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Anyone could have picked up your lost credit cards and license. . .
Deal with the situation as if that is what happened.
[QUOTE=Hyperion11;5728391]She just sent me a text saying that we need to talk, as she's under 21.
Thing is, we had a drink at the hotel bar. And they looked at her I'd.
Fuck. What would be the best to do now? Ignore her?[/QUOTE]
I personally never been scammed but my question is to you guys after reading the latest scam thread. Now I already stated my feelings on why you guys feel the need to give your money to these hookers as soon as you walk in the door without getting service and some of you answered its common courtesy. Yeah nothing like being a gentleman to a hooker addicted to crack with her bf hiding in the bathroom who fucks her for free but now I got to ask. Why do you guys bring your wallet with you to have sex with these woman. You already make an agreed upon price. So if the price is 200 just stuff 200 bucks in your sock or pants pocket and that's it. What is your purpose of bringing in your wallet with your I'd, credit cards and maybe you have money. Makes no sense why you wouldn't keep it locked in the car or if you took the train, bus, uber you still don't need any of that stuff. It blows my mind how I read how some of you guys get scammed when its so easily avoidable. Please stop treating these woman as if there your friends and feeling bad for them. And for all you marks who think you find these non pro gems on seeking and want to keep it to yourself as if there your gf makes me laugh. These so called gems probably are banging a different dude a night with a bf hitting it for free spending your money laughing at you and then you come here acting like a mark for yourself trying to treat these woman as gems when there all far from it.
Do they have to pay for anything?
[QUOTE=CandyMan555;5728868]Do they have to pay for anything?[/QUOTE]Yes one of the SB's I was seeing told me that she paid $$$ to be premium and featured. There were more features that she was showing me that was available to a paid SB than a non paid sb.
[QUOTE=GianniVersace;5728523]There are no girls in Dorchester that look like that. Its a fake.[/QUOTE]LOL, that's exactly what I was thinking.
[QUOTE=Hyperion11;5728391]She just sent me a text saying that we need to talk, as she's under 21.
Thing is, we had a drink at the hotel bar. And they looked at her I'd.
Fuck. What would be the best to do now? Ignore her?[/QUOTE]Here is the profile: [URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/2ce10504-fc5e-4a56-969f-e76b4de4a2dc[/URL].
Avoid at all costs!
[QUOTE=GianniVersace;5728523]There are no girls in Dorchester that look like that. Its a fake.[/QUOTE]There are plenty of female students and young professionals living in Dorchester. Just Depends what part of Dorchester. Adams Village, Lower Mills, Neponset aren't bad areas. Even Ashmont has come around. Plenty of hopping bars and restaurants full of girls in their early 20's. No one can afford Southie anymore so now they are all moving into Dorchester.
[QUOTE=Spike77;5729024]There are plenty of female students and young professionals living in Dorchester. Just Depends what part of Dorchester. Adams Village, Lower Mills, Neponset aren't bad areas. Even Ashmont has come around. Plenty of hopping bars and restaurants full of girls in their early 20's. No one can afford Southie anymore so now they are all moving into Dorchester.[/QUOTE]What are the best Bars to find girls now in Dorchester? I forgot how unaffordable Southie is now. Man I am getting old.
[QUOTE=GianniVersace;5729116]What are the best Bars to find girls now in Dorchester? I forgot how unaffordable Southie is now. Man I am getting old.[/QUOTE]For 20 something young professionals I would say The Bowery, Lower Mills Tavern in Lower Mills. Industry, Lucys Tavern, Landmark Public House in Adams Village. Ashmont Grille in Ashmont. Savin Bar and Kitchin in Savin Hill. Dorset Hall in Neponset. Blarney Stone in Fields Corner. That's just off the top of my head.
[QUOTE=GianniVersace;5729116]What are the best Bars to find girls now in Dorchester? I forgot how unaffordable Southie is now. Man I am getting old.[/QUOTE]LOL, I'm early 30's so here's where I go in DOT if I'm down there.
Yellow Door is a hotspot. The Industry Bar and Grill too.
Lucy's is always fun and has good brunch with groups of girls around.
Dorchester Brewing Company has groups and can be hard to meet people if you're by yourself or have no game.
[QUOTE=TheList00;5728845]I personally never been scammed but my question is to you guys after reading the latest scam thread. Now I already stated my feelings on why you guys feel the need to give your money to these hookers as soon as you walk in the door without getting service and some of you answered its common courtesy. Yeah nothing like being a gentleman to a hooker addicted to crack with her bf hiding in the bathroom who fucks her for free but now I got to ask. Why do you guys bring your wallet with you to have sex with these woman. You already make an agreed upon price. So if the price is 200 just stuff 200 bucks in your sock or pants pocket and that's it. What is your purpose of bringing in your wallet with your I'd, credit cards and maybe you have money. Makes no sense why you wouldn't keep it locked in the car or if you took the train, bus, uber you still don't need any of that stuff. It blows my mind how I read how some of you guys get scammed when its so easily avoidable. Please stop treating these woman as if there your friends and feeling bad for them. And for all you marks who think you find these non pro gems on seeking and want to keep it to yourself as if there your gf makes me laugh. These so called gems probably are banging a different dude a night with a bf hitting it for free spending your money laughing at you and then you come here acting like a mark for yourself trying to treat these woman as gems when there all far from it.[/QUOTE]Though I agree with the fact that you can't treat these girls like GFs or friends especially during the first few meets. Maybe after several times together you can let your guard down a bit but never allow yourself to be exposed as to who you really are. At least that is my approach and I use a fake name and fake social media profiles. However you cannot get into a hotel without I'd or CC so that poses another issue. Just keep the wallet on you or in site all the time!
This lady is doing ppm for $700, she says: "Possible dinner or drinks depending on schedules and compatibility. No drama, or strings. Typically 700 per meet". Good luck with that.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/8ae17c1a-df20-4fd5-961f-42cb57a88ba4[/URL]
This is good advice especially for the first few meets. Just curious. Have any of you guys had a SB for over a year or two? I have and I don't really worry about anything at this point dealing with robbery, exposure, blackmail, etc. Am I wrong? What length of time do you stop being concerned with this bs?
[QUOTE=Joe1223;5729332]Though I agree with the fact that you can't treat these girls like GFs or friends especially during the first few meets. Maybe after several times together you can let your guard down a bit but never allow yourself to be exposed as to who you really are. At least that is my approach and I use a fake name and fake social media profiles. However you cannot get into a hotel without I'd or CC so that poses another issue. Just keep the wallet on you or in site all the time![/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=JDeller;5729575]This is good advice especially for the first few meets. Just curious. Have any of you guys had a SB for over a year or two? I have and I don't really worry about anything at this point dealing with robbery, exposure, blackmail, etc. Am I wrong? What length of time do you stop being concerned with this bs?[/QUOTE]Again stop being a mark for yourself. If you have a sugar baby for 2 years and paying her theres a reason why in 2 years she's calling you to take your money. Not like in the last 2 years she loves you so much or the sex is soooo good she's throwing you freebies. And in the 2 years while your paying for it, she's probally had like 10 bfs who work at walmart or probally unemployed in mommys basement who fucking her everynight not costing them a penny. So with that being said you shouldn't trust any of these woman at any time. They don't like you like that and never will. If you go broke tomorrow she won't give two fucks and delete your number and if you dropped a gold watch, money etc by accident sure as shit she's taking that and not going the honest route.
[QUOTE=JDeller;5729575]This is good advice especially for the first few meets. Just curious. Have any of you guys had a SB for over a year or two? I have and I don't really worry about anything at this point dealing with robbery, exposure, blackmail, etc. Am I wrong? What length of time do you stop being concerned with this bs?[/QUOTE]I have had a few SB relationships last more than a year. I absolutely did not worry about blackmail, robbery or other 'bad stuff' with any of them. Yet I still maintained a fair bit of distance.
One required full disclosure of identity before she'd let me come to her home. I never regretted it. It saved me a lot on hotel rooms! I already knew her full identity.