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I've had some success during my 3-mo subscription and have a nice set of girls who I have seen multiple times. All but two of them are not very active on seeking (it seems like the log in every 2-3 weeks or less). I no longer a premium member and actually don't feel the need to log in obsessively like I have been doing the past three months to msg new girls. A couple girls who I am seeing. The chemistry and connection is super, like a new bf / gf relationship. I'm not likely to get emotionally entangled (am married with kids no desire to damage that) but I am practical which means if the fun and positive vibes can be had for less $ I'm all about that.

Question for you experienced SDs here, have you moved any girls from PPM to allowance? What are best practices in doing so? One girl I see at 400 ppm and another 500 ppm. What is a good allowance offer? What other terms and conditions would be good to negotiate up front when moving to an allowance type of situation. Is it even advisable?. When I browse the sugar life reddit it seems all about the allowance. I might post there as well but for now looking for some ideas from the experienced folks here. Specially locally here in the DMV.

[QUOTE=ShortMan22;5325299]Just wondering if any of you mongers have any experience with her? I'm currently trying to talk with her on SA. I'll share how things go.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/bc32714a-7316-45d9-a660-a6338d8cf230[/URL][/QUOTE]I met her a few month ago and reported on the Baltimore forum. Think she changed her profile. Definitely her name. Had a M&G dinner with her and she was ok. Cute but not hot. Conversation was tough and while she was responsive and talked, I had to drive the entire conversation. Was exhausting. Wasn't feeling a good connection but figured WTF. I'll see if she'll come back to my place to fuck. Was only 10 minutes away. I was shocked when she agreed. Wish she would have declined in retrospect.

Got to my place and and agreed to 300. Proceeded to have the worst deadfish fuck I've ever had. I've seen over 75 women on SA and she was BY FAR the worst fuck. I will say got a second round in and she blew me to get a second load out. In all fairness, the BJ was decent and she took a good facial. I told her I was going to cum and expected her to shy away or take CIM and she set it up for me to blow all over her face. That was the only positive of the whole night. Surely will never see her again.

If anyone's got a hair up their ass for a bigger / bbw type big tittied girl this one wants $500 which to me is too steep for her. We originally agreed to $300 but then a few days later when it came to actually schedule something she reneged and tried to bump me to $500. I stood my ground and so did she do I wished her all the best.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/a3d54ade-e40f-4d35-be85-cea2b9a50d1f[/URL]

[QUOTE=HeyDuhman;5325601]I've had some success during my 3-mo subscription and have a nice set of girls who I have seen multiple times. All but two of them are not very active on seeking (it seems like the log in every 2-3 weeks or less). I no longer a premium member and actually don't feel the need to log in obsessively like I have been doing the past three months to msg new girls. A couple girls who I am seeing. The chemistry and connection is super, like a new bf / gf relationship. I'm not likely to get emotionally entangled (am married with kids no desire to damage that) but I am practical which means if the fun and positive vibes can be had for less $ I'm all about that.

Question for you experienced SDs here, have you moved any girls from PPM to allowance? What are best practices in doing so? One girl I see at 400 ppm and another 500 ppm. What is a good allowance offer? What other terms and conditions would be good to negotiate up front when moving to an allowance type of situation. Is it even advisable?. When I browse the sugar life reddit it seems all about the allowance. I might post there as well but for now looking for some ideas from the experienced folks here. Specially locally here in the DMV.[/QUOTE]First, you are paying more PPM than most guys here. But if it took that much to get them, and they make you happy, that's fine with me.

Second, why do you want to go to allowance? Are they pressuring you for that? Do you think you can get a lower average price per date? I'd try to avoid it. In many cases, the woman gives less time or effort than with a PPM. If you decide to go ahead, try to negotiate a number that costs you the same or less per date than you are paying now. For example, if you see the $500 girl 4 x per month, try for a number that's less than $2,000. Or ask for 5-6 dates for that. Also, I strongly recommend not paying for a month in advance. If you can, pay at the end of the month. I've heard of some guys who did that but skipped out before paying. That's bad form. Try to limit your exposure. Don't pay for more than 14-15 days in advance. I'd recommend paying for 2 dates on the day of the 1st date. Maybe pay $900 on the 1st and 15th of the month for the $500 girl. Some SBs like the allowance because it feels less transitional, but it's a huge risk for SDs, in my opinion.

[QUOTE=GoodBoy07;5325179]Try to negotiate the time like 4 hrs etc she may agree. She is worth seeing at least once in my opinion. I saw her a few months ago when there are no reviews. She said I am the second person she saw (okay we have to multiply by 20 then LOL). Thought I found a low mileage gem and thought to see her few times before writing a review. She said she won't do BBFS with anyone and gets regularly tested which made me at ease (I don't do BBFS and don't like seeing girls who do BBFS with lots of men). LOL, a review popped up and then the truth revealed she is seeing all 300 Spartans and doing BBFS with everyone.

I gave her 5 bills for 3 hrs plus. Which is worth in my opinion.[/QUOTE]Who are you talking about?

This is what I do for girls I plan to see once a week. I normally ask the girl to drop $100 from the ppm and switch it to per week. If I can't make it I give them the full allowance for the week. If they cancel the allowance drops to $100 for that week. So it will encourage the girls to want to see you. Main thing you have to sell to the girls is that they will get a consistency with allowance rather then not know when the next ppm is.

[QUOTE=HeyDuhman;5325601]I've had some success during my 3-mo subscription and have a nice set of girls who I have seen multiple times. All but two of them are not very active on seeking (it seems like the log in every 2-3 weeks or less). I no longer a premium member and actually don't feel the need to log in obsessively like I have been doing the past three months to msg new girls. A couple girls who I am seeing. The chemistry and connection is super, like a new bf / gf relationship. I'm not likely to get emotionally entangled (am married with kids no desire to damage that) but I am practical which means if the fun and positive vibes can be had for less $ I'm all about that.

Question for you experienced SDs here, have you moved any girls from PPM to allowance? What are best practices in doing so? One girl I see at 400 ppm and another 500 ppm. What is a good allowance offer? What other terms and conditions would be good to negotiate up front when moving to an allowance type of situation. Is it even advisable?. When I browse the sugar life reddit it seems all about the allowance. I might post there as well but for now looking for some ideas from the experienced folks here. Specially locally here in the DMV.[/QUOTE]

Drop her a while ago because she quit her job to work on her *Sugaring). Girls with too many SDs get drop quickly with me. She real and will host. Biggest natural tits I've had. I believe they are DD or F cups.

[QUOTE=Dimples572;5325930]If anyone's got a hair up their ass for a bigger / bbw type big tittied girl this one wants $500 which to me is too steep for her. We originally agreed to $300 but then a few days later when it came to actually schedule something she reneged and tried to bump me to $500. I stood my ground and so did she do I wished her all the best.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/a3d54ade-e40f-4d35-be85-cea2b9a50d1f[/URL][/QUOTE]

My post is about Nicolely88 (Sorry title and reply box didn't updated)!!

[QUOTE=Futuopedico;5326215]Who are you talking about?[/QUOTE]

Correction they were natural G Cups.

[QUOTE=Dimples572;5325930]If anyone's got a hair up their ass for a bigger / bbw type big tittied girl this one wants $500 which to me is too steep for her. We originally agreed to $300 but then a few days later when it came to actually schedule something she reneged and tried to bump me to $500. I stood my ground and so did she do I wished her all the best.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/a3d54ade-e40f-4d35-be85-cea2b9a50d1f[/URL][/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=DickLongwood;5326082]First, you are paying more PPM than most guys here. But if it took that much to get them, and they make you happy, that's fine with me.

Second, why do you want to go to allowance? Are they pressuring you for that? Do you think you can get a lower average price per date? I'd try to avoid it. In many cases, the woman gives less time or effort than with a PPM. If you decide to go ahead, try to negotiate a number that costs you the same or less per date than you are paying now. For example, if you see the $500 girl 4 x per month, try for a number that's less than $2,000. Or ask for 5-6 dates for that. Also, I strongly recommend not paying for a month in advance. If you can, pay at the end of the month. I've heard of some guys who did that but skipped out before paying. That's bad form. Try to limit your exposure. Don't pay for more than 14-15 days in advance. I'd recommend paying for 2 dates on the day of the 1st date. Maybe pay $900 on the 1st and 15th of the month for the $500 girl. Some SBs like the allowance because it feels less transitional, but it's a huge risk for SDs, in my opinion.[/QUOTE]The other problem I ran into with allowance -as opposed to PPM- is that you feel obligated to see Sugar Baby on specific regular intervals, e. G. Every Wednesday night. It's fun for a while, but then on week eight, I found that I wanted to do something different but I had that standing financial obligation. Two older sugar babies told me that Daddies treated them like their property with the weekly or monthly allowance. I know it does work for some, but I haven't figured the magical formula.

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/cbbe8cb8-ce5c-42e8-b03e-dd6867d52a20[/URL]

Any info on this lovely African American 25 year old? She told me her name was Nicole. PM me please.

Thank you.

[QUOTE=Futuopedico;5323706][URL]https://www.seeking.com/messages/inbox/c3d5a819-ba06-48ab-8140-50f90d6c5752[/URL]

Asking for eight bills and unable to host. Told her it was a pleasure and she responded with what are your thoughts. So maybe room to negotiate, but four bills would be my max and I would want what ever daddy says and whatever daddy wants for that. Didn't get a response to the four bills.[/QUOTE]Her current location is Denver.

[QUOTE=RazorFish1801;5326273]The other problem I ran into with allowance -as opposed to PPM- is that you feel obligated to see Sugar Baby on specific regular intervals, e. G. Every Wednesday night. It's fun for a while, but then on week eight, I found that I wanted to do something different but I had that standing financial obligation. Two older sugar babies told me that Daddies treated them like their property with the weekly or monthly allowance. I know it does work for some, but I haven't figured the magical formula.[/QUOTE]Agree with RazorFish. Allowance creates expectation pressure on both parties and its best to avoid. If you like each other ppm organically evolves into allowance in a sense. Allowance is only good, IMO under the following circumstances: she has her own place, you can spend overnight with her, and she is exclusive, you like to spend time with her and she is good in bed. I actually started out in this hobby on allowance, when a newbie, and all of the above seemed to be in place and I was enjoying it, until I found out she had her own rotation on ppm.

[QUOTE=Lobsid;5326270]Correction they were natural G Cups.[/QUOTE]From the pics she sent it appears she's got a pretty (un) healthy gut on her. Is that accurate?

[QUOTE=Futuopedico;5324936]I keep doing that!!

[URL]https://www.seeking.com/member/9fb51996-2a56-4114-b156-d38fe0a9ca7b[/URL][/QUOTE]Red flag city.