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You know, I've been in this a few years and it never dawned on me that I probably don't know the what GFE actually entails. I know the acronym but that's about it.
[QUOTE=BigMacDaddy;5729802]If you see her, you'll likely get the "eye candy" you seek.
An upcharge of 20 or 40 will not get you a true GFE woman. She may add kissing but that alone is not what GFE is all about.
BMD.[/QUOTE]
Thanks for the report. Been trying to get a hold of her for some time but can't seem to get a text back.
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Saw Sadie last night.
Texting contact was somewhat drawn out but not too bad. Hotel is convenient to the highway. Room is pretty messy but no signs of other occupants or handerer. Price was reasonable and I had a nice visit with her. Will most likely visit again. Hopefully the text set-up is more direct now that she knows me.
P.S.: Thank you to the fine gentleman on here who referred her to me![/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=BlueFox141;5728590]Excellent points! You've got no idea who any of these girls are tied to. Just because you haven't heard about a pimp or handler, doesn't mean they don't have one. And drugs is almost always going to be part of the picture. Pimps / handlers can be anywhere from harmless, to dangerous. A girl that doesn't have one today, could very well have one tomorrow. The important thing is whether or not they've shown to be a problem. Your comfort level is important, so you need to make decisions that you feel safe with.
Be careful out there.
Blue.[/QUOTE]There is a guy in the Fairfield County part of state who runs a few girls they sometimes change some are there forever his format is always the same on the listing I personally have seen several of hos girls never had an issue I have only seen him once and it was leaving the room with one of the other girls and heading g to the car to wait until the deed was done. One of the girls I saw a couple of times had given her personal number once saying she was going to get away from him and do it on her own which she did for about a week then was right back with him again not sure if drugs are the draw or what the deal is but with him I have never had any issues.
[QUOTE=Myghche;5729816]You know, I've been in this a few years and it never dawned on me that I probably don't know the what GFE actually entails. I know the acronym but that's about it.[/QUOTE]
The hobbyist's definition was devised and posted prior to 2000 from the defunct old Big Doggie which competed with Ter. Back then, finding and getting GFE was a slam dunk.
I posted a copy of the author's quote (St. Bart) here back in 2015. It still applies today as it's logical and makes sense in this world of increasing spammers, scammers, and fakers.
Quoted below:
[QUOTE=BigMacDaddy;2452839]10 to 15 years ago, a hobbyist devised the definition. It made sense to me.
"When I first started hobbying 4 years ago, I was dismayed how the term "GFE" was bandied about. Some ladies that I dated based on reviews were far, far, from GFE. The reviewer, I decided afterwards, was simply using the term to say he had a nice time, which is fine.
BUT, and always recognizing YMMV, I never had a GF that didn't DFK, or allow DATY, or give BBBJ. When these 3 acts come with enthusiastic FS, I define the experience as 100% GFE on the Saint Bart Scale. For every item missing, 10% is deducted. I usually don't like to be specific in a review about the acts I enjoyed. It can unnecessairily put a lady "on the spot" with the next hobbyist. "you did ABC for him, so why not me?" That's not fair to her.
So, the SBS has just enough ambiguity to protect her, yet describe my experience. For example, I recently posted a review of Lisa from Eye Candy. She was 70% on the SBS. As I think all know, my ATF Badgirl is 100% on the SBS. Top's Penelope, with me, was 80%GFE, which reflected my YMMV as I've subsequently read others found her to be 90%GFE. IMO, this is usually all the detail required for the reader to get a good idea of the service level, subject to YMMV.
Now, sometimes extras are available that go beyond 100%GFE, and might not be allowed by your civilian GF. The two most common examples are Greek and BBBJTC. Actual CIM. To me whether she spits or swallows, it doesn't matter. These are handled in a review with a " or "Plus" for each act. Missy, I've written and many have enjoyed, is famous for her Plus ending. So Missy's 100%GFE+ or 100%GFE Plus. The Plus Missy earns is undefined, but all get the picture. Aussie Amber takes it one Plus further, to what I think of as a PSE. She's 100%GFE++ or 100%GFE Plus, Plus. Again, I think one gets the picture, and doesn't need the actual details. I've had rare dates that actually earned as many as 4 Plusses. More were awarded for spending the night "on the house", and for allowing pictures (hear that Nurse? I suppose they could also be awarded for actions that don't interest me. Be&the, or golden showers, etc.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=CTMonger333;5729838]There is a guy in the Fairfield County part of state who runs a few girls they sometimes change some are there forever his format is always the same on the listing I personally have seen several of hos girls never had an issue I have only seen him once and it was leaving the room with one of the other girls and heading g to the car to wait until the deed was done. One of the girls I saw a couple of times had given her personal number once saying she was going to get away from him and do it on her own which she did for about a week then was right back with him again not sure if drugs are the draw or what the deal is but with him I have never had any issues.[/QUOTE]See? Generalizations don't work. I can understand that for many, a pimp means an automatic no. But, not all of them are the same.
Thank you so much for the breakdown. With that definition I suppose an 80% on the SBS is sufficient for my tastes. I'll let you guys guess which one LOL. I'm really wanting to check Taylor out. Will definitely report if I end up pulling the trigger.
[QUOTE=BigMacDaddy;5729876]The hobbyist's definition was devised and posted prior to 2000 from the defunct old Big Doggie which competed with Ter. Back then, finding and getting GFE was a slam dunk.
I posted a copy of the author's quote (St. Bart) here back in 2015. It still applies today as it's logical and makes sense in this world of increasing spammers, scammers, and fakers.
Quoted below:[/QUOTE]
It bothers me to no end when I see an ad and the woman has checked the box in the menu for GFE, but not DFK. I agree with BMD. GFE, girlfriend experience means just that. A girlfriend experience must include what your girlfriend would provide, kissing with tongue (DFK), DATY, and an uncovered BJ. I would also include mutual caressing and fondling. For some reason, some women think that GFE means intercourse only or includes only a covered BJ. Unfortunately, we'll never get all of these women to understand the term, so I don't bother trying. Instead I do my research and private message mongers who have posted and ask for exact details about a woman's menu.
I also understand that some women don't want to list DFK in their menu. They might have a client show up with bad breath and won't want to DFK. So it does go both ways. If I see a woman that doesn't DFK, I probably won't ever see her again. If she asks why I've not repeated, which none ever have done, I would be honest and tell her why.
[QUOTE=Myghche;5729959]Thank you so much for the breakdown. With that definition I suppose an 80% on the SBS is sufficient for my tastes. I'll let you guys guess which one LOL. I'm really wanting to check Taylor out. Will definitely report if I end up pulling the trigger.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=OffTheGrid;5729994]It bothers me to no end when I see an ad and the woman has checked the box in the menu for GFE, but not DFK. I agree with BMD. GFE, girlfriend experience means just that. A girlfriend experience must include what your girlfriend would provide, kissing with tongue (DFK), DATY, and an uncovered BJ. I would also include mutual caressing and fondling. For some reason, some women think that GFE means intercourse only or includes only a covered BJ. Unfortunately, we'll never get all of these women to understand the term, so I don't bother trying. Instead I do my research and private message mongers who have posted and ask for exact details about a woman's menu.
I also understand that some women don't want to list DFK in their menu. They might have a client show up with bad breath and won't want to DFK. So it does go both ways. If I see a woman that doesn't DFK, I probably won't ever see her again. If she asks why I've not repeated, which none ever have done, I would be honest and tell her why.[/QUOTE]Back when this standard was created, it's audience was geared for higher end girls. At that time 300 and up. It's unlikely most girls know or care at the street or STG level. If you get it, great, but expectations there should generally be lower due to their volume and health reasons.
Also, I've encountered some women who mistakenly were told that GFE meant going bareback. While true for a real girlfriend, it was never included as a GFE activity in a commercial environment. If it did happen, it would be considered a + (plus) item. Pluses are in addition to the standard definition. So, if Jane was a GFE type and privately granted GFE with bb and Greek, that would be considered GFE++ without the need to publicly state what those pluses were. It’s a way to publish a girl’s rating and maintain her discretion for ymmv.
BMD.
[QUOTE=BigMacDaddy;5730041]Back when this standard was created, it's audience was geared for higher end girls. At that time 300 and up. It's unlikely most girls know or care at the street or STG level. If you get it, great, but expectations there should generally be lower due to their volume and health reasons.
Also, I've encountered some women who mistakenly were told that GFE meant going bareback. While true for a real girlfriend, it was never included as a GFE activity in a commercial environment. If it did happen, it would be considered a + (plus) item. Pluses are in addition to the standard definition. So, if Jane was a GFE type and privately granted GFE with bb and Greek, that would be considered GFE++ without the need to publicly state what those pluses were. Its a way to publish a girls rating and maintain her discretion for ymmv.
[/QUOTE]Great stuff BMD, but how do you get the providers to understand it?
Blue.
Finally had a pleasure of meeting the one & only Mulan.
What a gem.
Gave me a warm hug upon my arrival. She asked to wash hands which I did. Safety 1st. I get it. Started with a massage on my back and on the flip side the main course was ready and waiting. She was all over my python, he gave me the world class BBBJ. I tried my best to slow her down so half way thru, I requested for 69, we got into a position and while I was galloping her she unloaded me. Cleaned up after. Chatted a little got few more hugs and I was on my way. Great experience and I would definitely repeat. Hopefully next week.
Stay safe- BD.
[QUOTE=BlueFox141;5730341]Great stuff BMD, but how do you get the providers to understand it?
Blue.[/QUOTE]The STG girls are immune to reality and logic.
The terminology was at the higher end and the girls were traveling nationwide. The audience and market were huge with TER, Big Doggie, Eros, agencies, etc. Federal legislation put a wet blanket on everything. The timeframe was about 1998 to 2012 or so. Everyone on both sides knew the rules and penalties. Scammers and spammers in that market were extremely rare and were quickly locked out.
Since then, it's been a slow and steady decline, down the drain into the gutter.
[QUOTE=BigMacDaddy;5730634]The STG girls are immune to reality and logic.
The terminology was at the higher end and the girls were traveling nationwide. The audience and market were huge with TER, Big Doggie, Eros, agencies, etc. Federal legislation put a wet blanket on everything. The timeframe was about 1998 to 2012 or so. Everyone on both sides knew the rules and penalties. Scammers and spammers in that market were extremely rare and were quickly locked out.
Since then, it's been a slow and steady decline, down the drain into the gutter.[/QUOTE]I hear ya! And if they are in Waterbury, it's uphill to the gutter.
Went to visit Steph again for the first time since her return. She is staying in southington so had to make the trip since it's only 10 minutes from my place. Wow forgot how good she felt. Decided on the half hour BBFS for 200. She let me do the cream pie and we laid there for the last 10 minutes cuddling and catching up. I never get sick of that BBBJ. Isabelle wasn't around and she said she will be working more days than Isabelle but didn't specify when Isabelle would be around again. The only thing I didn't like about Isabelle was the cigarette smoking. Steph doesn't smoke which is nice and I like a girl who doesn't wreak of smoke. This was my 5th time I have visited Steph and will continue. I do want to try the 2 girl when they offer it. That is def next on my to do list!
There is a girl staying at a house in new Britain dark hair who posts a lot I believe stays in a residence and says she offers BBFS. Anyone try her out yet?
[QUOTE=KinkyJack1972;5730806]There is a girl staying at a house in new Britain dark hair who posts a lot I believe stays in a residence and says she offers BBFS. Anyone try her out yet?[/QUOTE]That's not exactly a lot of information! Do you have a link?
Blue.
[QUOTE=KinkyJack1972;5730806]There is a girl staying at a house in new Britain dark hair who posts a lot I believe stays in a residence and says she offers BBFS. Anyone try her out yet?[/QUOTE]Got a link?
[QUOTE=Socom1;5730954]Got a link?[/QUOTE]Her name is Maddie looks like I want to take for a spin.
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[QUOTE=KinkyJack1972;5730802]Went to visit Steph again for the first time since her return. She is staying in southington so had to make the trip since it's only 10 minutes from my place. Wow forgot how good she felt. Decided on the half hour BBFS for 200. She let me do the cream pie and we laid there for the last 10 minutes cuddling and catching up. I never get sick of that BBBJ. Isabelle wasn't around and she said she will be working more days than Isabelle but didn't specify when Isabelle would be around again. The only thing I didn't like about Isabelle was the cigarette smoking. Steph doesn't smoke which is nice and I like a girl who doesn't wreak of smoke. This was my 5th time I have visited Steph and will continue. I do want to try the 2 girl when they offer it. That is def next on my to do list![/QUOTE][URL]https://hartford.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/bbfs-queen-steph-available-tod/766918341391[/URL]
[QUOTE=KinkyJack1972;5730969]Her name is Maddie looks like I want to take for a spin.
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[QUOTE=BigMacDaddy;5504747]Use the search function, plug in her name as stated on STG, and you'll find the this info and more.
BMD.[/QUOTE]Read and click on original post link.
Using the search function on a name, phone number or unique word in their ad will return the list below and much more and it’s faster.
BMD
[QUOTE=OgOggilby;5435515]Her ad says she's fairly new to the area. Not true, I saw her in 2019. The pictures in the current ad are from the ad I responded to in 2019. When I got there, there were several guys hanging around. When we were done there was a knock at the door and she said it was the manager looking for the rent. She is a user and has a handler. She disappeared for a while and is suddenly back. I would never repeat.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=BigMacDaddy;5435666]You are correct. I recall her STG ads and reviews. I immediately put her on my 'do not see' list. Her pics are memorable due to that very long hair and slender body.
BMD.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=KinkyJack1972;5730806]There is a girl staying at a house in new Britain dark hair who posts a lot I believe stays in a residence and says she offers BBFS. Anyone try her out yet?[/QUOTE]Multiple reports seach Keywords.
Maddie of New Britain.
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[QUOTE=OgOggilby;5716405]They are together in one house with two guys / pimps. I went to wash off and there is no hot water. Doubtful that the hot water will get fixed since the funds go for demons. Bring wipes, not always available there, to clean up and shower when you get home. Makes you wonder how the girls clean up after each visitor. Sierra's ad shows water sports, so maybe between her, the guys, and Lex, that's how they shower. I'll pass until things improve.[/QUOTE]If you actually know of any STG girls that "clean up" in between clients please let us all know. This is valuable & extremely rare info.
[QUOTE=Socom1;5731494]If you actually know of any STG girls that "clean up" in between clients please let us all know. This is valuable & extremely rare info.[/QUOTE]Any girl I've chosen to visit again has been shower fresh for my visit. I don't think it's all that rare, unless somehow I'm the first client of the day, which is doubtful. I don't do QV's, so maybe that's part of it as well.
Aka Paula.
QV used to be a bargain, now in line with the rest of the market.
Location is her condo, which is messy but also kind of cool if you're into retro decor.
Activity occurs ground level, on the couch. She says there's a dog upstairs, which I definitely believe, as I have seen its mess left on the bathroom floor.
Some other details members have shared have been true in my case. She really enjoys what she does, but somehow her skills could be improved. At least that's my feeling. As documented, she loves to take a photo finish at the end and says she shares these with guys who are into them. I wonder if she keeps them as timestamped evidence, which can be connected to timestamped text messages, just in case. (I really don't know how that would even play out. Just a thought that entered my mind and never left.).
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[QUOTE=Nostranonymous;5731708]Aka Paula.
QV used to be a bargain, now in line with the rest of the market.
Location is her condo, which is messy but also kind of cool if you're into retro decor.
Activity occurs ground level, on the couch. She says there's a dog upstairs, which I definitely believe, as I have seen its mess left on the bathroom floor.
Some other details members have shared have been true in my case. She really enjoys what she does, but somehow her skills could be improved. At least that's my feeling. As documented, she loves to take a photo finish at the end and says she shares these with guys who are into them. I wonder if she keeps them as timestamped evidence, which can be connected to timestamped text messages, just in case. (I really don't know how that would even play out. Just a thought that entered my mind and never left.).
[URL]https://hartford.skipthegames.com/female-escorts/caucasian_w/swallow-sunday/688246086192[/URL][/QUOTE]Your account of the place and events is totally correct and matches mine from the past. I don't think she's shooting guys faces. Even if she was, there's more in her background than ours.
BMD.
[QUOTE=DoverBen;5730599]Finally had a pleasure of meeting the one & only Mulan.
What a gem.
Gave me a warm hug upon my arrival. She asked to wash hands which I did. Safety 1st. I get it. Started with a massage on my back and on the flip side the main course was ready and waiting. She was all over my python, he gave me the world class BBBJ. I tried my best to slow her down so half way thru, I requested for 69, we got into a position and while I was galloping her she unloaded me. Cleaned up after. Chatted a little got few more hugs and I was on my way. Great experience and I would definitely repeat. Hopefully next week.
Stay safe- BD.[/QUOTE]Is this an old report or is she back. I check almost twice daily for her add and have not seen anything. She advertising somone where new? Or is she taking utr route. Tried to pm your inbox is full assuming from everyone asking same thing.
[QUOTE=CTnyGuy;5731755]Is this an old report or is she back. I check almost twice daily for her add and have not seen anything. She advertising somone where new? Or is she taking utr route. Tried to pm your inbox is full assuming from everyone asking same thing.[/QUOTE]She removes her ad when she's not working. So I couldn't attach the link. Recommend checking ads frequently in the weekend.
BD.
[QUOTE=CTnyGuy;5731755]Is this an old report or is she back. I check almost twice daily for her add and have not seen anything. She advertising somone where new? Or is she taking utr route. Tried to pm your inbox is full assuming from everyone asking same thing.[/QUOTE]See below CTnyGuy.
She's still on STG, not utr, she was back this past weekend (Friday pm, Saturday) with a couple heads up posts here.
As they say, "You snooozzze you looose"!
[QUOTE=DoverBen;5730599]Finally had a pleasure of meeting the one & only Mulan.
What a gem.
Gave me a warm hug upon my arrival. She asked to wash hands which I did. Safety 1st. I get it. Started with a massage on my back and on the flip side the main course was ready and waiting. She was all over my python, he gave me the world class BBBJ. I tried my best to slow her down so half way thru, I requested for 69, we got into a position and while I was galloping her she unloaded me. Cleaned up after. Chatted a little got few more hugs and I was on my way. Great experience and I would definitely repeat. Hopefully next week.
Stay safe- BD.[/QUOTE]
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BMD.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Xelajo;5727860]For those of who missed Mulan last time, just know she is back in Hartford in East Hartofrd.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=BigMacDaddy;5732041]See below CTnyGuy.
She's still on STG, not utr, she was back this past weekend (Friday pm, Saturday) with a couple heads up posts here.
As they say, "You snooozzze you looose"![/QUOTE]I take one weekend off from my stg checks and I miss her! Damn! No clue how I missed post on boards, big error on my part. Thank for intel I apologize for not doing a little back tracking and figuring out for myself. Thanks for the tip!
Got stood up. Multiple texts for afternoon meet then went silent. Sad. I'll keep trying despite the setback. Hope at least one of you was there instead.
[QUOTE=JoeSchlosser33;5732633]Got stood up. Multiple texts for afternoon meet then went silent. Sad. I'll keep trying despite the setback. Hope at least one of you was there instead.[/QUOTE]The squirter?
If so, I'm not surprised. They work on a different time scale. One of our minutes can equal 10 of theirs.
BMD.
Thinking of giving her a call but cannot find much either way on her. Any help is greatly appreciated.
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[QUOTE=Myghche;5729818]Thanks for the report. Been trying to get a hold of her for some time but can't seem to get a text back.[/QUOTE]She seems quite wary of LE, which is good. My suggestion would be to keep your text very simple an only reference spending time together.
[QUOTE=JoeSchlosser33;5732633]Got stood up. Multiple texts for afternoon meet then went silent. Sad. I'll keep trying despite the setback. Hope at least one of you was there instead.[/QUOTE]I used to be a regular of hers until she stood me up. Was thinking about giving it another shot but now I won't.
[QUOTE=BlueFox141;5715040]I've been talking to this young lady on Seeking for a little over a week. She contacted me Tuesday night after not messaging me for about 4 days or so. I thought she had lost interest. Actually, her apartment in Bristol had some hazardous materials in it that she reported and the city of Bristol condemned her place. She was out on the street and had to send her two kids to her ex. She needed money really badly and wanted to meet me if possible. I was worried that it was a scam and was real careful about setting things up. She needed money for her motel room. Went through with no problems at all. She is thick and a little heavier than I usually like but has a really responsive body! She is looking for money to pay for her room at a motel in Southington. Seniors that I know and have worked with before only, please send me a PM especially if you are on Seeking.
Blue.[/QUOTE]Wondering if she's still around? Can you send info? Thanks.
I've seen this ad a few times and tried to contact the other day. Obviously smoking hot and has an 860 number so seemed legit. But she asked for a deposit and wouldn't provide a confirmation picture, which to me are both red flags. When I asked again for a confirmation pic, she blocked me.
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Looks good. Maybe too good.
Does anyone have any reports. There's don't seem to be too many keywords to search for this one. I'd love to know if this one is TGTBT.
[QUOTE=WalterG32;5732738]Wondering if she's still around? Can you send info? Thanks.[/QUOTE]I you followed the thread you'd know she is not. And if you reread my post, you would know that I specifically said I would share with seniors I know and have worked with before, so it wouldn't make a difference if she was still around.
Blue.