[QUOTE=Kcesar68;6436615]I'm beginning to notice something about these escorts. They don't give a fuck about your time or I guess theirs. I tried to meet with her and it went down like this:
[/QUOTE]I think what you have experienced is "Hooker Time!" Here is what I have observed and experienced, fwiw.
Found that many of these girls have habits and need to "get right" before doing a date. Often that involves something that takes them down and they get stuck in a nod. So while they intended to show up or be available, they end up falling asleep. Then of course have seen girls that take an hour or two to find a vein. I guess with time veins get scared up and it's hard to hit them?
Other times some dude who is willing to show up at their place contacts them AFTER they made a date with me. As they say, "a bird in the hand is worth two in the Bush. " Why waste all of that time traveling when they can get someone to come to them? So in that case, they blow me off and date the dude that is there. Same thing with money, always some sucker out there, thinking with the little head, and willing to pay 2 X of what I offered, and when that happens, I get pushed aside.
Sometimes girls double book and who ever gets there first gets the date. I can understand this because girls tell me approximated 70% of the dudes who "book" and appointment, back out, ghost or no-show. So first guy to show up, gets the date: early bird gets the pssy.
And of course many of these girls have TERRIBLE time management skills. I mean even with SBs (the younger ones) they will wait until I text them, "I am here at the Restaurant" until they say, "I'm leaving now". But shoot, if many of these girls could show up on time to regular jobs they wouldn't be doing this.
Hey, not criticizing anyone, just stating basically what is out there and what I have found. I have found as a monger, that I have evolved. When I started stuff like that really pizzed me off and I got my knickers in a twist frequently over the girls. Visiting ANY of that frustration on the girls had negative effects and usually ended things or lead to a terrible date. So getting upset by this only effected me, high blood pressure, frustration, disappointment and self induced stress. Why create, that which drove me to monger in the first place?
I guess with time, I have mellowed a bit as I add some time into my schedule for "hooker time", never try to do a tight scheduling with a girl or plan to hang loose while a girl gets her sh*t together. When I want to do a date where the girls is going to be on time, prepared and reliable, I fork over the BIG bucks to the high end girls with websites & apartments.
All fwiw, just saying. Hope it helps.