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[QUOTE=HammerGuy;3138046]Isn't that Cici? Her recent pics look like she has been rode hard and put up wet. At one time she was a decent provider. Her menu used to be wide open, no holes barred. .[/QUOTE]She's not Cici, two completely different girls, but I do see the resemblance.
[QUOTE=BigBoiTerry;3137119]It's not your fault, she used to go by Fantasy and her old ad had pics from when she was thicker. Yeah, I reviewed her several months ago, I gave her the benefit of the doubt but apparently I was wrong. But she's right, guys are still going to see her.[/QUOTE]I saw her a month ago in SV area and had no issues. She was tiny so concerned about drugs but room wasn't horrible but appt was quick butbit was what I was looking for due to time so kinda fit the bill. Probably why she didn't complain. With that said she's not anywhere on my regular list because you could sense the quick appt attitude. Plus really thin so had other concerns.
Bioteck.
[QUOTE=BioTeck;3138235]I saw her a month ago in SV area and had no issues. She was tiny so concerned about drugs but room wasn't horrible but appt was quick butbit was what I was looking for due to time so kinda fit the bill. Probably why she didn't complain. With that said she's not anywhere on my regular list because you could sense the quick appt attitude. Plus really thin so had other concerns.
Bioteck.[/QUOTE]I don't know about now but back a few months ago she was running with Echoo. That pretty much tells the story.
Hobbycat.
Well it seems she is up to it again. Our old friend Map Surfer got pinched for $300 last Friday. She took his money with a promise to see him later. He is no longer on this board due to issues with admin. I thought I'd post this for his and everyone's benefit. She going to screw around and rip off the wrong guy here in the future.
Stay away from this clown. She never was really any good any way if you were to ask me.
Crete.
Cash and Dash, beware. Her manager will be close by at all times. Sucks.
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I had an incident happen a month ago where I had been seeing someone from BP off and on for about a year and it turned out that it was a scam where even her husband was in on it. The girl played it so well that I literally got to the point where I actually developed feelings for her and I haven't been on BP ever since as it like erased my sex drive totally from the traumatic experience of it all. Sure, I like everyone who does this for a while has been ripped off before as it goes with the territory. I know part of the thrill of all this is the gambling part, where you find that UTR you connect with and you eventually get special treatment as some girls do more for certain guys than others and a comfort level is established. There have also been girls before in which we hung out like Sunny before she got popular on this board where there was a level of friendship outside of all this but in the back of your mind you know this is her livelihood and that there are lines you don't cross in all this. Sunny is a big enough person where she will let you into her world but treat you with respect as long as you do the same. She really does it in such a way that is natural and you feel like you can always come back around to her and expect the same treatment almost everytime. The way she was when you met her is pretty much how she will be this time around. There will be no red flags that come up all the time.
This other girl raised alot of red flags from the start yet we always seem to go for that new high. When there is a level of tension going on sometimes it seems makes your adernaline kick in and you wonder if this girl is going to come through or if she is going to tell the "other" guy to come in and end the dream right there. Is she going to be legit has she had her share for the day and your strictly supply where you get nothing. I think its fair to assume some guys for these type of girls that they just can bring themselves to go through it. That is the same with us guys who see girls on BP that they couldn't pay us! So when you feel like your "in" you seem to start giving this person you don't even know leeway when you know you shouldn't. Some guys like to keep it to a small group of providers in order to stay safe and sometimes you just like to stick with the familiar even if flawed.
Well this girl basically got out of the business for a while, We didn't end on great terms as she was still trying to get a last bit of cash from me without doing anything, but I tried to basically be like "hey thanks for being legit overall towards me at least, I really hope things work out for you in the future and I really wish we could have met outside of all this in IRL, you really are a cool chick. " She was then positive in her feedback towards me so I felt like everything had ran its course as she was now out of the motel and back into the real world. The girl contacted me 3 weeks later when she was in the hospital for surgery and invited me to her room where her oldest child was present. At this point I was like "Did this girl develop feelings for me". Could I just be a dick to this person who was this intimate with me and is inviting me into a part of her real world? I decided to go and brought her flowers and some good food to her just to show her that this probably went a little beyond what I thought it was and that I appreciated the showing of vulnerability on her part. Turns out this was just a sympathy move to rope me in further and have me spend more cash since my heart was now more involved. Like my roommate who has always been a ladies man told me "Well she was knew she wasn't going to be making money in that hospital bed being for a while so she had to get creative".
Eventually a week or so later she invited me to her place she had gotten, it was basically like she was starting over with her daughter she now had custody of. The place seemed nice and she even got a car. I was like, I guess this girl was really going back into the real world like I am everyday. We talked for hours one night outside, how she had a list of every guy and who gave her what and the last time she saw them, how she wished she could give everyone back the money to the guys she didn't go through with. I being a businessman by trade I respected that she had a system to all this chaos these girls go through day. Me being who I am I bought it hook line and sinker that I was somehow more special. This scenario seemed too real for someone to take it this far. I was like this girl is getting her life together and wants me in it. I had gotten so smitten over this girl that I cut off all my regulars and focused in on her. I didn't care that we didn't meet on perfect circumstances, even something she said before I did. Every time I would go back to my logical side I would think about how this woman was so much different than my ex wife who I despised and brought me to all this in the first place. I felt like this woman had been through so much why would she care if I played video games since she did or if there were cloths everywhere like I saw in her hotel room. She looked good, gave me great sex and she wouldn't nag me. Any guy that has been with a nagging controlling wife on your ass all that time that doesn't look good can get to a point where a call girl seems like a sane choice. Am I alone here?
I could continue on with this on how I found out exactly what the truth was but I am just about done typing. I just want to warn guys who may be vulnerable and getting out of a marriage can fall for something like this maybe, I know the older guys here might be laughing a little bit inside but that's ok. If you want further details to the story PM and I will tell you if you want to know who this person is, etc.
I decided not to post the audio between the two of us that I have even though I wanted to help some guys realize when something you think might be real isn't. I realized its not my place.
I just want to stress that if a girl likes you beyond BP they won't ask for money or favors. If they really like you enough they will hang out with you off the clock as friends. Don't think otherwise and you can learn how to enjoy this hobby for what it is.
[QUOTE=HighTide;3163755]I decided not to post the audio between the two of us that I have even though I wanted to help some guys realize when something you think might be real isn't. I realized its not my place.
I just want to stress that if a girl likes you beyond BP they won't ask for money or favors. If they really like you enough they will hang out with you off the clock as friends. Don't think otherwise and you can learn how to enjoy this hobby for what it is.[/QUOTE]Your not the only one who has been through this. Trust me I have a couple of times. Telling your story is great help but at the same time you are still protecting this girl and setting up another guy to fall into her trap by not revealing who she is. I can understand why you don't want to cause those feeling keep you from it. Also the hope that you are wrong and she will change for you plays a big part of it too. I wish I knew who she was so I don't fall for her scam since I am one who does so easily.
As far as Sunny goes you are right she has been always honest with me and has never taken advantage of me. She has always made it known it is her job but at same time has always been someone who will talk to me about life and tell me like it is. I can go to her for advice in the hobby and know I will get a truthful answer. Now she doesn't talk to me as much as we use to since.
She has gotten so popular but I understand that and she also told me that.
[QUOTE=HighTide;3163755]I decided not to post the audio between the two of us that I have even though I wanted to help some guys realize when something you think might be real isn't. I realized its not my place.
I just want to stress that if a girl likes you beyond BP they won't ask for money or favors. If they really like you enough they will hang out with you off the clock as friends. Don't think otherwise and you can learn how to enjoy this hobby for what it is.[/QUOTE]Don't feel bad, most guys in the hobby have good hearts, and if not careful, you can fall and mistake things for what they aren't. Even with me I just recently had it made clear to me that at the end of the day, you're a client, trick, or whatever category they put guys in. But you will actually be a better hobbyist because of this. I will always be me, I'm naturally kindhearted, but just always keep in mind that we aren't friends, or anything else to them. They want your money and nothing more.
[QUOTE=HighTide;3163755]I decided not to post the audio between the two of us that I have even though I wanted to help some guys realize when something you think might be real isn't. I realized its not my place.
I just want to stress that if a girl likes you beyond BP they won't ask for money or favors. If they really like you enough they will hang out with you off the clock as friends. Don't think otherwise and you can learn how to enjoy this hobby for what it is.[/QUOTE]There are those of us that have and those of us that will. I had a similar predicament. Hot girl, great sex, friends on the side (I thought). Helped her with random $ on the side because "she had an abusive husband and needed $ for the divorce. " Turns out she used every cent I gave her for her divorce to get a boob job for her husbands Christmas present.
[QUOTE=HighTide;3163755]I decided not to post the audio between the two of us that I have even though I wanted to help some guys realize when something you think might be real isn't. I realized its not my place.
I just want to stress that if a girl likes you beyond BP they won't ask for money or favors. If they really like you enough they will hang out with you off the clock as friends. Don't think otherwise and you can learn how to enjoy this hobby for what it is.[/QUOTE]I've had some providers I had gotten to close before, but I tell myself to keep feelings separate no matter what. I made myself realize that no matter what, at the end of the day me and the girl are both on that site for one reason. Business. Sure it's probably hurt some relationships / friendships with some of them but it felt like it was easier to me to keep personal separate.
I guess when the rollercoaster ride is over its hard to accept sometimes. You remember when she was still the green girl and you pulling up to her motel off Elvis Presley or West Shelby on a bright Memphis afternoon not knowing how all this was going to play out. You look at her pictures when she first started out and how a piece of that person ain't here anymore in the ones today, you remember the cheap tracfone like every newbie girl has, you remember the way the rooms looked, how she smelled, the tattoos. Her natural hair color. Your remember when she first started giving you the GFE. You then find yourself in the present knowing that you stayed on the ride too long. You could have gotten off anytime but you let yourself get pushed off where it was going to hurt much worse. You didn't want them to feel used by you. They gave you so much. Its a good lesson to learn as you gotta keep a firm reality of the situation. People will say they love you to get cash. Being sentimental is a bad thing like I have learned. You just take this business for what it is and when it comes to money you be the boss ALWAYS. Be a Man and say no if it aint a situation you like going on. Reward yourself with the money you saved and buy yourself something nice. Don't let a girl who looks good make you think your their only hope, there is a group of men out there who will do more than you and I will for just a kiss. It don't matter if you look better than the other dude and got money, the game is still the game. If the girl want to hang out with you for free she will. Life is a series of starting over and over again and this biz is no different. You think these would be common sense but sometimes we forget to use it. Respect to the girls who had bad shit happen to them but didn't take it out on the guys that weren't disrespectful.
Thanks for the posts and pm's guys. I really appreciate it. Alot of excellent stories.
A very well known and mostly reputable provider royally fucked me over last night. Sr members can pm with with requests for info and I'll expound a little more. I've seen this person in her very nice incall apt for probably 2 years now and she basically robbed me of my donation for her "time and companionship", which is basically what I got for 20 minutes until she said my time was up and time to go. This is someone who just 3 months ago would charge me a cut rate every time and go well over the 30 minutes we usually did. Never complained a minute. I asked her flat out if she was off her meds. After she started screaming and threw me out of her apartment she started texting me about how she is now a sugar baby and sometimes things will happen, and sometimes they won't. This time she "wasn't feeling it. " What a fool. Had she played to the game the way she was, I'd have gladly paid her normal rate at least once a month. She just fucked herself out of a lot of money from me and anyone else that reads this.
If anyone thinks I'm full of it on this, I have the crazy ass texts I saved to prove what she did as she started texting me after I left about how her "policies" have changed and I should read them on her post on Eccie. Anyone who's read any of my posts over the last few years, will know that I don't put anyone on blast for no good reason, and I've only left less than a handful of bad reviews. This one is one for the books.
Like I said, PM me for more details. I'm more than livid about how she totally flipped on me and stole my money.
Sounds like the Italian!
[QUOTE=MarlboroPlease;3176495]Sounds like the Italian![/QUOTE]No. He said she was mostly reputable.