Rants, Raves and Opinions AKA "The Octagon"

[QUOTE=Thorbane;1747609]Well you Bring up a very good point as really don't like to give out other provider I have seen on this board a references for that reason you stated in your posts. I do understand the need for saftey but I have done this in the past and have gotten texts and angry phone calls on why you want to see some other provider and not them. I always wondered why a provider could not look back on the members posts to see who he has seen or reviewed and see that the provider confrimed that they were seen as proof? Just like to know what providers thought on that?[/QUOTE]This never ceases to amaze me. The easy answer is "I'm a guy". That is what you tell them. If that isn't enough tell them "I'm a man and men like variety".

The long answer:

I'm not a bad looking guy. I can get laid for free but then I have to put up with all the drama. Texts, phone calls, emails, dropping my my place unannounced and those stupid posts on my FB wall letting everyone know they have staked their claim. I hate that shit. This is so much easier. I'm paying so I don't have to deal with the drama. I'm paying because if you want something done right you go to a professional.

First look at the situation from our perspective. If you told her you only want her to have sex with you and nobody else you would have to set up a sugar daddy / sugar baby situation. You pay her to be off the market. Logic would dictate that if she only wants you to have sex with her she would have to become your sugar mamma. That's not how it works and realistically it's not what we expect.

Now look at it from their perspective. Whether you are paying for a GFE or a PSE or something in between you get that for the allotted time you have paid for. It's not real, it's just a fantasy. You are their customer. Does she like you so much that she isn't charging you? Customer! She isn't jealous that you are seeing another provider. She is mad because she feels like you are giving her money to someone else. She doesn't have dibs on you. She doesn't give a fuck about you. She has dibs on your wallet. Keep that in mind when she is asking you to explain yourself.

You have to respect anyone that does not have a good experience to put it out there to stand by their words. I've got a few negative reviews I'm holding back on because I don't see the point in striking down upon thee, and mostly the negatives imply hustling on their part trying to push me into appointments.

A recent one was supposed to be a good provider, it was late, the convo was sporatic but held me in a holding pattern for over an hour in another state waiting for the final decision. It does not warrant a negative review even though it comes off as a negative experience. It 'does' put the design in line to just forward myself to the next one, as there's always someone next in line. Her next day was probably a trail of good experiences for a few, new guy in the rotation always has a bumpy road getting in.

Lots of good variety right now. More than one choice on the shelf to fit the fancy. As you all know, the relationship has a time stamp with an expiration date. Some I've met that are good quality but wow effect is missing, which makes the curiousity grow for the next.

In relation to the constant glamorizing of some of these advertisers, like pulling out every fucking adjective from an eharmony.com dating site, I know for a fact that some of the seasoned do proceed with caution with all the cheerleading working up discounts on here like it's a coupon clipping site. It's safe to say the majority know when it's caviar good.

I am getting more annoyed with certain providers and their plain out rudeness. Are you scared another provider could keep your client? Do you all have such low self esteem that causes you to not verify a client? Have respect for other providers are soon enough you will have what you dish out right back at you. Which simply means when you need someone referenced then you will be told sorry do not know the number or sorry do not know that person. However I am mature, I have self respect for myself and I have respect for all the hobbyist on this site and others that I will reference. I am not afraid of competition unlike some other providers seemt o be afraid and scared. Key advice if your self esteem so low this is not the profession for you kick rocks.

So seems a lot of providers and others have gottent the wrong impression because I spoke up for Ally. Just because I spoke up I will not bash does not mean I am joining her or teaming up with her for dous. So to all who tell me good luck it will happen to me to well thanks for your heads up. However I am unique I work how I want to work and do what I want to do. If others have had all these bad experiences with Ally then maybe key advice pm her figure it out with the person it involves not everyone else. Drama drama. So many say not on drama yet its going on. I have no time for the ignorant texts to me concerning Ally or myself. All that is needed to know is I am a very independednt provider and I do work solo and will continue to work solo. So if contacting me in regards to Ally all will be rejected, deleted and not answered. I spoke up saying I'm not going to bash that is all. I am entitled to my opinion just like others are theirs.

Every man has his likes with a woman so if a woman doesn't have yours find one who does. Treat women with respect. You don't have to agree with them or their menu. With that being said you can either contact them to see if they have a possible second menu offering or just not contact them at all. Not discouraging contact. Just saying women have things which trip their triggers and so do men. Yes it is a business but many women in this love to be satisfied also so it never hurts to ask if the menu can be expanded but nicely. Most men do not like drama nor do the ladies. Keep it that way. Calls less attention to both parties. I have been in this my brother for a long time and we both know what we like and how we like it and in most cases will not deviate from our likes and needs. Why waste dollars when you are only getting half of what you need and only able to give half of what you enjoy to pleasure a woman. Just my opinion which doesn't make me right to everybody but does make it right for me and it is my resources. If I don't like what a ladies menu is I don't see her and would not insult her by contacting her. Thanks for reading and hope no one is offended by offering my philosophy on the way the hobby works for me. PT

[QUOTE=DickHerDown;1751502]Nothing lasts forever men. We all know this. That means that one day Nadia will move on to bigger and better things and she will no longer be here to grace us with her presence. If you haven't seen her yet, I advise that you get your shit together and make the call! Guys, I'm a tough critic. I can be very particular with my women and I rarely repeat. I must stress to you again that Nadia is a dream goddess. She has a smile that could brighten the darkest day, and an ass that you could bounce a quarter off of. Her beauty will rain down upon you like a light shower from the heavens. This girl tastes like rainbows and butterflies. LOL. Yes it's that good! Normally girls this hot are bitches. Not Nadia my friends. She is as sweet as they come. She's very articulate, intelligent and a great conversationalist. With all due respect to other providers, none can hold a candle to this girl in my opinion. Well, I think you fellas get the point. I'm finished. LOL.[/QUOTE]DHD is not Pussy Drunk!

Nadia really is that good. Folks thought I was exaggerating about this one. I know I am given to flights of fancy and overwrite reviews, so I am VERY glad that guy like DHD that is honest to the point of being blunt (our community needs a dose of reality from time to time) feels that she is indeed made of "butterflies and rainbows."

Excellent review, my friend.

Also take to heart what DHD has said here. We are incredibly blessed in this city, especially at the moment. Business has been taking me south lately and the early scouting reports are, well let's just say I am having more fun taking in minor league baseball games.

We have a healthy and vibrant community here, and it is rusty, dusty and full of cobwebs on the boards down south.

I have also come to realize I am very spoiled by our wonderful ladies in this city. They are usually very quick to respond to calls, texts, PMs etc, even if it is with disappointing news that your schedules won't line up. Rarely do you have to wait longer than 24 hours, and more times than not it is a matter of minutes, not hours. Not so south of the Mason Dixon.

While I have discovered that southern charm and hospitality is alive and well, life moves at a completely different pace down here. I hate the idea of resorting back to AMPs and Strip Club trolling, but it may come to that.

I mean I am always a polite and washed monger, but I seem to have problems getting laid with greenback stuck to my forehead at a whorehouse. Maybe I have to scrub my money along with my armpits?

Is the Yankee Stench that bad?

I might just take a vow of celibacy until I get back north later in May and save all that money for our lovely royalty in the Queen City.

There is some serious "learn" in this thread.

Do people feel the need to argue with me about infractions on an anonymous sex board? It's not like I'm fucking painting scarlet A's on their houses. Why do people invest sooooooo much in their online personas? And then they accuse me of not having a life!

EricDraven tell them about my fucking life!

Ahh you better not, then they will accuse me of having created your account three fucking years ago in the hopes that one day I would become a moderator here so I would have an ALT to support my assertions of how great my life is.

I give up.

Sheesh. WTF color do you use for that, magenta? Blue. Black. Who can keep up with you. More wardrobe changes than the cast of Dreamgirls.

I respected you when you demonstrated you were bi-lingual (for those who don't know, that means he can speak in two colors. Not that he has two tongues). But now, knowing that you've invested three years just to demonstrate to a bunch of anonymous pervs halfway around the world that you have a great life. Man. That kind of commitment and planning demands a whole new level of respect.

I would say you_da_man but in this case, sounds like I should be sayin' you_da_men.

Who woulda thunk, you and ED. One in the same. Sheeeeeeee-it.

Have a great day.

Dz.

[QUOTE=Admin2; 1755466]Do people feel the need to argue with me about infractions on an anonymous sex board? It's not like I'm fucking painting scarlet A's on their houses. Why do people invest sooooooo much in their online personas? And then they accuse me of not having a life!

EricDraven tell them about my fucking life!

Ahh you better not, then they will accuse me of having created your account three fucking years ago in the hopes that one day I would become a moderator here so I would have an ALT to support my assertions of how great my life is.

I give up.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Dweezil;1755523]knowing that you've invested three years just to demonstrate to a bunch of anonymous pervs halfway around the world that you have a great life. Man. That kind of commitment and planning demands a whole new level of respect.[/QUOTE]I needed the laugh

[QUOTE=Admin2; 1755466]Do people feel the need to argue with me about infractions on an anonymous sex board? It's not like I'm fucking painting scarlet A's on their houses. Why do people invest sooooooo much in their online personas? And then they accuse me of not having a life!

EricDraven tell them about my fucking life!

Ahh you better not, then they will accuse me of having created your account three fucking years ago in the hopes that one day I would become a moderator here so I would have an ALT to support my assertions of how great my life is.

I give up.[/QUOTE]I'd love to tell them about your life brother but the truth is to much for them to wrap their heads around. I would be flamed with accusations of making it all up. Hell, I'm fireproof so what do I care? I'll give them a little taste. I was thinking about Estrella yesterday. OK, I think about her everyday but that's not the point. Pretty little Paraguayan who works maybe 4 blocks from the mansion. She only gives BBBJNQNS. She is incredibly good at what she does. I mean DT, BLS, BLS while DT. She has a lot of different moves and she keeps changing it up. It's the little things like letting the shaft flop on her face while she is BLS and looking up at you to make sure you are enjoying it. After you cum she always opens he mouth to show you what a good job you did before she swallows it. She will easily pull 2 ropes out of me in the hour and could probably do 3 if she wanted. If you are a slow popper she will happily keep at it for the entire hour without a complaint. She knows how good she is at BBBJ and takes pride in it. I think it makes her happy to get that nut out because she knows it means she did a good job. Now lets see. 1 hour. 2 pops, beautiful girl, great attitude, at the current blue exchange rate comes to about $27 USD. That is not the "code" where "$" stands for 100. I mean 27 US dollars. I'll even post a picture so everyone knows how pretty she is.

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You know I can't be you because my Spanish sucks. The last time I was there my Spanish was so bad I actually talked a hooker OUT of having sex with me. You know the story. Besides, your non-admin username is a lot older and has a lot more cred then mine.

I am a noob, so I apologize if this has been covered in a previous discussion. Does anyone use the various "burner number" apps on your smart phones for your hobby? I understand you would still need to turn location services off, but wouldn't having a disposable number on your iPhone be better than carrying a physical second phone? Just looking for some opinions and guidance.

[QUOTE=Dr Kenneth W;1756198]I am a noob, so I apologize if this has been covered in a previous discussion. Does anyone use the various "burner number" apps on your smart phones for your hobby? I understand you would still need to turn location services off, but wouldn't having a disposable number on your iPhone be better than carrying a physical second phone? Just looking for some opinions and guidance.[/QUOTE]I use both. Both work well.