Sugarbabies?

I posted the following reply on the Richmond SB thread. I am cross-posting here for anyone who doe not check there regularly.

I have had experience on all three but SA is the only one that works reliably for me. I also find that most of the profiles that interest me are cross-posted on SA meaning I am not missing chances. For me the big issue is wasting money. On SA, I pay one (large) payment and can approach as many people as I choose. Granted, a substantial number are or might be scammers, bots or predators but I am pretty good now at detecting them. Also, on SA all they can do is a waste a bit of my time. On both SB and WYP, I have to buy credits and then spend them opening communication with interesting profiles. Too many of those profiles are scammers, predators or bots. I have successfully reclaimed credits on WTP multiple times but it is a PITA and huge hassle. In any case, the vast majority of credits you spend are going to be totally wasted. That drives ME nuts. There are guys who claim they have methods that allow them to narrow their focus to mostly real people but it must have taken them a lot of wasted credits to acquire that ability. For them, it is possible they actually spend less than the increasingly mounting expense on Seeking. However, that would not be true for me and would not be true for you initially. Assuming you have the coin to play in the sugar bowl, you might spend a few hundred on each site sequentially and then report your experience. Yours is a perennial question and we would benefit from hearing a recent report.

BAM.

[QUOTE=phaedrus2004;5744583]There is a lot to read on pros and cons of SA. In the past there were reports that didn't make SB a better choice. Recently I came across WYP which had a different spin on fixing a date. Online review doesn't make it look very promising. Can anyone share their experience in RVA with WYP?[/QUOTE]

I met this one for a MnG. I had already offered 400 ppm. After the MnG, she was eager to go the FC at her place. It was a horrible experience. First, she is easily 30-40# heavier than her pics. I have her PII and SM. She has heavily photo-shopped or filtered ALL the pictures on her profile and on her SM. She makes up and dresses well. With winter wear she can hide her weight. Second, she is horrible in bed: unresponsive, slow to get naked, shows no pleasure and wants to get it over as quick as possible. YMMV but do not say you weren't warned. Video chat first if you can. PII available via PM for contributing seniors.

BAM.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/dcccc560-48ed-4a01-bae1-2600cf13e943[/URL]

[QUOTE=BamBam;5745525]I met this one for a MnG. I had already offered 400 ppm. After the MnG, she was eager to go the FC at her place. It was a horrible experience. First, she is easily 30-40# heavier than her pics. I have her PII and SM. She has heavily photo-shopped or filtered ALL the pictures on her profile and on her SM. She makes up and dresses well. With winter wear she can hide her weight. Second, she is horrible in bed: unresponsive, slow to get naked, shows no pleasure and wants to get it over as quick as possible. YMMV but do not say you weren't warned. Video chat first if you can. PII available via PM for contributing seniors.

BAM.[/QUOTE]Holy crap. Thanks for the heads-up. I've been working hard on this one.

Does anyone have any insight on this one? I am working on a MnG for dinner with her and one of her friends. Any input would be much appreciated. Thank you!!

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/fd5d6d07-7697-41ab-8fe7-fb8ec48e1bc6[/URL]#x.

[QUOTE=BamBam;5745525]I met this one for a MnG. I had already offered 400 ppm. After the MnG, she was eager to go the FC at her place. It was a horrible experience. First, she is easily 30-40# heavier than her pics. I have her PII and SM. She has heavily photo-shopped or filtered ALL the pictures on her profile and on her SM. She makes up and dresses well. With winter wear she can hide her weight. Second, she is horrible in bed: unresponsive, slow to get naked, shows no pleasure and wants to get it over as quick as possible. YMMV but do not say you weren't warned. Video chat first if you can. PII available via PM for contributing seniors.

BAM.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/dcccc560-48ed-4a01-bae1-2600cf13e943[/URL][/QUOTE]BAM,

I am really surprised a senior guy like yourself was taken by this young chick for 400. Did you not try negotiating with her? Her social network profiles wide open of you Google.

I met her too 3 weeks back when she had another profile which got suspended and this is her new profile. She did play the same rush hush game with me we agreed for 300 for 2 hrs however when she tried to rush me I gave her only 200 and enjoyed my 45 minutes of fun. While dropping her off I told her you short me on time I am going to short you on allowance, next time when we spend couple hrs together I will spend agreed upon allowance and kissed her goodbye. Didn't say a word in return.

Lesson learned: When chick shorts us on time we short her on allowance. Stand your ground.

[QUOTE=BarnesMike32;5746709]Does anyone have any insight on this one? I am working on a MnG for dinner with her and one of her friends. Any input would be much appreciated. Thank you!!

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/fd5d6d07-7697-41ab-8fe7-fb8ec48e1bc6[/URL]#x.[/QUOTE]What's the strategy for the "platonic" tag on the profile?

What info did you use to find her social media? What are some tips for finding that info from a SA profile if you don't mind. I'm not that computer savvy, LOL. Thanks.

[QUOTE=MattChavan23;5748187]BAM,

I am really surprised a senior guy like yourself was taken by this young chick for 400. Did you not try negotiating with her? Her social network profiles wide open of you Google.

I met her too 3 weeks back when she had another profile which got suspended and this is her new profile. She did play the same rush hush game with me we agreed for 300 for 2 hrs however when she tried to rush me I gave her only 200 and enjoyed my 45 minutes of fun. While dropping her off I told her you short me on time I am going to short you on allowance, next time when we spend couple hrs together I will spend agreed upon allowance and kissed her goodbye. Didn't say a word in return.

Lesson learned: When chick shorts us on time we short her on allowance. Stand your ground.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Decatur21;5748585]What info did you use to find her social media? What are some tips for finding that info from a SA profile if you don't mind. I'm not that computer savvy, LOL. Thanks.[/QUOTE]I am interested as well as to how you perform those searches. Thanks.

I admit; I got taken. I thought I had cleverly confirmed her appearance via access to a variety of her social media including a recent trip to Miami. If she was as hot as her photos, she would be worth the amount I offered (in todays climate.) After we met, she talked a really good game, was wearing a puffy coat and was flashing some nice cleavage. It was only after we were back at her place, and I eventually got her naked, and we started to fool around, did I realize how thoroughly I had been snookered. I was glad to get out as quickly as possible. I considered the allowance an acceptable loss given the circumstances.

If you were seriously disappointed at her cutting your time short, I have to assume you are relatively new to the game and not yet spoiled by the superior quality generally available in our part of the bowl. In my view she was not even worth the two bills you eventually gave her. Are you actually contemplating repeating??

To the people asking for search techniques, these are skills slowly accumulated over time. They confer an advantage in capturing the attention of some sugar babies. I regularly share with contributing seniors who in turn offer me info in exchange. I will always offer alerts to the general community. Especially with regards to safety. That said, I am not giving away any hard-earned edge I have going for me. Seniors? Am I off base?

BAM.

[QUOTE=MattChavan23;5748187]BAM,

I am really surprised a senior guy like yourself was taken by this young chick for 400. Did you not try negotiating with her? Her social network profiles wide open of you Google.

I met her too 3 weeks back when she had another profile which got suspended and this is her new profile. She did play the same rush hush game with me we agreed for 300 for 2 hrs however when she tried to rush me I gave her only 200 and enjoyed my 45 minutes of fun. While dropping her off I told her you short me on time I am going to short you on allowance, next time when we spend couple hrs together I will spend agreed upon allowance and kissed her goodbye. Didn't say a word in return.

Lesson learned: When chick shorts us on time we short her on allowance. Stand your ground.[/QUOTE]

Uses pro language and takes you straight to text. 300 ppm, can host in Blue Ash, immediately ready BUT! You have to send half first over Paypal. Name on Paypal is either a dude or someone not in this area. No confirmed PII. AVOID!

BAM.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/bd466ed3-cbe7-46c3-bef9-84af78a56a5c[/URL]

[QUOTE=BamBam;5748790]I admit; I got taken. I thought I had cleverly confirmed her appearance via access to a variety of her social media including a recent trip to Miami. If she was as hot as her photos, she would be worth the amount I offered (in todays climate.) After we met, she talked a really good game, was wearing a puffy coat and was flashing some nice cleavage. It was only after we were back at her place, and I eventually got her naked, and we started to fool around, did I realize how thoroughly I had been snookered. I was glad to get out as quickly as possible. I considered the allowance an acceptable loss given the circumstances.

If you were seriously disappointed at her cutting your time short, I have to assume you are relatively new to the game and not yet spoiled by the superior quality generally available in our part of the bowl. In my view she was not even worth the two bills you eventually gave her. Are you actually contemplating repeating??

To the people asking for search techniques, these are skills slowly accumulated over time. They confer an advantage in capturing the attention of some sugar babies. I regularly share with contributing seniors who in turn offer me info in exchange. I will always offer alerts to the general community. Especially with regards to safety..[/QUOTE]Bam, we are cool bro. I was not disappointed at all I got the job done with Hailey, however, It was more of wham bam thank you mam kinda session which I don't expect with SB encounter but with LC or EB escorts and I like them little thick with bootie, just personal choice, so overall it wasn't bad, but I would give it B- grade. And that's why I paid LC prices too. I don't plan any repeat one and done types.

And remember, my friend we don't pay this pussies for pounding but we pay them so they can walk away after pounding without any drama all I did was cut my loses, It was a fair game. I have cut allowances many times in past when the session didn't happen as per agreed upon time. You won't believe but I have paid less than 100 many times when chick lowballed me and I did the same as return favour.

Also, I am not newbie. Been dooing this from last 6 yrs when SA was on prime and already finished my century a while back.

My home turf is KY but I have played in many states and international too. I would appreciate if you can point us to the "Superior Quality' you mentioned in your home turf. I promise drinks on me. I cannot find any lately, haha. I always enjoy drinks with similar minded homeie and exchange notes.

Moral of the story is when chick lowballs us for time and service we lowball her too on allowance and send her home with small lecture on customer service.

Matt.

[QUOTE=MattChavan23;5749969]Bam, we are cool bro. I was not disappointed at all I got the job done with Hailey, however, It was more of wham bam thank you mam kinda session which I don't expect with SB encounter but with LC or EB escorts and I like them little thick with bootie, just personal choice, so overall it wasn't bad, but I would give it B- grade. And that's why I paid LC prices too. I don't plan any repeat one and done types.

And remember, my friend we don't pay this pussies for pounding but we pay them so they can walk away after pounding without any drama all I did was cut my loses, It was a fair game. I have cut allowances many times in past when the session didn't happen as per agreed upon time. You won't believe but I have paid less than 100 many times when chick lowballed me and I did the same as return favour.

Also, I am not newbie. Been dooing this from last 6 yrs when SA was on prime and already finished my century a while back.

My home turf is KY but I have played in many states and international too. I would appreciate if you can point us to the "Superior Quality' you mentioned in your home turf. I promise drinks on me. I cannot find any lately, haha. I always enjoy drinks with similar minded homeie and exchange notes.

Moral of the story is when chick lowballs us for time and service we lowball her too on allowance and send her home with small lecture on customer service.

Matt.[/QUOTE]I'm kinda like Matt. I look at the overall value I am getting. When that crazy SB in Carlisle stop in the middle of our session, I gave her 120 when we had agreed on 250 previously. She asked 300 originally. Funny, I am watching the Bengals game with her on Sunday and it's all holes open. It will be interesting. Anyways, I don't have the level of experience you two have, but, I am getting better at it. Happy sugaring gents!

[QUOTE=Potus2020;5748700]I am interested as well as to how you perform those searches. Thanks.[/QUOTE]If you're interested in learning about this type of thing, shoot me a PM and I'll send you some online guides to doing research, along with some tools that I use for verifying identity and facial recognition.

I don't want this information really easily out there, but, I'm more than happy to share with my fellow mongers.

Apparently she moved to San Antonio overnight.

[QUOTE=BamBam;5749052]Uses pro language and takes you straight to text. 300 ppm, can host in Blue Ash, immediately ready BUT! You have to send half first over Paypal. Name on Paypal is either a dude or someone not in this area. No confirmed PII. AVOID!

BAM.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/bd466ed3-cbe7-46c3-bef9-84af78a56a5c[/URL][/QUOTE]

What you see is what you get. Looks exactly like pictures. Very nice person in person. PPM 500 but you can negotiate. No MnG fee. Well known Seniors can PM for more info. (May be slow to reply tho).

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/147de34a-bd16-4592-85e9-db9625dc7870[/URL]