Escort Reports

[QUOTE=Golfcart; 1747431]Your I'd makes you a sitting duck for blackmail. What will she want next? If you don't comply she'll have your I'd. If the I'd requirement was not included in her ad write a review saying she would not see you without two forms of picture I'd and find another girl to see instead.

The big picture here is she presented you with a surprise. The other big picture is the encounter never goes any better than the set-up.[/QUOTE]Her ad did say that she checks ID but did not say that you have to send a picture of it, I seen other providers that did check my ID during the first visit but no info was recorded so I will ask politely to go an other route if not I'm going to pass since I don't want my info to be put out ther not knowing where may end up.

[QUOTE=Golfcart; 1747431]Your I'd makes you a sitting duck for blackmail. What will she want next? If you don't comply she'll have your I'd. If the I'd requirement was not included in her ad write a review saying she would not see you without two forms of picture I'd and find another girl to see instead.

The big picture here is she presented you with a surprise. The other big picture is the encounter never goes any better than the set-up.[/QUOTE]Man that seems like a trick right out of LEOs playbook.

[QUOTE=Alternativ;1747284]So I'm trying to see a provider from aNRther site and I gave her my references and she said they check out, she does now wants a picture of two forms of ID and just don't know how safe is to do that. She has quite a few reviews but I'm still little hesitant to send a picture of my ID am I being too paranoid?[/QUOTE]I know of some legit providers are starting to ask for much more private and verifiable info, and I know guys that gladly do it and don't have a problem, and for the most part those guys would not have any real issues if they did. You have to determine your own level of comfort in what and how you will share. I have only had to show an I'd twice in all the years I have done this, and then it was just a flash, and you have to explain the name change. I have turned down seeing a few girls that I really wanted to see because they wanted a pic sent up front, not my thing in terms how I operate (plus once they saw what I really look like I am pretty sure they would stand me up anyway, better to surprise them when I show and the cash is in view to keep them from bolting) so you just have to go with what your willing to give, much like they do. Always another door to knock on.

[QUOTE=Golfcart; 1747431]Your I'd makes you a sitting duck for blackmail. What will she want next? If you don't comply she'll have your I'd. If the I'd requirement was not included in her ad write a review saying she would not see you without two forms of picture I'd and find another girl to see instead.

The big picture here is she presented you with a surprise. The other big picture is the encounter never goes any better than the set-up.[/QUOTE]Listen to Golfcart. All this for a one-hour screw? Fuck that shit. As everyone has said, don't give them information about yourself. This is not an employment check, and in your references checked out they should have no concerns. To provide them with this information is a recipe for disaster. Think identity theft, blackmail, someone showing up at your home uninvited taking money, neighbors being told, spouses finding out, your photo I'd ending it's way up in the hands of LE.

Too many other providers to see that don't carry this crazy stipulation. Don't risk it when other options are available.

[QUOTE=Ilapp;1748549](plus once they saw what I really look like I am pretty sure they would stand me up anyway,[/QUOTE]That is NOT TRUE you sexy thing! I would gladly pull your hair any time!

Kisses,

Cate

[QUOTE=Alternativ;1747284]So I'm trying to see a provider from aNRther site and I gave her my references and she said they check out, she does now wants a picture of two forms of ID and just don't know how safe is to do that. She has quite a few reviews but I'm still little hesitant to send a picture of my ID am I being too paranoid?[/QUOTE]Who is the provider? I think we all ought to know.

[QUOTE=Catelyne; 1749563]That is NOT TRUE you sexy thing! I would gladly pull your hair any time!

Kisses,

Cate[/QUOTE]Miss you too baby, Talk to you soon.

[QUOTE=Alternativ;1747284]So I'm trying to see a provider from aNRther site and I gave her my references and she said they check out, she does now wants a picture of two forms of ID and just don't know how safe is to do that. She has quite a few reviews but I'm still little hesitant to send a picture of my ID am I being too paranoid?[/QUOTE]Never give out your personal information. Move on and don't give it a second thought. I you give out your real information you can never take it back. It is definitely best to create a persona and use it to create an alternate identity and build your reputation. Then the worst thing that can happen is you get banned from aNotheR site. LOL! But seriously, think of the ramifications. If that data is out there, it could be found in a background check, spouse, family, ect ect. Just a bad Idea.

Really from the provider point of view, those are the types of checks that uncle seems good at making look good. They will make fake official IDs, employer IDs, LinkedIn accounts ect ect. So it pretty much should have no place in the hobby now. I have just verified because I am we'll known on aNotheR site. To bad that well is now dry. .

I was banned for having access to the Escorts Only section and these girls will post your picture and personal details right on the Internet. Some of these girls exercise really poor judgement on what constitutes cause for blacklisting a potential client. Sometimes it is because "this guy sounds funny" or "he called too late and there was static on the phone". Seriously! Don't do it!

And why. PM if you feel so inclined.

See either Bre or Myla (both have profiles on aNotheR site). And if you don't mind driving to Cincy, there's Nadia of the UTR service (Buddah).

BFDeal

[QUOTE=EarlyCuyler;1751143]And why. PM if you feel so inclined.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=NcGuyOfNr; 1750712]Never give out your personal information. Move on and don't give it a second thought. I you give out your real information you can never take it back. It is definitely best to create a persona and use it to create an alternate identity and build your reputation. Then the worst thing that can happen is you get banned from aNotheR site. LOL! But seriously, think of the ramifications. If that data is out there, it could be found in a background check, spouse, family, ect ect. Just a bad Idea.

Really from the provider point of view, those are the types of checks that uncle seems good at making look good. They will make fake official IDs, employer IDs, LinkedIn accounts ect ect. So it pretty much should have no place in the hobby now. I have just verified because I am we'll known on aNotheR site. To bad that well is now dry. .

I was banned for having access to the Escorts Only section and these girls will post your picture and personal details right on the Internet. Some of these girls exercise really poor judgement on what constitutes cause for blacklisting a potential client. Sometimes it is because "this guy sounds funny" or "he called too late and there was static on the phone". Seriously! Don't do it![/QUOTE]We are glad you are here anyway. I think it is great you infiltrated the other side, LOL, although I doubt anyone who has done this long enough doesn't have a clue that the women can be just as petty as we can be. I have to ask, did I ever try and hit you up off your profile? Brings back fond memories of the Edotcom days, when there was one elusive hottie on there that I made runs at for a couple of years, until I found out that a guy who eventually became a friend of mine had invented the profile and used it to verify himself and some of his friends. One good reason you don't give out too much personal info or say a lot of things you might regret online with someone you don't have a clue as to who they are. I really wouldn't do to him some of the things I said I wanted to do in contacting his alter ego profile, well, maybe I would a couple of them anyway.

Making provider profiles for verification? That is the Nuclear bomb right there. I the right hands it could be extremely useful. In the wrong hands it could cause wide spread panic, paranoia, and destruction.

[QUOTE=Osirusss;1752739]Making provider profiles for verification? That is the Nuclear bomb right there. I the right hands it could be extremely useful. In the wrong hands it could cause wide spread panic, paranoia, and destruction.[/QUOTE]That is why you should do your homework before contacting someone, specially right now that seems that a lot of people are putting atention to escort websites so let's be careful what we share in the open.

Now the girls on an aNotheR site are saying that I am dangerous and looking in the escorts section for my own sick pleasure. I actually suspected what ended up being true, that on blacklist sites there was false information about me. I was able to read the escorts only section because aNotheR site actually had such bad security that you could read the escort section without even logging on until recently. At that point, I found the info about screening and looked up info and found ridiculously wrong posts about me. Things about drugs and even rip off and rapes. I challenge anyone to find a girl who I have actually seen have anything but nice things to say about me. The whole incident has been very eye opening to say the least.

Anyway regardless of what Amber / Camille says about me, I have never seen her and I would never. I would like to say I'm sorry to anyone who feels that my actions were crossing borders that I shouldn't have. I would like to say I am removing myself from this community and not pursuing this hobby any longer. I wish everyone luck but this game isn't for me. No one needs to worry about me any longer. I recuse myself from this situation. This is not worth fighting for.

[QUOTE=Osirusss;1752739]Making provider profiles for verification? That is the Nuclear bomb right there. I the right hands it could be extremely useful. In the wrong hands it could cause wide spread panic, paranoia, and destruction.[/QUOTE][QUOTE=NcGuyOfNr; 1754274]Now the girls on an aNotheR site are saying that I am dangerous and looking in the escorts section for my own sick pleasure. I actually suspected what ended up being true, that on blacklist sites there was false information about me. I was able to read the escorts only section because aNotheR site actually had such bad security that you could read the escort section without even logging on until recently. At that point, I found the info about screening and looked up info and found ridiculously wrong posts about me. Things about drugs and even rip off and rapes. I challenge anyone to find a girl who I have actually seen have anything but nice things to say about me. The whole incident has been very eye opening to say the least.

Anyway regardless of what Amber / Camille says about me, I have never seen her and I would never. I would like to say I'm sorry to anyone who feels that my actions were crossing borders that I shouldn't have. I would like to say I am removing myself from this community and not pursuing this hobby any longer. I wish everyone luck but this game isn't for me. No one needs to worry about me any longer. I recuse myself from this situation. This is not worth fighting for.[/QUOTE]First, I remember all this bullshit starting when you posted that she either wouldn't see you or you wouldn't pay what she was asking. So that "and I never would" is a bit dishonest, man. Second, it seemed kinda funny that you were "sticking it" to the NR admin at first, I suppose, but that ship sailed awhile ago and coming back over and over IS creeping the providers out, and not just Camille. In that email you sent me some other well-reviewed and respected providers, including Molly from Cincy, are not exactly happy with you creeping their boards. And I didn't see anything that you're talking about above with you being blacklisted and such, so I'm not sure where that's coming from. What bothers me is that by bringing all this out you've been scaring the shit out of them, making them feel less safe, quite possibly making a few reconsider coming to Indy, and making it difficult for all of us.

So while you're breaking the rules on the other board, etc, I know it seems fun and all, but you got caught and instead of taking it like a man and letting it go you went all ape shit on a girl who's had nothing but great reviews from those that HAVE seen and reviewed her and getting all the rest of them in a tizzy at the same time. I've tried suggesting in our emails that you let it go, move on and find someone else to see, but you just keep bringing the drama back. If you're leaving, fine, but if you stay, you need to drop the hell out of all of this, imo.