Trying this Sugar Baby thing.

I agree with everything Bruco said. I sign up maybe 2-3 times a year for a month and get 4-5 possibilities. One thing I will add is try to get them a number to chat with them off site quickly, then you can chat with them even after your paid time is up. I don't know about your budget, but you should do fine if you're willing to shell out $2-300 each time including room, food and drinks if required. Carpet bomb the babies that interest you and if you get a 10% response and interest, that's not bad. Good luck and report back your successes!

[QUOTE=Bruco;3660591]I've never paid for 2 straight months. I pay for one month, find a few girls, see them for a while. Rinse and repeat. If you put in the effort it's not all that hard. Plus, if you are putting in the effort, after 30 days you've kind of exhausted the options. It's best to let the talent refresh for 60 days or so and try again.

I got back on 8 days ago. Hooked up with a girl at her apartment on Monday, but she was too big for my liking, so I won't see her again. Should have done a meet and greet. I'm meeting up with another tomorrow with the expectation of fun after the meet and greet, if we are both into it, and then meeting another for just a drink on Thursday. This isn't a normal week, I just have a lot of free time right now.

My point? It's not really very hard. Approach them more like it's a dating site and less like it's BP. The second you make a lot of them feel like they are being a hooker, they will go quiet. Help them justify it in their mind and reap the benefits. Take an interest in them. Get it to text or email as soon as possible. Then use that phone number to try and find their real identity. Do this for your safety and to gain some intelligence. Don't use it to stalk them or be creepy or anything like that. But, If can find her on social media, use that to find out if she is obsessed with her dog or if she loves a certain restaurant or something.

But you need to reach out to a lot of different girls. Go online at different times and focus on who's on line. In my 8 days I've message about 40-50 and have active chances with 4 or 5 right now. That's a decent hit rate.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=MagicRat;3660832]I agree with everything Bruco said. I sign up maybe 2-3 times a year for a month and get 4-5 possibilities. One thing I will add is try to get them a number to chat with them off site quickly, then you can chat with them even after your paid time is up. I don't know about your budget, but you should do fine if you're willing to shell out $2-300 each time including room, food and drinks if required. Carpet bomb the babies that interest you and if you get a 10% response and interest, that's not bad. Good luck and report back your successes![/QUOTE]Thanks Bruco & Magic Rat. Do you get lucky on the first meet or for that you should set it clear in your chat with them before you meet? And at what stage you should discuss the $$ gifts?

Anyone know her? I have a date tomorrow.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/7aba0d8c-f99c-4a34-9e06-17da4b54ee47[/URL]

Good luck with the he date. I had some back and forth with her but it fell off. Please let me know how it goes. Thanks.

[QUOTE=TriadTraveler;3661782]Anyone know her? I have a date tomorrow.

[URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/7aba0d8c-f99c-4a34-9e06-17da4b54ee47[/URL][/QUOTE]

I don't want to rain on the Aylin parade, but for those who may be curious about her and normally don't go for thicker girls, imo she's a BBW. Now certainly she may be on the lower end of that scale (pun intended), but if you're like me and prefer a tighter figure, you should take a pass. Certainly a sweet, nice girl as has been reported (although a little too child-like and giggly for my taste), but I just couldn't get past the plump figure. I treated her like a lady and enjoyed the finish, but I had no desire to "roll around the sheets" with her, preferring to lay back and let her go at it.

For those that are pleased with all she has to offer, that's great, I just felt the need to offer a different side of the picture for those with similar tastes to mine. I wish her well.

[QUOTE=XpVesta;3661006]Thanks Bruco & Magic Rat. Do you get lucky on the first meet or for that you should set it clear in your chat with them before you meet? And at what stage you should discuss the $$ gifts?[/QUOTE]I always find it best to discuss donation amount somewhat early on in chatting because I've talked to great girls before and all set to meet then find out they want $500 a date and it's a bit of a disappointment so now I try to discuss it a bit sooner rather than right before a date.

[QUOTE=Usa199;3662360]I always find it best to discuss donation amount somewhat early on in chatting because I've talked to great girls before and all set to meet then find out they want $500 a date and it's a bit of a disappointment so now I try to discuss it a bit sooner rather than right before a date.[/QUOTE]Agreed. I ty to ask in a more non-provider way like "just so I'm not wasting your time, can you give me an idea of what you might be looking for financially" and go from there. I don't ask them how much for an hour.

[QUOTE=Bruco;3663175]Agreed. I ty to ask in a more non-provider way like "just so I'm not wasting your time, can you give me an idea of what you might be looking for financially" and go from there. I don't ask them how much for an hour.[/QUOTE]Exactly I usually ask what they're looking for in exchange for their time makes it sound better than "how much?" LOL.

Was able to join SA with a gift card. I got a reloadable one that didn't work for online the first time.

Several prospects between $$ to $$. 5 with little negotiation. All up for anything. Wanted to see if this was the norm.

I'll report back in the coming weeks. Stay safe.

Anyone had any experience with southerngrace74?

[QUOTE=sludgepup;3668087]Anyone had any experience with southerngrace74?[/QUOTE]Can you provide link. Name sounds familiar.

[QUOTE=Banger12;3668253]Can you provide link. Name sounds familiar.[/QUOTE][URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/fd47f3e5-8d01-42c8-8df6-41d5ff79d422[/URL]

I've never communicated with her. Guess her name just sounded familiar.

She does however look like trailer park trash.

[QUOTE=sludgepup;3668591][URL]https://www.seekingarrangement.com/member/fd47f3e5-8d01-42c8-8df6-41d5ff79d422[/URL][/QUOTE]

Not sure if this has been brought up before.

Last night when I was looking at some profiles around 9:00 PM I came across a few that their last activity date was actually a day ahead. (So I was viewing them on 12/27 , but it said their last activity was on 12/28).

Is this a tell that the profile is a fake? Or someone just scamming from some other time zone a couple hours ahead?

[QUOTE=Banger12;3668865]Not sure if this has been brought up before.

Last night when I was looking at some profiles around 9:00 PM I came across a few that their last activity date was actually a day ahead. (So I was viewing them on 12/27 , but it said their last activity was on 12/28).

Is this a tell that the profile is a fake? Or someone just scamming from some other time zone a couple hours ahead?[/QUOTE]Are these girls looking for something ongoing or just into encounters for cash like BP girls and so's. Which is the best SB site for quality?

What Ihave heard this is about meeting someone and if you get along well enough setting up an ongoing arrangement. Is that the way it works or are they just expecting a payment in order to meet the first time with sex expected?