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A lot of these girls are into drugs. Not all, but a lot. How else can they get up the nerve to service complete strangers? You don't think it's because you're so good-looking and such a stud, do you?

Many times you'll see a provider and she'll appear completely sober to you. There are two reasons for this: she's a regular user so it doesn't appear that she's f*cked up. Another reason is that she is indeed sober, at the time. She's broke and needs your coin to go out and score. Sometimes, she isn't really nervous about that first date. It's something else that has her so jittery.

You are aware the Daddy I was referring to isn't her father?

I am certainly not advocating the exploitation of women. I too try to stick with independents who play this game for themselves.

But I also live in the real world. You can't assume she's indy just because she says so in her ad on BP. Most of the managed women are in that situation by their own doing anyway. Yes, there are unscrupulous types who coerce their work force, but plenty of ladies leave their management and go indy all the time, so obviously it is not the rule by any means. Who am I to assume she isn't chosing to live and work that way, regardless of how stupid I think it is?

And as far as drugs go, that is ALWAYS a personal choice. Why should I feel obligated to try to save her from herself? Why would I even think it possible? It is a fool's errand. An exercise in futility. Plus it is her right to do with her body as she pleases.

Whether your hearts desire is to play Don Quixote or Richard Gere, if that is the case you've taken up the wrong hobby.

[QUOTE=TruthSeaker;1154661]WTF maybe her real family is trying to save her from a early death from drugs. Why the hell are you guys so cynical.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=TruthSeaker;1154934]You are missing the point. Theres a huge difference between a person who drinks and a complete drunk. The same as theres a huge difference between someone who uses and a complete strung out junkie. [/Quote]The only difference is time, in time the brain chemistry changes and the person becomes addicted. If you think there is a huge difference between wanting and having to do drugs-dream on. Most people cannot stop smoking cigarettes. If you don't think drugs that alter the consciousness of a person are not having an effect on their daily lives, you're crazy. What your talking about is a functioning addict, in other words if you can't readily perceive it, it doesn't exist for you.

Look into the definition of a drug, what a drug really does to the body, count the body's in cemeteries because of drunk drivers, add up the 7 people a day who die in Florida because of prescription drug abuse and overdose and then come back and talk to me about the HUGE differences.

You talk about a HAVE to habit and a WANT to habit, there is no want to habit when it comes to drugs, a want to habit is Golf not Heroin or Oxy, even pot has an addiction percentage and the problem is YOU don't know if your general physiology and brain wiring is the one that is the one that falls into the abyss-stop rationalizing and BS-ing yourself.--VS

How often do you take your own supplies when you have an appointment? I'm supposed to meet a lady tomorrow. She emailed telling me to bring my own supplies. This is after numerous emails to get her phone number, services offered, and a general location of her incall. It is starting to feel a bit too much. Just want to get other folks impressions before I TOFTT.

[QUOTE=VerySlowly; 1155072]The only difference is time, in time the brain chemistry changes and the person becomes addicted. If you think there is a huge difference between wanting and having to do drugs-dream on. Most people cannot stop smoking cigarettes. If you don't think drugs that alter the consciousness of a person are not having an effect on their daily lives, you're crazy. What your talking about is a functioning addict, in other words if you can't readily perceive it, it doesn't exist for you.

Look into the definition of a drug, what a drug really does to the body, count the body's in cemeteries because of drunk drivers, add up the 7 people a day who die in Florida because of prescription drug abuse and overdose and then come back and talk to me about the HUGE differences.

You talk about a HAVE to habit and a WANT to habit, there is no want to habit when it comes to drugs, a want to habit is Golf not Heroin or Oxy, even pot has an addiction percentage and the problem is YOU don't know if your general physiology and brain wiring is the one that is the one that falls into the abyss-stop rationalizing and BS-ing yourself-VS[/QUOTE]Just a side note.

There are 3 types of addictions, mental, physical and both.

Not all drugs are mental addiction, some of them are physical addiction.

[QUOTE=TwoWheelTourer;1155464]How often do you take your own supplies when you have an appointment? [/QUOTE]Sounds like she doesn't know what she is doing.

[QUOTE=VerySlowly; 1155072]The only difference is time, in time the brain chemistry changes and the person becomes addicted. If you think there is a huge difference between wanting and having to do drugs-dream on. Most people cannot stop smoking cigarettes. If you don't think drugs that alter the consciousness of a person are not having an effect on their daily lives, you're crazy. What your talking about is a functioning addict, in other words if you can't readily perceive it, it doesn't exist for you.

Look into the definition of a drug, what a drug really does to the body, count the body's in cemeteries because of drunk drivers, add up the 7 people a day who die in Florida because of prescription drug abuse and overdose and then come back and talk to me about the HUGE differences.

You talk about a HAVE to habit and a WANT to habit, there is no want to habit when it comes to drugs, a want to habit is Golf not Heroin or Oxy, even pot has an addiction percentage and the problem is YOU don't know if your general physiology and brain wiring is the one that is the one that falls into the abyss-stop rationalizing and BS-ing yourself-VS[/QUOTE]Dude, I am done with fencing with you. It is apparent you have this deep seated desire to prove how intelligent you are. Sad part is that no matter how articulate you try to come off. In the end if someone looks at what you wrote . They will see that you are a egotistical fool.

Ok basics. Alcohol is a Drug (I can't wait to read your claim that its not). You state "

If you think there is a huge difference between wanting and having to do drugs-dream on". Point blank, if you believe this you are a moron. I drink and at times I WANT another one but I know its not the best thing as I have to either drive home, work the next day ect. When you go over that line and NEED that drink and will have it regardless of driving or work you have reached the point of HAVING to have that drink.

Same thing applies to other drugs. Some girls are recreational users, others need there fix, and will do anything to get it.

THATS THE HUGE DIFFERENCE.

If you can not see that you are a fool.

Your last comment about brain wiring is totally nonsensical. Everything comes down to an individuals brain perceptions. You want to lecture without listening.

All I tried to say was that post looked to me as a post from someone trying to reach out and save that girl from a life that she lost control of, thats all.

Look at NIKKI, she went from casual user to big time user and went from being a cool person to see, to being a HUGE risk to a hobbyist.

I will not state the providers name, but she dabbled in things, started to loose it, but saw it and as hard as it was for her pulled back and stopped. Now she is clean and one of the best providers around, and once you get to know her she will tell you her story.

All I tried to say is that most of these girls are into something. When they cross that line of not being able to say no for any reason and NEEDING it and doing anything to get it, its time for me to not be near them.

I do not need your intellectual lecture about addiction, brain chemistry ect. When a girl reaches the tipping point and goes over it, it is some one I no longer want to see.

You have fun splitting hairs and being the intellectual giant you are.

All in all once I feel a girl is no longer doing things of her total will (chemical or pimp) I want no part of them.

Thats all I said.

Go quote your stats all you want, if you can't see the difference, then I feel sorry for you and I know that you are in need of help yourself

[QUOTE=Charlie; 1155522]Just a side note.

There are 3 types of addictions, mental, physical and both.

Not all drugs are mental addiction, some of them are physical addiction. [/QUOTE]All addictions are in the brain, toes do not get addicted. I'm. Not going to get into the chemical transference, what I think you're referring to is the physical withdrawal symptoms. Everything starts with the brain from the first decision to take a drug to mask a physical or mental pain to the last physical or mental pain where-after you can control it's drive. It really doesn't matter, if you cannot control the impulses you are addicted-VS

I would be careful. Sounds like a possible set-up. If you walk in with "supplies", I would think the case could be made.

That you are after something very specific.

It could be inexperience. In either case, I would stay away.

Ukie.

[QUOTE=TwoWheelTourer;1155464]How often do you take your own supplies when you have an appointment? I'm supposed to meet a lady tomorrow. She emailed telling me to bring my own supplies. This is after numerous emails to get her phone number, services offered, and a general location of her incall. It is starting to feel a bit too much. Just want to get other folks impressions before I TOFTT.[/QUOTE]

It didn't feel right. As I said, took numerous emails to get her phone number. Typically ladies give a number in their ad. She said she doesn't advertise much because she has regulars. I thought about it being a setup, too. Yeah, showing up with supplies in my pocket, Uncle Leo there, what is this for, blah, blah, blah. It just didn't feel right. Here is her ad on the space coast.

[url]http://spacecoast.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/be-autiful-exotic-playm-ate-21/4079603[/url]

[QUOTE=Ukieman; 1155699]I would be careful. Sounds like a possible set-up. If you walk in with "supplies", I would think the case could be made.

That you are after something very specific.

It could be inexperience. In either case, I would stay away.

Ukie. [/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=VerySlowly;1155683]All addictions are in the brain, toes do not get addicted. I'm. Not going to get into the chemical transference, what I think you're referring to is the physical withdrawal symptoms. Everything starts with the brain from the first decision to take a drug to mask a physical or mental pain to the last physical or mental pain where-after you can control it's drive. It really doesn't matter, if you cannot control the impulses you are addicted-VS[/QUOTE]Sorry, I am not a Lic. Medical Doctor, but I do have an MD (a 4 year mistake and the most expensive mistake of my life).

And again, there are 3 types of addiction physical (including neurons) , and mental (psychological).

For example, heroine is a physical addiction, and not a psychological.

Cannabis is a special drug, since it cause absolutely no physical addiction, it has no chemicals with addiction principles. Cannabis is a pure psychological addiction, just like gambling, sex, etc.

[QUOTE=TruthSeaker; 1155657]Dude, I am done with fencing with you. It is apparent you have this deep seated desire to prove how intelligent you are. Sad part is that no matter how articulate you try to come off. In the end if someone looks at what you wrote. They will see that you are a egotistical fool.

Ok basics. Alcohol is a Drug (I can't wait to read your claim that its not). You state "

If you think there is a huge difference between wanting and having to do drugs-dream on". Point blank, if you believe this you are a moron. I drink and at times I WANT another one but I know its not the best thing as I have to either drive home, work the next day ect. When you go over that line and NEED that drink and will have it regardless of driving or work you have reached the point of HAVING to have that drink.

Same thing applies to other drugs. Some girls are recreational users, others need there fix, and will do anything to get it.

THATS THE HUGE DIFFERENCE.

If you can not see that you are a fool.

Your last comment about brain wiring is totally nonsensical. Everything comes down to an individuals brain perceptions. You want to lecture without listening.

All I tried to say was that post looked to me as a post from someone trying to reach out and save that girl from a life that she lost control of, thats all.

Look at NIKKI, she went from casual user to big time user and went from being a cool person to see, to being a HUGE risk to a hobbyist.

I will not state the providers name, but she dabbled in things, started to loose it, but saw it and as hard as it was for her pulled back and stopped. Now she is clean and one of the best providers around, and once you get to know her she will tell you her story.

All I tried to say is that most of these girls are into something. When they cross that line of not being able to say no for any reason and NEEDING it and doing anything to get it, its time for me to not be near them.

I do not need your intellectual lecture about addiction, brain chemistry ect. When a girl reaches the tipping point and goes over it, it is some one I no longer want to see.

You have fun splitting hairs and being the intellectual giant you are.

All in all once I feel a girl is no longer doing things of her total will (chemical or pimp) I want no part of them.

Thats all I said.

Go quote your stats all you want, if you can't see the difference, then I feel sorry for you and I know that you are in need of help yourself[/QUOTE]Alcohol is a drug in fact a class 2 drug, if it were discovered now you would need a prescription to obtain it but you probably couldn't get one because there is no know medical reason to use it.

I'm not fencing with you I'm trying to teach you something but it's clear you don't care to learn, In an intellectual fencing match with me you wouldn't get past the first parry. As to who is a FOOL look in the mirror-VS

[QUOTE=TruthSeaker; 1154661]WTF maybe her real family is trying to save her from a early death from drugs. Why the hell are you guys so cynical.

Some of these girls are in bad shape from drugs, Look at the difference in her pics.

Maybe her actual real family is at there last straw trying to save here daughter. I would do the same plus more!

I am shocked how dismissive some of you guys are.

We all are into hobbying, but when I meet a girl so hooked on drugs or apparently forced by her boyfriend / pimp, I want no part of it because she is no longer willing but a slave to addiction or abuse.

If the majority is Ok with this I am definitely a member of one too many sites. [/QUOTE]That ad was put up by a jealous boyfriend / pimp or provider these girls that are SW / providers do it for the money weather they spend it on drugs or anything else is their business maybe drugs gave them their original bravery to try this way of life but the truth is that even off the drugs they can still do it even more successively so the question would be if you knew a guy who could clean a car very well and always showed up when you called him and never ever stole from you would you drop his services solely on the fact that he uses drugs with the money you pay him for his services and if so he'd just go clean someone elses car LOL.

Play Safe My Brothers

TA

I can certainly say for a fact that I do not do ANY kind of drugs. I might drink every once in a while but thats about it. And I've been in the game for a while on and off.

You don't need to be high or on something to meet random strangers. You need to have BALLS.

(not the Manly stinky ones)

[QUOTE=Charlie; 1155940]Sorry, I am not a Lic. Medical Doctor, but I do have an MD (a 4 year mistake and the most expensive mistake of my life).

And again, there are 3 types of addiction physical (including neurons) , and mental (psychological).

For example, heroine is a physical addiction, and not a psychological.

Cannabis is a special drug, since it cause absolutely no physical addiction, it has no chemicals with addiction principles. Cannabis is a pure psychological addiction, just like gambling, sex, etc. [/QUOTE]Your right your medical school was an expensive mistake, if it taught you those things it was an incredible waste of money, your declaring absolutes on subjects that continue to be studied. Your pre-Med math was weak as well, re-read your second sentence.
The latest studies show that fat, salt and sugar in combination have the same effect on the brains pleasure center as opiates (heroine-oxycodone etc.) and are addicting, and remember Charlie nothing happens without the firing of a neuron, nothing, the brain is a mass of chemicals and neurons, zap, zap and tell me which part of the brain contains the psychological addictions-VS