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Why did you block them? Is there something the rest of us should be looking out for? A crazy women? Possible narcs? Catfishes? What?
[QUOTE=FightingFungus;4752039]I blocked some girls and some have blocked me but all your links there profile is deactivated or I am blocked or I blocked them. I have reported a bunch of online seekers lately.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=GoldenGreek;4752419][URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/62e9c79e-5be9-445b-9587-e53ff1892115[/URL]
Is this the girl from way back that fucked half the board bare back. Had some porn on pornhub getting gangbanged with bbc.[/QUOTE]Anyone got the link on Pornhub?
[QUOTE=FightingFungus;4752039]I blocked some girls and some have blocked me but all your links there profile is deactivated or I am blocked or I blocked them. I have reported a bunch of online seekers lately.[/QUOTE]I'm blocked from all profile LOL.
[QUOTE=Meddic80;4752918]I'm blocked from all profile LOL.[/QUOTE]You aren't blocked the links are all bad. The url string is truncated in the middle on all of them.
Seen it happen before on the board not sure exactly how or why.
Where are all the reports? The Golden Greek, Kisahero, Meddic80 and me give 90% of the reports on the arrangement forums.
[QUOTE=Gnomejon;4752030]I started off with a different hobby, but after more than a few bad experiences, I've started looking into the SD scene. I've already taken advice given in earlier posts and read through a substantial amount of this forum, but still find myself struggling when it comes to knowing who and how to contact a woman on SA with the obvious intent. With how draconian you all have said that SA has become, I think I've started off far too vague or just in the wrong way with a number of potentials. I understand its a bit of a numbers game, but there have got to be some methods that have more chances of success than what I've thrown at the wall.
I've had a couple of successes and would like to ask if anyone has had experiences with one of them before I move on to setting up a meet.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/83210b9b-95d0-4557-85d8-7aff9a3bb1f6[/URL]
This one seems to be looking for something platonic or seems like she would take so much work that it might not be worth it, but I've always been a sucker for Asian women.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/c95fde2d-ce71-4a50-97ba-733e976553c8[/URL]
This one seemed to know exactly what she wanted from the get-go, moved to text quick, but hasn't responded. Really interested in this one and want to know if I should keep pushing through communication issues or if its dead in the water.[/QUOTE]Have you connected and messaged with both of them I assume? There are different approaches out there but I generally don't waste my time with the ones that don't have anything in their profile. I may reach out but I don't expect it to go anywhere. You can get a sense of personality from their profile so not putting anything there tells me a lot. I messaged with ElusiveGirl around the holidays I think. She's legit. I believe she's been discussed here on the Board so search this Board using her profile link. Our schedules never matched up well. I prefer to meet on weeknights and I believe that was tough for her. She might be more flexible now. She has a kid too FYI. I believe she wanted 300 but I also got the sense she had limited time so I bailed. I prefer longer dates with no time pressure.
[QUOTE=Gnomejon;4752030]
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/83210b9b-95d0-4557-85d8-7aff9a3bb1f6[/URL]
This one seems to be looking for something platonic or seems like she would take so much work that it might not be worth it, but I've always been a sucker for Asian women..[/QUOTE]I saw her profile and liked her main picture but never messaged her because she couldn't take the time to finish her profile, about me and what she is seeking.
[QUOTE=Gnomejon;4752030]
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/c95fde2d-ce71-4a50-97ba-733e976553c8[/URL]
This one seemed to know exactly what she wanted from the get-go, moved to text quick, but hasn't responded. Really interested in this one and want to know if I should keep pushing through communication issues or if its dead in the water.[/QUOTE]She has NSA, FWB and open relationship so she seems DTF but she does say honesty, straight forward and no beating around the Bush. Is that the way you started your texting? You messaged her and she was interested so look at what you texted and how it differed from your messages on Seeking. If you see a change in your approach o how you came across, try to text again but like the first messages.
If you started texting with the second one and then stopped, or didn't respond, how could you ever move forward? As long as you are on a texting app vs the sa platform go ahead and tell her politely what you are seeking and see if she is open to that. Then ask her what she is seeking. I always ask early on if she has a place we can use and roughly where. Then set a meet at a sbux (although nowadays, set it in your car in a public parking lot) then you can talk for a few minutes one on one. Once they agree to meet in public first you are 80% of the way home.
[QUOTE=Gnomejon;4752030]I started off with a different hobby, but after more than a few bad experiences, I've started looking into the SD scene. I've already taken advice given in earlier posts and read through a substantial amount of this forum, but still find myself struggling when it comes to knowing who and how to contact a woman on SA with the obvious intent. With how draconian you all have said that SA has become, I think I've started off far too vague or just in the wrong way with a number of potentials. I understand its a bit of a numbers game, but there have got to be some methods that have more chances of success than what I've thrown at the wall.
I've had a couple of successes and would like to ask if anyone has had experiences with one of them before I move on to setting up a meet.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/83210b9b-95d0-4557-85d8-7aff9a3bb1f6[/URL]
This one seems to be looking for something platonic or seems like she would take so much work that it might not be worth it, but I've always been a sucker for Asian women.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/c95fde2d-ce71-4a50-97ba-733e976553c8[/URL]
This one seemed to know exactly what she wanted from the get-go, moved to text quick, but hasn't responded. Really interested in this one and want to know if I should keep pushing through communication issues or if its dead in the water.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=GoldenGreek;4751732]Any one have any info on the following?
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/a3002...2-e318e5a9945f[/URL]
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/bd03a...e-ea683150d323[/URL]
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/dd851...4-1f41ece3a68e[/URL]
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/9241b...7-5c4015da5e89[/URL]
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/047d8...8-46806ffc3bf1[/URL][/QUOTE]
Every one of your links is broken. If you click through on them you'll see the URL has ". " in it instead of the actual full UID.
This one thinks her sh*t don't stink. She quickly sent her number to text and said she was wanting to sell pictures so I asked her what she was offering / wanting. She said $20 for a topless picture and then I told her that she was asking way too much. She then replied that she has literally sent 2 for $100 in the past and "I don't need your money pathetic b*itch". Since she wants to have that attitude maybe she needs a few more asking her and then telling her reality? This is the number she sent *02-*1*-1804. *=3.
She has 4 private pictures and I'm including them, the rest are public.
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/29ce23dc-02fc-4f8f-bf68-67bf84640490[/URL]
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/c95fde2d-ce71-4a50-97ba-733e976553c8[/URL]
She's real. I saw her a few months ago at the beginning of winter. She's very cute and has a nice body and was an overall good time. She has (or had) a day job so scheduling was challenging. She also can't host so you're going to have to get a room. I'm probably going to see her again sometime soon. At that's absolutely her in the pics. Hope this helps.
[QUOTE=Gnomejon;4752030]
[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/c95fde2d-ce71-4a50-97ba-733e976553c8[/URL]
This one seemed to know exactly what she wanted from the get-go, moved to text quick, but hasn't responded. Really interested in this one and want to know if I should keep pushing through communication issues or if its dead in the water.[/QUOTE]I met with her in the fall and she is definitely DTF. Maybe reset a bit and try again with her because, from what she was saying, she is VERY active and does meet a lot of guys off of SA.
Random question to the guys out there who have facial hair / beards. Like many others during this stay at home order might have, I've grown out my beard over the past 5-6 weeks. I like it and others seem to as well. For those with beards, what has been your experience with SB's in general? Do they care? At the end of the day, it's obviously all about $ but I'm just wondering if anyone has seen any noticeable preference / reaction one way or another. I presume its just like anything else, some love it, some hate it and some don't care so thought I would ask. Yeah, slow work day.
[QUOTE=TimeForPlay10;4753729]Random question to the guys out there who have facial hair / beards. Like many others during this stay at home order might have, I've grown out my beard over the past 5-6 weeks. I like it and others seem to as well. For those with beards, what has been your experience with SB's in general? Do they care? At the end of the day, it's obviously all about $ but I'm just wondering if anyone has seen any noticeable preference / reaction one way or another. I presume its just like anything else, some love it, some hate it and some don't care so thought I would ask. Yeah, slow work day.[/QUOTE]You should be worried about that when you are looking to date on Tinder and Bumble. If a 400 pound ugly guy gives them an extra 400 for their time they will choose him over the hunk.
[QUOTE=FightingFungus;4754011]You should be worried about that when you are looking to date on Tinder and Bumble. If a 400 pound ugly guy gives them an extra 400 for their time they will choose him over the hunk.[/QUOTE]I've had a beard for a while, which I keep well groomed. Had a couple of comments from chicks that they don't like facial hair, but most don't seem to care.