What are the advantages and disadvantages?
Hey fellow mongers, I just started poking around in this sugarbaby forum and I'm trying to figure out what I've been missing out on if anything. From reading back a few pages it seems like the seeking arrangement girls are asking a lot and not giving much in return or are kind of flaky. But when I click the SA links it says I need to login before I get to see anything. Are they generally better looking / younger than the normal USA providers? Do I have to pay money to open an account? I think I read that someone pays SA $80 a month? What do you get for that money? I also read someone post that SA made them post a real pic for a profile? Could I just post a pic of a celebrity that I look like? I'm envisioning getting offers from hot college girls to be my fuck buddy if I pay their rent each month - is that how it normally works?
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[QUOTE=SevenYearMitch;3584690]Hey fellow mongers, I just started poking around in this sugarbaby forum and I'm trying to figure out what I've been missing out on if anything. From reading back a few pages it seems like the seeking arrangement girls are asking a lot and not giving much in return or are kind of flaky. But when I click the SA links it says I need to login before I get to see anything. Are they generally better looking / younger than the normal USA providers? Do I have to pay money to open an account? I think I read that someone pays SA $80 a month? What do you get for that money? I also read someone post that SA made them post a real pic for a profile? Could I just post a pic of a celebrity that I look like? I'm envisioning getting offers from hot college girls to be my fuck buddy if I pay their rent each month - is that how it normally works?[/QUOTE]Here's a few quick answers.
Q: Are they generally better looking / younger than the normal USA providers?
A: YES but not always- you have to shop around a little.
Q: Do I have to pay money to open an account? I think I read that someone pays SA $80 a month?
YES, 80 for a one month trial- that's what I would advise to start. The longer you join-the cheaper it is per month- but try one month to see if you like it. What you get is access to look at profiles and contact women.
Q: I also read someone post that SA made them post a real pic for a profile?
A: Yes, these are more in line with non=provider chicks in that it matters what you look like and that you are clean, have good manners, etc.
You have to be prepared to demonstrate some game and be able to talk shit and have a little finesse to have the most success.
I'd suggest not posting a fake pic. Post a pic on the profile maybe without your face if you have concerns, and have at least one with your face "hidden" that you can share (and unshare) who you want to when they ask for it.
Invest a little time and effort and you'll find something hot and willing in the 2-250 range that will be willing to do what you want when you want. Its worth checking out.
One more Tip and a Caution / Advisory
[QUOTE=RupHun;3585251]Excellent advice Freda.
I always google the numbers. Some are girls are using texting apps, but others are using real numbers. I've also met 1 girl that had two phones. She was definitely like an UTR provider.
I think a lot of guys hit these girls up, and just straight offering $$ for sex, and you see lots of girls profiles that memtion I'm not a prostitute or escort, I'm not looking for 1 nighters. I think theres a lot of creepy guys on there that don't know how to operate. You have to be a smooth operator, and approach it like you would in a dating situation. Most of these are semi normal woman, and are basically trying to get the best of both worlds, have a relationship, and get paid. By hitting them up, and telling them something about their profile that you liked, and making non suggestive comments about the way they look, also giving them access to your private photos, suggest they check out your profile, that you think you really might hit it off, and give a legitimate reason based on some compatibility mentioned in their profile.
Then let the conversation develop over a day or two, then I some point, either if your really progressing, ask for their number, or offer yours up, and then the texting starts, which accelerates the relationship quicker, then you can share photos, and start to set up a meet and greet date. Thats what I call it. Offer to take them to lunch, drinks or coffee, your treat, so that you can get acquainted, and see if you can come to an arrangement.
The girls that want to get to talking about the $$ during texting are the ones that are DTF right away. They want to get the $ out of the way, before arranging a meet. The really DTF ones will offer to come to your house or hotel, and skip the meet and greet.
But yes, I have learned a lot in just one week. I am amazed that I never tried this before, and didn't realize what an untapped market this was, for both short term and even long term arrangements.[/QUOTE]TIP: If you ask them to EMAIL you additional pics (and I don't ask for naked pics-I let them choose) instead of TEXTING sometimes I have found about 75% do NOT have their I'd hidden on their Gmail account. Thus you get their name and can then dig for more relevant intel. And by the way, make sure your own I'd is hidden to recipients of YOUR email. If you don't know how- get Googling!
ADVISORY: This should go without saying, but use your Common Sense and DO NOT tell any of these SA girls about this Discussion Board in general and certainly not about any discussion of them specifically!! While Discussion of a BP chick may be viewed as "good advertising" for a BP girl, these girls will be absolutely mortified (aka freaked out) to find out they are discussed here and you'll drive them and their friends off the SA sites. As I say, it should go without saying, but I can tell you there are some idiots out there who think they will somehow score points for themselves by sharing this information with these gals. And have.
Happy Hunting!
Well here's what learned about that yesterday
[QUOTE=Barolo;3586355]Hayx33 did the same to me. I told her the same. I can get all the videos I want on the internet. Why would I pay?[/QUOTE]This may be common knowledge.
So I got the same routine about an "online relationship" with a new young hot Asian chick. I responded to her in a completely civil way and said- hey, that's not my thing, if it was there is a great big internet full etc. Then I suggested to her if she would put "online only" somewhere in her Profile she could screen a LOT of people out and save both parties a lot of time. Then she told me: If she puts "online only" in her profile, SA will not approve the profile!
So, these chicks don't have to pay a dime to have a standard listing so I'd like to suggest that whenever you encounter this "online only" or "pics only" bullshit- report them to SA and start cleaning them out!
P.S.: My other Pet Peeve is the Trannys. SA should not allow them to list them as freaking women. Please complain to SA if you agree.