[QUOTE=JDeller;5729575]This is good advice especially for the first few meets. Just curious. Have any of you guys had a SB for over a year or two? I have and I don't really worry about anything at this point dealing with robbery, exposure, blackmail, etc. Am I wrong? What length of time do you stop being concerned with this bs?[/QUOTE]I guess it's like any other kind of relationship where you develop trust over time. The girls that I see I have developed a connection with but it's more like a good friendship. I am not looking to fall in love and neither are they. We respect each other's boundaries. The girls that I tend to look for are not pros. They aren't looking to meet at a hotel on the first date. They are not opening their legs for any guy. The ones I look for tend to be young professionals with good upbringing who are just looking for one guy to have an arrangement with. These girls are getting harder and harder to find on SA these days. I think where guys get in trouble is when they think with their small head and are just looking for a quick lay. They end up meeting some sketchy stranger and bad things happen. I view having an arrangement as a marathon, not a sprint. You got to put in the work to find the right one but for me it is worth it in the end. If you want a quick lay get a professional escort (and yes, watch your wallet if you do go that route).