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[QUOTE=FruitCake;7067543]Info on Nami?? Baya is tired of Synn, to many guys say no to dances and she's willing to give you her number for outside meet ups, smart move if you ask me. She's pretty cute, but I'm not interested. Super Petite women are my type.[/QUOTE]I chatted with Baya a couple months ago. She is a little taller than some but I thought she was perfectly proportioned. No fat, athletic build. Oddly she told me she wanted to put on weight which made no sense to me.
[QUOTE=XBiker;7068083]Imperial OC has dancer with the stage name of Money Honey.[/QUOTE]Synn had a dancer named Visa. Next up will be Zelle and Venmo.
[QUOTE=HermosaSurfer2;7064579]Quesiton to the panel. How do older guys typically do at these places? Lost cause or the Land of Glory for girls with daddy issues?[/QUOTE]Old guys do ok in COI clubs. Strip clubs are catered to old guys. This generation of 20 and 30 year old men don't make enough money to go to strip clubs regularly. I don't think girls give freebies. Some girls get so used up at the club that they don't even have casual sex in real life. Some hate men because of it. I can't imagine them giving it out for free at work.
[QUOTE=Billj1034;7068475]Synn had a dancer named Visa. Next up will be Zelle and Venmo.[/QUOTE]Waiting for one to be called bitcoin.
[QUOTE=Jeep5151;7069116] I don't think girls give freebies. Some girls get so used up at the club that they don't even have casual sex in real life. Some hate men because of it. I can't imagine them giving it out for free at work.[/QUOTE]It happens just not regularly. If you do strike gold, enjoy it while it lasts before they wise up, heh. In most instances the reason they give freebies is they see you as a potential boyfriend / sugar daddy and don't want to sully the interaction with money; these girls want you to feel that this is "real" attraction. They're willing to trade straight cash for the chance that you offer them a comfortable lifestyle with no financial obligations and get them out of the club for good. Once they realize after say, the 3rd freebie and / or 3rd date outside the club that you aren't willing to do that (she asks and you say no or let's say you see her place a few times and don't offer her to move in with you), they go back to charging and treating you like a regular customer, maybe discounts thrown here and there or "extra" extras (bb, dfk, etc.).
In summation, freebies are definitely handed out but usually as a long-play.
In rarer instances, freebies are handed out because of a combination of the girl's horniness level matched your level of attractiveness. She wants to keep you in the club and not make it messy and see you outside the club to interfere with her "regular" life, but she is attracted to you. You're usually her very last dance because she wants to take care of all her paying customers first. Or in some cases she'll take you asap but you got to be quick so she can get back on the floor and make her money (the experience may be rushed and won't be as passionate, but hey, freebie is a freebie can't have it all, heh.)
I'm with you though on some girls don't even have sex outside of the club because they get plenty of it inside the club. Some of these girls don't even like men and are attracted to women, but they realize they got this "skill" or genetics and small window to make money so they take advantage of it.
Went to Synn on a Friday night, was difficult to find a parking spot so parked at the fast food place behind the gas station. They have parking area dedicated for the girls, saw two or three Mercedes there LOL. Those girls make good money. Cover is 20. The place is packed with eye candy girls some young and beautiful. Was approached by a girl goes by prosperous offered extras for 150. She is short with long black hair. I declined. Few girls kept approaching, some offer extras and some keeps it floating, or say something like " lets get VIP and go with the flow. " being old in the game I understand this tactic. What really bothered me, is once a girl sits next to me, in the less than 10 seconds, the bartender jumps asking " would you like to buy her a drink" I found this annoying. How do you guys deal with that here? Anyway, my eyes caught Lexi. Beautiful girl she wears a skirt to cover some stretch marks. We talked she offered extras for3 $ settled at 2 tip. Went to the VIP and she takes direction really well. BBBJ then cow girl, reverse cow girl and finished in doggie. She is fun. She gave me her number for OTC the next time I am in LA.
[QUOTE=Jeep5151;7069116]I don't think girls give freebies. Some girls get so used up at the club that they don't even have casual sex in real life. Some hate men because of it. I can't imagine them giving it out for free at work.[/QUOTE]Girls don't give freebies to most guys. They gave it to me plenty when I was younger. But COI is not a place to look for them. As SuperFreak said, there was some rhyme and reason to it. I was never a big spender when young so it wasn't the long game. It was always some girl was into me. The type of freebies they gave are not things you even pay for at strip clubs, like dfk. One girl simply asked me out. This was not some "I'm a regular" type angle. 2 of the 3 freebies happened on 1st visit. But pro girls don't do that angle (I. E. Boyfriend material angle), and none of those girls were pros. I can only guess but they sure weren't doing it regularly with customers (dfk or asking them out on a real date to be their bf). It just happens on rare occasion. Keep in mind I met hundreds of dancers, this is super rare.
There was another I guess I could call freebies, this girl was really into me and simply spent an hour and a half making out with me on the floor for free. I don't take things for free so gave her money after, certainly not what dances would have added up to, and not because I considered it transactional. Just that she stopped working to have fun with me because we really connected (we talked for hours). In hundreds of dancers I never had anything even close to that connection, so I wouldn't expect most people to ever have that once. Same thing, she was not pro. As a stripper, she was a complete failure. It would be like the girl at Starbucks hopping over the counter and hanging out with me 2 hours and then asking if we could go out. It's not like that simply is impossible, it's just not normal. And it did happen with me more or less.
There is no such thing as "X doesn't happen for everyone". Come on. Things happen for some people and not for others.
Actually had it happen and couldn't believe it.
Hooking up OTC for free for few months then it got weird. Back to the club I got treated like a regular customer again. Think you're right, and that she was feeling me out to see if I could be a sugar daddy. I did enjoy it though, and lived out a mini fantasy. So if it happens, enjoy the short ride!
[QUOTE=SuperFreakOMG3;7069606]It happens just not regularly. If you do strike gold, enjoy it while it lasts before they wise up, heh. In most instances the reason they give freebies is they see you as a potential boyfriend / sugar daddy and don't want to sully the interaction with money; these girls want you to feel that this is "real" attraction. They're willing to trade straight cash for the chance that you offer them a comfortable lifestyle with no financial obligations and get them out of the club for good. Once they realize after say, the 3rd freebie and / or 3rd date outside the club that you aren't willing to do that (she asks and you say no or let's say you see her place a few times and don't offer her to move in with you), they go back to charging and treating you like a regular customer, maybe discounts thrown here and there or "extra" extras (bb, dfk, etc.).
In summation, freebies are definitely handed out but usually as a long-play.
In rarer instances, freebies are handed out because of a combination of the girl's horniness level matched your level of attractiveness. She wants to keep you in the club and not make it messy and see you outside the club to interfere with her "regular" life, but she is attracted to you. You're usually her very last dance because she wants to take care of all her paying customers first. Or in some cases she'll take you asap but you got to be quick so she can get back on the floor and make her money (the experience may be rushed and won't be as passionate, but hey, freebie is a freebie can't have it all, heh.)
I'm with you though on some girls don't even have sex outside of the club because they get plenty of it inside the club. Some of these girls don't even like men and are attracted to women, but they realize they got this "skill" or genetics and small window to make money so they take advantage of it.[/QUOTE].
[QUOTE=BlueSteel90;7069912]...What really bothered me, is once a girl sits next to me, in the less than 10 seconds, the bartender jumps asking " would you like to buy her a drink" I found this annoying. How do you guys deal with that here? ...[/QUOTE]Just say "No thanks". It's the business model. The waitresses and bartenders have to do it. They don't care if you say no. I've hardly ever had a dancer at Synn give me a hard time about it either. It's not worth worrying about.
[QUOTE=CaseyX;7069941]Just say "No thanks". It's the business model. The waitresses and bartenders have to do it. They don't care if you say no. I've hardly ever had a dancer at Synn give me a hard time about it either. It's not worth worrying about.[/QUOTE]And if they do give you a hard time say, you can purchase one yourself if you're so "thirsty. " Also could be wrong but I think these girls get discounts on drinks if they go up themself or they have a drink in the back because aint no way they are going a whole shift without drinking any water or liquid.
[QUOTE=FreeWally;7069920]Girls don't give freebies to most guys. They gave it to me plenty when I was younger. But COI is not a place to look for them. As SuperFreak said, there was some rhyme and reason to it. I was never a big spender when young so it wasn't the long game. It was always some girl was into me. The type of freebies they gave are not things you even pay for at strip clubs, like dfk. One girl simply asked me out. This was not some "I'm a regular" type angle. 2 of the 3 freebies happened on 1st visit. But pro girls don't do that angle (I. E. Boyfriend material angle), and none of those girls were pros. I can only guess but they sure weren't doing it regularly with customers (dfk or asking them out on a real date to be their bf). It just happens on rare occasion. Keep in mind I met hundreds of dancers, this is super rare.
Just that she stopped working to have fun with me because we really connected (we talked for hours). In hundreds of dancers I never had anything even close to that connection, so I wouldn't expect most people to ever have that once. Same thing, she was not pro. As a stripper, she was a complete failure. It would be like the girl at Starbucks hopping over the counter and hanging out with me 2 hours and then asking if we could go out. It's not like that simply is impossible, it's just not normal. And it did happen with me more or less.
There is no such thing as "X doesn't happen for everyone". Come on. Things happen for some people and not for others.[/QUOTE]100%. I think we all need a reminder that at the end of the day they're still women, not Tesla robots with no emotions and ability to be attracted to something, programmed to just take your money. Of course, they are in the club because it's a job and they're trying to extract as much of it from you. Most are pros. Some are just young girls who are pumping out hormones and there to have fun and make some money doing it, and they come across a guy they'd be attracted to outside the club, the guy just checks off all the boxes for them, why wouldn't they give out freebies to this guy or hang out with him outside the club? Some girls probably justify in their head "meh, I already made most of my money from my other customers. " or "meh, he paid for my drink and a VIP that's good enough for me, this guy's hot. ".
It's no different than say, if any of us were a plumber or lawyer, or salesman. We are trying to make money, yes, that's our job. But one day one of your customers is a cute and sexy woman who just checks off all the boxes for you and has shown some attraction to you (not the, "I'm just trying to flirt to get free stuff" kind of way), we wouldn't entertain the idea of giving her a free service, or work a few hours pro bono, or give her a few items for free just because we like them? We are foregoing money for the off-chance of a date with a cute and sexy chick? Of course we would and have probably done it in our lives already. It may have worked or may have not, but ultimately we still gave out our version of a "freebie. ".
[QUOTE=FreeWally;7069920]There was another I guess I could call freebies, this girl was really into me and simply spent an hour and a half making out with me on the floor for free. I don't take things for free so gave her money after, certainly not what dances would have added up to, and not because I considered it transactional. [/QUOTE]Curious, do you think if you hadn't given her money that you could've parlayed that into OTC fun? Or you knew you didn't want OTC and just gave her money to bookend the experience? I've been in situations where I would get a freebie and without her bringing it up just hand her a tip and the girl was disappointed. Not at the amount, but the fact I gave her money. Maybe she thought "aww, I thought this was real or special" or something.
[QUOTE=Leroy42;7069935]Actually had it happen and couldn't believe it.
Hooking up OTC for free for few months then it got weird. Back to the club I got treated like a regular customer again. Think you're right, and that she was feeling me out to see if I could be a sugar daddy. I did enjoy it though, and lived out a mini fantasy. So if it happens, enjoy the short ride!
.[/QUOTE]Heh, glad you enjoyed it. I have trouble "enjoying the moment" and only realize until after we were done that it was a fun and super rare thing to have, especially if she was beautiful, or a club favorite or what some guys deem GPS. I'm too caught up in the moment to ensure a combination of keeping her happy and content to make this last as long as possible + me protecting myself, my assets, and her not knowing too much of my own "regular" life. She could freak out and blow up your whole situation, who knows, so CYA. So I like to look back and reminisce about those girls in the past, positives and negatives and all. As the adage goes, "You don't know the good times until after you've left it. ".
I was getting freebies from a popular girl on this forum before she retired. Many have stated they have positive experiences with her, others have called her GPS but she was worth it. Bb everything. Tip not mentioned ONCE in almost a year before she hung up the stripper heels. You bet your ass I was going once or twice a week, heh.
But because I was getting freebies she would take care of her paying customers first, I would stay until after closing, say 2:15 am for her to come get me (If the night was slow she'd get me earlier). All the waitresses and managers and most of the bouncers would leave except 1 or 2. Since there was no one to come knock on the door / curtain to tell us the time was up, the manager told her to just set her own timer. Annoying as hell to stay until 3 am but for freebies from one of the top girls of the club? That's a no-brainer any of us would do that.
Curious what do you mean by "it got weird"? You or she made it weird? In what sense?
[QUOTE=SuperFreakOMG3;7070515]Curious, do you think if you hadn't given her money that you could've parlayed that into OTC fun? Or you knew you didn't want OTC and just gave her money to bookend the experience? I've been in situations where I would get a freebie and without her bringing it up just hand her a tip and the girl was disappointed. Not at the amount, but the fact I gave her money. Maybe she thought "aww, I thought this was real or special" or something.[/QUOTE]This was Las Vegas and I was going back the next day. I was in Vegas for 1 1/2 days. Shew as from bumfuck Ohio, just arrived a week ago trying to start a life. Needed money so started working at the strip club. Does not even look like a stripper, she looks like a beautiful GND girl you'd want to take to the prom. Down to earth but very pretty and naieve. I'm sure if she worked as a stripper 2 or 4 more weeks, she wouldn't be. She was alone in the middle of nowhere in a toxic environment. I got 2 dances from her for $40 and she didn't leave like every other girl. She seemed to like me even though she'd normally be out of my league. So I think I gave her emotional support. I'm good at talking people through their feelings and problems. We started making out after connecting, it was pretty natural. I had to tell her she needs to make money, I gave her some money saying I know things are going to be hard since she's learning everything this is to "help out".
When I say I don't take things for free, I mean it. I'm not looking for something in return. At least with good people. She was a good person. Not a stripper yet. Had this been near my house, I'd tell her to quit stripping and be my girlfriend. It was still early enough that she was pretty much "not a stripper". In fact the other girls were basically not strippers yet. They didn't know their job.
[QUOTE=KingMg23;7065154]Well if you're a real simp.
You would know her & jaws from the Library &holiday.
Jaws is her homegirl.
And she is ROB. She whiner and has rules about her dances. Its just funny because her sister was a escort.
Save your $$.[/QUOTE]Why would you say they are simps I remember when Miley first started at the rhino in rialto she gave me a BJ for free all I had to do was pay for the VIP. I got a 20 minute one cause I wanted to convince her to fuck but she didn't want to so I facefucked her till I busted in her mouth this is way back before any of her plastic surgery. If you remember Bruna, damn I had so much fun with her I invited her to a hotel one night and fucked her like no tomorrow the whole suite was hearing us fuck. Probably one of the best nights of my life.
I went to Paradise last week around shift change. Didn't know that they started a new happy hour promotion. Got a VIP around 5:30 PM, they were still 15 min. It wasn't after 6 PM that they started happy hour pricing. I just saw an ad on their website today, indicating happy hour is from 5 PM to *PM. It looks like kind of pulling a bait and switch with the timing of the promotion.
[QUOTE=XBiker;7071943]I went to Paradise last week around shift change. Didn't know that they started a new happy hour promotion. Got a VIP around 5:30 PM, they were still 15 min. It wasn't after 6 PM that they started happy hour pricing. I just saw an ad on their website today, indicating happy hour is from 5 PM to *PM. It looks like kind of pulling a bait and switch with the timing of the promotion.[/QUOTE]Same experience here I got there a bit past 5 pm had to pay full entrance price because they won't accept discount passes during happy hour and the price for extras goes up bit more since the girls have to make up the difference in the price change of the VIP there's always a catch.