Most of these things don't need to happen
[QUOTE=Nael127;3095888]It finally happened. I was trying to help out a friend and she screwed me.
Friday morning I contact my dear friend Holly [URL]http://orlando.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/best-kept-secret-in-orlandoo/17044691[/URL] for a quick dream.
I left feeling like a complete pissed off dumbass for letting this happen.
.[/QUOTE]A lot of these rip offs and negative experiences can be avoided. This post is not pointed at any one person, but if the shoe fits. First, RFF. It is that simple. There are practical guidelines already posted yet many dudes ignore it and then get ripped off or fall into the same old traps. It sucks for that dude but when it works, these scam artists keep doing it! I see several things going on. Part of it is a mindset issue that some would be well advised to consider and other issues stem from ignoring sound advice posted time after time. After RFF, do your research. There are no shortcuts to that. It takes some time. Don't ask me or someone else to do it for you. There are risks involved with playing in dreamland. Not everyone in the jungle is fair and friendly. Not everyone is bad either. Research and thinking with your brain helps you reduce risks and avoid issues. The biggest risk is related to chicks that have no reviews. Do not see chicks with no reviews. Read that as many times as it takes. There is no exceptions to this for me. It is not worth the risk. Critically evaluate the reviews you see. Who posted that review? Consider the credibility of who wrote it. Is it Mr. Two posts and one is a glittering review of some chick nobody has heard of? I always pass on those. Always.
Mindset issues: Your dream is a deal, treat it like one. Your third grade teacher was wrong. None of us are special. Every one of us is simply the next horny mother fucker with money in our pocket. That's all we are. Be prepared to walk away from the deal. That empowers you more than you know. If the girl you meet isn't what was represented or acceptable to you, walk. If other people and BS get involved, walk away. If there is any BS with the donation, don't argue, just leave. If things don't look right, feel right or whatever, trust your inner voice and walk. Move on. Get in your car, go somewhere, sit down and contact someone else. You have just avoided an issue and saved your Mario coins for another dream.
Donations: I pay after services are rendered. No exceptions. Once she has the $, you have given up control of the engagement. I put the donation where she can see it. I nod to it and say "That belongs to you when we are done". Another mindset issue is all these posts from guys mentioning the word "trust". WTF? Trust is not part of the equation. Just bc you have been physically intimate with some chick does not mean you know her or should trust her. This is not your first HS girl friend. This chick will let almost anyone fuck her for some money. Never, ever put yourself in a position to be taken advantage of, bc you will be. Read the last sentence again. I'd give that advice to the chicks too. Just stick to the deal. Ignore everything else. The forum is full of dudes who have been ripped off by some chick they have seen before. A lot of these chicks are master manipulators. Hey, they know they have seen you before and your guard is down. Don't get complacent. Another mindset issue is related to keeping your emotional distance. Do not get close to these chicks or get involved in their drama. You will end up being taken advantage of. Also, do not give them unique information that identifies you. They would only give a fuck for bad reasons. I don't need any of them knowing shit about me. I know some guys bring these chicks home. I don't. I won't. I think it's a bad idea and not worth the risks. Again, you can't trust these chicks and you really can't trust their associates. If you do that, that's your decision. Perhaps you see the risks differently but don't argue with me about it. Your rational does not apply to me and mine don't apply to anyone else.
Another mindset issue is related to when things don't go well. In general, simply stop what you are doing, disengage and walk away if you can. Think through issues you've seen posted here and decide what you would do before it happens to you. Cash and dash? Are you going to chase the girl? She is running to someone. What if you catch her? Are you going to brawl with some chick in public and end up with an assault charge? Also, your sexy little miss may have a gun, blade or spray. She is scared, possibly high and pulling off her scam. Don't let looks deceive you. Where I used to live the Trannys' were known to be dangerous. Who wants to end up in the ER, or worse over a donation? What about if her management / pimp / muscle shows up? In some cases your best bet is to give up the donation and walk away if you can. Most of them want an easy victim and will let you go. If the muscle wants to rob or hurt you, think about what you will do now so you have the best chance of being able to do it. I'll give up a donation, but I'll fight like hell if anyone tries to rob or hurt me. That is my decision and I'm prepare to do that. I am not a stranger to violence. Most of you are not me. Be realistic about what you can and would do. It isn't about right or wrong, it's about what is going to work for you.
My advice is to RFF, consider your own rules ahead of time and think with your head. Stick to your rules. If we would all do that there would be a lot less rip offs and negative experiences going on. The good news is that none of what I have said will sour a nice dream from a legit lady willing to earn the Mario coins. Have fun and be safe, my brothers from other mothers.
Don't go jump in' to conclusions
[QUOTE=DsLanger;3109721]New here, can you pm who to avoid also please.[/QUOTE]Before you go runnin' off half cocked might I suggest you do some due diligence. First off, check on the reliability of the gentleman reporting the incident, especially take note that at this writing over half his posts have either been heavily edited by A2 or outright blocked. Not sayin' there might be a credibility issue, but there might. Second, you may want to Googel Herpes so you understand mo better how it spreads and that it might be difficult to know when and by whom you get it from, anyway since you can get it and never have symptoms. I guess if he only had sex with one chick in his life then, yeah, she gave it him. Otherwise, he might have picked it up from his cousin back in the trailer park when they were growin' up in Arkansas and just now showing symptoms.
Hey, it could happen.
C3.
Avoid TinkerBell in Deland
Unfortunately this chicks head has gotten to big and now her head is up her ass!
TinkerBell loser boyfriend is handling her phone and schedules mosts of her appointments. When you guy's think you are texting her, you're NOT! It's the boyfriend on the other end of her phone. TinkerBell is going downhill fast due to the candy habits of her and the boyfriend.
Avoid!
Cannot believe I am going to say this
[QUOTE=Chris5;3148702]Unfortunately this chicks head has gotten to big and now her head is up her ass!
TinkerBell loser boyfriend is handling her phone and schedules mosts of her appointments. When you guy's think you are texting her, you're NOT! It's the boyfriend on the other end of her phone. TinkerBell is going downhill fast due to the candy habits of her and the boyfriend.
Avoid![/QUOTE]I have to say that I believe C5 may be correct about this.
Last weekend, I thought I had a date scheduled with Tinkerbell 90 minutes in advance. Drove to her location (out of the way for me), got to the designated check-in spot and -- Crickets -- No response.
After waiting for almost 30 minutes, I had to bail and let her know that I was disappointed that she hadn't bothered to respond or explain. Never heard another word from her.
Too bad, because she looks hot and her reviews were sounding pretty darn good. Oh well!
Samantha. The blonde spinner of Goldenrod, now Conway
[QUOTE=DsLanger;3234840]Had a quick headache relief session with this lady since she close. Seems to be having a rough time lately so I figured I would help her out. Not impressed at all with her mouth game. Also her hands had scabs which was a total turnoff. I give her some credit because she did try to please so wasn't all bad but I 100% will not repeat. Since BP is shut down can't find a post of hers but I did save a couple pics. Think her name was Chanel or something like that started with C though.[/QUOTE]The name I got was Samantha who I nicknamed the blonde spinner of Goldenrod. It should now be the blonde spinner of Conway. Yes, her BBBJCIMWspit is average. If she could suck harder, then the length of time to nut would be shorter. But she is like the energizer bunny, she will keep at it until you are done. I actually don't mind them BJing for as long as possible, I don't like to nut fast. I have repeated with her numerous times. In fact, on 1/15, I had BBBJ and CFS with her in my truck parked in a fenced backyard (her current Conway residence). Did not have any trouble with the people inside the house. And yeah, the scabs on the hand was from fireworks exploding in her hand on New Year's Eve. Double BJ is best but a BJ is better than no BJ (in all situations).
Samantha. BJ is better than no BJ
[QUOTE=Vino7373;3237795]I tried to see this woman based upon a recommendation from a friend. I texted her and she asked me questions about myself which I answered. I wanted to arrange a dream in an outcall for her and I was going to pick her up the next day. She refused to do that unless I saw her that night for a car date. I told her I wasn't interested in a car date. She bugged me with about ten texts trying for that car date. I told her no. She said she wouldn't do the outcall date unless I did the car date first. I still said no. She ended up texting me and waking me up at 4 AM so she could tell me how I had lost out by not doing the car date.
I texted her the next afternoon to tell her I wasn't happy about her 4 AM text. She called me a couple of choice names and told me to lose her digits. I happily obliged. BTW, those aren't scabs from fireworks, I'll wager.[/QUOTE]That's is what she said, she didn't have it before New Year Eves. Didn't matter cause there were no scabs on her mouth, she can keep BJing. Little petite twenty-something blonde, I will repeat again. Thanks for letting me have the missed appointment. BJ is better than no BJ.
Kaotic Kandi, rip off! Total waste of time!
Made me wait forever whilenshe was showering and she rushed me during the session and lasted no more than 5 minutes when I had arranged an hour! Total rip off!
If you search for her on escortsbabylon and look into the comments section you will see others have reported the same! To bad I did not see that before! Else I would had avoided such a waste of time!
A few years ago I almost efd up
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If it wasn't for this forum I probably would have called her in my younger more naive days. Turns out she was a he. Research on the forum saved my ass from making a huge mistake.
Funny she is still posting. Haven't seen her post in a while.