ones with an MA license. If I were an established customer, I would not hesitate to visit 7082. However, if the staff does not recognize you, do not expect more than a good massage.
[QUOTE=Momo Epez]I don't mean to sermon you, I just wanted to encourage you to look at the other side's perspective.
Oh I am sure some of the providers surf these sites and know whats going on. but I have a feeling that the vast majority of them have no clue. [/QUOTE]Yes. The typical service provider at a CT AMP isn't going to be reading this forum; it's in English!
Sermonizing: The vast majority work hard in stressful conditions, generally to better themselves and/or send money home to their families. Treat them politely; they will reciprocate. Most problems of short time or interruptions are management problems.
OK Guys, I needed a back massage and some "down time" so I worked my way down to Malden, called Bonan and to my delight, Annie was available. This little cutie spinner gets better with each visit. For those who haven't been, RTF and you will find many good reviews. All in toll 70/40.
Got a group hug on the way out from Jessica(mamasan) and Annie. Hugged tight and said next visit, both of you and they said...come back soon for that!!
As MacArthur said, " I shall return"
Toftt
Got add of CL. Last four digits of # 3588.
Called made app. Two call system. Called when I got out front and she gave me apt. #
She buzzed me in. New condo complex in Revere. Apt. Was very clean. Had massage table set up in private room. She was about 5 ft tall and 100 lbs. Pretty girl and real young. Maybe 20 or 21.
Gave her 70 and got undressed and layed on table. She starts at shoulders and asked if I like it mild or hard. I like it hard.
To jump forward, massage was nothing to talk about and no teasing at all.
Finally I start to rub her legs and no responce so I continue. Oh all this time I have a towel on me and massage is lotionless! On flip I start to feel her ass and she does not mind. She did not say two words whole time I was there. She comes to the end and I ask if there is any extras on the menue. She looked at me as not knowing what I was saying. I took her hand and put it on my dick. All she said was money. I said yes.
She got some lotion for that. Not to bad on HE. I also asked her to remove her shirt and there was no hesitation. But I stopped there. Will repeat and try for FS.
Damage 70 + 40
Looks 7
Massage 5
HE 6
Body 7
Overall good
Well the one with the acne doesn't do it either. Stopped by tonight and asked for Tori who I have seen in the past and have left very happy.
Same thing 50 mins in and I am told we are all done. My only choice were two he-shes and this little thing.
Sorry, too many x factors to have to worry about with Jolins places.
Will not be going back.
[QUOTE=Graham M]I tried Jolin's in Weymouth today. Called up and asked for Paris but was told that Paris was off today. Since I live less than 10 minutes from the place I decided to give it a shot anyway.
There where two women working, one was young with a lot of acne and the other was late 30s/early 40s with a tight body. I chose that one. She offered a shower but I declined since I just showered before I left. As far as the massage it was good but I was drapped for the most part. When she was working the upper thigh I raised myself a bit hoping for a tease but she used her forearm to push down my butt. I couldn't believe it. I thought to myself maybe I should of taken the shower. When she told me to flip, I noticed that we were at minute 50 and got worried that there will be no HE. On the flip I was drapped and when she was done I motioned to downstairs and she told me DIY. I told her last time I was there that Paris did it. Total Lie. She told me that she doesn't do it. Maybe she thought I was LE. I'm a tall, clean cut guy. So left.
I'll try booking one with Paris next time.[/QUOTE]