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[QUOTE=Fisherman0317;2021108]She got any ads anywhere?[/QUOTE]On the oThER website she has posted reviews under Viola. When I clicked. On the ad I thought it might be her. I have seen her a couple of. Times. And wondered where she had gone. If it is her her rates have gone way up.
Totally agree with the principles laid out here, but I wanted to see what would pop up if I tried it on myself.
Result? Using my mongermail account, I bought the spokeo package and ran it, along with a few other emails. The only things that showed up were "legit" email accounts linked to Facebook, Picasso, etc. I didn't buy it, so I won't comment on the spying on the phone part, other than mention that it's seems like an awful lot of Intel "bang" for 27 bucks.
Again, I think NC Hunter's advice is sage and timeless, no matter how the technology changes around us. If anything, he shows us that we need to be actively seeking out the latest tech, before others find it for us.
[QUOTE=NCHunter;2015908]Fellows! I don't know if this has been reported anywhere else but there is a website that can use your email address and list all the social sites, dating sites or any site associated with your email address. That being said, when you create accounts on POF, Tagged or any site it is wise you use an email account that cannot be traced back to you or one that no one else knows about. Check out the link below:
[URL]http://www.spokeo.com/is-he-cheating?g=email_gc_D696720&gclid=CL3S54qa4bwCFY-VfgoduzwAew[/URL]
Want to know why I use a throw-away phone and not my main cell? Check out the info below:
[URL]http://safecellmonitor.com/[/URL]
If your girl, wife or SO is tech savy or knows someone who is then if you are not careful you can get busted. Watch your back and think before you act.
Be safe out there and happy hunting.
NC Hunter.[/QUOTE]
In general I do not usually have problems with this but I had one tonight and I need to vent and put it out there. If you contact me or any provider for days and set a time and then blow them off after getting "an address" with no explanation it is unacceptable. If we would do that to a monger more than likely we would get a negative review. I won't put the member on blast like that because I'm not that type of person but don't think I won't let the ladies I interact with on here about it. I know things can happen but I also know when someone is just plain being an asshole. I am a very very busy student with a job, I set an appointment that takes away form those aspects in my life along with a time slot that someone could be enjoying. As I said in general I don't get this from members on hereNoone wants to play games. Keep the mutual respect and safety at the top of the list of do's.
[QUOTE=PaigeSweetStuf;2022778]In general I do not usually have problems with this but I had one tonight and I need to vent and put it out there. If you contact me or any provider for days and set a time and then blow them off after getting "an address" with no explanation it is unacceptable. If we would do that to a monger more than likely we would get a negative review. I won't put the member on blast like that because I'm not that type of person but don't think I won't let the ladies I interact with on here about it. I know things can happen but I also know when someone is just plain being an asshole. I am a very very busy student with a job, I set an appointment that takes away form those aspects in my life along with a time slot that someone could be enjoying. As I said in general I don't get this from members on hereNoone wants to play games. Keep the mutual respect and safety at the top of the list of do's.[/QUOTE]I agree we all are too busy with our lives we come here for a reason and a purpose. Eespect is huge in this community communication is they key.
[QUOTE=NCHunter;2015908]Fellows! I don't know if this has been reported anywhere else but there is a website that can use your email address and list all the social sites, dating sites or any site associated with your email address. That being said, when you create accounts on POF, Tagged or any site it is wise you use an email account that cannot be traced back to you or one that no one else knows about. Check out the link below:
[URL]http://www.spokeo.com/is-he-cheating?g=email_gc_D696720&gclid=CL3S54qa4bwCFY-VfgoduzwAew[/URL]
[/QUOTE]Spokeo has an opt out. Search your hobby email on Spokeo to get the profile URL, then opt out here:
[URL]http://www.spokeo.com/optout[/URL]
[QUOTE=PaigeSweetStuf;2022778]In general I do not usually have problems with this but I had one tonight and I need to vent and put it out there. If you contact me or any provider for days and set a time and then blow them off after getting "an address" with no explanation it is unacceptable. If we would do that to a monger more than likely we would get a negative review. I won't put the member on blast like that because I'm not that type of person but don't think I won't let the ladies I interact with on here about it. I know things can happen but I also know when someone is just plain being an asshole. I am a very very busy student with a job, I set an appointment that takes away form those aspects in my life along with a time slot that someone could be enjoying. As I said in general I don't get this from members on hereNoone wants to play games. Keep the mutual respect and safety at the top of the list of do's.[/QUOTE]First off, its the member's loss as I have met Paige and she definitely knows how to treat a man. Secondly I have found out that the longer you plan ahead in this hobby the more likely your "meeting" isn't going to happen. I have had more success in the spur of the moment than planning a dream days in advance which is understandable especially if I am responding to a current ad. Providers sometimes don't follow through too. One time a provider who was almost an hour late from her approximate time to my home, text me and said " the rain is really slowing me down, should be there soon" This was one night / early morning where it was really cold and raining hard so I thought it was a legitimate reason for running late. Never showed up and never heard another word from her. Two others who even advertise / received good reviews on USA Sex Guide also blew me off after everything was set up earlier in the day. One texted me the next day that she fell asleep and never heard the phone and the other texted me her hotel address and when I arrived on time and texted for room # as was discussed, never replied back and to this day I have never received an explanation.
[QUOTE=PaigeSweetStuf;2022778]In general I do not usually have problems with this but I had one tonight and I need to vent and put it out there. If you contact me or any provider for days and set a time and then blow them off after getting "an address" with no explanation it is unacceptable. If we would do that to a monger more than likely we would get a negative review. I won't put the member on blast like that because I'm not that type of person but don't think I won't let the ladies I interact with on here about it. I know things can happen but I also know when someone is just plain being an asshole. I am a very very busy student with a job, I set an appointment that takes away form those aspects in my life along with a time slot that someone could be enjoying. As I said in general I don't get this from members on hereNoone wants to play games. Keep the mutual respect and safety at the top of the list of do's.[/QUOTE]Hopefully this monger is just a flake and not something more sinister. Cutting off communication after getting an address definitely qualifies as red alert! Even if you gave just a non specific general location, be cautious.
[QUOTE=PaigeSweetStuf;2022778]In general I do not usually have problems with this but I had one tonight and I need to vent and put it out there. If you contact me or any provider for days and set a time and then blow them off after getting "an address" with no explanation it is unacceptable. If we would do that to a monger more than likely we would get a negative review. I won't put the member on blast like that because I'm not that type of person but don't think I won't let the ladies I interact with on here about it. I know things can happen but I also know when someone is just plain being an asshole. I am a very very busy student with a job, I set an appointment that takes away form those aspects in my life along with a time slot that someone could be enjoying. As I said in general I don't get this from members on hereNoone wants to play games. Keep the mutual respect and safety at the top of the list of do's.[/QUOTE]I have a DNA (Do Not Answer) list on my phone. There are several ways to be added to that. For example vulgar talk or text, repeated cancellation, No show or issue during session. When call or text comes with a big DNA on the screen I simply know to leave the phone alone. Try it, it works great.
It's good to be back up and running again. I was the member with computer issues. I want to give a big shout out of thanks to Texualman for fixing my machine. This guy is a professional and he's monger friendly. Not that I had any child porn or anything like that on my machine, but I did have some links that I would not have wanted a Bible thumper tech seeing. T-man took care of my problem in no time at all. Send him a PM if you need some work done. He's a great guy too, btw.
I also want to thank NedleyMandingo for posting up for me and giving me T-Man's digits.
I'm back and now have my USASG fix taken care of. I missed everyone!
[QUOTE=PaigeSweetStuf;2022778]In general I do not usually have problems with this but I had one tonight and I need to vent and put it out there. If you contact me or any provider for days and set a time and then blow them off after getting "an address" with no explanation it is unacceptable. If we would do that to a monger more than likely we would get a negative review. I won't put the member on blast like that because I'm not that type of person but don't think I won't let the ladies I interact with on here about it. I know things can happen but I also know when someone is just plain being an asshole. I am a very very busy student with a job, I set an appointment that takes away form those aspects in my life along with a time slot that someone could be enjoying. As I said in general I don't get this from members on hereNoone wants to play games. Keep the mutual respect and safety at the top of the list of do's.[/QUOTE]Honey, I feel your pain but this type of thing happens to us mongers all the time. At the last minute a provider will stop answering the phone after we have traveled miles to be there. They offer no explanation at all. I've always said they should at least call or text and tell us something; even if it is a lie or an excuse. They should offer some explanation. I mean my Aunt Flo showed up or my dog died; anything. However, they do this and then expect us to understand and to be cool with it.
If he calls again you can tell him to bugger off or you could give him the run around. You could have him take a couple laps around Orlando and then stop answering your phone.
Thanks for the kind words, glad I could help you out. It was a pleasure to put a face with a screen name. I'm happy to help any of you guys out anytime.
T.
[QUOTE=Vino7373;2023616]It's good to be back up and running again. I was the member with computer issues. I want to give a big shout out of thanks to Texualman for fixing my machine. This guy is a professional and he's monger friendly. Not that I had any child porn or anything like that on my machine, but I did have some links that I would not have wanted a Bible thumper tech seeing. T-man took care of my problem in no time at all. Send him a PM if you need some work done. He's a great guy too, btw.
I also want to thank NedleyMandingo for posting up for me and giving me T-Man's digits.
I'm back and now have my USASG fix taken care of. I missed everyone![/QUOTE]
I just wanted to THANK YOU to the gentleman on this forum.. I have been here for just a year but I have made FABULOUS friends thru this hobby. When I get comments like this:
"Hey Joy, just thinking of you! Yes, Seeing your photos still give me that shit eating grin!
You are a magnificent, beautiful lady, and a walking wet dream!"
I smile from ear to ear.
THANK YOU ALL!
XO JOY.
[QUOTE=JerryLl;2023723]Honey, I feel your pain but this type of thing happens to us mongers all the time. At the last minute a provider will stop answering the phone after we have traveled miles to be there. They offer no explanation at all. I've always said they should at least call or text and tell us something; even if it is a lie or an excuse. They should offer some explanation. I mean my Aunt Flo showed up or my dog died; anything. However, they do this and then expect us to understand and to be cool with it.
If he calls again you can tell him to bugger off or you could give him the run around. You could have him take a couple laps around Orlando and then stop answering your phone.[/QUOTE]I TOTALLY FEEL YOUR PAIN! That happens more then people expect and you are totally correct if the shoe is on the other foot we get BASHED beyond belief. There is no way to get around people that are inconsiderate and think that their time is more important then yours. I as well have a life an I know that things come up but to be call or text is not a lot to ask of some one.. It is a matter of class, as well as superiority complex.. DON'T LET THEM GET YOU DOWN! (just my 2 cents, BTW who was it?
This is just my opinion but I believe you ladies should feel free to share your intel -- after all, those of us on this side of the hobby sure do. Most of us don't like fake pics, or bait and switch or up sellers or cut and runners. Any ass hole that stands you up without a courtesy call should be on your collective shit list. Hey, I don't expect that you would invite each other to your Tupperware party or anything, but I have no issue with you sharing handles of duschebags. On the other hand, please feel free to tell your friends about the good ones, too.
Just sayin'.
C3.
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[QUOTE=JoyToy;2023782]I TOTALLY FEEL YOUR PAIN! That happens more then people expect and you are totally correct if the shoe is on the other foot we get BASHED beyond belief. There is no way to get around people that are inconsiderate and think that their time is more important then yours. I as well have a life an I know that things come up but to be call or text is not a lot to ask of some one.. It is a matter of class, as well as superiority complex.. DON'T LET THEM GET YOU DOWN! (just my 2 cents, BTW who was it?[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Texualman;2023767]Thanks for the kind words, glad I could help you out. It was a pleasure to put a face with a screen name. I'm happy to help any of you guys out anytime.
T.[/QUOTE]I also can offer all of you help with the technology, if you ever need anything, let me know, don't hesitate, I do this for living.