With a Wing man or Solo that is the question.
How do you go to clubs with or without a buddy?
Are girls more eager to approach a couple of guys at a table or is a stand alone the best route?
What are our experiences?
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With a Wing man or Solo that is the question.
How do you go to clubs with or without a buddy?
Are girls more eager to approach a couple of guys at a table or is a stand alone the best route?
What are our experiences?
In my personal opinion either way is fine...normally during day shift Solo, at nights then definitely wing man or more as it looks weird that at nights your by yourself... but I normally hang Solo unless i"m entertaining customers...
[QUOTE=Bull Dog210]With a Wing man or Solo that is the question.
How do you go to clubs with or without a buddy?
Are girls more eager to approach a couple of guys at a table or is a stand alone the best route?
What are our experiences?[/QUOTE]
If there is a stripper/dancer that you like but she is not coming to you and asking for a dance,how do you approach her? Also if a dancer you do not like comes and sits near you while you are waiting for the one you like ,how do you get rid of the one you don't like?(Is there a nice way?)
How and when do you ask about extras in the VIP room?
I always thought it was a bit creepy to see a dude by himself at a club, and assumed that the girls would also be less comfy in such a situation, but after many years of only going in groups, I would occasionally find myself in town around rush hour and would drop by clubs on the solo until I could head back up north at full speed. I had a lot of luck scoring good VIPs during this time, but it's worth noting that I was already a regular at the clubs (follies and Shooter Alley primarily) and the girls usually already knew me, and had hung out with my friends and I previously, so it's not saying much.
[QUOTE=Bull Dog210]With a Wing man or Solo that is the question.
How do you go to clubs with or without a buddy?
Are girls more eager to approach a couple of guys at a table or is a stand alone the best route?
What are our experiences?[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Tummy Sangs]If there is a stripper/dancer that you like but she is not coming to you and asking for a dance,how do you approach her? [/QUOTE]It's usually best to catch her on stage, tip her, and ask her to swing by your table. If she still doesn't swing by, you probably weren't going to enjoy her company anyway. If you don't want (or have time) to wait for her set, just casually interrupt her and ask her to swing by your table when she has a moment. If she is by herself, just flag her over, or go over and sit/stand next to her and ask her name and start chatting.
[QUOTE=Tummy Sangs]Also if a dancer you do not like comes and sits near you while you are waiting for the one you like ,how do you get rid of the one you don't like?(Is there a nice way?)[/QUOTE]Squatters are a real annoyance, and it's up to you how to handle it. The fact is, there is no completely polite way to handle the problem. My favorite way is to make casual conversation about the girls you are looking to get dances from. you could always tip a girl on stage you are interested in, and let her know you want her to come over even if someone is squatting, and usually the girl will come, you'll get a dance/conversation/VIP or whatever, and the squatter will go somewhere else. Whatever you do, don't forget that the squatter was rude first, by making it harder for you to get what you want. This tactic makes it so that people who are uncomfortable being slightly impolite spend their money on the squatter, just don't put up with it.
[QUOTE=Tummy Sangs]How and when do you ask about extras in the VIP room?[/QUOTE]This is the hardest thing to do. If you are going to wait until you are IN the VIP, you will pay more money than otherwise most of the time, but you will also get extras from a wider range of girls that way. A problem is, you will find girls who aren't interested in giving extras, and the whole VIP experience will be worse off if try to take it up once you are back there. If i'm looking for extras, I will often make it very clear before I VIP, and negotiate on the floor. When a girl asks me if I want to VIP, I usually start with a line like "no thanks, I'm not interested in paying that much money for blue balls" or something that makes it clear that you'd be interested if there were options on the menu. this gives the good girls a clear, polite indication that you aren't interested, and the naughty girls a chance to convince you they are worth it.
Lots of people make the argument that "there are no good girls" and "anything is available for a price", If you take this attitude, you are going to score some raunchy shit, but you are also going to end up in some embarrassing predicaments. I've found the best policy is to use humor to make what you are looking for obvious before you pay for a VIP. There are certainly clubs where there really aren't any "good girls", but in general, you're gambling if you assume thats the case when you don't already know it.
Happy clubbing!
[QUOTE=WindowLicker]Shay has been there for awhile, and she's a pretty sweet girl, all things considered. when my friends and I were hitting up SA lunchtime a year or two ago, she became one of my faves over there[/QUOTE]She was one of my faves too. Sat with me one Friday when things weren't going so well.
I went there on Friday and it seemed like I didn't know any of the girls in there. Anyone seen Zoey, Poison, Gia or Shay lately? Did they have some turnover?
And what the hell happened to Rooster's? It actually looks like a real club, nit the sh*thole it once was.
Just wanted to toss in my two cents on the subject but i don't think there is a clear answer myself.
When I go with buddies or a wingman usually my attention is split between being social with my buddy and watching the ladies/getting dances. So when I go with someone I am rarely going with the plan to head to VIP or go for more than a table dance.
However that said, I have been know to excuse myself from my buddy and head to VIP if the mood stuck or the lady was being espcially frisky...but then I assume my buddy will entertin himself and save our table till ig et back (and vice versa if he goes VIP)
As far as going solo, it not the being solo that creeps the ladies out. Its how you are dressed and behaved that does.
If you are enjoying the music, watching the ladies, tipping as you see fit and making playful eye contact, then you can have a great night soloing and the girl will be very comfortable with you.
If you sit in the corner and stare at the girl like she was a tv with a blank look on your face (or worse like a wolf at an injured lamb), then you are not going to have a good night.
With many of my friends being married lately or my work taking me on the road, I tend to go solo more than anything.
Now if I had a good Wingman at my hip I would be all in for a night like that as well.
Not sure where to post this. But I was wondering if anyone has gone to trapeeze before? Id like to try it. Its 100 plus 45 or 75 depending on the day if your a single male. Id kill for some input on the kinda ladies and everything.
[QUOTE=WindowLicker]It's usually best to catch her on stage, tip her, and ask her to swing by your table. If she still doesn't swing by, you probably weren't going to enjoy her company anyway. If you don't want (or have time) to wait for her set, just casually interrupt her and ask her to swing by your table when she has a moment. If she is by herself, just flag her over, or go over and sit/stand next to her and ask her name and start chatting.
Squatters are a real annoyance, and it's up to you how to handle it. The fact is, there is no completely polite way to handle the problem. My favorite way is to make casual conversation about the girls you are looking to get dances from. you could always tip a girl on stage you are interested in, and let her know you want her to come over even if someone is squatting, and usually the girl will come, you'll get a dance/conversation/VIP or whatever, and the squatter will go somewhere else. Whatever you do, don't forget that the squatter was rude first, by making it harder for you to get what you want. This tactic makes it so that people who are uncomfortable being slightly impolite spend their money on the squatter, just don't put up with it.
This is the hardest thing to do. If you are going to wait until you are IN the VIP, you will pay more money than otherwise most of the time, but you will also get extras from a wider range of girls that way. A problem is, you will find girls who aren't interested in giving extras, and the whole VIP experience will be worse off if try to take it up once you are back there. If i'm looking for extras, I will often make it very clear before I VIP, and negotiate on the floor. When a girl asks me if I want to VIP, I usually start with a line like "no thanks, I'm not interested in paying that much money for blue balls" or something that makes it clear that you'd be interested if there were options on the menu. this gives the good girls a clear, polite indication that you aren't interested, and the naughty girls a chance to convince you they are worth it.
Lots of people make the argument that "there are no good girls" and "anything is available for a price", If you take this attitude, you are going to score some raunchy shit, but you are also going to end up in some embarrassing predicaments. I've found the best policy is to use humor to make what you are looking for obvious before you pay for a VIP. There are certainly clubs where there really aren't any "good girls", but in general, you're gambling if you assume thats the case when you don't already know it.
Happy clubbing![/QUOTE]Awesome information.
Thanks a bunch.Let me try it and hopefully it will work.:)
Strip club related but not Atlanta. I think you will be amused.
I used to travel to Toronto Ontario regularly where the strip clubs are way more "relaxed" than around here. No parking ccharge, no cover charge, no stage tipping required and really fun VIP rooms. Also the girls are more laid back and will actually talk to you without presuring for more. I was at a club one night and saw a dancer on stage I thought would be awesome in the VIP. She left the stage and walked by my table. I made eye contact and she came over and sat with me. We talked for about 15 minutes. I actually had to ask her to do the VIP thing with me. We start to walk upstairs and she asked me if I needed another drink as she wanted one herself. I said sure fulle expecting to buy her a drink. We go to the bar, she orders a beer for herself and one for me and proceeds to tell the bartender to put both on her tab. I was shocked! (pleasantly). We proceed to the VIP area. She starts dancing and immediately off come her clothes. My hands are encouraged to do as they please with no limits. Next thing she does is undo my pants and pull them around my ankles. She proceeds to make sure my experience is completely satisfying, all this in a fairly crowded room. I actually ordered another beer from the waitress while this was happening. Finally at the end we were both dressing and I asked how much I owed which was the first time money was mentioned. Her response was "whatever you think is fair" I lost track of the songs guessing it was about 5 which would have been $100. 00. Keeping in mind the exemplary performance I offered $140. 00 which she happily accepted. I miss Canada
[QUOTE=George Sims]Not sure where to post this. But I was wondering if anyone has gone to trapeeze before? Id like to try it. Its 100 plus 45 or 75 depending on the day if your a single male. Id kill for some input on the kinda ladies and everything.[/QUOTE]
A waste of time, if you're a single guy. Most swinger clubs rank single guys lower than Cockroaches.
[QUOTE=Bull Dog210]With a Wing man or Solo that is the question.
How do you go to clubs with or without a buddy?
Are girls more eager to approach a couple of guys at a table or is a stand alone the best route?
What are our experiences?[/QUOTE]
In my humble opinion, these are the important factors:
1. how much money you have? How desperate is the girl?
2. Are you a tall handsome Pitt Brad type of guys?
3. Are you a good talker?
4. How busy is the club?
If you are really good at 2 and 3, there are plenty of free ones you can get to take out. A buddy or not is immaterial. Dont waste your time worrying about it. Have fun.
HAHAHA....well said....I'm totally number 3...no Brad Pitt for sure....Short, overweight, but not bad looking though....
Is all about playing the cards right and showing confidence mate...nothing more nor less...
I like day shift as girls tend to be more friendly and there are less customers...right after lunch time is even better...you can have lunch with them, get friendly, make them laugh, tip them at the stage, get a couple od dance...by then you should know if VIP would be good or not...some girls like the naughty boy attitude, others the respectful one...you have to play to what they like the same way they do it with you...and every now and then you will find a diamond that all you have to do is polish and be smart enough to get what you want, but make her thing is what she wants to give you....capito??
[QUOTE=Acaryu]In my humble opinion, these are the important factors:
1. how much money you have? How desperate is the girl?
2. Are you a tall handsome Pitt Brad type of guys?
3. Are you a good talker?
4. How busy is the club?
If you are really good at 2 and 3, there are plenty of free ones you can get to take out. A buddy or not is immaterial. Dont waste your time worrying about it. Have fun.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=LatinGod]HAHAHA....well said....I'm totally number 3...no Brad Pitt for sure....Short, overweight, but not bad looking though....
Is all about playing the cards right and showing confidence mate...nothing more nor less...
I like day shift as girls tend to be more friendly and there are less customers...right after lunch time is even better...you can have lunch with them, get friendly, make them laugh, tip them at the stage, get a couple od dance...by then you should know if VIP would be good or not...some girls like the naughty boy attitude, others the respectful one...you have to play to what they like the same way they do it with you...and every now and then you will find a diamond that all you have to do is polish and be smart enough to get what you want, but make her thing is what she wants to give you....capito??[/QUOTE]
Be careful, LatinGod. A lot of day shift girls go home after work to their boyfriends. Agree with you on that there are less busy at the day shift. If you shaft their girlfriends, some of their BFs carry 45's.
By the way, with the way you are going, you will soon own Dubois diamond company in no time. I dont know who is polishing who. HaHaHa.
Thanks for the advice...I always try to come find out before hand while we are having a nice conversation with things like: "WHoaa your boyfriend probably loves your eyes" or "Oh my your boyfriend must be a very nice guy that shares you with other guys in here..does he ever comes and see you??" or "haha...so your boyfriend can actually say I make out (or bang or fuck or something along the lines) a Pink Pony (or Cheetah, or Follies) girl!!!" and they open up to whether they do have one or not...by their answer...of course it could be just a lie still, but nonetheless it keeps things fresh...
[QUOTE=Acaryu]Be careful, LatinGod. A lot of day shift girls go home after work to their boyfriends. Agree with you on that there are less busy at the day shift. If you shaft their girlfriends, some of their BFs carry 45's.
By the way, with the way you are going, you will soon own Dubois diamond company in no time. I dont know who is polishing who. HaHaHa.[/QUOTE]