Sitting by one's self in the VIP
I've seen this subject brought up before, and feel I've got to weigh in this time around. Pardon my ignorance, but I was unaware that there were specific rules regarding attendance in the VIP. Protocols yes, but attendance is based on $$, not some underground statute no? I personally prefer the VIP due to a more relaxed atmosphere, and when I was in the clubs, they appeared to have less smoke. Many times, I was the only one there, and I chose seating not meant to encourage passionate pursuits (like right by the door, facing out).
I have manners and respect, so I could care less about your activities. I'm watching the floor for someone who may pique my interest and I'll move things forward from that point. I'll be upfront and say it's been awhile since I've cruised the clubs, as I stick to AMPs when I have disposable income. But, when I did cruise, I frequented the Reef or Ten's. I liked the loft at Ten's, and you could hang there without feeling like you might infringe on someone's clandestine moment. The Reef was a little different, and if the VIP got crowded, I'd cruise the floor for awhile or just bail. If someone is hanging and eyeballing, I feel that's way different than someone just parked for parking's sake...
There are bigger issues over which to be gnashing teeth.