Pretending to be sugar babies.
Be warned for anyone that thinks any of these girls will honor a sugar baby type situation they won't. The girl that took me for 10 k has found another dude to pull the same scams on and I met a regular that explained what was going. She told me she had a dude that spent 15 k on her so she wouldn't do dates.
The scams I personally fell for was phone breaking, overdue fines, kidnapped and owes someone money, things breaking or getting stolen in their house, going to rehab, getting away from drugs and needing a new place to live, etc. They key give away is that they will always ask for 200 within 2 days because the cost of their habit is that much. It was too late for me but as someone else said.
At their worst, these girls lied, cheated and stole from their own family and during their best, they could not care about me or you.
I am blessed to have an opportunity for a promotion and to recover the money I lost but my trust in all girls is fully gone. I didn't know people would inflict so much pain on others for money.
And it makes me so frustrated
To see other dudes type that they aren't hot or successful and still get girls.
All I wanted in life was a cute girl that loves to work out and play video games. Yet another year will go by with only rejections and it just makes me want to avoid everyone and sit in my apartment day after day knowing I tried my best and even invested financially into therapy, dating coaching, even sugar baby.
Don’t confuse dating and mongering.
[QUOTE=FairFight;4939298]To see other dudes type that they aren't hot or successful and still get girls.
All I wanted in life was a cute girl that loves to work out and play video games. Yet another year will go by with only rejections and it just makes me want to avoid everyone and sit in my apartment day after day knowing I tried my best and even invested financially into therapy, dating coaching, even sugar baby.[/QUOTE]Rule #1 - Keep your paid sex life 100% separate from your search for a girlfriend. If a"girlfriend" asks you to pay for anything other than your dates, it is a paid relationship.
Rule #2 - There aren't enough cute girls who work out and play video games for every man who wants one.
Rule #3 - Sitting in your apartment solves none of this. Though it might be the best thing to do until COVID is resolved.