Either it is Abbey's intention or not
Damage is done. I have 0 tolerance policy. Where is guarantee that it won't happen again?
Since we aren't their hubby nor lawyer, there is no reason to defend their side.
It is good to know the both side of situations, but just because it wasn't robbery, it doesn't make it right to stealing someone's money.
I also hate blaming the victims.
The reason why we enjoy this hobby is have a good time without dealing with bs and drama.
Be safe and have fun. Live free and die hard.