The age old story of the pitfalls from the guy side
[QUOTE=LookingForLefty;2725045]She gets good reports. When you get one of these south side single moms that is reliable they can be a lot of fun. Especially one that is not all coked up. However I have yet to find one that doesn't smoke.
OFG. Does she smoke?. I also have not found one with a valid drivers license and a decent car. I think maybe one has been on time maybe once in 150 visits. The other 149 I have heard nearly every kind of car or traffic excuse there is. No gas, low on oil, low tire pressure, dead battery, boyfriend has the car, school buses, GPS says you are in Kenosha, trains, wrecks.
Baby sitting issues. Three kids but over a year there must be 12 birthday parties they need an extra 20 to buy them presents. I've had maybe 10 of those "hey baby, I'm in jail bla bla bla can you come get me?
Help me, I'm at a motel on Appleton Avenue, met these guys at a bar and now they have my car and making me take heroin. They are taking turns barebacking me in the ass. Sometimes if they have child care lined up and not in too need of a cigarette, they can be hard to get rid of. They want to hang out and enjoy your nice home.
You look like decent boyfriend material. She's eyeing up your house. Your bed is the nicest place she's ever been fucked. You look good. Especially compared to their current boyfriend (believe me they are never really without a boyfriend) who is sitting on a bar stool, slumped over nursing a beer wearing a torn ball cap. He fucks her is the ass after she blows him. You on the other hand go down her for a hour, kiss her body, give her a rubdown and even though you are paying her, you make the session all about her and give her what she likes. You treat this woman better in bed than you treat your wife or girlfriend. Why is that? You treat her like a queen while the baby daddy beats her up. But she will never leave him unless you can really come across with cash. If you are at the point you are meeting her kids, her sisters, or she comes to you for help with personal problems - helping her move, etc. You are in too deep. The fun is over.
And STUPID YOU, you are actually having thoughts of rescuing her and making her your girlfriend and having her kids like you. Even though you know there is a 99.5% chance that won't ever work out and it will cost you a lot of time, stress, and money.
The better friends you think you are with these women, they somehow are leaving with more money now than they did before. A free blow job on your birthday is rare.[/QUOTE]Good reminder of the pitfalls of guys getting in too deep.