Seeking Arrangements

[QUOTE=GianniVersace;5732474]Honestly if you can spend a month exclusively on weeding out all of the girls than you will find the one or 2 unicorns that will be true utr girl next doors that are just doing this for side money. So yes it is worth it. So far I have done it once a year and it has always treated me well.[/QUOTE]Would it be helpful if I set up a database and maybe a website to start collecting all this data more efficiently? I'm willing to put in some time to try to make all of our lives easier.

[QUOTE=Chuchunga;5732491]Would it be helpful if I set up a database and maybe a website to start collecting all this data more efficiently? I'm willing to put in some time to try to make all of our lives easier.[/QUOTE]I was thinking about this too. I've had so many girls be scammers just in the span of 15 days. If we can at least have a place to cross reference numbers that would be helpful.

[QUOTE=Chuchunga;5732491]Would it be helpful if I set up a database and maybe a website to start collecting all this data more efficiently? I'm willing to put in some time to try to make all of our lives easier.[/QUOTE]To.

No that will take too much time and is a waste of time. You basically need to weed out all of the scammers and prostitutes'. Its a numbers game. The more you message the more responses you will get. Once they respond you need to respond quick or else they may sign out and not respond back for days or weeks. Its like going fishing. Set the hook. Once they bite you need to work quickly to get a face to face meeting and from there it all comes down to game. Chat off site immediately. If you say the wrong thing by mistake on SA you could be banned from the site and the money you spent for the membership is gone. When a girl asks me what I am looking for I always say something fun any mutually beneficial. Hope this helps.

[QUOTE=IAmAzn;5732547]I was thinking about this too. I've had so many girls be scammers just in the span of 15 days. If we can at least have a place to cross reference numbers that would be helpful.[/QUOTE]Once I meet a scammer I immediately block it. Just think about it the scammers will get shut down and just come back under a new profile. Thats why I think it is a waste of time to compile a database that will be obsolete within a week or 2 weeks time anyways. I have said this multiple times. Joining SA is a full time job. So if you are going to do it make sure you can spend all the time you need to make use of the membership you paid.

[QUOTE=Chuchunga;5732491]Would it be helpful if I set up a database and maybe a website to start collecting all this data more efficiently? I'm willing to put in some time to try to make all of our lives easier.[/QUOTE]Not worth it. SA profiles come and go super fast. As do app based phone numbers.

And depending on the type of woman you're looking for on SA, it's easy to pretty quickly weed out the fakes / scams. Men who get scammed almost always are new to this or not nearly selective enough. The warning signs are easy to spot and always show up.

[QUOTE=Bran001;5732668]Not worth it. SA profiles come and go super fast. As do app based phone numbers.

And depending on the type of woman you're looking for on SA, it's easy to pretty quickly weed out the fakes / scams. Men who get scammed almost always are new to this or not nearly selective enough. The warning signs are easy to spot and always show up.[/QUOTE]I am curious what some of the obvious warning signs are?

Thanks CM.

[QUOTE=GianniVersace;5732569]Once I meet a scammer I immediately block it. Just think about it the scammers will get shut down and just come back under a new profile. Thats why I think it is a waste of time to compile a database that will be obsolete within a week or 2 weeks time anyways. I have said this multiple times. Joining SA is a full time job. So if you are going to do it make sure you can spend all the time you need to make use of the membership you paid.[/QUOTE]Let me rephrase, cause if there was an easy way to fight back the scammers and completely discourage the photo / video sellers, and the platonic ones that only want to be taken out for dinner, is there interest?

[QUOTE=GianniVersace;5732564]To.

No that will take too much time and is a waste of time. You basically need to weed out all of the scammers and prostitutes'. Its a numbers game. The more you message the more responses you will get. Once they respond you need to respond quick or else they may sign out and not respond back for days or weeks. Its like going fishing. Set the hook. Once they bite you need to work quickly to get a face to face meeting and from there it all comes down to game. Chat off site immediately. If you say the wrong thing by mistake on SA you could be banned from the site and the money you spent for the membership is gone. When a girl asks me what I am looking for I always say something fun any mutually beneficial. Hope this helps.[/QUOTE]Thanks Gianni,

But this is what I mean. A huge toll of time, energy, and $, for little reward, to find the 1 out of 100 that has value.

In the past, CL worked better for me. More real women, fewer bots or people overseas. But that's the past.

This is actually pretty funny. I don't know how long this ad will be up, so I've taken screenshots for you all.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/24a533ef-c7d9-4919-974f-857427ac215d[/URL]

[QUOTE=SalamanderFour;5733113]Thanks Gianni,

But this is what I mean. A huge toll of time, energy, and $, for little reward, to find the 1 out of 100 that has value.

In the past, CL worked better for me. More real women, fewer bots or people overseas. But that's the past.[/QUOTE]CL was the best. Don't get me started =*(Can someone on here start a facebook group in the Boston or New England Area for like minded guys like us and like minded girls we seek to join to find each other? I am surprised this has not happened yet?

And as they say to each their own. To me finding that 1 or 2 unicorns is worth the time I spent that one month to find her. The sex is always better with a non pro than a pro in my opinion. My problem now is that having sex with an addict is a huge turn off. Its really sad to see a person doing this because they are either being controlled by a Pimp or on so much drugs to the point of almost self destruction.

[QUOTE=GianniVersace;5733432]CL was the best. Don't get me started =*(Can someone on here start a facebook group in the Boston or New England Area for like minded guys like us and like minded girls we seek to join to find each other? I am surprised this has not happened yet?

And as they say to each their own. To me finding that 1 or 2 unicorns is worth the time I spent that one month to find her. The sex is always better with a non pro than a pro in my opinion. My problem now is that having sex with an addict is a huge turn off. Its really sad to see a person doing this because they are either being controlled by a Pimp or on so much drugs to the point of almost self destruction.[/QUOTE]From 2009 to 2011 I had 4 different "regular" girls that I met through CL Casual Encounters. No money involved ever, just hanging out and screwing. Each of them lasted a varying amount of time and two of them overlapped for several months. One of them took videos of herself blowing me and said she was sending them to her "boyfriend", who was apparently married. None of them was a "girlfriend", as I had one of those already haha.

[QUOTE=JClearMan1;5733345]This is actually pretty funny. I don't know how long this ad will be up, so I've taken screenshots for you all.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/24a533ef-c7d9-4919-974f-857427ac215d[/URL][/QUOTE]99% sure that's Sal Vulcano from Impractical Jokers. Wonder if this is a prank from the show.

[QUOTE=GianniVersace;5733432]CL was the best. Don't get me started =*(Can someone on here start a facebook group in the Boston or New England Area for like minded guys like us and like minded girls we seek to join to find each other? I am surprised this has not happened yet?

And as they say to each their own. To me finding that 1 or 2 unicorns is worth the time I spent that one month to find her. The sex is always better with a non pro than a pro in my opinion. My problem now is that having sex with an addict is a huge turn off. Its really sad to see a person doing this because they are either being controlled by a Pimp or on so much drugs to the point of almost self destruction.[/QUOTE]I agree. It is easy to sort the wheat from the chaff. Probably 90% of the time someone on here points out a scammer, I've already hidden or blocked them on SA. I also cannot do the addict / homeless pro and I am not an AMP guy. No interest there either. So SA works for me. The odds are much better than on this site.

[QUOTE=BR1201;5733741]99% sure that's Sal Vulcano from Impractical Jokers. Wonder if this is a prank from the show.[/QUOTE]I just looked up that name and I think 100% right. Glad I blocked the account.

[QUOTE=JClearMan1;5733489]From 2009 to 2011 I had 4 different "regular" girls that I met through CL Casual Encounters. No money involved ever, just hanging out and screwing. Each of them lasted a varying amount of time and two of them overlapped for several months. One of them took videos of herself blowing me and said she was sending them to her "boyfriend", who was apparently married. None of them was a "girlfriend", as I had one of those already haha.[/QUOTE]I never pulled anything free on Craigslist but always paid between $60-$100 back then. It was great. SA 8 years ago I pulled 3 girls for free. I also think that is possible depending on how old you are. If you are younger in your early 30's or younger and going after a younger girl than I think the free tail on SA is highly possible.