[QUOTE=Busternutter;1829726]2 questions. She was doing a light massage with oil & noticed I was enjoying her company. All of a sudden she attempted to complete a standard Md. Finish. I really wanted DC treatment. I said nothing until she wanted me to finish the Md. Finish. I asked about her pretty pink box & she said no "almost time for close; next time". She wouldn't even let me put my finger in the box."No Finger" I finished up & slipped her. 40. She said "more" with a disappointed look. I said next time. 2.) she said it should be. 60 for Md. Finish. Is that true? Her nice demeanor changed to pissed off. I will not return. Also when I first entered the room; I wondered to myself if the towels on the table were used as I stood there. A towel near the hole in the table was pushed in the hole. Even after 1 of the mamasans changed the towels on the table; the one on the pillow was somewhat damp & did not have a fresh smell.[/QUOTE]Busternutter, if a provider ever ask you to finish yourself, there are two options. First option is to start getting dressed without finishing yourself and not tip her and the second option is to finish yourself and not tip her. The first option is a more powerful message to the provider and it is also not demeaning to you. Never ever finish yourself in front of a provider. You have to show them that you are not that needy and pressed for their company. Now before some mongers start to declare that I am some meanie, think about what has transpired between them. Nothing.
When you go to a massage parlor and pay the house, the entry fee is for the TS and MASSAGE FROM THE PROVIDER. YOU PAY THE PROVIDER FOR EXTRAS. If she does not do extras, and she does not let you roam she do not get paid. What has she done to get paid for? Now before some mongers start to declare that I am a some meanie, again think about what has transpired between them. Nothing.
You can politely tell the provider that is what you are paying her to do, and since she is unwilling to do so, you are leaving and not tipping. If you want to be nice, you can give the provider a ten dollar tip. If she gets pissed off, so what. Think about this for a minute, why are you paying / tipping for services that were not rendered. Would you want a mechanic to charge you $1000 and not fix your car?
Even if the provider reluctantly does provide you with extras, by this time she is mad and she will do extras grudgingly and it will probably not be exciting to you and possibly hurtful. She may grab your junk extra hard or go extra fast and tear the skin on your meat. I would not chance it and just go with option one. Trust me it does send a more powerful message. Also if the mamasan ask you what happened because you are leaving earlier than expected, tell her that the provider wanted money for doing nothing at all.
Propilot-Always check your six.