Seeking Arrangements

[QUOTE=JClearMan1;5730569]I'm not sure who reported me, or what their report was even based on, since I've never once offered commercial services, or discussed anything related to money, or even responded to any messages that discuss money (I always assume it's a trap). Anyway, someone reported me on SA, so I was temporarily suspended until I read the terms of service and watched a video about it, and then re-agreed to the terms of service.[/QUOTE]They have an automated system for messages. It doesn't even take a report anymore. I try to move off the site asap or keep responses pretty tight until I can get off the site cause of it. I'm on my like 6th account haha.

[QUOTE=Hyperion11;5728391]She just sent me a text saying that we need to talk, as she's under 21.

Thing is, we had a drink at the hotel bar. And they looked at her I'd.

Fuck. What would be the best to do now? Ignore her?[/QUOTE]Ouch, that's potentially a big problem. Never leave your stuff. Even with ones I've seen dozens and dozens of times and trust I never leave my stuff out of sight. Years ago, I actually had a street ho steal the freaking CD out of my car CD player one time when I stepped out of the car to get a hotel room. Good luck man.

[QUOTE=Andarrato;5730728]It's pretty subjective. I have found more reliable contacts than I have on places like STG, but there's also more scammers and an absolute fuckload of foreigners trying to sell you pics and videos. If you have the tolerance to weed all of that out, then yes it's worth it.[/QUOTE]Came here to report some intel on exactly this. I spent the morning chatting over text with "Ada" (user "CuteRocker", I'd link but I permanently blocked the user and can't get to the link anymore); we even set a time to meet this coming Wednesday. Suddenly she offers to share some nudes and I'm like "Sure!", then she sends a cashapp cashtag for a "tip", which was "$meccatemple31". LOL, what?? So I decided to google image search the picture she had texted to me, only to discover it was some content selling hottie on twitter, with an only fans full of good stuff. So yeah, I pasted all those links back to "Ada", then "she" went silent. Busted. Idiot.

[QUOTE=Chuchunga;5731140]They have an automated system for messages. It doesn't even take a report anymore. I try to move off the site asap or keep responses pretty tight until I can get off the site cause of it. I'm on my like 6th account haha.[/QUOTE]Yeah, that's my strategy as well: get to text messages asap.

Wanted $ to guarantee meet and sell pics and stuff. Told her I wasn't interested. Ghosted me after that.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/65c6c9d9-fe61-451b-acbd-52c9a070f3db[/URL]

[QUOTE=JClearMan1;5731563]Came here to report some intel on exactly this. I spent the morning chatting over text with "Ada" (user "CuteRocker", I'd link but I permanently blocked the user and can't get to the link anymore); we even set a time to meet this coming Wednesday. Suddenly she offers to share some nudes and I'm like "Sure!", then she sends a cashapp cashtag for a "tip", which was "$meccatemple31". LOL, what?? So I decided to google image search the picture she had texted to me, only to discover it was some content selling hottie on twitter, with an only fans full of good stuff. So yeah, I pasted all those links back to "Ada", then "she" went silent. Busted. Idiot.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=JClearMan1;5731563]Came here to report some intel on exactly this. I spent the morning chatting over text with "Ada" (user "CuteRocker", I'd link but I permanently blocked the user and can't get to the link anymore); we even set a time to meet this coming Wednesday. Suddenly she offers to share some nudes and I'm like "Sure!", then she sends a cashapp cashtag for a "tip", which was "$meccatemple31". LOL, what?? So I decided to google image search the picture she had texted to me, only to discover it was some content selling hottie on twitter, with an only fans full of good stuff. So yeah, I pasted all those links back to "Ada", then "she" went silent. Busted. Idiot.[/QUOTE]Update: they just texted back said the girl on twitter was, in fact, them. I decided to give them some pointers.

The scamming on SA has gotten so high volume, the scammers aren; t even trying as hard to cover up these mistakes anymore LOL.

SA does nothing about it, despite it being a paid site, so it won't matter anyways.

[QUOTE=Joe1223;5730818]I must be at a different level with my selection of SB's that I chose to see. I haven't ever been disrespected or ripped off by my longer term ladies. Sure they see me for the money but they aren't totally bitches when we are together. It's mutual chemistry that makes it work otherwise I would just sick with the escort sites. Not expecting any romance but the college girls and single moms have been overall decent people and we both are getting something out of it. They all eventually move on usually for a bf or they leave the area for a real job. If they start to ask for a larger donation or become not available as often I take that as an exit plan as I never go over the agreed amount whether they deserve a raise or not. I agree if one is expecting a "romantic " situation this probably isn't the place, for obvious reasons.[/QUOTE]I don't expect a romantic relationship, but I'm not keen on being nothing but a cash machine either.

Finding that middle ground is tough. And wading through the $ and fakes on SA doesn't make it easier. It's enough to make one look for a regular woman as a side-piece, but that has diff problems.

[QUOTE=Hyperion11;5728391]She just sent me a text saying that we need to talk, as she's under 21.

Thing is, we had a drink at the hotel bar. And they looked at her I'd.

Fuck. What would be the best to do now? Ignore her?[/QUOTE]Yes. Block on VoIP / SA. I'd also change your VoIP number (which I hope you are using). I'd also maybe change your SA profile or make it hidden.

I doubt she cares about where you live, nor has the wherewithal on how to take that info and use it for profit because she already sound dumb for trying to use your cc. She just wanted the credit cards.

[QUOTE=RandomChance72;5726598]Anyone have information about this one?

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/e62e5088-cd70-42e1-aae2-0927a9d936f2[/URL][/QUOTE]I reached out when COVID started, she wanted virtual. I passed.

[QUOTE=Hobbyist420;5731770]I reached out when COVID started, she wanted virtual. I passed.[/QUOTE]This is pretty funny. None of those pictures look local and quite frankly, she's not attractive at all. I don't know what she's requesting. But, definitely a hard pass. You can give her a virtual finger just for your troubles.

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[QUOTE=JClearMan1;5731600]Update: they just texted back said the girl on twitter was, in fact, them. I decided to give them some pointers.[/QUOTE]You were too professional on your response. LOL. Others would've used more colorful words. The dummies in the Massholes can come up with some creative ones.

[QUOTE=SalamanderFour;5730114]Is SA worth the fees? With so many fakes, time wasters, and pros to weed through it just seems like a very expensive process to get a side piece.

You could easily spend hundreds of dollars, weeks and months, and not have much to show for it.[/QUOTE]Honestly if you can spend a month exclusively on weeding out all of the girls than you will find the one or 2 unicorns that will be true utr girl next doors that are just doing this for side money. So yes it is worth it. So far I have done it once a year and it has always treated me well.

[QUOTE=CambridgeSci;5729180]LOL, I'm early 30's so here's where I go in DOT if I'm down there.

Yellow Door is a hotspot. The Industry Bar and Grill too.

Lucy's is always fun and has good brunch with groups of girls around.

Dorchester Brewing Company has groups and can be hard to meet people if you're by yourself or have no game.[/QUOTE]I was out in the Seaport on Saturday and met 2 hot girls who happened to live in Dorchester. They said Harp and Bard is a decent spot too. Guess I need to give Dot a chance now.