"Sugarbabies" / "Arrangements" Amateurs or Not?

Lets see... A girl that said yes, now says no. She took away my take away. she was maybe a 7/7/?/? . So no big deal

Then the 19 year old hottie from the other night that spent two hours talking to me in the car and did nothing and didn't get paid. Messages me that she changed her mind and wants to see me today. If I picked her up and came back to my place it would be 2 hours total driving time. I don't think so. I was already there Friday and nothing. Now she is going to have to bus it over to me and then I,ll take her home afterward on some other day. I would be her first, so I am interested. 8/9/8/?

But earlier today a very normal girl with a normal job I had been casually messaging with, decided today was good for her. So I am going there, as she has her own place and is only 20 minutes away in a nice area. 7/7/9/? . Cant wait to find out how naughty she is.

The hottie from two posts below is now silent. Since she is only 10 minutes away I told her to think about just going on a M & G first before she makes up her mind as she said she has never done anything like this before.

Even with 3 girls on the A team I get a lot of down time. My roomy is with her new SD. My princess in on her period. And my MILF is a once or twice a month hookup and now I see her on the SD site everyday non stop for a month. She says she is just bored and looking. Right? And I am watching sports on 3 screens simultaneously because I never gamble.

Just my experience, but a lot of times the hotties are much more willing to jump in the sack than the average girls. Like what are they waiting for? Also I have been hitting up a lot of MILF's and nothing. I am getting the most hits by far in the 19 to 24 range. The super hot latina that I dated last week and is now out of town messaged a few times very casually. It's hard not to tell her how over the top enamored I am. I can only pray I will see her again soon. She knows or will know soon she is capable of getting paid a lot more than I,m offering. Girls in Hollywood learn fast.

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;2082986]I have noticed that there is very little posting on the weekend. Must be because you're all married or have a life.[/QUOTE]I've actually come off a bad week where very nearly every single M&G or date was cancelled, usually at close to the last minute. POTs that I've been texting with to try and set up M&Gs have gone silent. One girl that I did see for a first time FC date made several errors during our time together and I'm not planning on repeating. It's been a discouraging week for me all around. I wasn't going to post any of the awful details because I didn't feel any of it worth contributing, but here they are.

Now I'm going on week # 3 after fronting my FB a few $s. 1st weekend she was "injured " in a fall. 2nd "out of town" , this week is # 3 . I could've sworn she wasn't going to rabbit over such a small amount but shame on me. I'm not giving up yet but it isn't looking good.

The worst part is she was my only one. I don't have a backup and for the moment she was good enough. I've let my memberships lapse so I guess I have to re up and start prospecting again. CL and BP are heavily watched by LE in this community. Va is a secondary Bible Belt compared to Sodom and Gomorrah out West. So I guess I will go back to SA and SDFM.

Hollywood, that cutie from CL is rockin' I hope she works out for you.

[QUOTE=FredMoore;2083103]Now I'm going on week # 3 after fronting my FB a few $s. 1st weekend she was "injured " in a fall. 2nd "out of town" , this week is # 3 . I could've sworn she wasn't going to rabbit over such a small amount but shame on me. I'm not giving up yet but it isn't looking good.

The worst part is she was my only one. I don't have a backup and for the moment she was good enough. I've let my memberships lapse so I guess I have to re up and start prospecting again. CL and BP are heavily watched by LE in this community. Va is a secondary Bible Belt compared to Sodom and Gomorrah out West. So I guess I will go back to SA and SDFM.

Hollywood, that cutie from CL is rockin' I hope she works out for you.[/QUOTE]Yeah, hope so too. But its a long shot. She must get hit on non stop, luckily she lives in a hipster part of L.A. Where people live 4 to a two bedroom apt. It must be hard in L.A. Seeing all that money and not having any.

Here is a UTR from CL that is txting me as we speak. 18 year old skater chick (pic 1). And I had a AA MILF HMU an hour ago that's right around the corner (pic 2). There is security in numbers, because 50% won't get past the first date, and another 47% won't get past date 2 to 10. Really looking for a keeper. That hot latina would be a keeper for sure (pic 3). It was love at first bite. She is all I think about, almost. LOL... but she is the one in 33 which is my ratio of dates to keepers over the last 3 or 4 years.

Also did a spinner message blast last nite. (pic 4) just responded. 18 and blond. I also include a pic of the 19 year old hottie from friday that wants to meet again (pic 5).

If a girl does get to date # 10. Thats when I make my final decision. If there is something I just can not live with I cut them loose. And there are plenty that cut me loose before that. When I was talking to the girl in pic 5 she wanted to know what was the minimum to get paid. I said hey, you can come over and leave after an hour for all I care. She was like "an hour of fucking?". These young girls are used to guys their own age that blow in minutes. So I told her, no problem. An hour total including all foreplay. LOL. Going on my date tonite with the girl next door to the girl next door. Its safe and real. Maybe not a repeater. But who cares.

[QUOTE=HollywoodGuy;2083202] She was like "an hour of fucking?". These young girls are used to guys their own age that blow in minutes. [/QUOTE]I have to admit-since I've been lucky enough to hit a few of these beautiful young things, at a time in my life when I thought that possibility was way in the past, I sometimes have trouble holding back, too!

I have been learning a lot and messing up a lot too. Thanks to some private messages to keep me on track!

I have settled on 3 SBs currently. 19 college AA - 3 dates always good to go and no $$ yet. I told her to let me know when she wanted something and I would get it for her. Her response. I am getting all I need from you... We shall see if that continues. 27 Rodeo SB. Lots of fun, not long term, she is holding a spot now though whenever I go through her part of GA - 100 per visit. 25 Atlanta baby- this one is the one I think about. Mixed race, beautiful, and doesn't know the word no. She may party a bit much, but she is tons of fun when we are together. First visit was 200. Thanks to a tip, I am now only covering her cell bill (55 a month). Shall see how long that lasts. She stays at least 4-6 hours or overnight. Two were met on WYP and one on SDT. Every sb that I have met from SDT has gone to the FC first meet. Hit them hard and fast on that site. WYP is a mixed bag. At 50% meets end up with FC or BJ so far. Still working on my game. But having a fun doing it.

-Some lessons learned. - I locked down my identity well from the SB's. However, forgot about email notifications for hotel reservations. Booked a local hotel and SO saw the confirmation email. Almost busted was able to explain it away. Had to cancel that FC visit though. Remember to lock down all SB play!

-Make up on my collar. I always request no or light perfume during a visit. This has never been an issue. Didn't think about makeup. Noticed it before I got home. Bought a tide clean stick? Took the make up off before getting home. Another close call. Tide stick is now kept in my car for future use.

I am thinking about changing my strategy now. I have been smashing everything that looked good without much attention to the other details. I am now going to be looking for unicorn SB's. Or replacements as needed for the three. All three send photos almost daily and tell me how much they want me to come see them. They all know they are competing with the other two for my extra time. Keeps there game up when we are together. Be safe guys and have fun!!

[QUOTE=Dsprdo;2083244]I have to admit-since I've been lucky enough to hit a few of these beautiful young things, at a time in my life when I thought that possibility was way in the past, I sometimes have trouble holding back, too![/QUOTE]Wait till you hit 60. When you here the word premature you"ll think someones talking about a baby.

[QUOTE=CaneBay;2083266]I have been learning a lot and messing up a lot too. Thanks to some private messages to keep me on track!

I have settled on 3 SBs currently. 19 college AA - 3 dates always good to go and no $$ yet. I told her to let me know when she wanted something and I would get it for her. Her response. I am getting all I need from you... We shall see if that continues. 27 Rodeo SB. Lots of fun, not long term, she is holding a spot now though whenever I go through her part of GA - 100 per visit. 25 Atlanta baby- this one is the one I think about. Mixed race, beautiful, and doesn't know the word no. She may party a bit much, but she is tons of fun when we are together. First visit was 200. Thanks to a tip, I am now only covering her cell bill (55 a month). Shall see how long that lasts. She stays at least 4-6 hours or overnight. Two were met on WYP and one on SDT. Every sb that I have met from SDT has gone to the FC first meet. Hit them hard and fast on that site. WYP is a mixed bag. At 50% meets end up with FC or BJ so far. Still working on my game. But having a fun doing it.

-Some lessons learned. - I locked down my identity well from the SB's. However, forgot about email notifications for hotel reservations. Booked a local hotel and SO saw the confirmation email. Almost busted was able to explain it away. Had to cancel that FC visit though. Remember to lock down all SB play!

-Make up on my collar. I always request no or light perfume during a visit. This has never been an issue. Didn't think about makeup. Noticed it before I got home. Bought a tide clean stick? Took the make up off before getting home. Another close call. Tide stick is now kept in my car for future use.

I am thinking about changing my strategy now. I have been smashing everything that looked good without much attention to the other details. I am now going to be looking for unicorn SB's. Or replacements as needed for the three. All three send photos almost daily and tell me how much they want me to come see them. They all know they are competing with the other two for my extra time. Keeps there game up when we are together. Be safe guys and have fun!![/QUOTE]I like this. The only thing I would say is even when I can pay less I pay the $ to ward off the competition. Because if a girl is truly hot hot, some guy is going to try and make a move. And in the back of their mind they know every time they see you it's kaching! (and bomb ass sex). Just a side note. Just got a reply from a girl who said my offer made her sound like a hooker. She's not a hooker, she's just a girl that trades sex for cash. LOL. Confusing times we live in.

Good idea Zman429. I also see the value of having a stack of dates in play at the same time. For me, my first time was a none-and-done.

[QUOTE=CaneBay;2083266]I have been learning a lot and messing up a lot too. Thanks to some private messages to keep me on track!

I have settled on 3 SBs currently. 19 college AA - 3 dates always good to go and no $$ yet. I told her to let me know when she wanted something and I would get it for her. Her response. I am getting all I need from you... We shall see if that continues. 27 Rodeo SB. Lots of fun, not long term, she is holding a spot now though whenever I go through her part of GA - 100 per visit. 25 Atlanta baby- this one is the one I think about. Mixed race, beautiful, and doesn't know the word no. She may party a bit much, but she is tons of fun when we are together. First visit was 200. Thanks to a tip, I am now only covering her cell bill (55 a month). Shall see how long that lasts. She stays at least 4-6 hours or overnight. Two were met on WYP and one on SDT. Every sb that I have met from SDT has gone to the FC first meet. Hit them hard and fast on that site. WYP is a mixed bag. At 50% meets end up with FC or BJ so far. Still working on my game. But having a fun doing it.


I am thinking about changing my strategy now. I have been smashing everything that looked good without much attention to the other details. I am now going to be looking for unicorn SB's. Or replacements as needed for the three. All three send photos almost daily and tell me how much they want me to come see them. They all know they are competing with the other two for my extra time. Keeps there game up when we are together. Be safe guys and have fun!![/QUOTE]I think you are in your 30's? It sounds like the SBs have an IRL attraction to you therefore your CPO is low. One problem with 60 + is that you have to pay more to attract a girl 40+ years younger. Enjoy it while you can. If I was attracted to the over 35 crowd I would do a lot better, but I am not.

[QUOTE=FredMoore;2083569]I think you are in your 30's? It sounds like the SBs have an IRL attraction to you therefore your CPO is low. One problem with 60 + is that you have to pay more to attract a girl 40+ years younger. Enjoy it while you can. If I was attracted to the over 35 crowd I would do a lot better, but I am not.[/QUOTE]I'm in the mid-40's range, but pass for early 30's, and I would say that almost all of my experiences have been definitely been enhanced by IRL chemistry in terms of what I've gotten and how much I've paid. However, I will also say that ever since my teens I've been telling myself I better hoard all the pussy I can because it's only going to get harder as I get older, and over the last 30 years I've actually found the exact opposite to be true.

The other interesting and beneficial aspect I've found is that youth, in and of itself, becomes more attractive to me, so that I have a wider "range" of beauty definition in the 18-25 age range. By that I mean when I was 20, if I saw a chick that was also 20 that wasn't absolutely perfect, I would not have bothered, I only went after the top 10% of stunners (according to my own sense of beauty of course) back then. But these days, you can show me a 20 year old that may be plain / too girl-next-door looking to a 20 year old guy, but as long as she isn't chubby and has no glaringly unattractive features, I can usually start to envision myself fucking their face at a minimum. They don't need great tits, perfect ass, or a model face, or to fit my preferred criteria for hair color and style etc... Just youth and a slim body will warrant a second look from me these days, and I expect my definition of youth will scale upward as I get older, as it has thus far. Perhaps there's a ceiling there of mid 30's? I'm still interested in banging the super hot cougar type but I typically do not seek them out on SD websites (but I would on civy dating sites). Some of the mid 30's chicks have a great sex drive still and are less of a PITA.

The other nice thing about getting older is that I find I lose my interest / desire in actually hanging out with most 18-25 year olds outside of the bedroom. So, while I might have to pay more to attract them when I get older, they will be easier to get rid of after sex. Part of the downside of them being attracted to me is that sometimes getting them to leave me alone after I'm done isn't easy as I'd like it to be. I'm the type that doesn't like to be alone, but the company has to be worthwhile before I'm interested in conversation the morning after, and I don't really find that much in the SB scene so I'd rather wham bam thank you mam.

So with my new hushed account things are progressing quickly. I will detail another time the one absolute smoke and one hard 9 I am talking to. But right now is something more pressing.

22 year old message therapist that I hammered last week is wanting to meet bad. But that's not the problem. I'm trying to schedule something soon and we are texting possibilities and she is talking nasty to me. Really nasty. And telling me how she hasn't been f'ed for that long in forever. We are talking about hotel rooms and she starts asking me to stay the night. Then asks again. Then says we really need to spend the night together. Asks a fourth time.

I'm in a relationship and told her about it up front. I reminded her after the first question that I had to get home but she kept asking me to stay.

I gave her a fake name, fake job, fake number, non traceable email, and all she has seen is a non descript company car.

Any advice? But of course I'm going to fc her tomorrow.

If she is that damn horny, pass her off to few more of us to keep her warm for you when you can't stay, LOL.

[QUOTE=SkinJr;2083955]So with my new hushed account things are progressing quickly. I will detail another time the one absolute smoke and one hard 9 I am talking to. But right now is something more pressing.

22 year old message therapist that I hammered last week is wanting to meet bad. But that's not the problem. I'm trying to schedule something soon and we are texting possibilities and she is talking nasty to me. Really nasty. And telling me how she hasn't been f'ed for that long in forever. We are talking about hotel rooms and she starts asking me to stay the night. Then asks again. Then says we really need to spend the night together. Asks a fourth time.

I'm in a relationship and told her about it up front. I reminded her after the first question that I had to get home but she kept asking me to stay.

I gave her a fake name, fake job, fake number, non traceable email, and all she has seen is a non descript company car.

Any advice? But of course I'm going to fc her tomorrow.[/QUOTE].

[QUOTE=SkinJr;2083955]So with my new hushed account things are progressing quickly. I will detail another time the one absolute smoke and one hard 9 I am talking to. But right now is something more pressing.

22 year old message therapist that I hammered last week is wanting to meet bad. But that's not the problem. I'm trying to schedule something soon and we are texting possibilities and she is talking nasty to me. Really nasty. And telling me how she hasn't been f'ed for that long in forever. We are talking about hotel rooms and she starts asking me to stay the night. Then asks again. Then says we really need to spend the night together. Asks a fourth time.

I'm in a relationship and told her about it up front. I reminded her after the first question that I had to get home but she kept asking me to stay.

I gave her a fake name, fake job, fake number, non traceable email, and all she has seen is a non descript company car.

Any advice? But of course I'm going to fc her tomorrow.[/QUOTE]I'd recommend hitting it one more time since you're already scheduled, then go dark. Make up a story about some sort of personal crisis and tell her you'll get back to her. Clingy girls are highly hazardous to relationships or marriages, and the fact that you were up front and she's still begging like a puppy tells me she's probably got an obsessive personality type that can manifest in weird ways. The pattern I see forming is they see themselves as doing you some grand favor by offering something of higher sexual value, whether it's anal, an all-nighter, a threesome or whatever. The truth is they are "offering" those because they want the attention themselves. But, once it's time to cut them loose, they go into revenge mode, with the attitude of "oh my god, I did all this for him and he's going to fuck me over? No way" then they go to any lengths necessary to track you down, including spending money on a private investigator to figure out the details (yes I've seen them do that).

It seems still early with this one for you, so I'd say wean her off of it gradually and make your exit story something extremely believable and something that sounds temporary and like you can't wait for it to be over so you can see her again. This adds a time buffer for her to start seeing someone else, etc. And makes for a smoother transition.